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Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by tosyne2much(m): 12:57pm On Oct 18, 2017
DeadRat:
hahahaha. Thats Why I Have To Run Soon Before They Pour their acidic Furstration on Me
I stopped taking them serious the day a thread titled "Are You In A Relationship" was opened sometime this year and I realized that most of these romance land ladies that form Arnold Schwarzenegger are actually not in relationships.. Roflwkmd cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 12:57pm On Oct 18, 2017
MhisTahrah:
I'm so shocked I'm speechless.I am seriously trying not to yab you.Don't provoke me any further.I'll let this pass.
carry Your Furstration to God... Let Him Pour Water On Your Head... The Curse He Placed Will Never Stop Manifestin Till World ends... Go And Yab him For Cursing Eve not Me abeg
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 1:00pm On Oct 18, 2017
DeadRat:
Honey! Its God Who Made Things So when He Told The Woman That Her Husband Would Rule over Her
Arrrgh!He's one helluva Sexist God.
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 1:00pm On Oct 18, 2017
tosyne2much:
Kindly take this thread to the family section and you will be astonished with the responses you will get from matured and happily married women

You can only get responses like this from heart broken ladies. In fact, most of them have been mayweathered by fcck boys .. LMAO cheesy
hahahahahahahaha. No Be Small
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by tosyne2much(m): 1:01pm On Oct 18, 2017
pocohantas:


I am used to the narrow mindedness of most Nigerians. Yours isn't surprising either... kiss
And your aggrandizement when submissiveness and faithfulness are being discussed doesn't surprise me too wink
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 1:05pm On Oct 18, 2017
MhisTahrah:
Look it up in the dictionary.Absolutely not,'cept if she is submissive to a dictator who tells her not to work.The one who dominates her body,soul and mind.The one who is always taking decisions for her.Her master.
i Dont see Why He Should Tell Her Not To Work. There Are Certain Things They Can Both Sit Down And discuss With Love. With No One Being Dominant Or Feminish
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by pocohantas(f): 1:06pm On Oct 18, 2017
tosyne2much:
And your aggrandizement when submissiveness and faithfulness are being discussed doesn't surprise me too wink

I don't think there is any post I have been against submissiveness.

The narrow mindedness of my way or no other way is what's limiting the reasoning of the average man.

How does aggrandisement fit into this discourse?
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by tosyne2much(m): 1:06pm On Oct 18, 2017
DeadRat:
hahahaha. Thats Why I Have To Run Soon Before They Pour their acidic Furstration on Me
You can see one of them attacking me for expecting loyalty and faithfulness from a woman. Is that surprising?

I give up on them jawe
cheesy
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 1:08pm On Oct 18, 2017
DeadRat:
carry Your Furstration to God... Let Him Pour Water On Your Head... The Curse He Placed Will Never Stop Manifestin Till World ends... Go And Yab him For Cursing Eve not Me abeg
k.
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 1:08pm On Oct 18, 2017
tosyne2much:
I stopped taking them serious the day a thread titled "Are You In A Relationship" was opened sometime this year and I realized that most of these romance land ladies that form Arnold Schwarzenegger are actually not in relationships.. Roflwkmd cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
hahahaha. Them Use Style De Advertise Themselves Make You Notice Them. You Know Say You Be Commissioner Of Women Affairs. grin
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 1:08pm On Oct 18, 2017
tosyne2much:
I stopped taking them serious the day a thread titled "Are You In A Relationship" was opened sometime this year and I realized that most of these romance land ladies that form Arnold Schwarzenegger are actually not in relationships.. Roflwkmd cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
hahahaha. Them Use Style De Advertise Themselves Make You Notice Them. You Know Say You Be Commissioner Of Women Affairs. grin .
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 1:11pm On Oct 18, 2017
MhisTahrah:
Arrrgh!He's one helluva Sexist God.
seriously? That Was Not Necessary undecided why Are You So pained about It. Since You Have Chosen To Be A Feminist Then... Carry-Go
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by tosyne2much(m): 1:12pm On Oct 18, 2017
pocohantas:


I don't think there is any post I have been against submissiveness.

