managermahmud:
Before I say anything, I'll advice you never to trust a woman. Not even your wife.
I'm going to be brief and straight to the point. In case you come across spelling or grammatical error, kindly ignore

I have a girlfriend I've been dating for 2 years now. We met in school and I was 1 year more than her in school. I graduated last year and she will graduate this year. When I met her, she was a virgin and has never been exposed to sexual life. I deflowered her and ever since our love life flourished more even though there were challenges and misunderstanding along the line which is something that is bound to happen anywhere. But I sincerely love her. Even though I have another girlfriend which she knows about (the reason for the other girlfriend is an entire story on its own)... Before I finally went home last year, our frequency of sex increased to the extent that my gf was telling me that she is now addicted to sex. The day she told me that, I smiled but deep down me, I knew I was in for a trouble. So in order to test her loyalty, I seriously advised her to get another bf at home who will satisfy her urge and let me know about the guy. She seriously kicked against that then I felt elated within me that I'll be safe

So last week I visited her in school and planned on spending a week since I have friends who can accommodate me for the time, only for me to find out that she has a very close male friend who was my 2 year Junior in school then, same department. This night upon visiting her, in order to clear my doubt, I called the guy talked in length with him on how serious I am with my girlfriend, and mentally threatened him that if he betrays me he'll regret it. So he opened up to me that although they are close friends, he has only slept with her once. And then he apologized. I thanked him for being sincere. Then I went back to see my girlfriend, I demanded that she should be honest and sincere to me, she should tell me all that has happened while I was away. She still insisted that nothing happened.

I took time to narrate this and to source for advice on what I should do cos I'm into a serious relationship with her. My family are aware of us and hopefully we'll be getting married after her youth service. She is in her finals now. I feel really heartbroken and disappointed

greatnaija01:
oh ma lawd... THE WORLD IS FINISHED

You who had a side chick and you felt she "understood"? NA WA O... maybe u both are animals... relationship is actually an EXCLUSIVE WORD not a PLURAL.

and she forgave u and coped with you and the side chick till u made an innocent virgin get addicted to sex.... then now she tasted someone else... and you are here RANTING.. such WICKEDNESS... even the devil does not have it.


Pls u better pause the wedding and go for Proper counselling on WHAT MARRIAGE really entails. My gawd... you are in a sexationship but well, in 20years you will understand how primitive you have handled this. Chai, I pity the lady... an honest smooth talking player like you has created a new player in her.

Well no matter how u do it, WHAT YOU SOW IS WHAT YOU WILL REAP.

kunlesufyan:
Baba you funny, you are dating her yet you have a side chick she knows about. Don't you think that deep down shes hurt knowing that you sleep with some other girl..
She did the same now and she don turn bad person.. I'm a guy o, I know you can't trust women and all that but bros you self check am na...

Gebbson007:
first of all YOU ARE MAHD cux you gave her the go ahead to satisfy her urge with someone else now you are complaining saying it WS a test.
dude you really need to grow up n all. cux I'm very sure you ll do the same if she also try "TESTING" you ... you having another gf is bad enough now ya now presenting your self like a saint guy no vex me oooo

Y0ruba:
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You have a couple of options and I’ll list them:

1. Play ignorant, discard what the other guy told you and continue with your girlfriend mentally undisturbed.

2. Do not let your emotions control your actions and speech. Be quiet and step away, just disappear forever.

Note: whichever you choose or whatever you decide to do, there’s the likelyhood the other guy will foook her a few more times or she gets it from someone else. Also, keep in mind that making it obvious you’re hurt/upset is enough to feed her ego which will eventually put you in a bas place. It is up to you to decide at this point.

greatnaija01:
oh ma lawd... THE WORLD IS FINISHED

You who had a side chick and you felt she "understood"? NA WA O... maybe u both are animals... relationship is actually an EXCLUSIVE WORD not a PLURAL.

and she forgave u and coped with you and the side chick till u made an innocent virgin get addicted to sex.... then now she tasted someone else... and you are here RANTING.. such WICKEDNESS... even the devil does not have it.


