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Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by 2buffagain(m): 3:27pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
shaybebaby: That first post was pointing out the sheer absurdity of trying to run a ship with 2 captains. It doesn't work. There are people who abuse this...that's unfortunate. But it doesn't change the fact that at the end of the day, there HAS to be someone who makes the call for that organization. That's why CHOOSING a leader is important. Does the leader act like Trump? Or does he mediate and appoint the call to most skilled/relevant person? Is the leader abusive and emotional? Or is he a rock of stability and logic? These things lie in the quality of the leader...and in the ability of the woman to CHOOSE the right leader (and be leadable herself). At the end of the day, this leader must be seen as "The Lead". A marriage will not last without this understanding. Dating is one thing, marriage is another. Not understanding this is why a lot of marriages are doomed in this generation. I have not deviated from what I've been telling you in this thread. |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by 2buffagain(m): 3:32pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
shaybebaby: I like girls who don't mind going to stripclubs. They are cool babes. ![]() But knowing how you feel about men, and the negative way you paint us all, I wouldn't see our jaiye going past BF/GF level! ![]() |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 3:37pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
2buffagain: Marriage comes with responsibilities...if babes go to clubs for clubbing, should it continue into marriage? How about the imagery of the institution...All those engagement should end during relationships and not into marriage nau |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by tosyne2much(m): 3:39pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
Blackhawk01:Hmmmmm! It's well ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by 2buffagain(m): 3:44pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
supersystemsnig: Definitely bros. The stripclub is different from clubbing though. People don't go to the stip club to "meet" members of the opposite sex as they would in a club. It's more like a burlesque show. People eat and stuff at the stripclub. Out here in ATL going to the stripclub is a culturally normal thing. As long as both couples are into it, that all boils down to couple compatibility and them having fun together. |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by tosyne2much(m): 3:52pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
2buffagain:I don't know we still have right thinking people like this on Nairaland The whole idea of "a man can't control me" is the reason why many ladies get kicked out of the home. A marriage is not an institution where two people wrestle for who should be in a position of authority. By default, power is bestowed on men to be in position of authority, a leader of a family with the support of the wife. You know what happens in homes where it's the other way round. This is the way it has been and that's the way it should be. I'm just surprised these ladies are not cool with the idea that a man should exercise authority over them. What many of them don't is that, a man having control over wife doesn't mean he will be beating her or she won't have a say in the home |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by pocohantas(f): 3:53pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
tosyne2much: Thanks for your understanding, that's why I like you...sometimes. Nah, except I want to annoy some people intentionally, there are things I don't support...infidelity is one of them. tosyne2much: Not every man wants to control a woman in the name of marriage. I've met a few who don't give a fuk, just respect them. Marry the woman you can control, everyone should find his or her spec. |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by 2buffagain(m): 4:03pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
pocohantas: The emboldened is the base of it all. A woman will go far with any man in her life if she understands that emboldened phrase! |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 4:06pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
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Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by shaybebaby(f): 4:07pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
2buffagain:And the whole point is that arrangement no longer works. Women are fighting for more rights to be equal not to be superior. And even within the same organisational structures that you as examples, there are checks to counter abuse of power by those in position of leadership. You fail to perform as president, you are voted out, act unconstitutionally,-impeachment. CEO- mess up? Replaced by the shareholders. What you advocate has no place in civilised societies, maybe in North Korea, that style of leadership is akin to what you proscribe as leadership. So tell me, what checks exist for your male leadership in marriage? |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by 2buffagain(m): 4:10pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
shaybebaby: There you;ve gone again to the extreme end. I think you're focused on seeing red. We won't see eye to eye on these matters. In the mean time, when you heading out to the stripclub? |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by shaybebaby(f): 4:10pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
2buffagain:Tell me, how do I feel about men? @ bf/gf Jaiye level, I can only laugh. ![]() ![]() If only you knew. |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by tosyne2much(m): 4:11pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
pocohantas:Do you know where you're actually getting it wrong? When someone says "control" or "submissiveness", what most of you think is that "So, I have to go on my knees while serving him food?; So, I have to ask for his permission before wearing my pants and bras?, So, he will cheat on me, beat me up and expect me to keep mum?" Oooooh yeah! That's where many of you get it wrong I can subject to my woman's leading especially on a subject she is more experienced or skilled at. In fact, often times, I seek the consent and opinions of my girlfriend before taking a step because I know she's highly intelligent and logical in reasoning. I want you to know that there's no reasonable man who just makes decisions without taking the opinions of his wife into consideration |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Donaldduke2019(m): 4:13pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
