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Re: My Brother Wants To End His Marriage Because Of A Prophecy by monalicious(f): 11:15am On Nov 05, 2017
shortgun:
Prophets, pastors, Church leaders I will need your help on this one.

My elder brother has been married to his wife about 14yrs now, the marriage is blessed with 3 boys.
His wife is not the kind of woman a lot of men will pray for but no one is perfect. My bro tells me things about his marriage that he won't even disclose to our parents, I am very close to him and he always seeks my opinion.

His wife is a devoted Christian... she attends almost all d church programs and never misses Church service every sunday.

They had a program in d Church and she invited the husband. My brother went to the program and the Pastor called him out and told him that God wants to bless him financially more than he will ever imagine but there is a voice crying to God not to bless him.

The pastor called the wife out and told her that she is the d one telling God not to bless her husband cos she thinks a lot of money in his hands will make him to misbehave and d wife said yes.

The pastor now asked my brother to promise that if God bless him with this huge amount of money will you promise not to misbehave and he said yes... the pastor now asked his wife to reverse the prayer she has been praying against her husband right there inside the Church so that God can bless him and she did.

Since that day my brother became restless, he couldn't believe that the woman under his roof is d one praying against his progress. He told me that he wants to divorce her so that he can be free from her negative prayers.

I don't really know what to tell him.
It's obvious that his wife's prayers are very important and vital in his life and for his progress. I think he should just forgive her and continue with the marriage, it's her level of understanding that made her pray such wicked prayers, and now she knows better.i personally don't think things would get better for him if he breaks up the marriage, so long as there's no form of abuse involved, let him just stay.
Re: My Brother Wants To End His Marriage Because Of A Prophecy by darlenese(f): 11:17am On Nov 05, 2017
MhizzAJ:
And your brother believed what the pastor said

Your brother needs to have a rethink about this whole thing

His wife has kids for him already

All these pastors always end up bringing confusion into people's home

They do more of guesswork

Your brother isn't wise at all and that pastor is not spirit filled


the pastor might have even hypnotised the woman to agree to whatever thrash he has to say .
Re: My Brother Wants To End His Marriage Because Of A Prophecy by Kamsichime(m): 11:17am On Nov 05, 2017
D vow u made 2 ur wife is dat u wil TRUST d unknown abt... Her dis it dat side of her dat u dnt know. Divorce is nt an option ask God 2 help u pass dis test!
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Re: My Brother Wants To End His Marriage Because Of A Prophecy by Nobody: 11:21am On Nov 05, 2017
shortgun:
Prophets, pastors, Church leaders I will need your help on this one.

My elder brother has been married to his wife about 14yrs now, the marriage is blessed with 3 boys.
His wife is not the kind of woman a lot of men will pray for but no one is perfect. My bro tells me things about his marriage that he won't even disclose to our parents, I am very close to him and he always seeks my opinion.

His wife is a devoted Christian... she attends almost all d church programs and never misses Church service every sunday.

They had a program in d Church and she invited the husband. My brother went to the program and the Pastor called him out and told him that God wants to bless him financially more than he will ever imagine but there is a voice crying to God not to bless him.

The pastor called the wife out and told her that she is the d one telling God not to bless her husband cos she thinks a lot of money in his hands will make him to misbehave and d wife said yes.

The pastor now asked my brother to promise that if God bless him with this huge amount of money will you promise not to misbehave and he said yes... the pastor now asked his wife to reverse the prayer she has been praying against her husband right there inside the Church so that God can bless him and she did.

Since that day my brother became restless, he couldn't believe that the woman under his roof is d one praying against his progress. He told me that he wants to divorce her so that he can be free from her negative prayers.

I don't really know what to tell him.


