What do you do when the person you're in a romantic relationship with has a best friend of the opposite sex, and has refused to let go of him/her despite the fact that you've registered your displeasure for the friendship countless times?
Especially when what brought them together in the first place is that one of them had a romantic interest in the other, but was friend zoned instead?

Let's talk.

Well it depends on the people involved,although emotions are likely to set in and "things" might also happen due to their closeness buh all in all so far the GF trusts her guy n the guy himself issa faithful dude,I really see no biggie

Ayomideen:
Well it depends on the people involved,although emotions are likely to set in and "things" might also happen due to their closeness buh all in all so far the GF trusts her guy n the guy himself issa faithful dude,I really see no biggie

Of course. But isn't it possible for those feelings to Re-awaken along the line?

for me am a kinda jealous type, i will first table the issue with her, that i can't take that shit.
and if she don't change then she have prove she have something else with the fucker

RETIREDMUMU:
for me am a kinda jealous type, i will first table the issue with her, that i can't take that shit.
and if she don't change then she have prove she have something else with the fucker

Exactly what I'm talking about. Jealousy.

ChizzyMaris:

Exactly what I'm talking about. Jealousy.

just try to have a heart to heart conversation with him, you r a jealous type that don't want to share her man, just try to say all this in funny way. by the way they might be no intimate feelings between his female bes.

but if he don't change and ur instinct tells u something fishy Startin happens, then.........

Especially when what brought them together in the first place is that one of them had a romantic interest in the other, but was friend zoned instead?



The above is a big RED FLAG. Also check if the said girl has what your boyfriend needs in a woman. If your boyfriend for example likes big boobs and she got it, another BIG RED FLAG.

Bestie with the opposite sex

it's a no no for me.

something is surely bound to happen between them maybe sooner or later depending on how close they are .

ChizzyMaris:


Of course. But isn't it possible for those feelings to Re-awaken along the line?

It is,infact it really is,buh as I said(or typed) earlier,it depends on the people involved

if he is not paying so much attention to the bestie there is no problem

stop telling a normal grown up adult who he can or cant be friends with.coz when he goes through your fone and asks who each and every guy in there is,u wont be happy.
only stupid guys end friendships to make a GF happy.if u play that stunt on me u will find yourself fired
dont make your insecurities my problem.
im friends with a lot of my exes.if a gal has a problem i will have one more ex on my list.
i dont negotiate.my happiness comes first.

ubunja:
stop telling a normal grown up adult who he can or cant be friends with.coz when he goes through your fone and asks who each and every guy in there is,u wont be happy.
only stupid guys end friendships to make a GF happy.if u play that stunt on me u will find yourself fired
dont make your insecurities my problem.
im friends with a lot of my exes.if a gal has a problem i will have one more ex on my list.
i dont negotiate.my happiness comes first.

Grow up Mr.man

ChizzyMaris:
What do you do when the person you're in a romantic relationship with has a best friend of the opposite sex, and has refused to let go of him/her despite the fact that you've registered your displeasure for the friendship countless times?
Especially when what brought them together in the first place is that one of them had a romantic interest in the other, but was friend zoned instead?

Let's talk.

Go and get a male bestie...two can play the game

purplecoco:
As long as one of them has friend-zoned each other, there's no frickin' way they can remain friends. I mean my boyfriend then used to have a "female bestie", she was cool and all, I had no idea she crushed on him, and sometimes when I'll be having a conversation with him, he talks about her, but he doesn't feel anything for her. I didn't feel comfortable about it, and I told him that I don't want him to be friends with her,LOL. I never thought I was gonna be one of those girls.....

To be continued...

U left the story mid way ni?
Cum and finish the story o.

Shoo, imagine oo

female bestie ke,,

NigerDeltan:


Grow up Mr.man

dont be in the habbit of telling people who dont worship women to grow up

All this dragging here and there for a man... relax ur jealousy and battle for show off of who is supreme, man wey go cheat go cheat if u like give am holy ghost marking

if you are not your boyfriend/girlfriend's female/male best-friend, you are not fit to date that person in the first place.

