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Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by Taiwo20(m): 10:47am On Oct 08, 2017
galadima77:
Welcome...dem dey call am gratuity for service well rendered...e no get limit.

or family support

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Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by highchief1: 10:47am On Oct 08, 2017
deepwater:
In the future you may be accused of having affairs with the woman, you may be innocent though.

By the time they print her bank account statement, your name would be written all over it. How do you defend yourself. It becomes another otobo vs Suleiman case
small pikin dey worry u which court will indict u cos u helped someone.i help my exes my wife know I'm good at helping ppl
Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by shurley22(f): 10:48am On Oct 08, 2017
highchief1:
u never c any thg u don't have sence sef so if u once dated a gov u can't go and and for contract or other benefits some of u are babies must u be enemies with an ex?someone I dated before helped me get a contract of over 16m u guys are eating ur mums Eba and think life ends there...I am married but I update all my exes cos if e better for them e don better for me and pls don't think it I'm a successful man by all standards

Who asked you??

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Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by Adaumunocha(f): 10:49am On Oct 08, 2017
Ikebesupa:
.. I suppose she is exporting me
She's exporting u? Stop giving her shii, making her husband look weak and incapable. Who send her
Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by kidman96(m): 10:50am On Oct 08, 2017
Ikebesupa:
Please I want to know if it's right for a married woman to keep asking for money from her Ex.. I'm having this experience now and don't know if I should stop or keep doing it...

She is probably going through tough times in marriage. Keep assisting her. She is a married woman and she knows people,you never know when she could be of immense help to you. If you have to assist her assist her if you don't have just politely tell her you don't... Most people only ask from someone they care about.

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Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by chronique(m): 10:50am On Oct 08, 2017
pocohantas:
Tell her to bring her husband as collateral. Foolish woman

I won't be surprised if you eventually hang her leg on the burglary proof. This is how it starts...

You are always hanging leg on burglary proof; your legs nor dey ever pain you? Why not try another position? grin grin
Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by highchief1: 10:51am On Oct 08, 2017
iamchybs:
No one is extorting u... Stop giving her money

if her family is poor and u r in the capacity to help them (with the husband's consent) then u can help....

i wonder o do u no what is ex?someone u shared ur life with at a time then cos u no marry her again or smthg then u have d power to assist then u won't?thats witchcraft o I always assist my exes..life long well well

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Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by muller101(m): 10:51am On Oct 08, 2017
pocohantas:
Tell her to bring her husband as collateral. Foolish woman

I won't be surprised if you eventually hang her leg on the burglary proof. This is how it starts...
and she will be screaming like a hor.ny rabbit grin
Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by correctguy101(m): 10:51am On Oct 08, 2017
Ikebesupa:
.. I suppose she is exporting me

I believe you meant "extorting".
The answer is "NO"

As galadima77 rightly puts it, it's called "gratuity", "pension" if you like. For services well rendered... grincheesy

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Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by Adaumunocha(f): 10:51am On Oct 08, 2017
boostdom:
Give her if you have but there is the possibility of your benevolence snowballing into something unintended. When she asks consistently and you give, you support a dependence behaviour in her that makes her indebted to you. The problem this creates is that it makes her less inhibitive to you, which is compounded by the pleasant memories both of you might have shared. This is the psychic fuel that will ignite the passion.

I know how that story goes, bruh. She will be tossing her vows out the window with the quickness.
Supu!
Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by fleshb(m): 10:52am On Oct 08, 2017
shurley22:
All these women without pride, self respect or dignity!!
What is it sef
Helo beauty
Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by bettercreature(m): 10:52am On Oct 08, 2017
WowSweetGuy:
im glad u remember me sir....everything is sad like seriously sad. I need spiritual cleansing to be happy
That is very serious you have to visit nearest synagogue church Asap

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Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by Originalsly: 10:53am On Oct 08, 2017
Ikebesupa:
Please I want to know if it's right for a married woman to keep asking for money from her Ex.. I'm having this experience now and don't know if I should stop or keep doing it...
Why not remind her she is married?.....and you are the ex? You don't know if it is right or wrong means you also don't know if it is right or wrong to be sleeping with her.
Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by highchief1: 10:55am On Oct 08, 2017
shurley22:


Who asked you??
i no u are below 15 I'm trying to orient u abt life
Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by WowSweetGuy(m): 10:55am On Oct 08, 2017
bettercreature:
That is very serious you have to visit nearest synagogue church Asap
embarassed they will ask me to buy holy water...dont have money to buy that now.
Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by richeeyo(m): 10:56am On Oct 08, 2017
She feels you are the only one who could help And she was well behaved during the period She dated her ex, that's why her ex still help her No big deal as long as it's open
Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by abbeyty(m): 10:56am On Oct 08, 2017
shurley22:
All these women without pride, self respect or dignity!!
What is it sef

if hunger catch you you go throw that respect in the gutter, maybe the woman dey hungry

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Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by shurley22(f): 10:56am On Oct 08, 2017
highchief1:
i no u are below 15 I'm trying to orient u abt life

Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by FrankFrenzy(m): 10:57am On Oct 08, 2017
galadima77:
Welcome...dem dey call am gratuity for service well rendered...e no get limit.

