2buffagain:


See this is what we say when we mean that a woman can get anything she wants from her man, so long as she realizes her strengths and uses it.
Ukwu na strength o. That ish has crumbled empires

Now imagine if she used that to playfully/softly sway her hubby instead of beating her chest at him and acting like an untamed gorilla.

supersystemsnig:



Lol no make me laff, that's not feminist brov, that's a stupid woman...There's joy in marriage o...Those ones know no joy

ZandhaZaraZ:
Methinks the very concept of a "Head" is pointless and meaningless. Leaders in the office bark out orders at their surbodinates. You can't question them. They CONTROL you. They boss you around. They're indeed the Head. And traditionally, this is how the family is structured---as per patriarchy. The husband is the HEAD. He has the FINAL SAY. His wife can make suggestions but can't question his decisions. In fact, the Bible made it clear that the husband is the head of the home "THE SAME WAY CHRIST IS THE HEAD OF THE CHURCH".

So, the moment you ditch tradition and patriarchy and choose to go with equality, there's no "head". As long as he can't control you, there can be no head. Since he has no AUTHORITY over you, "Head" is a meaningless word.

I know these guys are trying to blackmail you ladies into EXPLICITLY making assertions that will make them capable of calling you rebellious wives and all that, just to blackmail you emotionally, but you shouldn't care anymore.

These guys need to stop seeing marriage as a Father-Daughter or Master-Slave relationship. That system is collapsing, and very soon, it will no longer obtain in this dispensation.

The very fact that you even have to AGREE with your husband, and give him the go ahead to be the "spokeperson" proves that he's not the "Head", since it is something you BOTH agreed on, and you can change it anytime. He's not unquestionable. And will not always have the final say---abi, what if he's saying harmful nonsense?

lefulefu:
haha dat one na different matter.anyway most feminist no dey carry back.dem dey look like a bro with all their muscles and masculine voice.

lefulefu:
na some of d marriage wey i dey see for here be dat.only a strong feminist woman can have sex with her boyfriend in the bedroom while she orders her husband to prepare dinner for both she and her lover.u think ordinary woman fit do dat kind tin?

Cuteamigo1:
I wish there were feminist in the animal kingdom. This just reminded of a pride of lions. Let the liones try equating herself to the lion and not accord him his due respect. He will just kill her and probably kill her cubs to just to make a statement. runs out of the thread b4 bitter bitches come for ma head.

supersystemsnig:


1. Humility

2. Gentleness

3. Faithfullness

4.Loyalty

5. Good Natured

6. Polite

7. Calm

8. Smart

9. Intelligent

10. Not prOne to anger


A wise woman, chai..she's more difficult to find than crude oil upstairs....

shaybebaby:

@first bolded- abuser. Doesn't matter the gender. Should be done for emotional and physical abuse.

@second bolded- cuckold. Each to their sexual kinks as long as all parties involved are deemed legally capable of consent.

None of the above equates feminism.

Cuteamigo1:
I wish there were feminist in the animal kingdom. This just reminded of a pride of lions. Let the liones try equating herself to the lion and not accord him his due respect. He will just kill her and probably kill her cubs to just to make a statement. runs out of the thread b4 bitter bitches come for ma head.

shaybebaby:

That's not true. Visit the family section and see hot feminists who are married. Cococandy come to mind. Sorry girl for using you as for bragging rights.

lefulefu:
cuckhold and feminism are related na.cuckhold actually originated from feminism.it celebrates the sexual power of the woman while at d same time it makes the man or husband looks inadequate.cuckhold ooo,dominatrix ooo all of dem come from feminism.all these are the various branches of feminism.

shaybebaby:

10 qualities that characterises a wise man please.

supersystemsnig:


Well, that's me... find a lady o.. i'm ready

supersystemsnig:


1. Humility

2. Gentleness

3. Faithfullness

4.Loyalty

5. Good Natured

6. Polite

7. Calm

8. Smart

9. Intelligent

10. Not prOne to anger


A wise woman, chai..she's more difficult to find than crude oil upstairs....

