Guys I need your help!!!

Please try to read all,

There is this girl I've been dating for few months now. Her beauty is one of a kind, she is down to earth. But she lemme know she has a boyfriend, I said no problem. We started getting along, we do things together, walked together, party together. In fact she never wanted me to do anything alone.

She started loosing interest in her boyfriend. She hardly pick his calls, they argued on phone everytime. Things started falling in place for me until her brothers infact everybody told her to dump me. They said the guy love her blah blah. The pressure was on her then one night she told me we should break up. She cried out her eyes, I told her I'll be fine so she would stop crying. The next day I started crying, I couldn't handle the break up. I cried like a baby. I was depressed,If not for God and my friends I almost commit suicide.

She said we should get back together that she can't live without me. We got back together again that's when the problem started. The relationship is now very strong now, I started feeling jealous and insecure. We spent more time together than before. We are still in our early 20's. I'm getting obsessed over her. I used to dream about her every night. I always check her FB page every minutes to see her new post. I used to call her and text her all day. I'm not myself anymore. Her image is always on my head every seconds. I'm not serious with anything again expect her. I'm always afraid I can't find someone as beautiful and perfect like her. I'm scared she will leave me one day. I always used my last money to get something for her just to make her happy. I'm even thinking about her right now. Now she has know my weakness and she is now playing with it. I'm not always like this, I want to go back to my normal self. This is more than love, Somebody should help me on how to escape from this obsession!!!

Please I need help!!! please

pls ignore my bad English. Thank you

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You don't deserve any help at all. She told you at the initial stage that she was seeing someone, you are supposed to respect her relationship and back out but you didn't. You broke the bro code, you're the reason the other guy lost her, I wouldn't have cried if you committed suicide when she attempted to break up with you because you caused the other guy same pain.
Thing is, if you can't stop thinking about people's girlfriend then you're obviously going to start fvcking married women someday.

First love is always like that but we all got over it and dated another person and we are still alive and doing ever better.

Don't worry, you will get over her, you will see her faults and realize she is not as good, as beautiful and as perfect as you think, you feel so now cos you are in love.

have u seen her when she is ill? maybe using the toilet? maybe early in the morning so you can smell her breath? maybe when she eats beans and releases a loud fart?

you need to see all these things because they are obsession killers. you will quickly realize she is just a girl and not all those things ur young childish mind is telling you.

every man gets tired of admiring a woman. you will soon get there. doesn't mean u should stop loving her sha. though it won't be unwise especially when she dumps you very soon. tik tok tik tok tik tok

Thank God u know u have a problem... Go read proverbs in the bible & ye shall find a passage that will draw you out of such diabolism.

Pluto16:
Guys I need your help!!!
please try to read all,
There is this girl I've been dating for few months now. Her beauty is one of a kind, she is down to earth. But she lemme know she has a boyfriend, I said no problem. We started getting along, we do things together, walked together, party together. In fact she never wanted me to do anything alone. She started loosing interest in her boyfriend. She hardly pick his calls, they argued on phone everytime. Things started falling in place for me until her brothers infact everybody told her to dump me. They said the guy love her blah blah. The pressure was on her then one night she told me we should break up. She cried out her eyes, I told her I'll be fine so she would stop crying. The next day I started crying, I couldn't handle the break up. I cried like a baby. I was depressed,If not for God and my friends I almost commit suicide. She said we should get back together that she can't live without me. We got back together again that's when the problem started. The relationship is now very strong now, I started feeling jealous and insecure. We spent more time together than before. We are still in our early 20's. I'm getting obsessed over her. I used to dream about her every night. I always check her FB page every minutes to see her new post. I used to call her and text her all day. I'm not myself anymore. Her image is always on my head every seconds. I'm not serious with anything again expect her. I'm always afraid I can't find someone as beautiful and perfect like her. I'm scared she will leave me one day. I always used my last money to get something for her just to make her happy. I'm even thinking about her right now. Now she has know my weakness and she is now playing with it. I'm not always like this, I want to go back to my normal self. This is more than love, Somebody should help me on how to escape from this obsession!!!
please I need help!!! please

pls ignore my bad English. Thank you
Lalasticlala

I would like to know this girl. Just to see If it's jazz or not.
I won't offer you advise, simple reason, you could have caused the death of another man, and when yours starts to loom you want out. No No my friend , you mustn't eat your cake and have it.