I concur
Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by Nobody: 10:57am On Oct 08, 2017
pocohantas:
Tell her to bring her husband as collateral. Foolish woman

I won't be surprised if you eventually hang her leg on the burglary proof. This is how it starts...
Hmm, leg(s) on the burglary, slightly/wide apart. It's that your fetish? You must have a thing for BDSM.
Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by muller101(m): 10:58am On Oct 08, 2017
d33types:
Dude is plain dumb.imagine his responses.
the op just made this up.
Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by ruffDiamond: 10:58am On Oct 08, 2017
galadima77:
Welcome...dem dey call am gratuity for service well rendered...e no get limit.
hahahahhaha u funny u mean all those nackiiiiinng service rendered in the past abi tongue this one major reason I hate lady who have been used and ravished by other guys i can never marry a public toilet tongue
Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by shurley22(f): 10:59am On Oct 08, 2017
abbeyty:


if hunger catch you you go throw that respect in the gutter, maybe the woman dey hungry


Really?
You'd obviously be proud of a wife like that as long as hunger catch am...
Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by specialzobo(m): 10:59am On Oct 08, 2017
pocohantas:
Tell her to bring her husband as collateral. Foolish woman

I won't be surprised if you eventually hang her leg on the burglary proof. This is how it starts...
I was expecting to see prick in ur comment.
Thank God for your life
Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by Truckpusher(m): 11:00am On Oct 08, 2017
PaperLace:


You're right. The spouses are usually not aware of the begging or giving. An ex once asked me for money _I didn't waste my time lying. I just told him my husband won't support such benevolence. Giving him without my husband's support/awareness is cheating!
Of course their spouses aren't always aware of the bad habit but truth remains that when a woman begs an ex for money , she's indirectly revealing his husband's vulnerable side and of course they don't always know who their exes have been talking to. An ex should remain an ex please because if you guys were that good to each other you should have been together. Each time I come across exes with that kind of habit I just thank God I never even considered ever ending up with this idiot.Honestly.

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Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by otabuko(m): 11:00am On Oct 08, 2017
Ikebesupa:
.. What is marriage these days turning into? Does that mean she doesn't love her husband? Or deliberately extorting me
what if the husband doesn't have or the husband is being rude to her when she needs financial help. Please, it doesn't mean less love for her hubby

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Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by Adaumunocha(f): 11:02am On Oct 08, 2017
Ssalk:


My ex once beg me for money to support her marriage and I assisted her. Even not long ago another of my ex who is married called me for financial assistance which I promised her to do when I have the money. Nothing wrong with it so long nothing attached.
Hope when you are down and u ask dem for assistance they will help u out

Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by Nobody: 11:02am On Oct 08, 2017
pocohantas:


Where do you prefer hanging her leg?
on top my neck naim dey makesense pass grin grin grin grin
Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by ayoxxzbaba(m): 11:03am On Oct 08, 2017
deepwater:
In the future you may be accused of having affairs with the woman, you may be innocent though.

By the time they print her bank account statement, your name would be written all over it. How do you defend yourself. It becomes another otobo vs Suleiman case

i really love ds
Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by Nobody: 11:03am On Oct 08, 2017
shurley22:

Who asked you??
He just nailed the truth on your head.
Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by luckypeace1980: 11:03am On Oct 08, 2017
My dear, this also had happened to me ooh. It always occure when your ex friend is not financially comfortable in her marriage and your own financial statue is greater than her and she might be dreaming of had i known. This has occured to me by my ex girl friend although i am now happily married but she still call me and make some demand but not always to an extent of inviting me for a visit to her matrimonial house which i keep on promising her i will come but not willing to go. She will call me on fone and ask of me and family until her husband tracked her and cautioned before she stop calling me. My advice to you is that If you people still love each other but with caution and you can afford the money she is requesting i don't see any big deal for you not given her, she might be of help to you some day . Although it seems as if your financial statues is greater than that her own husband that is why she ask you of money. May be she got married before you and you would have married her but she did not have patient and now she has started comparing you with her husband

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