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Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by Nobody: 9:24am On Nov 02, 2017
HIT HER JAWE..... HOW E TAKE CONSIGN ME?
IF PIKIN NO STAB U, NO B G-PAPI B MA NAME

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Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by dayleke: 9:24am On Nov 02, 2017
DO NOT DO IT!!!!!

MA DAN WO OOOO!!!!!

Egbe ni fun omo ti o gbe owo soke lati na Iya re.....

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Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by talk2saintify(m): 9:24am On Nov 02, 2017
frustratedrat:
i'm short-tempered. I probably inherited that trait from my dad. Due to the way my dad handled his affairs, my mum was plunged into penury. Currently living with her. The situations of the past has made her bitter. She complains about everything.


I open the pot to take my meal, she raises her voice, i come back empty-handed, she runs me down as being a leech. I lie flat without touching anything, she comes back complaining of so many things. When she starts, i find myself exchanging words with her.


I feel bad afterwards but the cycle continues once she makes me pesky again. how do i salvage this situation? Sometimes, i'm pushed to the edge that my frustration about her slander and my predicament makes me wanna hit her.



Are yhu expecting us to tell yhu YES HIT HER angry angry

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Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by rotexteymie(f): 9:24am On Nov 02, 2017
Jesus... Op hitting your mum should never be an option.. You shouldn't even think about it at all.. . Ahhhhhh!!!! undecided

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Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by DWJOBScom(m): 9:24am On Nov 02, 2017
Get your own flat

I would've said, speak with her but am sure you've done that and so many people would've echoed that too

So alittle distance will heal your mind first and make you stronger cos alot of ladies these day come with that feature as well

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Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by oloriLFC(f): 9:24am On Nov 02, 2017
Don't try it! It's the situation of things that's taking it's toll on her. Again, don't even raise Ur hand let alone bringing it down on her. Na curse o

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Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by kay29000(m): 9:25am On Nov 02, 2017
DON'T!!!
Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by BrotherJesu(m): 9:26am On Nov 02, 2017
U need to go start a life bro, from ur post, i guess she co/plains kus she wants u better,having been where u heading as u stay broke and lazy around

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Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by chronique(m): 9:26am On Nov 02, 2017
frustratedrat:
i'm short-tempered. I probably inherited that trait from my dad. Due to the way my dad handled his affairs, my mum was plunged into penury. Currently living with her. The situations of the past has made her bitter. She complains about everything.


I open the pot to take my meal, she raises her voice, i come back empty-handed, she runs me down as being a leech. I lie flat without touching anything, she comes back complaining of so many things. When she starts, i find myself exchanging words with her.


I feel bad afterwards but the cycle continues once she makes me pesky again. how do i salvage this situation? Sometimes, i'm pushed to the edge that my frustration about her slander and my predicament makes me wanna hit her.



Never ever entertain those thoughts. There is no single justification for it. Work on moving out. I know things are hard in Naija but please, just try to be up and doing.

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Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by bettercreature(m): 9:26am On Nov 02, 2017
kennygee:
Move in with a friend. Leave her alone. Better to run away from the temptation.
I don't think he can live with anyone he is a tout.

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Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by wintersnow(m): 9:28am On Nov 02, 2017
She's tired of seeing your face...
Get a Job
Rent an apartment...
Then introduce ya wife to be to her... grin

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Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by Nobody: 9:28am On Nov 02, 2017
Go and look for work and stop opening ypur mum's pot.



I see a lazy fellow here

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Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by columbus007(m): 9:28am On Nov 02, 2017
I remember how my mum used to do that,after all her talk talk back then when I was in the uni,you know what?after all I will go find her in wherever she is in the house,then I will give her a peek,believe me she will bring out some tears,that was how I fought the hard moment,till now we are the best together.i so much love my mum.

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Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by juman(m): 9:29am On Nov 02, 2017
I can perfectly understand you.

You need unlimited patience.

That it is.

Remind her everytime that tomorrow go better.

Also try more and more to contribute more.

May God help you.

