Blackhawk01:


And our Mamas didn't settle down with irresponsible kidults...

QueenSekxy:

thanks dear,
that's what is the primary reason for breakups,,the bigger the asset ,the bigger the attention. .even here on NL, you will see one from nowhere,,go to instagram or whatever to bring a lady's picture to NL,only to display her as a sex object..then you will see smelly mouths here fantasizing on how to bed her..tell me can such a man be called a husband material...??it's so pathetic

QueenSekxy:

the same way our mamas didn't marry sex maniacs...

Blackhawk01:


Thank you Jawe, Queenie. This topic shouldn't be about blame pushing, the guys are as guilty as the ladies. The thing is men have been doing this for long and these guys feel because our mothers endured, we should endure too. No way! I'm not putting up with bullcrap just because I want to be a "Mrs".

QueenSekxy:

thanks dear,
that's what is the primary reason for breakups,,the bigger the asset ,the bigger the attention. .even here on NL, you will see one from nowhere,,go to instagram or whatever to bring a lady's picture to NL,only to display her as a sex object..then you will see smelly mouths here fantasizing on how to bed her..tell me can such a man be called a husband material...??it's so pathetic

Martin0:


In addition to what u said,making sex a major objective or a first point kells the ambition to drive inn true love

Lordygram:
Being a sex maniac is good for marriage, atleast sex is one major factor for broken marriage, so hitting your wife hard at anytime and anyday always will bring sexual bliss to the union..

Martin0:


Ehm lemm first say hello to that pics ooo omalicha-nwan

Eh eh on the matter wey dey ground ..
These day's if a man see's a woman na kpansh dey alway's come first..

The sex drive kill the real love,we don't love geniuely outside sex..
I believe it affecting this present generation..

Lordygram:
This ones have never experience true love, so they form jet li when it comes to men... Psquare sang. "na true love na go humble you, nor do gra gra(form feminist) and goodluck go dey sample you..

QueenSekxy:

not in marriages,,I mean these boys that act like their life depends on every butt,boobs and ass that are online..gosh,,some will tell you that can't marry someone with small breast,,okay you will find out that his life is centered round boobs and if he gets married tomorrow and prolly,the wife's boobs sags,,there is every tendency that he is leaving her for a better boobs. .and when the wife finds out that he is cheating on her...what do you expect the lady to do??endure ??cry over it or what??truth is that ,,this era is a pay back time and the male folks are getting a dose of what they bargained for.

Lordygram:
our forefathers were responsible, strong and hardworking, they go to the farmland and work all day,, they trek all day.. so they were not kiddults..

Mup4life:
This opinion goes for both gender brotherly, If some girl visits you and you act all loved up, refuse to touch her, try to respect her and shit like dat when she leaves your house the next thing is to call you IMPOTENT.

activistjohnny:
what i notice from my findings is that a relationship that doesn't based their relationship with Christ principle is bound to collapse at any time. it is so so unfortunate we are experiencing this issues in our homes today. no faith and patience again.

Peachess:

Yeah, so many people go into marriage cos of sex or the physical appearance not minding if they're not compatible.

Blackhawk01:


You well so?

Let the excess release of oxytocin be deceiving you. I know what true love is and I am very much aware of it being a far cry from what you call love these days. If what happens in today's marriages and relationships is your own definition of love, I'll keep a distance from it.

Blackhawk01:


Exactly! My point exactly! I was referring to our generation not theirs.

Lordygram:
IF as a wife, you know that your husband loves your big boobs, then its your duty to maintain your boobs never to sag,, there are different ways to prevent a saggy boob.. Its all over the net.. Its just that some ladies dont properly take care of their body to please their men..

QueenSekxy:

not in marriages,,I mean these boys that act like their life depends on every butt,boobs and ass that are online..gosh,,some will tell you that can't marry someone with small breast,,okay you will find out that his life is centered round boobs and if he gets married tomorrow and prolly,the wife's boobs sags,,there is every tendency that he is leaving her for a better boobs. .and when the wife finds out that he is cheating on her...what do you expect the lady to do??endure ??cry over it or what??truth is that ,,this era is a pay back time and the male folks are getting a dose of what they bargained for.

Blackhawk01:


Your first sentence is one of the reasons why I earlier said this generation is filled with kidults. I hope this excuse is tenable when she cheats on him because the jet black hair she loves is going bald and grey.

Lordygram:
Then you dont know what true love really is... You cant use other relationships to determine true love... You know true love when you are deep into it...

Blackhawk01:


If you can't use other relationships to determine true love, you don't have business comparing our marriages to our parents' marriages. Their marriage can't determine our marriage too. Lobatan!

QueenSekxy:

not in marriages,,I mean these boys that act like their life depends on every butt,boobs and ass that are online..gosh,,some will tell you that can't marry someone with small breast,,okay you will find out that his life is centered round boobs and if he gets married tomorrow and prolly,the wife's boobs sags,,there is every tendency that he is leaving her for a better boobs. .and when the wife finds out that he is cheating on her...what do you expect the lady to do??endure ??cry over it or what??truth is that ,,this era is a pay back time and the male folks are getting a dose of what they bargained for.

Lordygram:
The guys in our generation are hardworking, innovative and genius.. And this is why we have iphones, computers, mind blowing technologies, skyscrappers, aeroplanes etc.

Lordygram:
IF as a wife, you know that your husband loves your big boobs, then its your duty to maintain your boobs never to sag,, there are different ways to prevent a saggy boob.. Its all over the net.. Its just that some ladies dont properly take care of their body to please their men..

Martin0:


Exactly so what will u adviced as a lady to we men..

claremont:


If you want to bring religion into this, you should ask the admin to transfer this thread to the religious section. When you introduce religion to a legitimate debate, you automatically exclude logical contributions from people who are non-religious.

Peachess:

It shouldn't be all about looks, tho looks is still a major factor but it'll fade with time. So look and a character you can tolerate is the first thing look out for I guess. I dunno, I'm not a man.

Blackhawk01:


And being book savvy, computer guru, internet wizard abi prophet makes you a "responsible" man? Samurai, abeg limme.


Our generation is filled with Slay mamas and Pepper dem kings. Na all of us get fault.