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Help Needed Urgently(nairaland Ladies Only) by kingjooo(m): 8:08pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Please to the ladies i need help urgently,i got married to my wife last three months and since then uptil these moment she has not been able to conceive and it's really getting me worried.I have tried to track her ovulation period bt all to no avail because her circle has been irregular?pls what do i do? She has started menstruating today 25/10/2017 pls forgive my typin skills and help me. |
Re: Help Needed Urgently(nairaland Ladies Only) by Peachess(f): 8:14pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Doesn't she know how to calculate? Different people have different menstrual circle. The most common time for ovulation is around 12-14 days after period, but some people have it before or after it depends on the person's circle. From what I was taught, tell her to watch out for signs like: slight pain in the abdomen, cervical mucus (when it's clear, slippery and stretchy), breast tenderness and sensitivity, increased libido. And there are some I can't remember anymore. Better still, see a fertility doctor. 2 Likes |
Re: Help Needed Urgently(nairaland Ladies Only) by ogbright: 8:21pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
My dear I understand you are anxiouse and cant wait to be a father, but I think its rather too early to start complain about childlessness. you and your wife should visit the hospital for check up, eat good food, relax and be happy. baby will come at the right time. 7 Likes |
Re: Help Needed Urgently(nairaland Ladies Only) by madridguy(m): 8:22pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Just 3 months and you're running from pillar to post ![]() ![]() 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help Needed Urgently(nairaland Ladies Only) by Ishilove: 8:24pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
kingjooo:Oh God, a whole 3 months??! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I feel for you. My heart bleeds ![]() May the God who answered these childless couples answer you today! Amen!! https://www.nairaland.com/2092870/meet-nigerian-woman-married-43 https://www.nairaland.com/3737494/nigerian-couple-welcome-baby-after https://www.nairaland.com/3809686/nigerian-woman-gives-birth-6 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed Urgently(nairaland Ladies Only) by Klimaths: 8:40pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
kingjooo:this goes to show why you got married at the first place, it was all to make babies, you are a typical example of men who will make babies outside their matrimonial home, just because your wife can't give birth. 3 months is just too soon for you to be bring your wife issue to the public. 4 Likes |
Re: Help Needed Urgently(nairaland Ladies Only) by onlyhandsome202: 8:57pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
kingjooo: read this info carefully. TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN GOOD LUCK! Most girls don't understand this because of much heavy grammar used to teach it, and we don't listen to our body too. I read, I started listening to my body for signs and I arrived at the simple analysis/steps........ MENSTRUAL PERIOD:The time blood flows out of your private area, when you use pad. MENSTRUAL CYCLE: Days it takes to see another blood in the month. If you last saw your period in June 11th and it started again on July 10th 2017, then you have 30days cycle (count from 11 June to 10 July). NOTE: It is erroneous to believe its 28days cycle, different women have different cycles ranging from 21-35 days. OVULATION PERIOD: This is time to get pregnant without stress. This is 2 weeks after your period or 2 weeks before the next period. Here's a simple way to calculate your ovulation (unsafe) period. 1. From the first day you see the blood of your period. 2. Pick up a calendar and count 15 days including the first day of the blood stain. 3. Mark the 15th day with a pen. 4. Mark 3 days before the 15th day, and mark 3 days after the 15th day. 6. You will notice you have 7 days marked. These 7 days are your ovulation/fertile days also known as unsafe period. That is if you have sex on any of these days, then you have 98% chances of being pregnant. 7. Do this every month diligently EVERY OTHER DAY IS YOUR SAFE PERIOD. For example: 1. If your period is 11th July, 2017, 2. 15 days after the first day of the blood stain will be on 25th of this July too (2weeks after) counting from 11th. 3. 15th day is on the 25th July 2017. 4. 3days before the 15th day is 22, 23, 24. 5. 3days after 25th July 2017 is 26,27,28. 6. 