I didn't ask for her Facebook password.. we just started dating.. I'm not insecure but I've heard many things about her before we started dating (that she has a lot of orbiters (guys hitting on her 247)).

She must have thought: 'this guy has heard the rumors about me", thus her trying to earn my trust by giving me such a personal thing as a Facebook password? i didn't decline the offer..

Also to add, she's always really nice like super nice when we're together, like this holy Mary attitude and my dad always say: if it's too good it's not true. Could she be that wolf in sheep clothing? have any of you guys encountered such a person? it wouldn't be safe to assume now that she's a pretender.. what are your thoughts on this?

Edit: Some of the nice things she's done are:

*Giving to road side beggar as we drive on a date
*Paying for the food
*Sharing food and drinks with my friends

And generally, not getting angry no matter how hard i pick on her... I think I'm getting played big time. How can i know her true character? though I've checked her messages and saw her flirt messages with her Ex, nothing out of the norm.

She's trying to earn ur trust but still, be careful.
Lalasticlala Id like to see more opinions

Like u said, you just started dating. Give her benefit of doubt, follow her with a free mind and watch things unfold if she is pretending.

Pretence doesn't last

Sexy20:
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U have come here to book plot of land abi

no let me give u my own Facebook password so you know I'm real

Don't be hasty in your conclusion.

some people really have time sha.



Im rarely ever active on my social media accounts but I doubt I will give out my password to a guy because I won't ask for his

She tried ooo...Ordinary boyfriend
But that isn't love nah

I think she's pretending
That's one thing i can't even do self when he's not my husband...

If she is too good to be true, check again. Can't give any guy my password. I love my privacy.

She trust you to give you her password, I wonder why you're already perceiving her to be a pretender because of the bruit of guys hitting on her. Communicate and build a level of trust with your partner.


Forget social media and build your new found relationship. Love and trust your partner. If does work it fine thank God, if it doesn't move on.

Congratulations on your new found love

If she can give u d same access to he'd whatsapp den she really has nothing to hide

Dotwillis1:
she gave it to you because she has another account

lol.. if i was using my head I wouldn't ask this.
Thats her only account.

She's working hard for that ring.
Make sure you put it on her finger soon.

One can't pretend for long.
So just go along with the flow .

chiraqDemon:

U have come here to book plot of land abi

Rokia2:
She's working hard for that ring.
Make sure you put it on her finger soon.

that makes her cheap

robosky02:


that makes her cheap

Cheap?

How? Maybe she's in love with him and hes the kinda man she wants. And shes going for what she wants.

OP, since the doubt bout her sincerity is already in your head, then let's finish this off once for all.

Download WhatsApp on your laptop and secretely sync her WhatsApp with it. Then sit back and KNOW who your babe truly is

Op give her a chance
We all have a past .... if God can forgive and turn the other way while we continue to do wrong ... who are u to judge on rumours ... yes be careful and if she gives u a real reason not to trust her then do the needful

MhizzAJ:
She tried ooo...Ordinary boyfriend
But that isn't love nah

I think she's pretending
That's one thing i can't even do self when he's not my husband...

She might be really just trying hard to gain his trust ....
Yes he may be just a boyfriend but every boyfriend will eventually make a husband whether good or bad so not sure wts the hoohaa about pin ....

oh really


look here in naija the man does the wooing

Rokia2:


Cheap?

How? Maybe she's in love with him and hes the kinda man she wants. And shes going for what she wants.

Lalas247:

She might be really just trying hard to gain his trust ....
Yes he may be just a boyfriend but every boyfriend will eventually make a husband whether good or bad so not sure wts the hoohaa about pin ....

Not every boyfriend would make a husband eventually...Boyfriends have different missions in a girls life

Even the guy in question isn't sure of the girl
I think she's pretending
Someone didn't even ask for your password...u just gave it to him...who is she deceiving
Like you said she's trying hard to gain his trust

robosky02:
oh really


look here in naija the man does the wooing

But this ain't the wooing stage anymore. So the woman should just sit down for the man to do all the pampering, show all the love, build all the trust etc?
it ain't just the man job to do everything in a relationship.

MhizzAJ:


Not every boyfriend would make a husband eventually...Boyfriends have different missions in a girls life

Even the guy in question isn't sure of the girl
I think she's pretending
Someone didn't even ask for your password...u just gave it to him...who is she deceiving
Like you said she's trying hard to gain his trust

A possibility but he shouldn’t judge her if she hasn’t given him real reason not to ... she may be desperate for love and knows her past so she just paranoid
Doesn’t make her a bad person ..

Lalas247:


A possibility but he shouldn’t judge her if she hasn’t given him real reason not to ... she may be desperate for love and knows her past so she just paranoid
Doesn’t make her a bad person ..

Yeah...I kinda agree with u

MhizzAJ:


Yeah...I kinda agree with u

lol no homo

Lalas247:

lol no homo

You don't like your peace of mind.

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