Bro, the same thing is happening to my friend. Exactly the same thing. No matter what you say, it still balls down to your bro's decision. My friends own was so crazy because she was even pregnant and still never missed a church vigil program. And when he was reading her bible, he stumbled on her prayer points. He was shocked. Your brother should forgive her and move on.
Re: My Brother Wants To End His Marriage Because Of A Prophecy by SmartyPants(m): 11:25am On Nov 05, 2017
@ shortgun

Sorry, your brother does not want to end his marriage because of a prophecy, he wants to end his marriage because of his wife's confession.

Take the pastor out of the picture here. The wife confessed to praying against her husband's success; that is enough.

Whether she actually prays against him or she just thinks it in her heart, your brother has married someone who does not wish him well for self-centered reasons. He is right to want to leave her but as a christian man he is not entitled to divorce just yet.
Re: My Brother Wants To End His Marriage Because Of A Prophecy by MhizzAJ(f): 11:26am On Nov 05, 2017
darlenese:


the pastor might have even hypnotised the woman to agree to whatever thrash he has to say .

Exactly
Re: My Brother Wants To End His Marriage Because Of A Prophecy by darlenese(f): 11:29am On Nov 05, 2017
Op your brother seems happy about this fake prophesy , and u decided to share his one sided story, he didn't tell us how he spends money on women whenever little money comes his way, he didn't tell us how he treats his wife like trash and forgets how they suffered just because he stumbled on some little change... shioor
you dnt even like ur bro's wife so it was easy for u to say she is not the kind of wife any man would wish for ! what nonsense ! who the hell are u to have an opinion in someone else's marriage ?




I know your brother , dnt ask me how
Re: My Brother Wants To End His Marriage Because Of A Prophecy by SweetJoystick(m): 11:31am On Nov 05, 2017
Title should be wife invites husband to church program to get exposed
Re: My Brother Wants To End His Marriage Because Of A Prophecy by Nobody: 11:34am On Nov 05, 2017
Martinez19:
Religious gods don't exist. Voodoo, charms, witchcraft and other world mysticism are bullshits. There are no such thing as supernatural happenings by supernatural beings, all you have are the natural laws of nature. Fear and respect no pastor, native/doctor, spiritualist etc. They are not special but filled with bullshit. wink

All sacred/holy books are bunks.

Na death dey call you so
Re: My Brother Wants To End His Marriage Because Of A Prophecy by africanusvu(m): 11:36am On Nov 05, 2017
But OP.I want to ask.This God of the devoted woman.this her god that answer her prayer to make an innocent man perpetually poor Is he the same God that that I went to church today to worship.?sorry.cos my Bible didn't tell me of such a god on a churc

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Re: My Brother Wants To End His Marriage Because Of A Prophecy by idiagbo86(m): 11:37am On Nov 05, 2017
His wife invited him for a program u said? Bros from my own perspective I believe the woman is skeptic about her future with ur brother .she den gat to lure ur bros to her pastor to make such prophecy and promise.its clear nah. Ur bros will get his blessing but seriously I think the wife is a kind of scared about something and had to solidify her stand by luring ur brother to her pastor .u know women nah,she thinks that will make her ground stronger not knowing it could destroy her marriage.
Re: My Brother Wants To End His Marriage Because Of A Prophecy by bayulll011(m): 11:41am On Nov 05, 2017
LadySarah:
In asmuch asi dont support the woman,the husband's fears need to be allayed,Ofcourse she is the one wearing the shoes and knoew where it is pinching her.
the questiin is,what is your bros attitude like when change enters his pockets?Is he proud,arrogant,wasteful...these mqy be qhy the wife is afraid.

Pathetic...

Do u not understand what that woman is doing.

This is simply witchcraft now am scared rellay scared of marriage.

This is to show folks that God hears,he hear all cries both cursed and blessing.

Women what a soul to purposely pray for ur husband to remain in penury just because he will misbehave when he got money.

Obirin bi omo fun ee,Doesnt mean she can kill u.

What a world.
Re: My Brother Wants To End His Marriage Because Of A Prophecy by oglalasioux(m): 11:41am On Nov 05, 2017
99.9% of married women wish they had the money and their husbands are the ones at home bathing the babies and pounding the food.

