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Why Did Our Parents Marriages Last For Decades But These Days,marriage Collapse? by activistjohnny(m): 12:11pm On Oct 15, 2017
So yesterday we shared a tweet of a lady saying all the weddings she attended last year and this year have all crashed. See the tweet above. While some people accused her of having ill-luck, there were comments from women who disclosed that they are already tired few months into their marriage. One of the commenters said she is already tired just one month into her marriage. Our grandparents and parents stayed married for better, for worse till death did them part but this new generation...mehn! What's going on? See the comments.


source:http://www.pressnewsng.com.ng/2017/10/why-did-our-grandparentsparents.html

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Re: Why Did Our Parents Marriages Last For Decades But These Days,marriage Collapse? by Nobody: 12:13pm On Oct 15, 2017
Deep question.
Re: Why Did Our Parents Marriages Last For Decades But These Days,marriage Collapse? by Prec1ous(m): 12:14pm On Oct 15, 2017
Mental transgenders.
Pride.
Selfish interest.
Lack of focus.
Financial disability.
Misunderstanding.
Need for adventure.
Naïve individuals.
Misplaced priorities.
Trust displacement.

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Re: Why Did Our Parents Marriages Last For Decades But These Days,marriage Collapse? by activistjohnny(m): 12:14pm On Oct 15, 2017
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Re: Why Did Our Parents Marriages Last For Decades But These Days,marriage Collapse? by activistjohnny(m): 12:15pm On Oct 15, 2017
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Re: Why Did Our Parents Marriages Last For Decades But These Days,marriage Collapse? by Adaumunocha(f): 12:16pm On Oct 15, 2017
Change is d cause ... APC cause am

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Re: Why Did Our Parents Marriages Last For Decades But These Days,marriage Collapse? by Baawaa(m): 12:17pm On Oct 15, 2017
If your parent's marriage last your own too must last unless you have derail from their teachings

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Re: Why Did Our Parents Marriages Last For Decades But These Days,marriage Collapse? by activistjohnny(m): 12:17pm On Oct 15, 2017
what i notice from my findings is that a relationship that doesn't based their relationship with Christ principle is bound to collapse at any time. it is so so unfortunate we are experiencing this issues in our homes today. no faith and patience again.

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Re: Why Did Our Parents Marriages Last For Decades But These Days,marriage Collapse? by Hashimyussufamao(m): 12:20pm On Oct 15, 2017
Adaumunocha:
Change is d cause ... APC cause am
not a buhari fan tho, buh sister u need spiritual assistance. Pathetic enough, people now blame APC(buhari) even 4been bitten by a mosquito, its apalling cmn!

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Re: Why Did Our Parents Marriages Last For Decades But These Days,marriage Collapse? by activistjohnny(m): 12:21pm On Oct 15, 2017
i could remember my parents marriage throwback pictures. till today they are still together, praying together and doing great exploit together. they have already marked 30 years in marriage. but today the reversed is the case. infidelity and sexual immorality is the order of today. God can't blessed a marriage that's full of lies and deceit.

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Re: Why Did Our Parents Marriages Last For Decades But These Days,marriage Collapse? by Peachess(f): 12:25pm On Oct 15, 2017
Cos our parents had patience and can endure a lot. These days there are temptations every where, so married people cheat a lot. In those days when men cheat (I'm talking from a female perspective) the women endure and do nothing. But females now are more expose and wouldn't like to stay with someone that won't respect his vow.
People frowned a lot at divorce then and even when they were not happy, they stayed back. But these day it's has started becoming an order of the day.

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Re: Why Did Our Parents Marriages Last For Decades But These Days,marriage Collapse? by claremont(m): 12:28pm On Oct 15, 2017
activistjohnny:
what i notice from my findings is that a relationship that doesn't based their relationship with Christ principle is bound to collapse at any time. it is so so unfortunate we are experiencing this issues in our homes today. no faith and patience again.