Pls u better pause the wedding and go for Proper counselling on WHAT MARRIAGE really entails. My gawd... you are in a sexationship but well, in 20years you will understand how primitive you have handled this. Chai, I pity the lady... an honest smooth talking player like you has created a new player in her.

Well no matter how u do it, WHAT YOU SOW IS WHAT YOU WILL REAP.

thesettingz:
Young man shits happens and once it happens is either u move on or bears the cross.

On the aspect of the guys confession what If the guy is only taking advantage of ur insecurity to high jack ur Bae knowing fully well u would want a break once u find out....... U typed as if u caught ur girl naked with the said guy

pocohantas:
Why is it that lots of you men can't take what you steadily dish out, as regards cheating. You have a side chick, and you're now heartbroken over her side guy?

Just look at how you both are distributing body fluids upandan.

Chai!
Thank God I am a refurbished virgin.
HIV is real...!

managermahmud:

Pls read my first reply below you and let me hear your verdict

pocohantas:


She left you for richer guys, then came back later.
And you chose to marry her over the one that stuck with you?

You deserve all the heartbreak you're getting

managermahmud:

My dear always pray that you shouldn't experience other people's predicament. Always wish people well even in hard times. Perhaps your culture or family will permit you to marry anybody you randomly come across irrespective of region or race, but other people's culture/family wouldn't permit that.

nothalfbaked:
You wanna marry them both? If you cant marry the side chick due to racial/religious/tribal/family differences then why keep holding unto her. Or is the side chick only for sex and support? Bros leave story you're dating two ladies and complaing that one is cheating. You're very selfish and immature.

managermahmud:

Thank you Mr Mature.
Mr Mature, if you are also matured in your reasoning and comprehension, you'll get to read where I said my other girl was with me when my main girl left. For the fact that my main girl came back and I still love her shouldn't mean I will just call it off with my new girl. And for the fact that I can't marry my new girl due to some reasons shouldn't mean I will send her away. I will always respect her for being there with me and elated me when I needed someone most. Hence it'll be her decision to take a bow outta the relationship not my decision cos she also know we can't get married

nothalfbaked:
Listen to yourself. Technically, you are cheating on each of the ladies. Stop complaining.

managermahmud:
Before I say anything, I'll advice you never to trust a woman. Not even your wife.
I'm going to be brief and straight to the point. In case you come across spelling or grammatical error, kindly ignore

I have a girlfriend I've been dating for 2 years now. We met in school and I was 1 year more than her in school. I graduated last year and she will graduate this year. When I met her, she was a virgin and has never been exposed to sexual life. I deflowered her and ever since our love life flourished more even though there were challenges and misunderstanding along the line which is something that is bound to happen anywhere. But I sincerely love her. Even though I have another girlfriend which she knows about (the reason for the other girlfriend is an entire story on its own)... Before I finally went home last year, our frequency of sex increased to the extent that my gf was telling me that she is now addicted to sex. The day she told me that, I smiled but deep down me, I knew I was in for a trouble. So in order to test her loyalty, I seriously advised her to get another bf at home who will satisfy her urge and let me know about the guy. She seriously kicked against that then I felt elated within me that I'll be safe

So last week I visited her in school and planned on spending a week since I have friends who can accommodate me for the time, only for me to find out that she has a very close male friend who was my 2 year Junior in school then, same department. This night upon visiting her, in order to clear my doubt, I called the guy talked in length with him on how serious I am with my girlfriend, and mentally threatened him that if he betrays me he'll regret it. So he opened up to me that although they are close friends, he has only slept with her once. And then he apologized. I thanked him for being sincere. Then I went back to see my girlfriend, I demanded that she should be honest and sincere to me, she should tell me all that has happened while I was away. She still insisted that nothing happened.

I took time to narrate this and to source for advice on what I should do cos I'm into a serious relationship with her. My family are aware of us and hopefully we'll be getting married after her youth service. She is in her finals now. I feel really heartbroken and disappointed

johnydon22:



You are an idiot

johnydon22:


You are a big time idiot