tosyne2much:
I dey tell you.. They are usually envious of gold diggers, divorced women and women with questions characters. They are never envious of women that are happily married

I know what I'm saying bro

RaggedyAnn:
Actually, feminists aren't trying to persuade the world that women are powerless. Because we are not. They're saying that women are repressed by societal norms. They are trying to get the world to recognize and accept (and not be afraid of or intimidated by) the strengths and capabilities of a woman in all its forms. For centuries, a woman would only show her influence by influencing a man (who is the ultimate shot-caller). Feminists say women can be shot-callers as well. It's not about who does what, but about what's being done.

If a woman's only access to power and influence is through a man, then men have made themselves indispensable to women. And when they are indispensable, then they have all the bargaining power; they can disrespect women and treat them shabbily and get away with it. When men are indispensable to women, they can set standards that women have to conform to if they want to be taken off the shelf. Feminist try to give women independent legitimate identity, sense of worth, and societal relevance. To rule independently, and not indirectly.

It is still largely a male-centric world (Especially in third world regions), where a woman needs to swallow herself and perch on a man's shoulder to matter. But things are changing. Today is better than yesterday.

Who rules? No generalizations can be made, and it really should be a matter of substance and not gender.

supersystemsnig:



And they give all sort of devilish counsel to ladies with potentials so they'll keep them in their demonic caucuses... May heaven deliver us, and give us grace to meet our partners and appreciate them when in love, and not count the losses after losing them.

In addition, they are quick to advise their fellow women to file for divorce for any little thing talking about how Tonto Dike is enjoying her life as a single mother.. Soro niyen?

I say Amen to your prayer bro

tosyne2much:
In addition, they are quick to advise to their fellow women to file for divorce for any little thing talking about how Tonto Dike is enjoying her life as a single mother.. Soro niyen?

I say Amen to your prayer bro

supersystemsnig:
Tosyne2much, chai what do we do to our sisters to trust and marry us oh Brov...All these feminist are snatching the minds of our ladies

It's not really their fault bro.

I really feel their pains because most of them have passed through many difficulties that make relationship nauseate them.

A lady in a happy relationship with her man will never have problem submitting or humbling herself to her man

tosyne2much:
It's not really their fault bro.

I really feel their pains because most of them have passed through many difficulties that make relationship nauseate them.

A lady is in a happy relationship with her man will never have problem submitting or humbling herself to her man

RaggedyAnn:
Actually, feminists aren't trying to persuade the world that women are powerless. Because we are not. They're saying that women are repressed by societal norms. They are trying to get the world to recognize and accept (and not be afraid of or intimidated by) the strengths and capabilities of a woman in all its forms. For centuries, a woman would only show her influence by influencing a man (who is the ultimate shot-caller). Feminists say women can be shot-callers as well. It's not about who does what, but about what's being done.

If a woman's only access to power and influence is through a man, then men have made themselves indispensable to women. And when they are indispensable, then they have all the bargaining power; they can disrespect women and treat them shabbily and get away with it. When men are indispensable to women, they can set standards that women have to conform to if they want to be taken off the shelf. Feminist try to give women independent legitimate identity, sense of worth, and societal relevance. To rule independently, and not indirectly.

It is still largely a male-centric world (Especially in third world regions), where a woman needs to swallow herself and perch on a man's shoulder to matter. But things are changing. Today is better than yesterday.

Who rules? No generalizations can be made, and it really should be a matter of substance and not gender.

shaybebaby:
So headship no longer matters when it comes to stomach affairs?

Daeylar:




Exactly
They love to say the nonsense that men rule but so called smart women who can please their husbands have the real power and indirectly rule since they can control their men. Then they bring in their submissive bs to round it up.
Why do women have to please their husbands to rule?
Why do women have to please men to rule?

Even if the woman is better qualified she still has to please or go through the man to be heard, and they say it as if we should be happy and extremely grateful we have that. As if it's an achievement.
Mtchewwwwwwww

But the man is the head, uncontested, even if he can't do jack, he is still the head and the woman has to go through him to be heard.

These people ehn



Let me repeat what I said,

NO ONE RULES, THEY ARE EQUAL.

shaybebaby:

So headship no longer matters when it comes to stomach affairs?

supersystemsnig:



Tosyne, plz i'm kneeling down, brov, is humility or submissiveness too much to ask ? Is it?

lefulefu:
wich consent? . When the lady is probably feeding the man and clothing him.all those our naija brothers overseas married to to grannie oyibo women do u think they have any say in such relationship?.

cococandy:
Wow. Following
Couldn't have said it better

tosyne2much:
Humility and submissiveness is never too much to demand from a woman.

Only those who don't have those traits feel you're demanding too much

2buffagain:


You made a direct inference that you'd rather have sex with a Love Machine than with your man if in the middle of a petty argument.

Lalas247:

One man has over a million seeds sooooo
Adam was enough

supersystemsnig:



Ok we agree now, will you sisters marry us now?

RaggedyAnn:




, okay, that was below the belt.

supersystemsnig:



Ok we agree now, will you sisters marry us now?

iamJ:

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shaybebaby:

But in the same animal kingdom, it is male emperor penguins that incubate their eggs. Does that make them something else?

Cuteamigo1:
and also in the hyena kingdom females lead but the point is in most scenarious even in the animal kingdom males are leaders by placement and once you contest against thier dominance you better start preparing for your funeral becuse the same way some women feel men should not dominate them is the same way many men feel the must be submited to so its left for both parties to select wisely and avoid stories that touch.

shaybebaby:

Respect is earned and it goes both ways.
Relationships- Partner work in tandem, it is not an advert for whom to lead the woman. More like a joining of forces.

Even in the workplace that you guys are fond of using as illustration, the modern organisation is leaning towards a flatter organisational structure with more decentralisation-why?

It is more efficient letting people play to their strengths and make make decisions without having to report to a figure of authority. People's output are measured against predetermined organisational objectives.

Anyways, are you lot even capable of leading amongst your fellow men?

I'd say the answer is No!

Cuteamigo1:
and also in the hyena kingdom females lead but the point is in most scenarious even in the animal kingdom males are leaders by placement and once you contest against thier dominance you better start preparing for your funeral becuse the same way some women feel men should not dominate them is the same way many men feel the must be submited to so its left for both parties to select wisely and avoid stories that touch.

superNOVA1995:
what respect is there to earned probably this is a guy who doesn't maltreat his lady and who adores is lady so I don't get what form of respect are u talking about or should the start lying on the floor to his lady I really don't get kind of respect ur talking about

shaybebaby:

The same kind of respect you demand.

superNOVA1995:
Definitely the guy respects oh I got ya so you expect the man to not be the the man that he is suppose to be probably want to take the role of the man if dats the case u have to start marrying your fellow females a man is a man and there is nothing u can do about it maybe u are looking for the kind of man that wouldn't be able to take responsibility wen the need arises and man that wouldn't be able to lead and maybe a man that doesn't have any form of self esteem in him and also scared to talk to his lady

supersystemsnig:




Oshare, tell them !

LordKO:
S/he who hold peace between the two rules, and this is definitely what women are known for. A sane, sound and responsible woman will always rule her man, she's always in charge. Power doesn't belong to s/he who superficially exercise control, but to the one that is charge. One in charge is rarely seen but is always heard.

The power rule in any form of relationship or association is the same. Examples; In politics, diplomats are seen but not heard, while politicians aren't seen but heard - in this regard the former do serve the latter. In a healthy romantic relationship/marriage, a man is seen but not heard, and a woman is not seen but heard - so automatically the woman rule the man.