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I'm Surrounded By LEECHES! by Born2conquer: 4:51pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
I hope I won't turn down the people that are really in need! _ My name Is ? and because of what I faced while growing I was able to Earn little to compliment the 3k my mum do give me monthly as an undergraduate..and let me remind you that I am really Nice..I am compassionate..and anytime anybody is in any problem I do feel the problem like it's mine! The issue right now is that it seems people around me. School friends,Mates,everybody around me just discovered it because they are sucking me DRIED daily! With their usual financial needs...and them claiming life and death with the needs! Like daily .daily! And I am not rich at all..it's just that I can have 0.0k just to give my last "K" to help someone with them promising to pay back! And now I am seriously HURT! because I no longer trust people words! Since March a gal has been owing me 15k A guy since June is owing me 5k (For his school fees) My friend is owing me 4k since July(I borrowed him when he claimed he is not having cash and that he would be giving me back the second day) A gal Begged me to borrow her 2k to get a form in a ushering agency and that she would pay back since! This past weeks...the request has skyrocketed! Just yesterday I borrowed 4k out to 2diff guys!! The issue now is that MOST don't pay back!! I am hurt because I am always broke and I only help just because I don't like someone being Helpless! Lol..and I can't ask them for my money because I am shy when it comes to money matters! |
Re: I'm Surrounded By LEECHES! by Learnstuffs: 4:57pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Run |
Re: I'm Surrounded By LEECHES! by Learnstuffs: 4:58pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
My brother, are u a Microfinance bank or ATM? 1 Like |
Re: I'm Surrounded By LEECHES! by LivinaPatrick(f): 4:59pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
You're not serious,how can you be shy to ask for your money...hunger never comes knocking |
Re: I'm Surrounded By LEECHES! by LordKO(m): 5:04pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Your ability to differentiate and maintain balance between gullibility and compassion will automatically solve your problem. |
Re: I'm Surrounded By LEECHES! by olaleks007(m): 5:07pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Walai if bank employ u Just come back here and give me ur address |
Re: I'm Surrounded By LEECHES! by Cholls(m): 5:16pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
LivinaPatrick:my sister don't blame him.....na so pieces personality b o |
Re: I'm Surrounded By LEECHES! by Fidelismaria: 5:53pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Pele ti ee oooo |
Re: I'm Surrounded By LEECHES! by kingxsamz(m): 6:02pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
guy abeg borrow me 5k abeg...abeg...I go pay u back tommorow |
Re: I'm Surrounded By LEECHES! by tayo60(f): 6:48pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Pele o eleyinjuanu! Sit down there dey lament until they suck you dry. Why will they pay back? Because everyone sees you as a philanthropist. Pls, can I also get 5k from you? 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Surrounded By LEECHES! by Nobody: 6:52pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Born2conquer: Stop borrowing pipu money simple. When they come asking, tell them your funds are tied in investments |
Re: I'm Surrounded By LEECHES! by QueenSekxy(f): 7:01pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
see this father Christmas where is your location so that i can come and receive my own share of the money..I don't mind trekking. .. |
Re: I'm Surrounded By LEECHES! by chazebose(f): 7:25pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Learn how to say no sometimes.... Humans sometimes dnt deserve a cheerful giver |
Re: I'm Surrounded By LEECHES! by Bibi294(f): 8:32pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Born2conquer: Op, Coman borrow me money... I'll pay |
Re: I'm Surrounded By LEECHES! by serenegroup(m): 8:50pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
