shaybebaby:

Canada- too cold
Australia- too far
I'm thinking of the far east.. I love eastern food, they have beautiful beaches and weather pattern in some places mimics ours, monsoon etc but I don't want winters.

Lol @ Canada- too cold and Australia- too far

Trust me Australia's bae... Anyway i did a research on tourist attraction in India, it holds promise...


East, let me think, where in the East? Can't wrap my mind on this one

supersystemsnig:



I've been drawing up a picture of the next war, you wouldn't wanna find out... The bloc is just a protective mechanism for Germany, if the wall wasn't constructed, we may not have an aggressive Russia and China, Suffice to say, the current posture of Russia and China is a counteractive measure against the battle formations they see taking shape in the EU and NATO. Let's dig deeper to shed more light on this, an EU institution spurred other nations to form dangerous and deceptive alliance. I.e. Russia, China, Iran, Iraq,Syria and then we have U.S.Australia, West ( Meaning EU ), all i can say is we have over 14,000 nuclear war heads out there, and someday it would be used. Britain would not be attacked even if it isolates itself from the EU, it has Trident and can draw up battle strength from the Commonwealth, if the UK wants a more sophisticated nuclear capability it can have it, but feels it doesn't want to tred that path...Anyways, we're close to the end, i've drawn up a timeline and i have my popcorn ready baby...

Quite fatalistic. I imagine you have your nuclear bunker all ready and stocked.
I don't believe it will come that, ever wonder why we haven't used it since hiroshima and nagasaki? The world saw first hand what it can and the after effects long after it's use.
Stockpiling it now is a case of paranoia, "I don't want to be defenseless, look what happened then". So now we all have it, the nextstage is to disarm. There will be no winners in this Mexican standoff. Any country that uses it might pretty much just nuke itself for all the good it will do. No one will be left alive and somehow I think that instinct of self preservation which lead to its acquisition-to protect itself, is the same thing that will prevent nations from using it. Using it mean certain death, for all.

supersystemsnig:



Lol @ Canada- too cold and Australia- too far

Trust me Australia's bae... Anyway i did a research on tourist attraction in India, it holds promise...


East, let me think, where in the East? Can't wrap my mind on this one

Vietnam, the Philippines, Thailand etc.

shaybebaby:

Quite fatalistic. I imagine you have your nuclear bunker all ready and stocked.
I don't believe it will come that, ever wonder why we haven't used it since hiroshima and nagasaki? The world saw first hand what it can and the after effects long after it's use.
Stockpiling it now is a case of paranoia, "I don't want to be defenseless, look what happened then". So now we all have it, the nextstage is to disarm. There will be no winners in this Mexican standoff. Any country that uses it might pretty much just nuke itself for all the good it will do. No one will be left alive and somehow I think that instinct of self preservation which lead to its acquisition-to protect itself, is the same thing that will prevent nations from using it. Using it mean certain death, for all.

I have a pack of popcorn to chew and wait for it to hit...Lol @ bunker, it won't work.. 14,000 tons with over 20 Million Kilotons of nuclear power would shred the earth to pieces. Less than 10% of the planet would remain after the planet goes up in flames. Anyways, the atmosphere would be gone, planet life and life support, the atmospheric balance that keeps life on earth, i have bad news for folks thinking about going to Mars, or another planet to stay, and the other ones heaping up massive seedbanks, where would the atmospheric conditions to grow them come from?



It will happen baby, it's only a matter of time. A 70year old woman around dreamt it and told me some weeks back, so i decided to show her images to point at what she saw, and she described everything in details plus some other stuffs that haven't yet been invented.. I'm a Nuclear maddon, i know it will happen, it's a function of time, and i'm preparing alongside national development...Wouldn't wanna be caught off guard.



Well some nations are hell bent on using it, some nations want to take out Israel, and with the support of tyrant Iran, Russia and China, it's just a delayed event that will happena t some point

shaybebaby:

Vietnam, the Philippines, Thailand etc.

Thailand...Please choose a very good guide...I don't wanna explain


Philippines, amazing people, wonderful people..lovely nation


Vietnam - I can't say

supersystemsnig:



Thailand...Please choose a very good guide...I don't wanna explain


Philippines, amazing people, wonderful people..lovely nation


Vietnam - I can't say

Thailand, not as bad as naij. No lele.