What manner of useless thread is this......All these girls saying they don't belong to the kitchen......if menopause hit una....lemme see if you won't start saying otherwise |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by tosyne2much(m): 4:13pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
lefulefu:Can you see the reason why most men don't ever want to wife such ladies? . They will always look for a way to twist things and turn them upside down ![]() Very arrogant set of people! |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 4:13pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
tosyne2much:Can you kneel down to serve food to your wife? |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by shaybebaby(f): 4:15pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
2buffagain:Why is it extreme? Answer my question. |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Boxer007(m): 4:15pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
Linux007: Men suck diks better. Men win |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by tosyne2much(m): 4:15pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
ZandhaZaraZ:Who be this one again? Hahahahaha ![]() ![]() Nothing wey person no go see for this thread ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by 2buffagain(m): 4:16pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
shaybebaby: I can understand a leader like Trump needing impeachment (abuse of power), but is that your mindset for every single time a leader doesn't do things YOUR WAY? Because by that very same logic, you yourself won't be able to lead a person like you! You wouldn't last in any leadership capacity in anything. Is your definition of "Abuse of power" = "Disagreeing with me"? You are just projecting your own inability to lead at men, which is why you've been hell-bent on this "I expect power to be abused by men 100%" mindset.. |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by shaybebaby(f): 4:20pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
2buffagain:Remember that leaders are there to serve the people. If you are not up to the task, you will be removed. Otherwise, why are you there? There are also laws that govern everyone without exemption. So it's not one rule for the leader, another for the masses. Same for male and female partnerships. Same rules/ choices for all. |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 4:20pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
2buffagain: You must be fucken kiddin me brov, couples going to strip clubs together...Hilarious...Little wonder why the world's going bananas, how would such hopeless degenerates raise up healthy children and instill sound values and principles in them? |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by shaybebaby(f): 4:22pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
supersystemsnig:Then men shouldn't go clubbing either. |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 4:22pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
tosyne2much:bro when i see a feminazi(feminist) i always run ![]() ![]() |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 4:23pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
shaybebaby: What's my biz with either gender clubbing...I'm talking about couples clubbing...Who attends to the needs of the kids? Tell me, helpmates? But at what expense? I could begin to break down reasons why clubbing destroys the " clubber ", but with you i wouldn't tow that line... ![]() Enjoy the white spirits... ![]() |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by 2buffagain(m): 4:23pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
supersystemsnig: I agree with you, such should be toned down after serious unions. But lemme level with you, there are more honest couples in a strip club than there are in church. I dey tell you. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by pocohantas(f): 4:23pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
tosyne2much: I have never mentioned kneeling to serve food, I don't know where you got that from. It's not my business how they serve food...so far they are both happy with the arrangement. Control means, rule, command, restrain. There are women who are okay with you reminding them you will control them, marry them. I respect a husband and his position as the head of the home, but I won't tolerate him telling me he will control me. We will control and respect each other. This is the kind of man I seek. Every organised set has a leader, be it office, religious or family. The day a leader comes out and starts telling his subordinates "I will control you", rather than saying "we are a team, but since we need a spokesperson...I am that person", there would be chaos. Dassall 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 4:26pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
2buffagain: In all my life, i can tell you i rather trust secular folks than church folks...I've resolved finding a chick who agrees with working with me out the church than in it...Plus, i need some wildness abeg...Church ladies, nah, i don't say hi to them... ![]() ![]() |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by shaybebaby(f): 4:26pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
2buffagain:There is the saying "absolute power corrupts". To prevent that, there is the need for checks and balances(independent) to curb this. In the society, we have laws. In corporations, we have external auditors, non executive board of directors who are not involved in the decision making(that is the responsibility of executive directors). We have professional bodies providing oversight to keep these people in check in their positions of power What is the equivalent for the power/leadership you say men should wield in marriages? |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by tosyne2much(m): 4:26pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
lefulefu:Egbon Lefulefu, na the men wey go carry them put for house I pity ooo ![]() Me sef dey always grab race the moment I don see any woman wey get "I don't take nonsense" attitude These are ladies that are always right in their own path, they want to be in control of relationships/ marriage whereby the man will oblige to anything they do |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by 2buffagain(m): 4:27pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
pocohantas: I twale for this babe. She gets it! |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 4:29pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
2buffagain: Well any man seeking to wield power over chics of this generation would barely last a year in marriage...I think the scales should be re-balanced...Compromise and tolerance... |
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