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Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by Nobody: 10:57pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
Lloydfolarin:Is that your mother's name?. 7 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by mideactive: 10:59pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
Melodyz: The truth is in as much as u wish to help her,u cannot help her.but tell her the truth,it's not wise for a woman to move from one man to another,tell her to think about her kids n d kind of life she wants for them.it's hard to be a woman,but it's far much harder to be a wife n a mother.tell her may be it will sink. |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by Nobody: 11:01pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
Freeman59:Well, I needn't ask 'cause the op stated that the sister once told him that she could count how many times he had given her money while they've been married. If he was jobless, the op would've stated that. To me, the man is irresponsible. How does one pick a wife and father kids if they're financially incapacitated?. 5 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by AreaFada2: 11:01pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
kennygee: When she has another man already? Why not just divorce? Adultery is a good reason for divorce. The lady seems to attract irresponsible men. First the wimp that allowed his family to ruin his marriage, then the kaikai chimney that cannot hustle for his family. Seems like birds of a feather matter. The woman should look at herself and her life choices carefully. 5 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by Elvis506(m): 11:01pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
Skmoda360:boss saying your mind is certain but include what the lady is seeking for...by the way you don say your mind? lol |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by Nobody: 11:05pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
komododragons:That's what so many do oh. |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by gbagyiza: 11:05pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
Benita27: Don't jump into conclusion by blaming d husband...Marriage has it own challenges, I guess you r not married yet to know this..from d story it implies that d husband was providing before he lost his source of income , it could be his job, because with her attitude she could not have married him initially if he can't provide for his family. She married him n they gave birth to two kids , so now that his source of income is no more, she left him.…she could have continue supporting him n keep on motivating n encouraging him to look for something to do but she left when d money left.…that is woman for you. |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by chiraqDemon(m): 11:06pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
Let her end the marriage the right way. Marriage is not by force, it's like the man sef is now a minus to her life. |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by Whoeppme(m): 11:09pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
WOMAN JUST GO AHEAD AND HAVE MORE KIDS FOR THE NEW GUY IN QUESTION OBVIOUSLY ALL YOU DO VERY WELL IS GIVE MEN KIDS..... 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by Purpletee(f): 11:09pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
NwaAmaikpe: Never knew you could be speechless |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by EmekaBlue(m): 11:10pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
money makes d world go round |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by Nobody: 11:11pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
Melodyz: then why did u bring the case here? your sister and her husband are separated, u have that understanding. her husband is not romantically involved with her anymore, your sister has moved on. it's none of your business, it's your sisters house, she pays the bills, you're a guest. dont ask her stupid questions. she's not a child. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by MASTERCC: 11:13pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
Your sis is a slay mama.not even ashamed of herself...from first marriage to second and about third. From kids she love money and that's her only fault. Tell her that all that is glitters are not gold to avoid hiv |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by komododragons: 11:14pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
elfmann:I'm telling you! that's their normal day to day job! |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by Freeman59: 11:18pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
Benita27: Well to me the woman is more irresponsible. She disregards the well being of her children just for the pleasure of sex. Shame on her. You should shame her to if you are not biased |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by Nobody: 11:20pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
komododragons: dude, you're so uncouth. have some respect and stop talking like a tout, it's not edgy, you're embarrassing yourself. all your sisters have nigerian pussy, you were pushed into this world by a nigerian vagina, respect your mother's public part and speak about women with some respect! u were not raised by a goat. 14 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by Originalsly: 11:22pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
First off.... I wouldn't swallow her story....sounds to me like a cover story. As I see it.... the husband was getting in the way of her relationship with ehmmm... the other guy. That guy been in the shadows all along... and may be the main reason she moved out in the first place.... the reason she sent her son to live with the father... and she will soon send the other child. That shadow guy has her head in a spin.... you being present wouldn't even make her put things under wraps...she just doesn't care Whatever you tell her...would enter one ear and out the other...but you can go ahead and warn her just to console yourself that you at least warned her.Don't ever expect to hear anything good about husband #2...and please. .. find somewhere else to stay as soon as possible before she turns on you. |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by Boyooosa(m): 11:28pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
I think ur inability to write cohensively denied me the privilege to understand you n your sister's challenges but with the little I can extrapolate from your shattered expression, she is enjoying the parasitic life she is living, so, leave her, let her ways judge her so that she can be submissive to ur advice when the need arises. Mind you, advice is best appreciated when its desperately solicited for. Her life, your life needs better attention in the area of cohesion. |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by sholajigga(m): 11:34pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
Freeman59: The bottom line is, these women don’t know it’s not easy being a man. |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by sholajigga(m): 11:35pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
Lloydfolarin: Sweet Jesus! |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by Nobody: 11:35pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
Freeman59:Read through before making comments based on sentiment. The op stated that she pays rents, schools fees, and feeding while she's been married to her husband. Does that look like a lady who isn't concerned for the being of her kids?. Sending her son to live with the father since he wasn't sending anything for their wellbeing was a good move 'cause it would make him rise to the occasion and face his responsibility but unfortunately, it wasn't yielding that result. I think the lady is responsible but she made a mistake of not divorcing her husband before dating. 5 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by GratefulHeart23(f): 11:36pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
What's your business with how your sister choose to live her life? Have you helped her out financially yourself? Is it easy raising a child alone let alone two for a recklessly irresponsible man? You can only advise her not to have more children. It's obvious the marriage died a natural death a long time ago and the two parties involved have moved on. What gives you the assurance the man is not with some other women? Mind your business please. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by naughtyDiana: 11:36pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
Melodyz:please stop using the word "via". you don't know what it means and you are using it wrongly.you could have just used " about", instead of via. pls, let me via out of this thread |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by Nobody: 11:36pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
Lloydfolarin:Painment. |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by trendyprettygir: 11:36pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
Melodyz: I think your sister is a bit harsh sending her own son back to stay with her husband even when she knows he has no money. What’s even worse she refused buying textbooks for her son? That’s very deep. Why would a woman not take care of her own kids whether husband has money or not? Your sister is getting very far, bring her back before it gets late. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by pweetiedee(m): 11:37pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
TreasuredLeidy: Hanty, I don't understand you. Please what should she do to make him change or save her marriage. Tell me, so that I can advice anyone I find in her situation. thanks in advance. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by komododragons: 11:39pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
selflessmaya:do you have a sense at all women don't respect themselves so I should respect women even the goat should be highly be respected than the so called women we have who can open their yansh for Africa! so piss off 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by ollybosieb: 11:39pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
Your sister is not cheating on her husband they're separated. Advice your sister to take the son back from him and face the responsibility alone and let her know you'll support her decision but she needs to be careful with the type of men she dates. 7 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by Freeman59: 11:40pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
Benita27: Benita your bias is too obvious. Anyways everyone with their own opinions... |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by pweetiedee(m): 11:43pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
Melodyz: What your sister's husband needs is a brain reset. If he can't get that, your sister needs a divorce. and she should go and take her son back. its a pity she would end uonneing a single.mum. She shouldn't have dumped her son with his father who is not responsible. The children's future matters, they need education. The husband should start acting like a responsible man. (that's if he has a job) But if he doesn't av a job, the wife should have endured....and the husband should also try do something so as to assist. Its not easy to carry the burden alone o. And you, you're just being a man, you're indirectly supporting your sister's husband. cos if you are not, you won't even open this thread in the first place. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by Nobody: 11:44pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
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