The narrow mindedness of my way or no other way is what's limiting the reasoning of the average man.

How does aggrandisement fit into this discourse?
Your aggrandizement of anger and disagreement perfectly fit into this discourage. Each time a woman is caught in the act of cheating and castigated, you're always looking for way to embellish such an act by saying men are not in any way different undecided
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 1:13pm On Oct 18, 2017
MhisTahrah:
Arrrgh!He's one helluva Sexist God.
seriously that Was Not Necessary. Why Are You So Pained. Since You Have Chosen To Be A Feminist then... Carry Go
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 1:14pm On Oct 18, 2017
tosyne2much:
You can see one of them attacking me for expecting loyalty and faithfulness from a woman. Is that surprising?

I give up on them jawe
cheesy
maybe Thats Why Some De Turn Lesbians
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by tosyne2much(m): 1:14pm On Oct 18, 2017
DeadRat:
hahahaha. Them Use Style De Advertise Themselves Make You Notice Them. You Know Say You Be Commissioner Of Women Affairs. grin .
Hahaha.. Me ke? cheesy I no get time jawe
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by pocohantas(f): 1:15pm On Oct 18, 2017
tosyne2much:
Your aggrandizement of anger and disagreement perfectly fit into this discourage. Each time a woman is caught in the act of cheating and castigated, you're always looking for way to embellish such an act by saying men are not in any way differentundecided

aggrandizement of anger and disagreement? that's a new one!!! Shall we check up the meaning of that word? lipsrsealed

You're mistaking me for someone else obviously. Any proof of the coloured?
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by 2buffagain(m): 1:15pm On Oct 18, 2017
shaybebaby:

Yeah but they aren't appointed because of the presence or absence of a swinging pendulum between their legs.

They are their because they have earnt the right to lead. They have proven their mettle, that they are up to the task.

So tell me, how does having a pair of balls equate to a measure of effective leadership?


If you don't trust him to LEAD you then why did you accept his proposal?
You don't accept a job as vice president if you don't trust the president to be an effective leader in his own capacity.
Because your job would be to support his rule.
If not, You only did so if your whole goal from the start was to usurp the president.

That is what marriage is.
You are agreeing to be LED by the man.
You are agreeing to yield to him.

This comes with respect.

If you have no respect for the man, you cannot love him the way he is meant to be loved.

If you want marriage to be any other way, then YOU WOMEN need to nut up and start buying rings; kneeling and proposing; paying for weddings/groom prices & lists and all that (the equivalent of you starting your own company). You really can't eat your cake and have it by everything being done for you.
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 1:17pm On Oct 18, 2017
DeadRat:
seriously that Was Not Necessary. Why Are You So Pained. Since You Have Chosen To Be A Feminist then... Carry Go
k.
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 1:18pm On Oct 18, 2017
shaybebaby:

Yeah but they aren't appointed because of the presence or absence of a swinging pendulum between their legs.

They are their because they have earnt the right to lead. They have proven their mettle, that they are up to the task.

So tell me, how does having a pair of balls equate to a measure of effective leadership?



Hey, what's up


This question has always been on my mind for a very long time...

Mind sharing some tips...

How's the knight?


Personally, i feel men should be trusted to take the leadership mantle, he earns the trust with time, and the wifey works with him trusting his leadership qualities...I used to assume this way the order


Leadership should not imply sexual prowess, but the collective ability of the male and his abilities which should have been measured and trusted int he relationship by the female, and this should be reciprocated by willful submission to this will, trusting that even if he makes a mistake, it'snot because he's flimsy, but he must have tried all his best but fail short for some reason...