Is He Your Husband?

I have a boyfriend and my bestie is a guy.. It's not a problem at all.. Because my bf understands perfectly well

Your boyfriend has to choose between the bestie and you.

ubunja:

dont be in the habbit of telling people who dont worship women to grow up

i support you 100% just because of one girlfriend from above you'll destroy a friendship that maybe dates back to when you are kids. brother it's them that needs to grow up.

can u imagine.

mrMeen:
i support you 100% just because of one girlfriend from above you'll destroy a friendship that maybe dates back to when you are kids. brother it's them that needs to grow up.

can u imagine.

friends are important than any woman.

This our generation has given title to cheating or fornication. Side chick, bestie, cuddle buddy, friend zoned. Hmmm continue. What relationship do we now keep with our girl friend or wife? There is no friendship in the wife or girl friend?

My Bf has female bestie well.. I don't even care.. They all know me.. I do delete their pictures on his phone cos they are course mates.. One thing I do is I stamped my authority and let them know he is Mine.. If they like they should have sex together, is the girl loss. I can't disturb myself ontop guy matter.. Mostly I befriend those girls too.. Just remove your mind from it.. What you don't see doesn't break your heart.. Most times we always feel relaxed having the opposite SEx as bestie.. I have male bestie too..

I don't Do that bestie shiit. its either am your man or not! My Boo knows that am not comfortable seeing her wit a male friend in the name of bestie so she respects that

get ur own opposite beastie dear, life is 2 short 2 b in a frnd_zone

ChizzyMaris:
What do you do when the person you're in a romantic relationship with has a best friend of the opposite sex, and has refused to let go of him/her despite the fact that you've registered your displeasure for the friendship countless times?
Especially when what brought them together in the first place is that one of them had a romantic interest in the other, but was friend zoned instead?

Let's talk.

My dear, in this dispensation female bestie is a big scam. Trust me. My ex did it to me, and she's married to him today and I've done it to someone and I regret every second of that experience. He had better choose between U or her, if not, U are nothing but a side chick. I'll like to elaborate on this but I'm very busy now.

I have a bestie, and I won't leave him for anything in the world. Sometimes we all need a best friend regardless of the sex gender. There are complicated things you would want to sort out but can't tell your bf yet, you need someone to push you through, to make you feel free and feel relaxed.

My bestie is one hell of a crazy dude, so blunt, carefree, intelligent and annoying most times lol. It amuses me when he tells me about girls he like to lash in his dreams. I would be like "you this boy, may God help you".


We both know our boundaries, we both know sex would spoil our relationship so we haven't crossed that line. I have never slept over in his house or visited. He visits me at home where eyes are everywhere and we get to talk intimately about things so deep. We have been friends for 4 years now. So no need to get jealous.

You can have a bestie with the opposite sex so far you set limits.

I love my bestie,and ya! We can quarrel for Africa

This bestie thing sef... I find it kinda irritating
Almost everytime, A male bestie is someone that a girl has friendzoned. Buh i usually like to call them assistant boyfriend, for reasons that are well too obvious. And the smart "besties" know how to use their position to their advantage.




I know what i just typed does not relate with the question. Don't point it out.

Ginaz:
I have a bestie, and I won't leave him for anything in the world. Sometimes we all need a best friend regardless of the sex gender. There are complicated things you would want to sort out but can't tell your bf yet, you need someone to push you through, to make you feel free and feel relaxed.

My bestie is one hell of a crazy dude, so blunt, carefree, intelligent and annoying most times lol. It amuses me when he tells me about girls he like to lash in his dreams. I would be like "you this boy, may God help you".



We both know our boundaries, we both know sex would spoil our relationship so we haven't crossed that line. I have never slept over in his house or visited. He visits me at home where eyes are everywhere and we get to talk intimately about things so deep. We have been friends for 4 years now. So no need to get jealous.

You can have a bestie with the opposite sex so far you set limits.

I love my bestie,and ya! We can quarrel for Africa

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