If you want to bring religion into this, you should ask the admin to transfer this thread to the religious section. When you introduce religion to a legitimate debate, you automatically exclude logical contributions from people who are non-religious.

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Re: Why Did Our Parents Marriages Last For Decades But These Days,marriage Collapse? by Blackhawk01: 12:32pm On Oct 15, 2017
WendyJay already did justice to my thought. Ain't nobody cut out for BS all in the name of marriage these days. undecided

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Re: Why Did Our Parents Marriages Last For Decades But These Days,marriage Collapse? by chivic(m): 12:33pm On Oct 15, 2017
Because then ladies know there role and respect their husbands more.Also the trend of Gender equality was not there.
This reduced confrontation even when the man was wrong.
But now everyone is equal.Both parties over sabi,both parties don't take nonsense, divorce is no longer a big disgrace,single mother and baby mama is shamfully in vogue and finally Economy is harder

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Re: Why Did Our Parents Marriages Last For Decades But These Days,marriage Collapse? by decatalyst(m): 12:35pm On Oct 15, 2017
1. Irresponsible boys that are poorly brought up

2. Slay queens

3. Slay mama

4. Baby mama

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Re: Why Did Our Parents Marriages Last For Decades But These Days,marriage Collapse? by Victornezzar: 12:37pm On Oct 15, 2017
Adaumunocha:
Change is d cause ... APC cause am
This Timaya in skirt when would you have sense

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Re: Why Did Our Parents Marriages Last For Decades But These Days,marriage Collapse? by Nobody: 12:40pm On Oct 15, 2017
OUR forefathers were not married to slay queens..

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Re: Why Did Our Parents Marriages Last For Decades But These Days,marriage Collapse? by activistjohnny(m): 12:42pm On Oct 15, 2017
why is everything all about sex now? Sex is the main drive for this generation, not greatness or power or even corruption. Give a youth of nowadays a big fat oily behind and he believes he has achieved everything. Nobody wants to achieve great things again. A young relationship or courtship that's based on sex before marriage will only end in disarray. God bless sex in marriage but not in sexual immorality and infidelity.

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Re: Why Did Our Parents Marriages Last For Decades But These Days,marriage Collapse? by QueenSekxy(f): 12:42pm On Oct 15, 2017
Blackhawk01:
WendyJay already did justice to my thought. Ain't nobody cut out for BS all in the name of marriage these days. undecided
same here,,I go with her opinion. .

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Re: Why Did Our Parents Marriages Last For Decades But These Days,marriage Collapse? by Blackhawk01: 12:43pm On Oct 15, 2017
Lordygram:
OUR forefathers were not married to slay queens..

And our Mamas didn't settle down with irresponsible kidults... undecided

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Re: Why Did Our Parents Marriages Last For Decades But These Days,marriage Collapse? by LordIsaac(m): 12:43pm On Oct 15, 2017
It is because these parents have failed to transmit goɗly values to the third generation. I visited different families of late and I marvel at what they teach their girls about men....hmmm...

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Re: Why Did Our Parents Marriages Last For Decades But These Days,marriage Collapse? by QueenSekxy(f): 12:43pm On Oct 15, 2017
activistjohnny:
why is everything all about sex now? Sex is the main drive for this generation, not greatness or power or even corruption. Give a youth of nowadays a big fat oily behind and he believes he has achieved everything. Nobody wants to achieve great things again. A young relationship or courtship that's based on sex before marriage will only end in disarray. God bless sex in marriage but not in sexual immorality and infidelity.
what has this got to do with the topic of the thread!??

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Re: Why Did Our Parents Marriages Last For Decades But These Days,marriage Collapse? by activistjohnny(m): 12:44pm On Oct 15, 2017
claremont:


If you want to bring religion into this, you should ask the admin to transfer this thread to the religious section. When you introduce religion to a legitimate debate, you automatically exclude logical contributions from people who are non-religious.
am sorry you are a non religious fellow but you know it is interwoven.
Re: Why Did Our Parents Marriages Last For Decades But These Days,marriage Collapse? by QueenSekxy(f): 12:44pm On Oct 15, 2017
Lordygram:
OUR forefathers were not married to slay queens..
the same way our mamas didn't marry sex maniacs...