Being careful is applicable everywhere you go. Even here in the UK, there is crime and I've witnessed two police car chases like you see in the movies. Exciting stuff.

Do you live in lag?

shaybebaby:

Thailand, not as bad as naij. No lele.

Being careful is applicable everywhere you go. Even here in the UK, there is crime and I've witnessed two police car chases like you see in the movies. Exciting stuff.

Do you live in lag?

Yes Lag


Funny enough, i read up several comments on Yahoo how the cops assists whites trying to stage a break in on the right way to do it, but when it's the blacks, they pull the trigger

peterphd:

You were a boring, beta man. Why won't she run for the hills and tell you yada Yada reasons for breaking up?

lol boring abi?

supersystemsnig:



Yes Lag


Funny enough, i read up several comments on Yahoo how the cops assists whites trying to stage a break in on the right way to do it, but when it's the blacks, they pull the trigger

Probably, more likely in America than here. Break ins don't occur too often here (touch wood) and ofcourse our police officers aren't armed with guns generally.

Knife crimes are more common place.

shaybebaby:


Probably, more likely in America than here. Break ins don't occur too often here (touch wood) and ofcourse our police officers aren't armed with guns generally.

Knife crimes are more common place.

It is well. May God help us

You said you don't believe in God aiite?

See how these two,supersystemsnig and shaybebaby have turned my sob family thread to the stuff of doomsday politics.Thanks.Please, new contributors,we were discussing what to do after a relationship breaks up.

dokwhot:
See how these two,supersystemsnig and shaybebaby have turned my sob family thread to the stuff of doomsday politics.Thanks.Please, new contributors,we were discussing what to do after a relationship breaks up.

Take it easy bro...

We fall out of love sometimes, it happens, don't hate the person that left. Remember the precious moments you both shared together, and love them. Don't toll the path of hate or regret. If you hate the person, then you didn't really love them from the beginning. Yes, it can be painful, but bear it. I'm sorry for us when we fall out of love, bu we must learn our wrongs, improve on them and be optimistic. I made mistakes with my past relationships and bear no grudges if i fell of the orbit, let's just strive to be better lovers. Life is too short to hate

dokwhot:
Sometimes,when a man gets to a certain age,he may start getting self pressured to hitch up by hook or by crook.This is what happened here in my case.I gave my all,overlooked flags or occurrences I wouldn't have when I was younger . This is exactly the way I see life as you have put it up there.As she was acting cold and chill,playing mind games,watching TV while I shivered with high grade fever,I remembered her sister's husband who died in unexplainable circumstances before I met her and said to myself "end this,It's better to die alone than to be with an uncaring person while you die".Then I told her silently,"please I'm not married to you,leave my house.You can go".No violence involved at all.I never hit her,unlike her exes.All of them.If you don't feel well cared for,say the words quickly,firmly.Now I can have no doubts I'm still healthy in all respects.I'm better now.

Na wa o. You saw all these red flags and stayed back? But why?, you really loved her and yearned for change in her actions right ?

Mindfulness:
You were so ill and shivering and yet you found the strength to bring her belongings to her house in the night. LOL

Behave

supersystemsnig:



It is well. May God help us

You said you don't believe in God aiite?

Yeah I do not but I see you do. It's okay, I'm am more a kind of "what are the impacts of your actions" rather than "what is your motivation" kinda person. As long as you try to do good, it doesn't matter what inspires you to do so.

Sorry, been out to lunch and weekly grocery shopping hence the late-ish reply.

shaybebaby:

Yeah I do not but I see you do. It's okay, I'm am more a kind of "what are the impacts of your actions" rather than "what is your motivation" kinda person. As long as you try to do good, it doesn't matter what inspires you to do so.

Sorry, been out to lunch and weekly grocery shopping hence the late-ish reply.

Are you on Whatsapp ? I wan't to deactivate this account and quit the forum

dokwhot:
See how these two,supersystemsnig and shaybebaby have turned my sob family thread to the stuff of doomsday politics.Thanks.Please, new contributors,we were discussing what to do after a relationship breaks up.