22-28th July (7days) is when you are ovulating. It is your fertile period. **Don't forget that the 7 days is a reminder that sperm stays in the female body for about 7 days. Any sexual contact in between ovulation period will form something that has ears, eyes, etc. ALSO...... If you want a baby girl, have sex between 3 days before ovulation (22- 24th) 2017. For a baby boy on the main ovulation day and 3 days after 25th. ........... MAJOR SIGNS THAT YOUR OVULATION HAS BEGAN... You don't need a doctor, just relax. After 2 weeks you may feel the following: 1. Headache. 2. High body temperature. 3. Dizziness (feeling of tiredness and sleepiness). 4. Breast tenderness/ size increases just like when you are menstruating. 5. Increased sex drive. 6. Light cramps or pain on one side of the pelvis. 7. Abdominal bloating. 8. Heightened sense of smell, taste or vision (you eat more). 9. Vagina mucus becomes slippery (if you notice, put it in between fingers...it stretches like thick catarrh or snail mucus...colorless like egg white. ........... N/B: The instance here is for ladies with 30 days cycle. And someone who saw her period in July 2017. If yours is 28, then it's 14 days and not 15 days. ** If you have headache without a cause, check back to when your period started. You can drink both malt and peak milk....don't run to the pharmacist always on issues that can be naturally handled, because drugs are not always good on girls. Or you can take only paracetamol. MEN, read and educate your wives and sisters, most don't know this. 10 Likes |
Re: Help Needed Urgently(nairaland Ladies Only) by Mintayo(m): 9:22pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Three months and you are panicking already? You better keep calm and enjoy you marriage and home. Pregnancy will come while you are both at it. Worry alone can make things worse. 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed Urgently(nairaland Ladies Only) by Mintayo(m): 9:24pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
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Re: Help Needed Urgently(nairaland Ladies Only) by sisisioge: 9:46pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Hian! Oga Biko take am easy. Medically, a normal couple has a whole year to actively baby dance before crying foul if baby doesn't appear. Three months is a short time daddy. In fact, no doctor will pay you any attention yet. However, if you really want to increase your chances, both of you should embrace healthy living- food, exercise and lifestyle. You could also Google ovulation calculator online(in case you haven't been getting it right) and try to plan the Do well. All in all, relax...you babies will come in torrents. Try to enjoy each other as much as possible before they start showing their pretty faces ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Help Needed Urgently(nairaland Ladies Only) by Rubbiish(m): 9:54pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
madridguy:My brother the thing tire me ooo If this one con reach six years nko...him go hang himself...lol 2 Likes |
Re: Help Needed Urgently(nairaland Ladies Only) by madridguy(m): 10:12pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Even a year he will cut the wife head. Rubbiish: 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed Urgently(nairaland Ladies Only) by JeffreyJamez(m): 11:06pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Just 3 months? ![]() Bruuuuuuuuuuuuuhhhh take a sit please!!
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Re: Help Needed Urgently(nairaland Ladies Only) by kingjooo(m): 5:26am On Oct 26, 2017 |
Pls guys don't blame me,she confess 2 me after our marriage that she has done abortion before for her ex. |
Re: Help Needed Urgently(nairaland Ladies Only) by LadySarah: 12:14pm On Oct 26, 2017 |
kingjooo: Relax,the babies will come.make love with the aim of satisfying yourselves and not of making babies.you wont even know when it will enter,besides her body is getting used to your sperm and for some it little time. Happy married and pls remove what she told you from your mind. 3 Likes |
Re: Help Needed Urgently(nairaland Ladies Only) by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:28pm On Oct 26, 2017 |
with such state of mind, no wonder you will never get your wife pregnant....see how this small issue is bothering you. what about enjoying life as a married couple? what about caring and cherish that person, and making sure she is comfortable around you. no wonder she cant conceive when there is a man who is hell bent on getting her pregnant, by fire or by force! 2 Likes |
Re: Help Needed Urgently(nairaland Ladies Only) by greatcheer(f): 1:46pm On Oct 26, 2017 |
Please type ovulation calculator on google and use it to track your wife's ovulation. We r in digital age now every thing has become easy online
