dingbang:
lol am like ..will i still be attracted to my wife if she gets so so fat and shapeless... Such things just run through my head

Pluto16:
Guys I need your help!!!

Please try to read all,

There is this girl I've been dating for few months now. Her beauty is one of a kind, she is down to earth. But she lemme know she has a boyfriend, I said no problem. We started getting along, we do things together, walked together, party together. In fact she never wanted me to do anything alone.

She started loosing interest in her boyfriend. She hardly pick his calls, they argued on phone everytime. Things started falling in place for me until her brothers infact everybody told her to dump me. They said the guy love her blah blah. The pressure was on her then one night she told me we should break up. She cried out her eyes, I told her I'll be fine so she would stop crying. The next day I started crying, I couldn't handle the break up. I cried like a baby. I was depressed,If not for God and my friends I almost commit suicide.

She said we should get back together that she can't live without me. We got back together again that's when the problem started. The relationship is now very strong now, I started feeling jealous and insecure. We spent more time together than before. We are still in our early 20's. I'm getting obsessed over her. I used to dream about her every night. I always check her FB page every minutes to see her new post. I used to call her and text her all day. I'm not myself anymore. Her image is always on my head every seconds. I'm not serious with anything again expect her. I'm always afraid I can't find someone as beautiful and perfect like her. I'm scared she will leave me one day. I always used my last money to get something for her just to make her happy. I'm even thinking about her right now. Now she has know my weakness and she is now playing with it. I'm not always like this, I want to go back to my normal self. This is more than love, Somebody should help me on how to escape from this obsession!!!

Please I need help!!! please

pls ignore my bad English. Thank you

Uchenduin:


This is what happen when kids enter wat they are not up to.

You should face your studies nd concentrate on your future in stead of wasting your years in stupidity

Am 31 this year.av not had any gf neither am i thinking of any.

Av put all my youthful energy acquiring degrees nd certificates.
If you see my CV now you will agree that wat is happening to you is pure madness.

Last month i even enroll in another 5years degree program believing too well that the future has been taken care of wt good foundation.

Bro. tahis is wat you should be working on not to come here nd be splitting out these trash as a result of trying to belong in the 21st century devilish trend

doctimonyeka:
you need deliverance!!!!!!


Ishawuru fall on you dear.

Uchenduin:


This is what happen when kids enter wat they are not up to.

You should face your studies nd concentrate on your future in stead of wasting your years in stupidity

Am 31 this year.av not had any gf neither am i thinking of any.

Av put all my youthful energy acquiring degrees nd certificates.
If you see my CV now you will agree that wat is happening to you is pure madness.

Last month i even enroll in another 5years degree program believing too well that the future has been taken care of wt good foundation.

Bro. this is wat you should be working on not to come here nd be splitting out these trash as a result of trying to belong in the 21st century devilish trend

Amberon11:
so you remember ishawuru? pls what does it mean?

bolaji777:
my brother nothing surpass prayer, be pray for this situation, and try to build yourself to get out of that emotional thinking this is normal situation.
it is not prerequisite to marry your first dating, what usually common in this world is that, you will toast/woo someone's girlfriend and go along with her and get marry. since her ex boyfriend isn't your relative before, forget initial stage that she told you she has lover before, guys are always confuse girls, that is simple thing
don't commit suicide because of love oo

borisyeltskin:
Young Man, Ur village pipu are dancing shoki with ur destiny... u nid Jesus

Pluto16:
Guys I need your help!!!

Please try to read all,

There is this girl I've been dating for few months now. Her beauty is one of a kind, she is down to earth. But she lemme know she has a boyfriend, I said no problem. We started getting along, we do things together, walked together, party together. In fact she never wanted me to do anything alone.

She started loosing interest in her boyfriend. She hardly pick his calls, they argued on phone everytime. Things started falling in place for me until her brothers infact everybody told her to dump me. They said the guy love her blah blah. The pressure was on her then one night she told me we should break up. She cried out her eyes, I told her I'll be fine so she would stop crying. The next day I started crying, I couldn't handle the break up. I cried like a baby. I was depressed,If not for God and my friends I almost commit suicide.

She said we should get back together that she can't live without me. We got back together again that's when the problem started. The relationship is now very strong now, I started feeling jealous and insecure. We spent more time together than before. We are still in our early 20's. I'm getting obsessed over her. I used to dream about her every night. I always check her FB page every minutes to see her new post. I used to call her and text her all day. I'm not myself anymore. Her image is always on my head every seconds. I'm not serious with anything again expect her. I'm always afraid I can't find someone as beautiful and perfect like her. I'm scared she will leave me one day. I always used my last money to get something for her just to make her happy. I'm even thinking about her right now. Now she has know my weakness and she is now playing with it. I'm not always like this, I want to go back to my normal self. This is more than love, Somebody should help me on how to escape from this obsession!!!

Please I need help!!! please

pls ignore my bad English. Thank you

Kondomatic:
You don't deserve any help at all. She told you at the initial stage that she was seeing someone, you are supposed to respect her relationship and back out but you didn't. You broke the bro code, you're the reason the other guy lost her, I wouldn't have cried if you committed suicide when she attempted to break up with you because you caused the other guy same pain.
Thing is, if you can't stop thinking about people's girlfriend then you're obviously going to start fvcking married women someday.

Gourdoinc:
have u seen her when she is ill? maybe using the toilet? maybe early in the morning so you can smell her breath? maybe when she eats beans and releases a loud fart?

you need to see all these things because they are obsession killers. you will quickly realize she is just a girl and not all those things ur young childish mind is telling you.

every man gets tired of admiring a woman. you will soon get there. doesn't mean u should stop loving her sha. though it won't be unwise especially when she dumps you very soon. tik tok tik tok tik tok

sunmarouk:


Guy, there is no free single lady anywhere (only In rare case). We all had or have our girl friend either by snatching or when she just broke up a relationship.

OBINNAMAR00457:
dont be left out you re the next winner

donsimo:


Why do all girls think it's first love. Did op say it was??