My brother, if a woman possesses these 10 traits, men will spend their last kobo to get such a lady. The only clause there is that ladies like that are usually not beautiful

You won't believe I have only been privileged to come across just ONE lady that possesses these 10 traits

ZandhaZaraZ:
Methinks the very concept of a "Head" is pointless and meaningless. Leaders in the office bark out orders at their surbodinates. You can't question them. They CONTROL you. They boss you around. They're indeed the Head. And traditionally, this is how the family is structured---as per patriarchy. The husband is the HEAD. He has the FINAL SAY. His wife can make suggestions but can't question his decisions. In fact, the Bible made it clear that the husband is the head of the home "THE SAME WAY CHRIST IS THE HEAD OF THE CHURCH".

So, the moment you ditch tradition and patriarchy and choose to go with equality, there's no "head". As long as he can't control you, there can be no head. Since he has no AUTHORITY over you, "Head" is a meaningless word.

I know these guys are trying to blackmail you ladies into EXPLICITLY making assertions that will make them capable of calling you rebellious wives and all that, just to blackmail you emotionally, but you shouldn't care anymore.

These guys need to stop seeing marriage as a Father-Daughter or Master-Slave relationship. That system is collapsing, and very soon, it will no longer obtain in this dispensation.

The very fact that you even have to AGREE with your husband, and give him the go ahead to be the "spokeperson" proves that he's not the "Head", since it is something you BOTH agreed on, and you can change it anytime. He's not unquestionable. And will not always have the final say---abi, what if he's saying harmful nonsense?

shaybebaby:

I'm asking for a list. You just listed out the wise woman requirement. Please do the same for you menfolk.

tosyne2much:
My brother, if a woman possesses these 10 traits, men will spend their last kobo to get such a lady. The only clause there is that ladies like that are usually not beautiful

You won't believe I have only been privileged to come across just ONE lady that possesses these 10 traits

shaybebaby:

That's not true. Visit the family section and see hot feminists who are married. Cococandy come to mind. Sorry girl for using you as for bragging rights.

shaybebaby:

Lion that without the lioness, will starve to death.

ZandhaZaraZ:
Thank the heavens what obtains in the JUNGLE is an abomination in CIVILIZATIONS. There's a reason why one is called ANIMAL KINGDOM, and the other HUMAN SOCIETY.

pocohantas:


I believe there should be a head in any setting. It could be the man or the woman...

Not every leader in the office barks out orders, mine doesn't. A leader is first a team mate, before being a leader.

supersystemsnig:


I met one with all ten traits o...It's after i lost her i started counting the loss...


And true, many of them aren't beautiful, pretty is important oh.. Let's pray not to lose good materials before counting the loss,goes to both gender

I can assure you that when you lose such a lady, you will never recover from the loss. Even if you will, it will take years

supersystemsnig:


Well, for the men


1. Well nurtured

2.Can take decisions independently

3. Can take heat without bailing

4. Not an absentee father, must respect family and work time demands

5. Intelligent and hard working

6. A Mr. Capable

7. Hustler

8. Brilliant, responsible and presentable

9. Creative and Imaginative, can think outside the box

10. Flexible to trust his partner and uphold her interests in decision making

supersystemsnig:


God save this generation oh...The ladies are out in full force...

shaybebaby:

What's wrong with using her brains? Do you advocate using your dick to get what you want?

Cuteamigo1:

Exactly but still she submit to him. Thats the point am trying to make

shaybebaby:

Let me summarise some of them because you are repeating stuff.
1,2,3,4= responsible. That's one point.
5,8=intelligent
7,9=problem solver
10=collaborative

4 points in total. 6 to go.
Now why can't both list be embodied in both genders?

tosyne2much:
.

Does that mean the whole idea of feminism is that ladies also want to proudly sleep around just as some men do without being castigated ?

lefulefu:
this is why i say run when u see a feminist having an interest in u..if u marry her u will Turn to complete houseboy and na u go dey wash her pants and bra 24/7 .God help u if ur feminist wife get all those mama basiratu big yansh cos if she has na dose big big extralarge pants u go dey wash everyday.imagine washing ten big big smelly pants in a day.ur hand go turn all raw due to d acid emitting on it.

lefulefu:
eh i agree cococandy is fine.so she be feminist too? and my friend jakendeola be crushing on her.anyway d few feminist i see around around where i reside are always built like boxers or weight lifters and d men wey dem dey marry dem always dey fat and huge pass the men.i dont know why sha.

pocohantas:


I believe there should be a head in any setting. It could be the man or the woman...

Not every leader in the office barks out orders, mine doesn't. A leader is first a team mate, before being a leader.

tosyne2much:
I can assure you that when you lose such a lady, you will never recover from the loss. Even if you will, it will take years