theapeman:
this are one of the reason I don't what to get married to a naija woman!

I tired dating a lady that wasn't from a rich home in a bid to escape form the insecurities many well-to-do ladies have, and there were baggages i couldn't deal with..It's such a sensitive matter. Can't wrap my mind around it. Date the not-too-well-to-do, they feel insecure, approach the well-to-do, insecurities still remain...Darn...

Sierusvirus:

Most of them that have this mentality do keep their money so they be spending on their boyfriend ( cheating) .
Because no sensible wife that knows what marriage is all about would say so.
Their money is for cheating codedly. A sign of a cheating wife or gf

Lol Oh Bro. Please leave me alone, you're cracking me up... Anyways, the mistrust in relationships is something else, We need to find a right balance to keep things in perspectives. Many of our ladies are setting up war apparatus from not getting cheated, but it's too excessive.

What does a chick need all her money to herself for, when hubby takes care of the home? Won't the finance attract some issues in the home? It beats me...It's beyond me

CEEcey:

A husband that depends on his wife's money is a disgrace to men
My money is mine alone and I can only decide to give him if he asks
Besides isn't he suppose to be the head of the family His money is ours.

until you change this mentality, you will NEVER be a wife material

princeadams11:

As a man, it's you responsibility to take care of your family. Just forget abt what your wife has, if she decide to help fine, if she doesn't, just focus on ur responsibility.

Okay. Thanks. I'll keep this to heart. I think this comment settles it for me. This is the answer i'm looking for...Thanks for sharing

theapeman:
this are one of the reason I don't what to get married to a naija woman!

Good one

femi4love:


Clap for yourself then come back and tell us your experience once you're married.

Forget abt what she has, take full responsibilty as a man. You will definitely earn your respect.

CEEcey:


A husband that depends on his wife's money is a disgrace to men

My money is mine alone and I can only decide to give him if he asks

Besides isn't he suppose to be the head of the family
His money is ours.

no wonder

Only a broke man will be worrying about this.

Marry a good woman and work hard to make sure she never lacks.

Do you think Zuckerberg is sitting around worrying about how much his wife makes?

Povertious souls

EgunMogaji:
Only a broke man will be worrying about this.

Marry a good woman and work hard to make sure she never lacks.

Do you think Zuckerberg is sitting around worrying about how much his wife makes?

Povertious souls

See your curved mouth

bennymark:



until you change this mentality, you will NEVER be a wife material

don't mind her. She is is 48 and still single o

From most ladies comments above , I concluded that the first Eve was more loving to man as she ate and kept for his partner.

But our nowadays women are more wicked, they decides to eat and eat, Clean mouth,pretend and even pretend on top.

Well am proud to be a man and no woman can ever eat dry my hustle.

princeadams11:

Forget abt what she has, take full responsibilty as a man. You will definitely earn your respect.

But the issue is not that we're after their money. But when a lady has money, they tend to act the act. i..e you're only after me because i'm posh...It's what the money does to their mind that worries me..Because there's this feeling like they don't have their heads wrapped firmly around financial management and relationship in perfect sync, and the tendency to create unnecessary clashes builds up...Also, because wealth is a defense, she sees it as an option, and doesn't channel the best of her abilities to make the relationship work

EgunMogaji:
Only a broke man will be worrying about this.

Marry a good woman and work hard to make sure she never lacks.

Do you think Zuckerberg is sitting around worrying about how much his wife makes?

Povertious souls

I could work with this. Excellent advice, except for the curses..Thanks. I'll keep this in mind

enemyofprogress:
don't mind her. She is is 48 and still single o

my broda, she might just be 18. clearly shows how she adores money

supersystemsnig:



Okay. Thanks. I'll keep this to heart. I think this comment settles it for me. This is the answer i'm looking for...Thanks for sharing

Uwc boss

supersystemsnig:


I could work with this. Excellent advice, except for the curses..Thanks. I'll keep this in mind

Please don’t accuse me of cursing because I didn’t.

Thanks.

princeadams11:

Forget abt what she has, take full responsibilty as a man. You will definitely earn your respect.

Thanks again. This is reassuring. Just don't want any babe feeling one is after her money...It's very embarrassing and insulting

EgunMogaji:


Please don’t accuse me of cursing because I didn’t.

Thanks.

You did!

supersystemsnig:


But the issue is not that we're after their money. But when a lady has money, they tend to act the act. i..e you're only after me because i'm posh...It's what the money does to their mind that worries me..Because there's this feeling like they don't have their heads wrapped firmly around financial management and relationship in perfect sync, and the tendency to create unnecessary clashes builds up...Also, because wealth is a defense, she sees it as an option, and doesn't channel the best of her abilities to make the relationship work

Lol....its natural bro. The more you set eyes on what she has, the more troubles and disappointments u receive. Though some women can be very helpful to the family. However, i think it's better 2 just forget what she has and take responsibilities. You can ask her when u don't have and return when u get.

princeadams11:

Lol....its natural bro. The more you set eyes on what she has, the more troubles and disappointments u receive. Though some women can be very helpful to the family. However, i think it's better 2 just forget what she has and take responsibilities. You can ask her when u don't have and return when u get.

Hmm.. I'm not bothered about not having or dry moments. Or monitoring what a woman has. I'm an hustler and came up from the streets. I understand how to put the hustle on and work extremely hard. I only wanted a few clues, you've helped me anyways. Provide for the family and have no frets. Take things a step at a time and maintain a clear head. But provide for your family

you can make it today
dont depend on anybody
be the boss of your own

makydebbie:
That'll be cheating. His money is our money same with mine as our money too. If we start holding our money because we worked for it individually, then the oneness in our marriage evaporates.

Please will you marry me? You are the chosen one for me.

makydebbie:
That'll be cheating. His money is our money same with mine as our money too. If we start holding our money because we worked for it individually, then the oneness in our marriage evaporates.

God bless you again, this is it, the oneness... Financial seperated-ness threatens the oneness in the union..

EgunMogaji:
Only a broke man will be worrying about this.

Marry a good woman and work hard to make sure she never lacks.

Do you think Zuckerberg is sitting around worrying about how much his wife makes?

Povertious souls

How Zuckerberg and any nairaland user take relate.?

funmisticqueen:
a lot of other things i do kot have the energy to say

What kind of energy do you need? I have it in abundance, in various forms, and I'm willing to share.

CEEcey:


A husband that depends on his wife's money is a disgrace to men

My money is mine alone and I can only decide to give him if he asks

Besides isn't he suppose to be the head of the family
His money is ours.

Pls make sure you are as blunt as you are here to your spouse or fiance b4 marriage ooh. He needs to know the real you.

Mine is mine. His is ours.........or has he stoped being the provider, the protector, the concurer, Mr. Man ?

No mind me....continue with your 21 century questions. I am just here to watch this endless debate. But honesty spoken, if we live in modern times then it should all be modern (shared), otherwise we all stop this nonsense of 50/50 and let them provide.

you can make it today
dont depend on anybody
be the boss of your own

Whatever i get belongs to us, and same goes to him too. A man has a lot of things to cater for and dt includes us. A wife should support her husband not overburden him

Augustap:
Whatever i get belongs to us, and same goes to him too. A man has a lot of things to cater for and dt includes us. Women should support their husband not overburden him

Nice. Thanks for the thumbs up Ma

supersystemsnig:



Nice. Thanks for the thumbs up Ma

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supersystemsnig:



Nice. Thanks for the thumbs up Ma

You're welcome sir