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Re: Why Did Our Parents Marriages Last For Decades But These Days,marriage Collapse? by Nobody: 12:46pm On Oct 15, 2017
Blackhawk01:
WendyJay already did justice to my thought. Ain't nobody cut out for BS all in the name of marriage these days. undecided
This ones have never experience true love, so they form jet li when it comes to men... Psquare sang. "na true love na go humble you, nor do gra gra(form feminist) and goodluck go dey sample you..

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Re: Why Did Our Parents Marriages Last For Decades But These Days,marriage Collapse? by Martin0(m): 12:46pm On Oct 15, 2017
QueenSekxy:
same here,,I go with her opinion. .
Ehm lemm first say hello to that pics ooo omalicha-nwan
Eh eh on the matter wey dey ground .. These day's if a man see's a woman na kpansh dey alway's come first..
The sex drive kill the real love,we don't love geniuely outside sex.. I believe it affecting this present generation..

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Re: Why Did Our Parents Marriages Last For Decades But These Days,marriage Collapse? by Martin0(m): 12:48pm On Oct 15, 2017
Peachess:
Cos our parents had patience and can endure a lot. These days there are temptations every where, so married people cheat a lot. In those days when men cheat (I'm talking from a female perspective) the women endure and do nothing. But females now are more expose and wouldn't like to stay with someone that won't respect his vow.
People frowned a lot at divorce then and even when they were not happy, they stayed back. But these day it's has started becoming an order of the day.

In addition to what u said,making sex a major objective or a first point kells the ambition to drive inn true love

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Re: Why Did Our Parents Marriages Last For Decades But These Days,marriage Collapse? by QueenSekxy(f): 12:50pm On Oct 15, 2017
Martin0:


Ehm lemm first say hello to that pics ooo omalicha-nwan

Eh eh on the matter wey dey ground ..
These day's if a man see's a woman na kpansh dey alway's come first..

The sex drive kill the real love,we don't love geniuely outside sex..
I believe it affecting this present generation..
thanks dear,
that's what is the primary reason for breakups,,the bigger the asset ,the bigger the attention. .even here on NL, you will see one from nowhere,,go to instagram or whatever to bring a lady's picture to NL,only to display her as a sex object..then you will see smelly mouths here fantasizing on how to bed her..tell me can such a man be called a husband material...??it's so pathetic

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Re: Why Did Our Parents Marriages Last For Decades But These Days,marriage Collapse? by Nobody: 12:52pm On Oct 15, 2017
QueenSekxy:

the same way our mamas didn't marry sex maniacs...
Being a sex maniac is good for marriage, atleast sex is one major factor for broken marriage, so hitting your wife hard at anytime and anyday always will bring sexual bliss to the union..

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Re: Why Did Our Parents Marriages Last For Decades But These Days,marriage Collapse? by Blackhawk01: 12:52pm On Oct 15, 2017
QueenSekxy:

same here,,I go with her opinion. .

Thank you Jawe, Queenie. This topic shouldn't be about blame pushing, the guys are as guilty as the ladies. The thing is men have been doing this for long and these guys feel because our mothers endured, we should endure too. No way! I'm not putting up with bullcrap just because I want to be a "Mrs". undecided angry undecided

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Re: Why Did Our Parents Marriages Last For Decades But These Days,marriage Collapse? by Florblu(f): 12:53pm On Oct 15, 2017
Lack of trust
Lack of endurance/ patience
Selfishness
Pride/Ego

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Re: Why Did Our Parents Marriages Last For Decades But These Days,marriage Collapse? by Nobody: 12:54pm On Oct 15, 2017
Blackhawk01:


And our Mamas didn't settle down with irresponsible kidults... undecided
our forefathers were responsible, strong and hardworking, they go to the farmland and work all day,, they trek all day.. they they were not kiddults..

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