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Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Linux007(m): 4:29pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
lefulefu: Bro. I will borrow a leaf frm u. Just watch from a distance ![]() |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 4:29pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
tosyne2much: Them full around...That's the norm thesedays, what's left with their kinds is to grow beards and detach uncle's d*cks each time he's going out of the home.... ![]() |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 4:30pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
tosyne2much:its mostly efferminate men that date feminist.such men love being controlled ![]() |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 4:31pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
Linux007:wise choice ![]()
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Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by 2buffagain(m): 4:31pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
shaybebaby: My checker should be my wife, so long as she does it respectfully! There is this thing we do at my office called a one-on-one. You and your manager go for a stroll or something and give praises and feedback to each other on how they handled certain things and how they can both improve. To me, this is leadership. But to you, you hear the word leadership, and you think "Donald Trump". I think it's a reflection of the inner you. You need to deal with it, or you will frustrate the man God gives you. |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 4:31pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
lefulefu: It's not about men being controlled but wielding authority, sliding back so the wife can take the lead...With trust, most marriages do this one way or the other...Don't make it feel like it's about absolute control |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by shaybebaby(f): 4:31pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
supersystemsnig:Why should fun stop once you are married? Kids do one thing, they suck the passion out of the relationship. In fact, I recommend it to keep that reminder of who you both were before kids and responsibility. With everything else in life, moderation is key. 1 Like |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 4:33pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
2buffagain: Partnership Leadership .....Not clawing down the other party, but edifying and inspiring them to become better 1 Like |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 4:33pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
tosyne2much:What's funny? What makes you believe being male makes you inherently superior to females? Because of your penisss? Rubbish! I like playing with chauvinists---kicking their pile of nonsense around like a ball. Who is this one? Do you remember this thread: www.nairaland.com/3809392/ladies-10-ways-keep-peaceful ? Yeah, that's who he is. BlazingAyomikun: TOSYNE2MUCH, HOW DARE YOU ADVOCATE SLAVERY FOR WOMEN IN THE 21ST CENTURY? TELL ME, WHAT WOULD BE YOUR REACTION IF YOUR SISTER IS IN THE KIND OF RELATIONSHIP YOU JUST DESCRIBED? tosyne2much: BlazingAyomikun: Oh, really? Why didn't you answer the question? tosyne2much: BlazingAyomikun: I'm very sure you're refraining from giving a direct answer due to what it would mean for your thread. I'm quite certain you won't like to see your sister in that kind of relationship, yet you're advising other ladies to put up with such. WHY? Isn't that unfair? To put it less charitably, isn't that simply CRUEL? tosyne2much: BlazingAyomikun: I'm trying to expose you as an hypocrite - obviously you want one rule for others and another rule for your own. This fact makes nothing in your write-up worth considering. tosyne2much: 2 Likes |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by tosyne2much(m): 4:34pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
pocohantas:In your own mind, nothing positive can ever come out of control right? Thanks for making me understand that the word "control" has to do with selfishness, cruelty and self-centeredness. Anyway, I agree with you |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 4:34pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
shaybebaby: Fun starts after marriage, the problem is my fun-I.Q. I've never seen clubbing as fun, i pull better stunts in the company of my buddies in my back yard...I paint the whole street red...See, Shaye, i leave a hood, the whole hood feels it...That's me...I do this without clubbing...I can't see myself finding time between work and issues to train a genius doing that crap.. 1 Like |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by shaybebaby(f): 4:34pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
2buffagain:In as much as you give the same measure of respect. So now we back to equality. Do not dish what you cannot eat yourself. Both genders. And I mentioned Merkel amongst others for contrast on how this same leadership looks. |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by 2buffagain(m): 4:35pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
shaybebaby: This I agree with. So long as they trust and are doing it together mostly. |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 4:36pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
2buffagain: If both parents club till midnight, who instills moral principles in the kids? Baby sitter? |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by 2buffagain(m): 4:36pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
shaybebaby: That takes nothing away from the fact that these are still 2 different roles. One is still the manager. The relationship could just be full of so much trust that there is no micro-management needed. |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by tosyne2much(m): 4:36pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