Any way that said, does the girl have an aura, if she does then I can help, not easy to deal with that type.

Try sleeping in a bath tube filled with water, it must cover your head, wait a while then try and think of her, you shouldn't feel obsessed, bu t if you do.

Pluto16:
Guys I need your help!!!
please try to read all,
There is this girl I've been dating for few months now. Her beauty is one of a kind, she is down to earth. But she lemme know she has a boyfriend, I said no problem. We started getting along, we do things together, walked together, party together. In fact she never wanted me to do anything alone. She started loosing interest in her boyfriend. She hardly pick his calls, they argued on phone everytime. Things started falling in place for me until her brothers infact everybody told her to dump me. They said the guy love her blah blah. The pressure was on her then one night she told me we should break up. She cried out her eyes, I told her I'll be fine so she would stop crying. The next day I started crying, I couldn't handle the break up. I cried like a baby. I was depressed,If not for God and my friends I almost commit suicide. She said we should get back together that she can't live without me. We got back together again that's when the problem started. The relationship is now very strong now, I started feeling jealous and insecure. We spent more time together than before. We are still in our early 20's. I'm getting obsessed over her. I used to dream about her every night. I always check her FB page every minutes to see her new post. I used to call her and text her all day. I'm not myself anymore. Her image is always on my head every seconds. I'm not serious with anything again expect her. I'm always afraid I can't find someone as beautiful and perfect like her. I'm scared she will leave me one day. I always used my last money to get something for her just to make her happy. I'm even thinking about her right now. Now she has know my weakness and she is now playing with it. I'm not always like this, I want to go back to my normal self. This is more than love, Somebody should help me on how to escape from this obsession!!!
please I need help!!! please

pls ignore my bad English. Thank you
Lalasticlala

...uhm... First love is always full of love and pains... Believe me, you're not going to marry her... Unless you're ready to marry her...

Bibi294:

...uhm... First love is always full of love and pains... Believe me, you're not going to marry her... Unless you're ready to marry her...

Why do all girls think it's first love. Did op say it was??

Pluto16:

Lalasticlala

Young man do not worry na she dey give you wetin dey make your heart go skra ta ta ta ! Na still she go give you wetin go reset your brain not to fall in love helplessly but you can be rest assured there is no happy ending in this story that I can swear with my life.

You snactched another guy's woman. You need help afterall. No do dat kain thing again. And no, she isn't perferct.

Shawnnn01:


Young man do not worry na she dey give you wetin dey make your heart go skra ta ta ta ! Na still she go give you wetin go reset your brain not to fall in love helplessly but you can be rest assured there is no happy ending in this story that I can swear with my life.

Amen!!!.
Op just pay the price, you should know there are consequences for everything you do. So just suffer your own share in peace.

By the way did I tell you that being clingy is what makes girls leave there boyfriends. They don't like"weak " men.

All it take is another you to come around and rip op.

donsimo:

Why do all girls think it's first love. Did op say it was??

bomb dey those girls' head

Smh, (she cried, the next day I started crying) Smh

Young Man, Ur village pipu are dancing shoki with ur destiny... u nid Jesus

Gourdoinc:
have u seen her when she is ill? maybe using the toilet? maybe early in the morning so you can smell her breath? maybe when she eats beans and releases a loud fart?

you need to see all these things because they are obsession killers. you will quickly realize she is just a girl and not all those things ur young childish mind is telling you.

every man gets tired of admiring a woman. you will soon get there. doesn't mean u should stop loving her sha. though it won't be unwise especially when she dumps you very soon. tik tok tik tok tik tok

Exactly.

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Chybeibe:
First love is always like that but we all got over it and dated another person and we are still alive and doing ever better.

