my then best friend saw all these about me (except the loud fart part,lol) but continued with his obsession. even when he didnt see me for years kept calling and texting everytime until i eventually gave in.

Gourdoinc:
have u seen her when she is ill? maybe using the toilet? maybe early in the morning so you can smell her breath? maybe when she eats beans and releases a loud fart?

you need to see all these things because they are obsession killers. you will quickly realize she is just a girl and not all those things ur young childish mind is telling you.

every man gets tired of admiring a woman. you will soon get there. doesn't mean u should stop loving her sha. though it won't be unwise especially when she dumps you very soon. tik tok tik tok tik tok

don't worry when I collect her from you u will be alright

You need to get laid really fast

Don't throw away that rope yet. You may still need it for the suicide.

Here's why. You can never trust a girl you stole from another guy. If she cheated with you against someone, she going to cheat with someone else against you. That's Karma dear. She's still going to dump you so you better start preparing yourself psychologically.

you need urgent mental rehabilitation. ...

Someone like u made me loose a woman I loved so much when I was in nigeria....I loved this girl more than my life....she's my first love...I hardly eat in my work place so I can save enough for her needs Cox she's in school on the process I developed ulcer....am still SUFFERING it today though it's not as serious as then....did u know what a guy made her leave me....a guy like u made her say to me....EZENWA MY MUM WANTS ME TO GET MARRIED AND UA NOT READY YET....I told her how can she marry someone she didn't know..and her reply was EZENWA I LOVE U BUT THERE'S MORE TO MARRIAGE THAN LOVE OR MARRYING A CUTE GUY....I asked why she said it she said nothing but am an Igbo guy I understood she meant what am giving her is not enough to take care of her, her younger sister and widow mother but the truth is her mum didn't want her to marry she only wants to leave me for a rich guy.....uptil today she's not married yet...only few days ago she chat me on Facebook asking for forgiveness....that all men coming her way are wicked and cheats none is serious with her...that's it like she's cursed

my brother nothing surpass prayer, be pray for this situation, and try to build yourself to get out of that emotional thinking this is normal situation.
it is not prerequisite to marry your first dating, what usually common in this world is that, you will toast/woo someone's girlfriend and go along with her and get marry. since her ex boyfriend isn't your relative before, forget initial stage that she told you she has lover before, guys are always confuse girls, that is simple thing
don't commit suicide because of love oo

borisyeltskin:
Young Man, Ur village pipu are dancing shoki with ur destiny... u nid Jesus

Kondomatic:
You don't deserve any help at all. She told you at the initial stage that she was seeing someone, you are supposed to respect her relationship and back out but you didn't. You broke the bro code, you're the reason the other guy lost her, I wouldn't have cried if you committed suicide when she attempted to break up with you because you caused the other guy same pain.
Thing is, if you can't stop thinking about people's girlfriend then you're obviously going to start fvcking married women someday.

Phew!!

This sound like Dee Hope you are not d one sha?

lol...one way relationship.

This is what you get when you know nothing about relationship investments.


You are obsessed with images of her because you are more invested in the convo than she is. That is why you always go the extra mile to please her.


wake up.

lmao... the thing sef tire me

Squirrel01:
Smh, (she cried, the next day I started crying) Smh

Amberon11:
my then best friend saw all these about me (except the loud fart part,lol) but continued with his obsession. even when he didnt see me for years kept calling and texting everytime until i eventually gave in.

u didn't eat a well prepared beans throughout the love lasted. else you will know we weren't talking about the loud farts but those silent ones which I assume he endured which should have snuffed out his life.

also early morning with same beans mouth when Mr "toothbrush " hasn't passed that avenue. obsession will run away and reality sets in.

nothing clears lust faster than seeing the reality of an individual

Do u hav a degree/job?
Do u hav a steady source of income?
Wat hav u achieved so far in life?
If u dnt hav answers to the above questions, then u r not serious!

Everyone advice here is really good but this type of obsession doesn't go easily. Infact, he does not have the strength to go through it alone. He has to experience real pain. I advice u enjoy the it while it last & endure the pain when it comes. Life/experience is the best teacher & experience makes u stronger

Benita27:
Why are some of you accusing him of snatching another guy's girlfriend?. If the girl was actually in love with her boyfriend she won't have agreed dating the op. Not to mention; double dating both guys.

Op, how you feel about this girl only happens to teenagers or adults going through their first love. Those who've mastered the act no longer feel this way 'cause they could put their emotions in check. To break out of obsession, you'd have to decide to, and start starving yourself of the things you do frequently pertaining her. Get your mind busy with work, it helps. Start calling her less, if possible, deactivate the account you often use to monitor her social media activities. Start saying "No" to some of her demands without looking back and you'll gradually break out of it.

Shut up!... That niqqa broke the bro code. If a girl sincerely say she is in a relationship a real G backs out! If she isn't happy with her present relationship she better break up and become ''available". @ Op this is just the beginning... I foresee heart attack... you go learn!

Beside, that girl is a confirmed cheat. She is no wife material, when she get bored with op she definitely gonna show some green lights to another perceived interesting dude. @Op the fact that she has a boyfriend and still decided to "flow" with you should have been the first red flag! No room for those kinda girls.

Receive Sense!

Kondomatic:
You don't deserve any help at all. She told you at the initial stage that she was seeing someone, you are supposed to respect her relationship and back out but you didn't. You broke the bro code, you're the reason the other guy lost her, I wouldn't have cried if you committed suicide when she attempted to break up with you because you caused the other guy same pain.
Thing is, if you can't stop thinking about people's girlfriend then you're obviously going to start fvcking married women someday.