#stayawayfrommarrige

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Re: My Brother Wants To End His Marriage Because Of A Prophecy by enonche85(m): 11:42am On Nov 05, 2017
Some women can be very terrible, this shows how selfish she is, forgetting that the children will benefit from by going to good schools and growing up in a conducive environment.

I honestly don't know if I will be able to forgive such a woman!

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Re: My Brother Wants To End His Marriage Because Of A Prophecy by enonche85(m): 11:45am On Nov 05, 2017
Modelqwen:
shocked



Hia..... everyday wahala..

Op.... me too the matter tire me.

I doubt a woman that loves her husband
would say such prayer for her spouse.

Exactly my point!...she's just selfish and heartless!

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Re: My Brother Wants To End His Marriage Because Of A Prophecy by walls01: 11:47am On Nov 05, 2017
Martinez19:
Religious gods don't exist. Voodoo, charms, witchcraft and other world mysticism are bullshits. There are no such thing as supernatural happenings by supernatural beings, all you have are the natural laws of nature. Fear and respect no pastor, native/doctor, spiritualist etc. They are not special but filled with bullshit. wink

All sacred/holy books are bunks.

you are lost my friend, every thing look fake to you except you

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Re: My Brother Wants To End His Marriage Because Of A Prophecy by ogbonti: 11:47am On Nov 05, 2017
The pastor has +10 chronic malaria fever, your brother's wife has serious typhoid and your brother too Is the adulterated drugs sales man. None sense, fake vision

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Re: My Brother Wants To End His Marriage Because Of A Prophecy by Nobody: 11:50am On Nov 05, 2017
shortgun:

This is a true life story my dear....I don't even know how to discuss d matter with my friends, that's why I brought it here.
reverting to her old prayers after reversing them will amount to double standards and God won't Honour such a prayer again. That she publicly denounced the prayers, he is covered he has nothing to fear, from what you said she was only scared of losing her position to other women if he becomes wealthy of which the pastor allayed.
Re: My Brother Wants To End His Marriage Because Of A Prophecy by Nobody: 11:54am On Nov 05, 2017
Your brother, the wife , you and the pastor are all living in bondage. Blessings ko blessed ni he better go and double his hustle, all these idiots called god of men telling you people that money will fall on you from nowhere.

They should all be arrested.

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Re: My Brother Wants To End His Marriage Because Of A Prophecy by udemzyudex(m): 11:54am On Nov 05, 2017
MhizzAJ:


The woman just said yes

No woman in her right senses would ever say bad prayers concerning her husband

Read his write up very well

He said the woman is a church goer probably one of those gullible Christians that say*Yes Sir* to everything the pastor says

She's the one in the marriage...she's the one wearing the shoes...

That story is one sided because Shortgun didn't say anything about his brother's attitude...His brother has told him a lot about his marriage and when that fake prophecy came the next thing he could think of was a divorce undecided He was even tired of the marriage before the prophecy came

What's his brother's attitude towards money?
Does he womanise?
Is he stingy? Cos if she actually made that prayer then there's more to it

And apart from that why didn't the pastor call the woman aside to warn her not to make that kinda prayer again

There are things pastors don't say in front of couples because it might break the home

Real men of God prophesy with wisdom

See what his prophecy has caused because he wasn't wise about the whole thing but if it is to collect tithe they will be very smart about it

What if the woman actually said NO to that prophecy

Will the pastor be happy to hear that the marriage has been dissolved because of that prophecy

Fake pastors and fake prophecy everywhere

You're assuming things, when what she actually said is up there.

She said yes, in the presence of her husband, she even revoke the prayers in the presence of her husband and you're saying cos she is a church goer and will act to the tune of her pastor even when her marriage is on the line.

You even said no woman in her right sense will say bad prayers to her husband, how are you sure she is in her right sense? We have heard and read stories of a woman killing her husband or doing away with all his properties etc.

Nothing is impossible in this life, and like I said earlier the tongue is a powerful tool, it can make or destroy.