supersystemsnig:Hahahahaha Lmao.. Abeg no use take kill me ooo ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by shaybebaby(f): 4:37pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
2buffagain:One common ground alas. If you can party with mates, how much more the person you share your bed with. |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 4:39pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
shaybebaby: I feel you...It's the norm in many societies..anyways nothing wrong in partying with a spouse..It's perfectly normal... |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by 2buffagain(m): 4:39pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
supersystemsnig: I personally won't be that parent, but I won't judge those who do. They could just as well go to a casino, A hotel lounge, whatever helps them remember that they are more than just their children's parents. This is something I feel Nigerian parents don't do enough of. And they exasperate the issue further by calling each other "Papa Emeka" and "Mama Dolapo" ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by pocohantas(f): 4:39pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
tosyne2much: If being controlling is so much fun, the fight for control won't be one sided. You, Tosyne, would be very open to being controlled by your wife. You can keep generating words to soothe yourself, I made no mention of the coloured. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 4:39pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
tosyne2much: Wife's that will give hubby money to execute a project, when he returns, they stretch hand say where change...You never hear of them ? |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by shaybebaby(f): 4:40pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
2buffagain:Both requires mutual respect and roles do overlap, depends on the task/industry. Not withstanding, the manager cannot do as he pleases either. But in appointing managers, experience, and technical ability is part of the criteria. Not gender. So tell me, what qualifies a man to always be the leader that a woman does not/cannot possess? |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 4:42pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
2buffagain: The modern society lacks healthy people..WHY ?Absentee parents....If any engagement distrubs family life, then however good, some checks needs to be put in place...While i don't see too much issues with having fun inside marriages, it's of little significance in the long run compared with the benefits of parenting. |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by shaybebaby(f): 4:42pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
supersystemsnig:Normal for those who enjoy it. The point is shared activities/shared interests. |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by 2buffagain(m): 4:42pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
shaybebaby: Buy the ring (and there better be a giant rock on it), get on your damn knees, Propose to the man, pay for wedding, bride (abi groom) price, lists, etc. Then from there we can even start to talk about that. Till then, you are not ready! 1 Like |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 4:43pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
shaybebaby: Go baby, I wanna hear the reply to this.....So tell me, what qualifies a man to always be the leader that a woman does not/cannot possess? |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 4:43pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
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Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by tosyne2much(m): 4:45pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
ZandhaZaraZ:Just tell me that you're an hater because it's funny how someone will come from nowhere making reference to an erroneous article I published. Of course, I once wrote an article titled "10 Ways To Keep A Peaceful Relationship With Broke Guys", so what has that got to do with this thread for christ's sake? What correlation does that thread have to do with being a chauvinist if not that you're just trying to score a cheap point ![]() Abeg no I get time to dey reply you jawe |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by shaybebaby(f): 4:48pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
2buffagain:To summarise, a man is the leader because he proposes, pays for the wedding (even though, a lot of times the brides parents pay for it, sometimes even the couples themselves), buys the ring. LMAO. Girls, you heard it. Do all this and voila! You are fit to lead. |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by shaybebaby(f): 4:49pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
supersystemsnig:Propose, buy ring, pay bride price, buy aso ebi etc ![]() ![]() |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by tosyne2much(m): 4:50pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
pocohantas:Well, our culture frown upon men being controlled by their wives. Culturally and ideally, it's supposed to be the other way round So, no man will ever admit being controlled by the wife |
Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Nobody: 4:51pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
tosyne2much:Hater? You're one emotional dude. You had to view it through that prism. The fück is that? You asked who be this one in an irritating manner, and I chose to tell you who it was in the way I DEEM FIT, without any regards for you. Aren't cool with that? No one fücking cares. Get with the program mate. |
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