Most sensible comment if all time.. Deserves a thousand likes..

dingbang:
I dey tell you.. Esp when she comes out from the toilet and you perceive the horrid odor emanating out from it.

the obsession clears immediately. thats when love starts seeing. reality is the miracle which clears the blindness in love.
let them ask married couples who are now sick and tired of each other.

AntiWailer:
come for slapping.
There is a way i will slap you that common sense will locate you.

ⓨⓞⓤ ⓦⓘⓒⓚⓔⓓ.

ezenwajosh:
Someone like u made me loose a woman I loved so much when I was in nigeria....I loved this girl more than my life....she's my first love...I hardly eat in my work place so I can save enough for her needs Cox she's in school on the process I developed ulcer....am still SUFFERING it today though it's not as serious as then....did u know what a guy made her leave me....a guy like u made her say to me....EZENWA MY MUM WANTS ME TO GET MARRIED AND UA NOT READY YET....I told her how can she marry someone she didn't know..and her reply was EZENWA I LOVE U BUT THERE'S MORE TO MARRIAGE THAN LOVE OR MARRYING A CUTE GUY....I asked why she said it she said nothing but am an Igbo guy I understood she meant what a giving her is not enough to take care of her, her younger sister and widow mother but the truth is her mum didn't want her to marry she only wants to leave me for a rich guy.....

ur experience was very similar to mine. I lost one of the beat ladies I ve met because of ppl like this dude. A lady I tot I would marry. she loved me but pressure from her mum nd a dude like this op made her leave.

Pluto16:
Guys I need your help!!!

Please try to read all,

There is this girl I've been dating for few months now. Her beauty is one of a kind, she is down to earth. But she lemme know she has a boyfriend, I said no problem. We started getting along, we do things together, walked together, party together. In fact she never wanted me to do anything alone.

She started loosing interest in her boyfriend. She hardly pick his calls, they argued on phone everytime. Things started falling in place for me until her brothers infact everybody told her to dump me. They said the guy love her blah blah. The pressure was on her then one night she told me we should break up. She cried out her eyes, I told her I'll be fine so she would stop crying. The next day I started crying, I couldn't handle the break up. I cried like a baby. I was depressed,If not for God and my friends I almost commit suicide.

She said we should get back together that she can't live without me. We got back together again that's when the problem started. The relationship is now very strong now, I started feeling jealous and insecure. We spent more time together than before. We are still in our early 20's. I'm getting obsessed over her. I used to dream about her every night. I always check her FB page every minutes to see her new post. I used to call her and text her all day. I'm not myself anymore. Her image is always on my head every seconds. I'm not serious with anything again expect her. I'm always afraid I can't find someone as beautiful and perfect like her. I'm scared she will leave me one day. I always used my last money to get something for her just to make her happy. I'm even thinking about her right now. Now she has know my weakness and she is now playing with it. I'm not always like this, I want to go back to my normal self. This is more than love, Somebody should help me on how to escape from this obsession!!!

Please I need help!!! please

pls ignore my bad English. Thank you

This is what happen when kids enter wat they are not up to.

You should face your studies nd concentrate on your future in stead of wasting your years in stupidity

Am 31 this year.av not had any gf neither am i thinking of any.

Av put all my youthful energy acquiring degrees nd certificates.
If you see my CV now you will agree that wat is happening to you is pure madness.

Last month i even enroll in another 5years degree program believing too well that the future has been taken care of wt good foundation.

Bro. this is wat you should be working on not to come here nd be splitting out these trash as a result of trying to belong in the 21st century devilish trend

So people still fall in love

Why don't you tell him to download the movie"me before you"

Alariiwo:
@OP go and download 21 questions by 50Cent and listen to it

If you become a cripple or blind tomorrow(God forbid), then you'll know you've been fooling yourself all along.
Women are not to be trusted. You have one, she has two (or even more)

Wake up and stop being a sissy

Gourdoinc:
the obsession clears immediately. thats when love starts seeing. reality is the miracle which clears the blindness in love.
let them ask married couples who are now sick and tired of each other.

lol am like ..will i still be attracted to my wife if she gets so so fat and shapeless... Such things just run through my head

makky555:
Why don't you tell him to download the movie"me before you"

You tell him na.. na fight?

Moreover you look like a teenager, what do you know about life?

op, you should look for a job DAT will keep you busy... you are running after woman, when you are suppose to b thinking on Hw to make money... so DAT woman will b running after you.... A woman who chart on are bfriend dose no wht your love...

me observing niggas with girl problems

You are definitely obsessed and infatuated. These are not characteristics of real love.

Pluto16:

thanks so much.
This is not my first love actually. not even the 10th (lol). I just can't figure out why I love her so much.

You simply caused it all by snatching another guy's gurfriend.Bro i see you in future snatching people's wives.Forget dat girl coz it wunt work for both of you.I swear down!

You don't know what this life is all about. Na woman matter u carry for head like this? Huhu

Kondomatic:
You don't deserve any help at all. She told you at the initial stage that she was seeing someone, you are supposed to respect her relationship and back out but you didn't. You broke the bro code, you're the reason the other guy lost her, I wouldn't have cried if you committed suicide when she attempted to break up with you because you caused the other guy same pain.
Thing is, if you can't stop thinking about people's girlfriend then you're obviously going to start fvcking married women someday.

thank u brova, na this kain oloriburku they give ma gf problem nw, always calling and texting