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Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by Lexusgs430: 9:29am On Nov 02, 2017
frustratedrat:
i'm short-tempered. I probably inherited that trait from my dad. Due to the way my dad handled his affairs, my mum was plunged into penury. Currently living with her. The situations of the past has made her bitter. She complains about everything.


I open the pot to take my meal, she raises her voice, i come back empty-handed, she runs me down as being a leech. I lie flat without touching anything, she comes back complaining of so many things. When she starts, i find myself exchanging words with her.


I feel bad afterwards but the cycle continues once she makes me pesky again. how do i salvage this situation? Sometimes, i'm pushed to the edge that my frustration about her slander and my predicament makes me wanna hit her.


If this rat is this frustrated, have you thought about moving out of home?
Getting your own apartment and become independent?

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Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by Nobody: 9:29am On Nov 02, 2017
frustratedrat:
i'm short-tempered. I probably inherited that trait from my dad. Due to the way my dad handled his affairs, my mum was plunged into penury. Currently living with her. The situations of the past has made her bitter. She complains about everything.


I open the pot to take my meal, she raises her voice, i come back empty-handed, she runs me down as being a leech. I lie flat without touching anything, she comes back complaining of so many things. When she starts, i find myself exchanging words with her.


I feel bad afterwards but the cycle continues once she makes me pesky again. how do i salvage this situation? Sometimes, i'm pushed to the edge that my frustration about her slander and my predicament makes me wanna hit her.



Get a life! Hustle, hustle! If you are out of the house for hours daily doing something legit, she won't complain.. She is unhappy. Don't even dare raise your hand to hit her! Na die you go just die..

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Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by Afamed: 9:30am On Nov 02, 2017
bettercreature:
I don't think he can live with anyone he is a tout.
� lol. There are quite number of lads in this forum. What sort of advise is he soliciting? Perhaps to get the go ahead so that he can hit his Mum. He's really a tout like you have rightly said.

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Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by phlame(m): 9:30am On Nov 02, 2017
frustratedrat:
i'm short-tempered. I probably inherited that trait from my dad. Due to the way my dad handled his affairs, my mum was plunged into penury. Currently living with her. The situations of the past has made her bitter. She complains about everything.


I open the pot to take my meal, she raises her voice, i come back empty-handed, she runs me down as being a leech. I lie flat without touching anything, she comes back complaining of so many things. When she starts, i find myself exchanging words with her.


I feel bad afterwards but the cycle continues once she makes me pesky again. how do i salvage this situation? Sometimes, i'm pushed to the edge that my frustration about her slander and my predicament makes me wanna hit her.


Many are mad but few are roaming undecided undecided undecided

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Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by MrBigiman: 9:31am On Nov 02, 2017
Walk out and find ur own house. Even though it's face me I slap u. Bye

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Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by Humility017(m): 9:31am On Nov 02, 2017
fatymore:
Show her care.. You and your dad made her like this..
Apt!!!!
I own you....10 likes

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Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by Whataworld: 9:31am On Nov 02, 2017
frustratedrat:
i'm short-tempered. I probably inherited that trait from my dad. Due to the way my dad handled his affairs, my mum was plunged into penury. Currently living with her. The situations of the past has made her bitter. She complains about everything.


I open the pot to take my meal, she raises her voice, i come back empty-handed, she runs me down as being a leech. I lie flat without touching anything, she comes back complaining of so many things. When she starts, i find myself exchanging words with her.


I feel bad afterwards but the cycle continues once she makes me pesky again. how do i salvage this situation? Sometimes, i'm pushed to the edge that my frustration about her slander and my predicament makes me wanna hit her.

mumu.others are buying cars and building houses for their mother you want to hit your own,please go ahead ok?don't even think twice just go and hit her ok?make sure you do it today o..and don't forget to comeback to tell us after hitting her o,good luck.

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Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by Jarus(m): 9:31am On Nov 02, 2017
frustratedrat:
i'm short-tempered. I probably inherited that trait from my dad. Due to the way my dad handled his affairs, my mum was plunged into penury. Currently living with her. The situations of the past has made her bitter. She complains about everything.


I open the pot to take my meal, she raises her voice, i come back empty-handed, she runs me down as being a leech. I lie flat without touching anything, she comes back complaining of so many things. When she starts, i find myself exchanging words with her.