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Re: Help Needed Urgently(nairaland Ladies Only) by JimloveTM(m): 9:14pm On Oct 26, 2017 |
kingjooo: Best reply here by onlyhandsome202 >> https://www.nairaland.com/4138554/needed-urgently-nairaland-ladies-only#61769967 Just know your wife most fertile days there's no big deal to it. U guys havent been timing it well I guess |
Re: Help Needed Urgently(nairaland Ladies Only) by 701ecilana: 9:25am On Oct 27, 2017 |
Ishilove:How old is he shd be the question. Why marry when one is too young to handle life. God i pity his wife. If in one year she doesn't have a baby this boy will leave. 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed Urgently(nairaland Ladies Only) by 701ecilana: 9:29am On Oct 27, 2017 |
kingjooo:No vex o, But, are you sure you can get a woman pregnant? In all your gallivanting years, has any girl ever come to you saying, 'I have missed my period?, and are you 100% sure you got her pregnant? How many times have you sponsored an abortion? Do you know why i'm asking you this? It's because you seem like some boy who will give that innocent girl serious heat while you could be the problem. Check yourself. 2 Likes |
Re: Help Needed Urgently(nairaland Ladies Only) by Talkwell: 10:03am On Oct 27, 2017 |
LadySarah: He should remove it? The lady clearly deceived him cos she desperately wanted to get married. 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed Urgently(nairaland Ladies Only) by prestigiouslady: 11:00am On Oct 27, 2017 |
701ecilana: Nice one.... the no one reason for marriage should be companionship.... but the OP is worried after 3months....give your wife breathing space abeg.. You sound to me like a man who will go outside to test his fertility if the wife doesn't conceive on time. Your wife told you she aborted cos she trusted you, now you want to use it against her?? little wonder some ladies will carry secrets like abortion to.the grave.. Love your wife, make love because you want each other,because you adore and cherish her body no bang because you want kids...if you put too much pressure on her,believe me babies won't come 2 Likes |
Re: Help Needed Urgently(nairaland Ladies Only) by Nobody: 11:36am On Oct 27, 2017 |
Only 3 months and you are shaking like a Jellyfish? ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Help Needed Urgently(nairaland Ladies Only) by LadySarah: 11:43am On Oct 27, 2017 |
Talkwell: sorryooo,i didnt know i didnt talk well.pls let them divorce so everybody can go their ways.thanks 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed Urgently(nairaland Ladies Only) by NairalandSARS: 11:51am On Oct 27, 2017 |
So you don dey fuck_ abi? |
Re: Help Needed Urgently(nairaland Ladies Only) by Ishilove: 1:31pm On Oct 27, 2017 |
701ecilana:I year sef is too long |
Re: Help Needed Urgently(nairaland Ladies Only) by Nobody: 7:23am On Nov 03, 2017 |
kingjooo:it's just 3 months man, pls chill. Ugh! |
Re: Help Needed Urgently(nairaland Ladies Only) by Acidosis(m): 8:05am On Nov 03, 2017 |
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Re: Help Needed Urgently(nairaland Ladies Only) by ImaIma1(f): 8:58am On Nov 03, 2017 |
Three months wow! That is such a long time! You should take her to the river for prayers. |
Re: Help Needed Urgently(nairaland Ladies Only) by nams77: 1:13pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
Bros cool down. 3 months is relatively too short a time to start getting worried I know their is this gnawing feeling at the corner of your heart telling you something is wrong but a couple can only start to refer to the infertility cloak after one year. Talk to a Gynaecologist in a general hospital.he will place your wife under certain examination/test Hormonal assay( 4 or 5 channel) Occluded (blocked) fallopian tubes Endometriosis Inability to ovulate High prolactin Pcos(polycystic ovarian cyst) While you should go for Semen analysis ( first stage) Results from all this can pinpoint the fault and determine treatment course. Like I said, it is only after a year that one can start mentioning infertility.both of you should relax and just enjoy sex babies will come natural. Note.. Don't patronize those local herbal people o |
Re: Help Needed Urgently(nairaland Ladies Only) by ifyalways(f): 4:32pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
Three months and you already worried, carrying calculator to track ovulation? ![]() Your current state of mind alone is enough to kill your spermatozoa. Oga chillax and enjoy kpekus first. |
Re: Help Needed Urgently(nairaland Ladies Only) by kelechiodo(m): 5:00pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
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