Friends, I need your advice. I got out of an abusive relationship 2 years ago and since then I've been afraid of men. I can talk and smile with them but anytime they ask me out, I freeze. I get scared thinking that they'll treat me the way my boyfriend did.


What should I do? Is something wrong with me?

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What do you think can be done for this lady?

kill ur family

She shd only agree to date a dwarf

Any time dey ask her out, she should slap them, any one that apologizes or ask, bae why u slap me nah?, she should go ahead to date such.

RETIREDMUMU:
kill ur family

HAHAHAHA. How far na bros?

Omachi006:



HAHAHAHA. How far na bros?

i see front distance u r a guy

amunkita:
Any time dey ask her out, she should slap them, any one that apologizes or ask, bae why u slap me nah?, she should go ahead to date such.

LMAO. You gats no chill oh.

owomida1:
She shd only agree to date a dwarf

Chai! Dwarf no dey beat woman?

RETIREDMUMU:


i see front distance u r a guy

I no be guy oh. LOL.

Omachi006:


I no be guy oh. LOL.

but i have what u can do nao

Omachi006:



Chai! Dwarf no dey beat woman?

At least height/stature won't intimidate her.

She need to give love another chance.

amunkita:
Any time dey ask her out, she should slap them, any one that apologizes or ask, bae why u slap me nah?, she should go ahead to date such.

First she need to free her self from the self slavery or face her fears. You can't solve a problem by running away from the problem.

izaray:
She need to give love another chance.

Skyfornia:
First she need to free her self from the self slavery

help ur bro

RETIREDMUMU:


but i have what u can do nao

I comment my reserve oh.

owomida1:


At least height/stature won't intimidate her.

HAHAHAHA. This one don pass physical looks oh. Babe is afraid ehn. Especially of being tied (in a relationship) with a man.

izaray:
She need to give love another chance.

Well, she's trying but the fear is stronger than love. What can she do?

Omachi006:



HAHAHAHA. This one don pass physical looks oh. Babe is afraid ehn. Especially of being tied (in a relationship) with a man.

Ok, find a sickler guy for her. Power no dey

Omachi006:


Well, she's trying but the fear is stronger than love. What can she do?

Aww!! Let her go and join Rev. sisters in Catholic nah, its very simple since she's that scared of men

izaray:
Aww!! Let her go and join Rev. sisters in Catholic nah, its very simple since she's that scared of men

HAHAHAHA. You're mean oh. Chai!

owomida1:


Ok, find a sickler guy for her. Power no dey

Become a lesbian

Omachi006:


HAHAHAHA. You're mean oh. Chai!

Its true nah. You even forgot to include wat she has passed through while dating her ex, dat gave her such fears and hatred towards men. after her ex boyfriend

izaray:
Its true nah. You even forgot to include wat she has passed through while dating her ex, dat gave her such fears and hatred towards men. after her ex boyfriend

You're right sha. People think that emotional and psychological trauma isn't real but it is.

Omachi006:


You're right sha. People think that emotional and psychological trauma isn't real but it is.

Op, are you sure you are not behind dis story I don dey suspect you oh

izaray:
Op, are you sure you are not behind dis story I don dey suspect you oh

LOOOOOOOL. I'm vewi innocent oh.

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Omachi006:




LOOOOOOOL. I'm vewi innocent oh.

Okay dear

There's nothing wrong with u. Its perfectly normal 2 feel d way u do. What 2 do? Remember, 4 every nice guy u let slip away, it means u'r letting ur abusive ex still hv a hold on u. Relationship aint a do or die affair. U give a guy who seems nice a chance, he bleeps up, u drop him. Its dat simple. Its not like u signed any binding contract. Xo, go enjoy urself.

Old avoid men for now till old age men are bad they can't change