I feel bad afterwards but the cycle continues once she makes me pesky again. how do i salvage this situation? Sometimes, i'm pushed to the edge that my frustration about her slander and my predicament makes me wanna hit her.


Anytime I remember the pains of pregnancy, of labour and of taking care of me when I was a baby, I feel like giving all my income to her. I cant shout at her.

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Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by Geolalisa(f): 9:32am On Nov 02, 2017
@ Poster

Don't hit her, don't even think of it. Ask God for grace to help you contain your emotions and also pray for her. If you can afford a place, get a place and move. If you cant, look for a friend's place you can go to for some days or weeks just to give her space.

Pray for her always. God will help you overcome.

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Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by tbliss22(m): 9:32am On Nov 02, 2017
frustratedrat:
i'm short-tempered. I probably inherited that trait from my dad. Due to the way my dad handled his affairs, my mum was plunged into penury. Currently living with her. The situations of the past has made her bitter. She complains about everything.


I open the pot to take my meal, she raises her voice, i come back empty-handed, she runs me down as being a leech. I lie flat without touching anything, she comes back complaining of so many things. When she starts, i find myself exchanging words with her.


I feel bad afterwards but the cycle continues once she makes me pesky again. how do i salvage this situation? Sometimes, i'm pushed to the edge that my frustration about her slander and my predicament makes me wanna hit her.



My brother the fact here is that many mums out there out of frustration tends to act so wrong and funny.

All you need to do is to walk away each time she tends to frustrate you. I suggest to move out of that house as soon as possible, let her be alone for a while and soon she will come back to her right senses.

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Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by Adorable90(f): 9:32am On Nov 02, 2017
What goes around comes around,if u beat your mother bro ur children will also do same to u.Honour ur father and mother so that ur days will be long.so please don't do it no matter what.

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Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by blacq2009(m): 9:33am On Nov 02, 2017
Hit your mum? Subhanallah! I can say no more.

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Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by Nobody: 9:33am On Nov 02, 2017
frustratedrat:
hmm.. What's the way forward? At times, i walk away to come back late intentionally to avoid her disturbances. Yet she's ever ready to pick offense. The 'grace to grass' transition has unstabled her. More tips needed
Which useless tips is needed. Go and carry block or do conductor so that you can help her out. You are more of a parasite and so anyday you think of hitting her again, i ll personally trace you and made sure you are thrown in jail.

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Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by fatymore(f): 9:34am On Nov 02, 2017
Humility017:

Apt!!!!
I own you....10 likes
i don't need 10 likes.. Give me a job tongue
Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by Nobody: 9:34am On Nov 02, 2017
Well, all I can do is pity the woman that ends up with you, she go surely turn your punching bag for sure.
Self control is developed, some need to put in more effort than others to achieve some form of control over their anger. What you need is therapy and anger management. Your mum is not the issue, you are
By the way you never told us why your mum sees you as a leech?, she might be right for seeing you that way undecided

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Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by Nobody: 9:34am On Nov 02, 2017
Jarus:


Anytime I remain the pains of pregnancy, of labour and of taking care of me when I was a baby, I can never shout at my mum.
hmm.. You're right. I think of that to calm me down at times. But some actions could be reflex or by impulse when pushed to the wall.
Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by 26Clueless(m): 9:35am On Nov 02, 2017
frustratedrat:
i'm short-tempered. I probably inherited that trait from my dad. Due to the way my dad handled his affairs, my mum was plunged into penury. Currently living with her. The situations of the past has made her bitter. She complains about everything.


I open the pot to take my meal, she raises her voice, i come back empty-handed, she runs me down as being a leech. I lie flat without touching anything, she comes back complaining of so many things. When she starts, i find myself exchanging words with her.


I feel bad afterwards but the cycle continues once she makes me pesky again. how do i salvage this situation? Sometimes, i'm pushed to the edge that my frustration about her slander and my predicament makes me wanna hit her.


she's yo mum.. that only is d main stigma u can't hit her..jeez kip praying she myt change who knows

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