This is how i see leadership in relationships...Share your thoughts ma
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 1:19pm On Oct 18, 2017
pocohantas:


aggrandizement of anger and disagreement? that's a new one!!! Shall we check up the meaning of that word? lipsrsealed

You're mistaking me for someone else obviously. Any proof of the coloured?
no Be English Language Class Be This... Stop Feminism Today! Free Yourself From illogical Mentality cool
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by tosyne2much(m): 1:21pm On Oct 18, 2017
pocohantas:


aggrandizement of anger and disagreement? that's a new one!!! Shall we check up the meaning of that word? lipsrsealed

You're mistaking me for someone else obviously. Any proof of the coloured?
Lemme ease you the stress of checking up the meaning of that word tongue

Aggrandizement: to make great or greater, to increase or elevate

Back to the issue, I know you more than you think dear. I usually stumble on your comments very well even though I'm not following you cheesy
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by pocohantas(f): 1:22pm On Oct 18, 2017
DeadRat:
no Be English Language Class Be This... Stop Feminism Today! Free Yourself From illogical Mentality cool

We need men that can argue logically, not men whose only resort is calling you a feminist when they have nothing else to say. Anyone whose defence is what some holy book says, if far from having a logical mentality.
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by shaybebaby(f): 1:25pm On Oct 18, 2017
2buffagain:


If you don't trust him to LEAD you then why did you accept his proposal?
You don't accept a job as vice president if you don't trust the president to be an effective leader in his own capacity.

Because that is what marriage is.
You are agreeing to be LED by the man. This comes with respect.
If you have no respect for the man, you cannot love him the way he is meant to be loved.
Respect is earned and it goes both ways.
Relationships- Partner work in tandem, it is not an advert for whom to lead the woman. More like a joining of forces.

Even in the workplace that you guys are fond of using as illustration, the modern organisation is leaning towards a flatter organisational structure with more decentralisation-why?

It is more efficient letting people play to their strengths and make make decisions without having to report to a figure of authority. People's output are measured against predetermined organisational objectives.

Anyways, are you lot even capable of leading amongst your fellow men?

I'd say the answer is No! kiss
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by pocohantas(f): 1:25pm On Oct 18, 2017
tosyne2much:
Lemme ease you the stress of checking up the meaning of that word tongue

Aggrandizement: to make great or greater, to increase or elevate

Back to the issue, I know you more than you think dear. I usually stumble on your comments very well even though I'm not following you cheesy

That's what you all always say, I ask for evidence and they start semantics. There is never an evidence of me supporting or downplaying female infidelity grin. I'm used to the no evidence... there would never be one.

Stick to words you know. You're fond of using unnecessary big words.

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Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 1:26pm On Oct 18, 2017
shaybebaby:

Respect is earned and it goes both ways.
Relationships- Partner work in tandem, it is not an advert for whom to lead the woman. More like a joining of forces.

Even in the workplace that you guys are fond of using as illustration, the modern organisation is leaning towards a flatter organisational structure with more decentralisation-why?

It is more efficient letting people play to their strengths and make make decisions without having to report to a figure of authority. People's output are measured against predetermined organisational objectives.

Anyways, are you lot even capable of leading amongst your fellow men?

I'd say the answer is No! kiss



A loose partnership, where roles can be switched, and either partner can take the lead, without competition, both parties striving for the overall performance and productivity of the team

The overall focus is the productivity and output of the team...This will require partners on seemingly equal cognitive levels... In this current world, if this is the case, where does one find an equally intelligent partner? Too many people are stuck on average and mediocrity.... undecided

It's a gloom picture
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by tosyne2much(m): 1:29pm On Oct 18, 2017
pocohantas:


That's what you all always say, I ask for evidence and they start semantics. There is never an evidence of me supporting or downplaying female infidelity grin. I'm used to the no evidence... there would never be one.

Stick to words you know. You're fond of using unnecessary big words.
I will quote you each time I stumble on some of your old posts cheesy

Okay, I will be careful with choice of words
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by calling: 1:30pm On Oct 18, 2017
pocohantas:


We need men that can argue logically, not men whose only resort is calling you a feminist when they have nothing else to say. Anyone whose defence is what some holy book says, if far from having a logical mentality.