Sorry my love, it seems we have derailed a bit but hey, I've made a new buddy as a result of your thread so something good HAS come out of it already.

supersystemsnig:



Are you on Whatsapp ? I wan't to deactivate this account and quit the forum

Everyone is on WhatsApp, lol. Yes I am. Send me your digits and I'll add you up.

shaybebaby:

Everyone is on WhatsApp, lol. Yes I am. Send me your digits and I'll add you up.

Bleep

supersystemsnig:



Na wa o. You saw all these red flags and stayed back? But why?, you really loved her and yearned for change in her actions right ?

Classic mistake right there, you either accept the person for who they are in the now as opposed to who you wish them to be.

supersystemsnig:

Got it, you can remove it now.

shaybebaby:

Classic mistake right there, you either accept the person for who they are in the now as opposed to who you wish them to be.

I'm in a terrible situation right now dear. I wished i could addres this with a clear head. Some of us are ready to acept people with their weaknesses but what if they don't accept us?I've come to realize love is looking at a person and say i'll stick with you regardless of your weakness

shaybebaby:

Got it, you can remove it now.

Aii

dokwhot:
Sometimes,when a man gets to a certain age,he may start getting self pressured to hitch up by hook or by crook.This is what happened here in my case.I gave my all,overlooked flags or occurrences I wouldn't have when I was younger . This is exactly the way I see life as you have put it up there.As she was acting cold and chill,playing mind games,watching TV while I shivered with high grade fever,I remembered her sister's husband who died in unexplainable circumstances before I met her and said to myself "end this,It's better to die alone than to be with an uncaring person while you die".Then I told her silently,"please I'm not married to you,leave my house.You can go".No violence involved at all.I never hit her,unlike her exes.All of them.If you don't feel well cared for,say the words quickly,firmly.Now I can have no doubts I'm still healthy in all respects.I'm better now.

You did the right thing bro. Move on. It will be a funny story to tell the love of your life when you meet her.

shaybebaby:

Got it, you can remove it now.

Check



https://www.nairaland.com/4103184/takes-blame-after-rape/6


https://www.nairaland.com/4104406/please-talk-pocohantas-nairalanders

supersystemsnig:


I'm in a terrible situation right now dear. I wished i could addres this with a clear head. Some of us are ready to acept people with their weaknesses but what if they don't accept us?I've come to realize love is looking at a person and say i'll stick with you regardless of your weakness

It depends on the weakness. More like you should be asking "can i live a lifetime of this?"

shaybebaby:

It depends on the weakness. More like you should be asking "can i live a lifetime of this?"

yes bay @ "can i live a lifetime of this?"..Oh i'm really enjoying this. Now the issue is the invidual with the weakness many times begin to question their esteem in the relationship and it wears the one that considers the party with the weakness

supersystemsnig:


yes bay @ "can i live a lifetime of this?"..Oh i'm really enjoying this. Now the issue is the invidual with the weakness many times begin to question their esteem in the relationship and it wears the one that considers the party with the weakness

That, you cannot help with, it's their battle and only they can resolve it.
An insecure person has deeper issues beyond any relationship, no one can overcome that but themselves. They would need to confront their fears before they can begin to have a balanced relationship not dogged by their fears.

But they have to recognise that they have a problem in the first instance. A relationship is worth pursuing only if that acknowledgement is there on their part. If there isn't, you better walk. How can someone fix something they believe isnt broken?

Shaybebaby and supersystemsnig, you guys get a room or create your own thread na, haba, what you're doing to the Op is unfair

Prognose:
Shaybebaby and supersystemsnig, you guys get a room or create your own thread na, haba, what you're doing to the Op is unfair

I'm loving their exchanges,learning new angles to issues.Everyone can discuss any issue here because everyone is right here.

I have no hatred for anyone,just need to be careful of those who hate us.

shaybebaby:

That, you cannot help with, it's their battle and only they can resolve it.
An insecure person has deeper issues beyond any relationship, no one can overcome that but themselves. They would need to confront their fears before they can begin to have a balanced relationship not dogged by their fears.

But they have to recognise that they have a problem in the first instance. A relationship is worth pursuing only if that acknowledgement is there on their part. If there isn't, you better walk. How can someone fix something they believe isnt broken?

Oh my, this is a wonderful piece. How can anyone fixed what's unbroken