I don't know the prophet but he didn't do wrong. It's just like counselling, where the man and woman will given advice.

When it involves the husband and wife, u expect him to reveal everything to the woman alone?

I'm glad he saw the problem and offer solution, the solution that didn't even warrant they bring huge sum of money.

Some prophet will prophesies without even giving solutions.
T
Sh1t do happen, it's left for the man to decide, I have nothing to say about again.
Re: My Brother Wants To End His Marriage Because Of A Prophecy by REDDEVILS1(m): 11:55am On Nov 05, 2017
He should divorce her asap. One day that woman will wake and decide her husband is now misbehaving and then poison him
Re: My Brother Wants To End His Marriage Because Of A Prophecy by enonche85(m): 11:57am On Nov 05, 2017
LadySarah:


I doubt she made the prayer,it was just her thoughts .so the wife thinks that if he happens to get rich he'd throw caution to the wind...They need a heart to heart talk,it'll go a long way in soving the problem.
your bro should treeat her well,a wife iis an angel to her husband even some of his prayers could be hindered if his wife isnt happy with him.The prophet only emphasized what the bible says in 1 peter 3 vs 7(the last part).
Marriage is sweet when both can compromise.
pls talk to him

A wife can tell God this "Father anything that will make my husband misbehave don't give him", if a wife cries to God with such a prayer He will listen to her.
Re: My Brother Wants To End His Marriage Because Of A Prophecy by durasome(m): 12:00pm On Nov 05, 2017
She's simply battling with insecurity.
Re: My Brother Wants To End His Marriage Because Of A Prophecy by shortgun(m): 12:02pm On Nov 05, 2017
darlenese:
Op your brother seems happy about this fake prophesy , and u decided to share his one sided story, he didn't tell us how he spends money on women whenever little money comes his way, he didn't tell us how he treats his wife like trash and forgets how they suffered just because he stumbled on some little change... shioor
you dnt even like ur bro's wife so it was easy for u to say she is not the kind of wife any man would wish for ! what nonsense ! who the hell are u to have an opinion in someone else's marriage ?




I know your brother , dnt ask me how
I didn't want to bore u guys with details but the truth be told my brother's wife has done some things that few men can stomach. she once locked up my brother in d police station, she can nag till forever.
She gossips alot, anything that happens in my bros house will be known by a third party the next day.
She once accused my brother of sleeping with their house help, she disgraced him in the whole neighborhood..... my bro called me on d phone and was crying like a baby when she did that.
my bro have given her money countless times to open a business she will mismanage d money. She once accused my brother of wanting to use his children for rituals and many more but this things happened years ago she is beginning to change gradually for d better.

On my brother's part...I know he keeps late nights, sleeps outside one or two times, whenever I confront him he will always say he needs time to himself sometimes to regain his sanity ( I don't know what that means)

They have been having issues that makes me become scared of marriage. The wife will openly lay curses on my brother that my mum sometimes with not be happy with her when she she gets to know... very strong curses oh; like
angles of God will flock you.
it shall never be well with you
you die ontop of those harlots you sleep with.

Not as if I am on my brother's side but I respect his tolerance level.
He has the money as I type this to misbehave however he wants but he chose to a responsible husband and father.

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Re: My Brother Wants To End His Marriage Because Of A Prophecy by OlujobaSamuel: 12:02pm On Nov 05, 2017
haaaaaa, nkan m be.
a similar story that happened in my area was a woman that sells beans, she was so big in the area that people come from far and near with grown up children doing well academically and in business, na so the husband won a contract, this woman go do juju make d husband no see anything do with the money so he no go marry another wife, na since then the man life no be the same again and the woman beans biz too don crumble
Re: My Brother Wants To End His Marriage Because Of A Prophecy by mamatwiny(f): 12:04pm On Nov 05, 2017
shortgun:

There is no doubts he heard from God cos d wife confirmed what he said right there in the Church before the congregation.[/quot[quote author=darlenese post=62091366]

the pastor might have even hypnotised the woman to agree to whatever thrash he has to say .

