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Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by olowobaba10: 9:35am On Nov 02, 2017 |
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Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by exceltech: 9:36am On Nov 02, 2017 |
@Frustratedrat You are still dependent on her. she house and feeds you. You are not supposed to even think of hitting your helper. Work hard and start living independently to avoid unnecessary confrontation.. You also need to solve your anger problems, because it is your mum today, it could be your wife, friend or boss tomorrow. Get this book: "Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life" and read. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by Nobody: 9:36am On Nov 02, 2017 |
Whataworld:huh.. You making me feel like a devil. I really do love her in my own way. Have you wondered the kind of distorted upbringing I had? |
Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by bettercreature(m): 9:36am On Nov 02, 2017 |
Afamed:Yes lol I don't know why people are shy away from truth,this kind of children are always 1 in 10.000, we should be advising the mother to take him to a spiritual house for delieverance not this tout who is contemplating beating his mum |
Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by Nobody: 9:39am On Nov 02, 2017 |
Kobicove: You don't even know how old he is and the opportunities he may have 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by petenweke: 9:39am On Nov 02, 2017 |
Like seriously? You don't know what to do? Oya slap her, or better still buy Cain or koboko for her, she will behave well henceforth 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by cybercrackerftp(m): 9:39am On Nov 02, 2017 |
no try am ooooo |
Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by piragirl(f): 9:40am On Nov 02, 2017 |
try and leave the house,if not possible. anytime you see her open her mouth,before anything comes out switch on your deaf ear button(expert on dat) then in your mind,keep telling your yourself sweet and possible.and try to imagine how she will swallow her words after you finally made it.then smile a liitle. it works.its well with you and yours poster 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by Jbfranklin: 9:40am On Nov 02, 2017 |
speeshless!!!!!!....
off to sleep
zzZzz
just woke up now guy just go into fasting and prayer, you might not believe
but shey you have heard about demons ![]() |
Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by savictory2(m): 9:40am On Nov 02, 2017 |
Are you she or he? ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by Daeylar(f): 9:40am On Nov 02, 2017 |
Frustratedrat. calm down, don't ever raise your hand to anyone, at all, (except in cases of self defence) that's completely wrong Don't ever do that, stop thinking about doing that, that's very wrong, I understand your anger but Moving out is the best option. And stop being short tempered, learn anger management. 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by Stevengerd(m): 9:41am On Nov 02, 2017 |
frustratedrat:Where ave u been al dis while Mami? |
Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by Nobody: 9:41am On Nov 02, 2017 |
Effiezynews:ok boss. I'm doing so currently. But the attacks come at any time. Be it night or day. Sorry to say this but I think the events of the past has affected her mentally. Coupled with her religious inclination. She now reads meaning to everything. Thinking we'll abandon her, attack her or steal from her. Only the good life I think can make her calm down |
Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by UjuJoan2: 9:42am On Nov 02, 2017 |
frustratedrat: Like father like son . . . . ![]() 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by pocohantas(f): 9:43am On Nov 02, 2017 |
frenzyduchess: Imagine say na wife, Op for done turn Mike Tyson. He'll say she was running mouth and NL guys will support him...but na mama now, he is learning self-control... ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by timifakay(m): 9:43am On Nov 02, 2017 |
You are your father's son. I'm not saying he beat her. But he probably broke her, now you want to break her more. 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by louso(m): 9:44am On Nov 02, 2017 |
Hit her and get cursed. U don't need advice pls. Y haven't ur temperament made u hit a police personnel or military officer? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by Nobody: 9:44am On Nov 02, 2017 |
chronique:k bro. I can't double my hustle yet coz i've not sorted out my result. Kind of feeble due to some underlining ailment. So, i need her shelter. Staying with a stranger might not augur well. Most are hostile |
Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by Humility017(m): 9:44am On Nov 02, 2017 |
Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by Nobody: 9:44am On Nov 02, 2017 |
frustratedrat: You want to hit the source of your life? Go ahead, just be ready for karma 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by habsydiamond(m): 9:45am On Nov 02, 2017 |
don't ever think of hitting Ur mom. moms are second to God, u adore them, spoil them with good things same as dad's too. if u hit Ur mom that means u are closing your heaven door and opening the hell door. don't ever think of it again bro |
Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by olayinkajnr(m): 9:45am On Nov 02, 2017 |
Beat her and your own children will beat you too. Just like most the commenters said, I'll advise you to move out. Or better still sit her down and ask her what exactly is wrong |
Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by Nobody: 9:45am On Nov 02, 2017 |
pocohantas:my sister, this is what we are facing o, that's a potential wife beater in the making, no two ways about it. |
Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by Adamrealman78: 9:47am On Nov 02, 2017 |
Save your destiny, hustle find a place to sqaut and plan for a place of your own under the shortest possible time. Start your life of Independence and watch how she would come to adore and respect your individuality. Pls never hit a lady,God bless you 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by eezeribe(m): 9:47am On Nov 02, 2017 |
Clap for yourself that you are short tempered and feel justified by the assumption that you inherited it from your dad... |
Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by pocohantas(f): 9:48am On Nov 02, 2017 |
frenzyduchess:LOL, they all know what's wrong. Even the ones with very annoying mothers, don't beat them. If say this thread na wife, you for see how their comments will be. God protect his children o... 4 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by Nobody: 9:49am On Nov 02, 2017 |
oga o,when you think you have seen it all ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by Nobody: 9:50am On Nov 02, 2017 |
frustratedrat: It's understable. I am female. Good luck. |
Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by akinsmyk(m): 9:50am On Nov 02, 2017 |
It's very simple. Get out of that house, hustle, get yourself a place and fend for yourself. You will like yourself afterwards. Thank me later |
Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by Nobody: 9:51am On Nov 02, 2017 |
UjuJoan2:please don't conclude. I didn't do it. Just that abuses/false accusations make me exasperated |
Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by Palaver: 9:52am On Nov 02, 2017 |
fatymore:i'm sure you and your dad are also responsible for your mum's intermittent annoying behavior. Do you think before you type at all? Itchy fingers! |
Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by DEBJOCH1(m): 9:53am On Nov 02, 2017 |
You should be ashamed of your self at 18, I started paying my fees, at that same age I started supporting my parents, I always visit them on weekend. Is not a sin for your parents to be poor, but it becomes a calamity for you to follow same circle which your parents followed. go and be useful to your mum, the day you raise your hand on your mother will mark the beginning of your sorrow, space her for now or look for better thing doing. I hustle my self through University. thank you mister. 3 Likes 1 Share |
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