Please refrain from mentioning me whenever you're making all this your dumb anti male sadistic comments angry
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by shaybebaby(f): 1:30pm On Oct 18, 2017
supersystemsnig:



Hey, what's up


This question has always been on my mind for a very long time...

Mind sharing some tips...

How's the knight?


Personally, i feel men should be trusted to take the leadership mantle, he earns the trust with time, and the wifey works with him trusting his leadership qualities...I used to assume this way the order


Leadership should not imply sexual prowess, but the collective ability of the male and his abilities which should have been measured and trusted int he relationship by the female, and this should be reciprocated by willful submission to this will, trusting that even if he makes a mistake, it'snot because he's flimsy, but he must have tried all his best but fail short for some reason...


This is how i see leadership in relationships...Share your thoughts ma
Well, I may hand over the reins sometimes over decisions affecting my life when I have had a chance to observe how you handle your OWN shït.

You guys keep getting it wrong, it's not about leadership, it's about playing to your individual strengths to achieve outcomes favourable to your partnership. It means that roles in the relationship are fluid depending on what needs to be achieved at any given time.
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 1:33pm On Oct 18, 2017
shaybebaby:

Well, I may hand over the reins sometimes over decisions affecting my life when I have had a chance to observe how you handle your OWN shït.

You guys keep getting it wrong, it's not about leadership, it's about playing to your individual strengths to achieve outcomes favourable to your partnership. It means that roles in the relationship are fluid depending on what needs to be achieved at any given time.



Then it means the same thing i'm saying...My highest consideration in a partner is " intelligence ", finding that match that equals one's performance that can take up roles in absence and act as a striker is challenging...Too many people are stuck on less than average...I can virtually count the number of ladies in my life that matches my performance/cognitive level...I feel many guys have this same frustration..


Anyways, many guys will like ladies they can trust down the line to play more active roles, hence the term " leadership " is faded and becomes replaced with partnership...


What are your thoughts on this?
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by shaybebaby(f): 1:34pm On Oct 18, 2017
supersystemsnig:




A loose partnership, where roles can be switched, and either partner can take the lead, without competition, both parties striving for the overall performance and productivity of the team

The overall focus is the productivity and output of the team...This will require partners on seemingly equal cognitive levels... In this current world, if this is the case, where does one find an equally intelligent partner? Too many people are stuck on average and mediocrity.... undecided

It's a gloom picture


Look for shared values. Remember what we discussed about motivations?

Don't look at the surface, ask why they do what they do, why they may be average or mediocre if that is the case.

It could be lack of opportunity not necessarily lack of capacity.
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by 2buffagain(m): 1:35pm On Oct 18, 2017
shaybebaby:

Respect is earned and it goes both ways.
Relationships- Partner work in tandem, it is not an advert for whom to lead the woman. More like a joining of forces.

Even in the workplace that you guys are fond of using as illustration, the modern organisation is leaning towards a flatter organisational structure with more decentralisation-why?

It is more efficient letting people play to their strengths and make make decisions without having to report to a figure of authority. People's output are measured against predetermined organisational objectives.

Anyways, are you lot even capable of leading amongst your fellow men?

I'd say the answer is No! kiss

You're going off point again.
This is because you just want to argue.

I know my strengths and my weaknesses.
There are things I won't even have any input on because my woman would be better at it than me. She has free reign.
For some reason when someone says "leadership" or "submission" you lot just think "So I have to ask his permission to pee ni?"

That's your screwed up mind, not ours. undecided
I am not a Donald Trump. Most men are not. I can submit to my wife's leading or opinion on a subject she is more skilled at or if she gives valid logic on a matter. No wise king just makes decisions without taking things into account. And no wise king prevents/blocks his queen from having her own "queendom".

But if there ever was a disagreement, the wife in the woman must cede. And handle things waaaaay differently than yelling/assaulting/beating chest at the man. No queen acts that way to her king unless she is TRASH!
Without showing him respect, you can get nothing from a man!

Submission will come natural to any woman when she meets the man for her.

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