shaybebaby:

That, you cannot help with, it's their battle and only they can resolve it.
An insecure person has deeper issues beyond any relationship, no one can overcome that but themselves. They would need to confront their fears before they can begin to have a balanced relationship not dogged by their fears.

But they have to recognise that they have a problem in the first instance. A relationship is worth pursuing only if that acknowledgement is there on their part. If there isn't, you better walk. How can someone fix something they believe isnt broken?

dokwhot:
I'm loving their exchanges,learning new angles to issues.Everyone can discuss any issue here because everyone is right here.

shaybebaby:

That, you cannot help with, it's their battle and only they can resolve it.
An insecure person has deeper issues beyond any relationship, no one can overcome that but themselves. They would need to confront their fears before they can begin to have a balanced relationship not dogged by their fears.

But they have to recognise that they have a problem in the first instance. A relationship is worth pursuing only if that acknowledgement is there on their part. If there isn't, you better walk. How can someone fix something they believe isnt broken?

Prognose:
Shaybebaby and supersystemsnig, you guys get a room or create your own thread na, haba, what you're doing to the Op is unfair

shaybebaby:

That, you cannot help with, it's their battle and only they can resolve it.
An insecure person has deeper issues beyond any relationship, no one can overcome that but themselves. They would need to confront their fears before they can begin to have a balanced relationship not dogged by their fears.

But they have to recognise that they have a problem in the first instance. A relationship is worth pursuing only if that acknowledgement is there on their part. If there isn't, you better walk. How can someone fix something they believe isnt broken?

supersystemsnig:



@ cock-sure, dick-swinging alpha male

Intelligence thesedays ehn, see the words you used...I'm loving it...gonna lick it like lollipop

Ishilove:

Are you aware how intensely gay this sounds? Dick and licking lollipops, the same sentence? Ahnh ahn?

Come, my guy, is there something you want to tell us?

*wink wink*

supersystemsnig:



Trust me Ishi, i didn't make the comment, it also cracked me up...It's beyond my cognitive ability...no be me...

Guitarlife:

Op don't listen to all these weak and selfish ladies on this platform, I have been looking for a wife now for the past 1 year same with my friend we never see.

Since I came to Lagos all I see are myopic, selfish and empty headed ladies covering their ignorance with heavy makeup.
I will advise you to look for a humble and decent girl. Not the kind of lady who did not even think of appealing to you when you got mad .
The kind of mentality ladies are moving with these days is bad, work hard , make your money and next time do not ignore red flags .
Personally, I do not like ladies who watch movies too much, I watch movies once in a while but when lady sits all day watching telemundo and african magic how will she raise your children to be the einsteins and the mark Zuckerberg ?

mrphysics:

This is an intellectual write up. Everything you said here is yes and amen.

iyisco2001:

My brother, you speaklike the people of old times.
Those girls are nightmares.

Guitarlife:

Op don't listen to all these weak and selfish ladies on this platform, I have been looking for a wife now for the past 1 year same with my friend we never see.

Since I came to Lagos all I see are myopic, selfish and empty headed ladies covering their ignorance with heavy makeup.
I will advise you to look for a humble and decent girl. Not the kind of lady who did not even think of appealing to you when you got mad .
The kind of mentality ladies are moving with these days is bad, work hard , make your money and next time do not ignore red flags .
Personally, I do not like ladies who watch movies too much, I watch movies once in a while but when lady sits all day watching telemundo and african magic how will she raise your children to be the einsteins and the mark Zuckerberg ?

Ishilove:

Hokay, if you say so. But ehn, next time don't mention licking lollipops and swinging dicks in the same paragraph because the imagery it provokes is...

supersystemsnig:



I agree oh, same here

supersystemsnig:



Are you on Whatsapp ? I wan't to deactivate this account and quit the forum

iyisco2001:

Three years and counting, I have seen a lot.
Church, work, area.
Chai, just that make up coveringa lot of evils.
Make a mistake and you are doomed.

peterphd:

Why are you quitting?

supersystemsnig:



Bros, i'm with you on this one. I can't marry a lady without my superiors confirming she's safe, but be hopeful, there are good girls on the forum oh,i've worked with about 40 girls off theforum, there are good ones..Be hopeful, which age gap you dey find? make i tell you the moniker to send message

supersystemsnig:



Ishi no be me i swear.. How far, you near kwale? Is that your kid on your siggy? That kid is lovely oh..what a beautiful baby

iyisco2001:

Those ones are dodging DMS like crazy.
I have been lucky enough to find one. She dey nairaland self.�, But no be lagosian. I no fit dey ruin salary Lagos girls.

supersystemsnig:



Bros, i'm with you on this one. I can't marry a lady without my superiors confirming she's safe, but be hopeful, there are good girls on the forum oh,i've worked with about 40 girls off the forum, there are good ones..Be hopeful, which age gap you dey find? make i tell you the moniker to send message

Ishilove:

She's my flame!

No I no near Kwale o. I dey Lasgidi

Ishilove:

supersystemsnig:



Lucky you. I think say i don find one, me don dey prepare self, too bad, na one chance i dey, back to sratch, searching from stage one here...

supersystemsnig:



Men she's pretty, take care of ehr well, when she grow, i go carry my son come marry am...

supersystemsnig:



I can't explain. It's difficult to explain. Want to leave Nairaland to have my peace and disconnect completely from some people.

iyisco2001:

Sorry about that.
A friend of mine just entered one chance too, that one tell am say she see will of God, after dem don dey package. �, But Na sham. The guy just dey take mind curse. The babe commenced the operation friendzoning my dude.
Lol. Very painful experience.

Ishilove:

Wetin happen?

mrphysics:

This is an intellectual write up. Everything you said here is yes and amen.

supersystemsnig:



Just one free somebody so she go get peace...make i no go near am cause am pain...Make i quit in peace.

supersystemsnig:



Mrphysics, it begins with awareness, until one's condition is revealed, people continue in aloop and repeat the same errors. Remember, the first thing God did when he visited Adam ansd Eve after they ate the apple is He condemned sin, and revealed their conditions, i.e. by saying, Where are you? Careful self evaluation and improvement begins from an evaluation of the person and only upon awareness of being, and one's condition can one have an understanding of themselves and improve. Until then, people remain unbroken, passive, impassionate and dangerous

Ishilove:

Hmmmm...woman palaver...

Pele. So na woman wan make you deactivate?

You no get mind. You ain't military minded.