when next another person comes to borrow from u. give him or her the list of people owing u and the amount, tell them that whenever any of them pays back you will loan them. it works for me. Be wise next time with your little funds. people are not smiling and the town is dry. |
Re: I'm Surrounded By LEECHES! by Born2conquer: 12:40am On Nov 06, 2017 |
serenegroup:Thanks boss..I think I will try this 1 Like |
Re: I'm Surrounded By LEECHES! by Born2conquer: 12:40am On Nov 06, 2017 |
Learnstuffs:Hmmm Seriously..it's time I start acting tough |
Re: I'm Surrounded By LEECHES! by Born2conquer: 12:42am On Nov 06, 2017 |
LivinaPatrick:1)I do think about the friendship and relationship Like I know,going the tough way to claim the money will means the end of the friendship..that's why I am always Giving the Dudes chances maybe they will change and pay back |
Re: I'm Surrounded By LEECHES! by Born2conquer: 12:43am On Nov 06, 2017 |
LordKO: 1)A guy was crying seriously sometimes that I am the only one he could turn to because the school fees portal would be closing today and that his money would be coming from home in few weeks time.. I turned him down..buy he kept asking till I gave him part "5" ...till today...the guy hardly pick my call sef 1 Like |
Re: I'm Surrounded By LEECHES! by Born2conquer: 12:44am On Nov 06, 2017 |
olaleks007:I seriously Wont work In a bank..I get moved easily |
Re: I'm Surrounded By LEECHES! by Born2conquer: 12:46am On Nov 06, 2017 |
tayo60:Hmmm..I seriously will start turning a blind eye now The funniest thing is that WHEN I NEED HELP ...I DON'T SEE PEOPLE TO HELP ME!! there was a time I misplaced my Scientific calculator...I trekked the whole hostels..rooms... nobody could spare his for Me..not even the ones I've helped! People don't render me help when I'm in need..but I am always too quick to assist |
Re: I'm Surrounded By LEECHES! by Born2conquer: 12:47am On Nov 06, 2017 |
KreativGenius:Thanks Brother |
Re: I'm Surrounded By LEECHES! by Born2conquer: 12:48am On Nov 06, 2017 |
chazebose:They seriously don't! A stupid gal was narrating how she used my money to undergo a surgery blahblah...that can she come over to pay me in kinds? I rejected it... people ain't appreciative |
Re: I'm Surrounded By LEECHES! by konkonbilo(m): 5:18am On Nov 06, 2017 |
I understand you OP. You're just like my younger bro. He's always ready to help even when not comfortable with his self then he would later start complaining the people he helps don't help him in return. Just try to use wisdom next time. What I do is that, if I have and you ask or wants to borrow from me and I see you can pay me, I'll give you half of what you want to borrow so I won't have my self to be blame later on |
Re: I'm Surrounded By LEECHES! by 2buffagain(m): 5:33am On Nov 06, 2017 |
LOL beggars man. When it comes to money, I don't 'borrow' what I know I cannot dash. By the time that money is leaving my hand, then it means I have decided that it is dash. If the money comes back to me, then I see it as a pleasant surprise. If it doesn't, then that person knows that they can't come to beg me for anything else later in the future. You have to ask yourself simply: Can I afford to dash this person this money (you're not working yourself, so likely no)? If the answer is no, Just tell them "sorry wish I could help but I can't". Simple. You don't owe anyone any explanation past that. Don't start using your own mouth to swear for yourself by creating negative stories as to why you can't 1 Like |
Re: I'm Surrounded By LEECHES! by HardHomies: 5:43am On Nov 06, 2017 |
True talk at @2bulfagain One padi asked me to borrow him a 100$ btc another said 50$ btc. Am I bill gates son ? You can also learn the power of manipulation ... If you know how people forget the dead you won't hesitate to stop pleasing people #Bokel |
Re: I'm Surrounded By LEECHES! by alfred007(m): 6:49am On Nov 06, 2017 |
Google the difference between FRIENDS and ASSOCIATE |
Re: I'm Surrounded By LEECHES! by LivinaPatrick(f): 7:38am On Nov 06, 2017 |
Born2conquer:nah! They won't change...it seems you don't know some people can be parasitic |
Re: I'm Surrounded By LEECHES! by 912(m): 7:47am On Nov 06, 2017 |
Are you a bank? Why are you borrow everybody money? I think the problem is that you don't know how to say NO and that will destroy you if you are not careful |
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