One has to be careful of all these prophesies. They have scattered many homes and rendered many lives useless. Some ppl are afraid to say no to confirmations of so called prophets so that the prophet wont seem a liar in front of a crowd. I have been there. Many ppl answer alter call to support the pastor , not because the are not born again or need to come out. Many give testimonies in faith so that it wont seem the pastor is powerless.

But of a truth, lots of women with wayward hubbys think it in their heart that the hubby remains stagnant cos each time money enters their hand, he doesnt sleep at home. From one hotel to the other with strange women. Some men even go as far as mentioning to the wife that they will take another wife if money enters. For such women, i will give you the advise a friend shared with me, 'At any point in time, make sure your hubby has no free/lose money to waste.' Start a building project of the size of the expected inflow. Change your kids to better school.' I believe this solves the problem.

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Re: My Brother Wants To End His Marriage Because Of A Prophecy by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 12:05pm On Nov 05, 2017
shortgun:
Prophets, pastors, Church leaders I will need your help on this one.

My elder brother has been married to his wife about 14yrs now, the man is blessed with 3 boys.
His wife is not the kind of woman a lot of men will pray for but no one is perfect. My bro tells me things about his marriage that he won't even disclose to our parents, I am very close to him and he always seeks my opinion.

His wife is a devoted Christian... she attends almost all d church programs and never misses Church service every sunday.

They had a program in d Church and she invited the husband. My brother went to the program and the Pastor called him out and told him that God wants to bless him financially more than he will ever imagine but there is a voice crying to God not to bless him.

The pastor called the wife out and told her that she is the d one telling God not to bless her husband cos she thinks a lot of money in his hands will make him to misbehave and d wife said yes.

The pastor now asked my brother to promise that if God bless him with this huge amount of money will you promise not to misbehave and he said yes... the pastor now asked his wife to reverse the prayer she has been praying against her husband right there inside the Church so that God can bless him and she did.

Since that day my brother became restless, he couldn't believe that the woman under his roof is d one praying against his progress. He told me that he wants to divorce her so that he can be free from her negative prayers.

I don't really know what to tell him.
He promised not to misbehave if she asks God to release his blessings and first thing he did after she did so is to misbehave. Is your brother mad? He shouldn't joke with the tongue of his wife o.
Re: My Brother Wants To End His Marriage Because Of A Prophecy by enonche85(m): 12:06pm On Nov 05, 2017
Martinez19:
Religious gods don't exist. Voodoo, charms, witchcraft and other world mysticism are bullshits. There are no such thing as supernatural happenings by supernatural beings, all you have are the natural laws of nature. Fear and respect no pastor, native/doctor, spiritualist etc. They are not special but filled with bullshit. wink

All sacred/holy books are bunks.

U really need Jesus!...pray u don't find urself in a spiritual problem someday.
Re: My Brother Wants To End His Marriage Because Of A Prophecy by WONDERS001(m): 12:06pm On Nov 05, 2017
Firstly,the woman is not a witch,she is just a woman that has been pushed to doubt her husbands love and commitment to her. Your brother needs to address this issue with caution. . He should check is. attitude towards his wife,business and money ... Some men would become demi-gods when they have little change.
He should settle with his wife and amend his ways.
Then,she would begin to pray for his success. ..... .



YOUR WIFE IS ACTUALLY YOUR FIRST PRAYER PARTNER.





STAY BLESSED

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Re: My Brother Wants To End His Marriage Because Of A Prophecy by Kobicove(m): 12:06pm On Nov 05, 2017
shortgun:

This is a true life story my dear....I don't even know how to discuss d matter with my friends, that's why I brought it here.

The pastor just used psychology on your brother and his wife... undecided

He also coerced the wife into being a hindrance to your brother's progress

If your brother works hard enough and gets the right opportunities he will progress irrespective of the prayer of his wife

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