Don't worry, you will get over her, you will see her faults and realize she is not as good, as beautiful and as perfect as you think, you feel so now cos you are in love.

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One bucket of Ice cream 4 u
U 2 much

Foodforthought:
. One bucket of Ice cream 4 u U 2 much

Lolz , thanks.

Why are some of you accusing him of snatching another guy's girlfriend?. If the girl was actually in love with her boyfriend she won't have agreed dating the op. Not to mention; double dating both guys.

Op, how you feel about this girl only happens to teenagers or adults going through their first love. Those who've mastered the act no longer feel this way 'cause they could put their emotions in check. To break out of obsession, you'd have to decide to, and start starving yourself of the things you do frequently pertaining her. Get your mind busy with work, it helps. Start calling her less, if possible, deactivate the account you often use to monitor her social media activities. Start saying "No" to some of her demands without looking back and you'll gradually break out of it.

Benita27:
Why are some of you accusing him of snatching another guy's girlfriend?. If the girl was actually in love with her boyfriend she won't have agreed dating the op. Not to mention; double dating both guys.

Op, how you feel about this girl only happens to teenagers or adults going through their first love. Those who've mastered the act no longer feel this way 'cause they could put their emotions in check. To break out of obsession, you'd have to decide to, and start starving yourself of the things you do frequently pertaining her. Get your mind busy with work, it helps. Start calling her less, if possible, deactivate the account you often use to monitor her social media activities. Start saying "No" to some of her demands without looking back and you'll gradually break out of it.

thanks so much.
This is not my first love actually. not even the 10th (lol). I just can't figure out why I love her so much.

locust:


bomb dey those girls' head

I can't take advise from girls, their brain is messed up. The guy has cleared it up and she's not his first, see shiity advise from girls.

And op, it is your fault, I know it makes you feel bad but face it.

Loook she's in your dreams, that's fuciked up, but you need to separate her aura from yours now, cause it will consume you and next life without will be like using torchlight phone after rocking I phone x for years.

Ok.

Pluto16:
Guys I need your help!!!
please try to read all,
There is this girl I've been dating for few months now. Her beauty is one of a kind, she is down to earth. But she lemme know she has a boyfriend, I said no problem. We started getting along, we do things together, walked together, party together. In fact she never wanted me to do anything alone. She started loosing interest in her boyfriend. She hardly pick his calls, they argued on phone everytime. Things started falling in place for me until her brothers infact everybody told her to dump me. They said the guy love her blah blah. The pressure was on her then one night she told me we should break up. She cried out her eyes, I told her I'll be fine so she would stop crying. The next day I started crying, I couldn't handle the break up. I cried like a baby. I was depressed,If not for God and my friends I almost commit suicide. She said we should get back together that she can't live without me. We got back together again that's when the problem started. The relationship is now very strong now, I started feeling jealous and insecure. We spent more time together than before. We are still in our early 20's. I'm getting obsessed over her. I used to dream about her every night. I always check her FB page every minutes to see her new post. I used to call her and text her all day. I'm not myself anymore. Her image is always on my head every seconds. I'm not serious with anything again expect her. I'm always afraid I can't find someone as beautiful and perfect like her. I'm scared she will leave me one day. I always used my last money to get something for her just to make her happy. I'm even thinking about her right now. Now she has know my weakness and she is now playing with it. I'm not always like this, I want to go back to my normal self. This is more than love, Somebody should help me on how to escape from this obsession!!!
please I need help!!! please

pls ignore my bad English. Thank you
Lalasticlala

you need deliverance!!!!!!


Ishawuru fall on you dear.

[/b]This is more than love, [b].

Then bro it's not love.build yourself up emotionally.

donsimo:


Why do all girls think it's first love. Did op say it was??

Sheybi u can read and write?

.

my candid advice??
just fill a cup with hypo and pour it straight down ur throat.
mumu better get a life, so u no fit think cos of girl they're not worth a second of ur time. trust me

Because you are afraid of losing her, you will surely lose her.

hmmm