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Re: Romance Novels…the Effects On Girls Who Read Them By Scotfree by ChewingStick(m): 2:33pm On Nov 15, 2017
Rukkydelta:
Exactly Romance novels/ telemundo are evil
So, what do you watch when you're not being less womanly. grin
Re: Romance Novels…the Effects On Girls Who Read Them By Scotfree by Rukkydelta(f): 2:37pm On Nov 15, 2017
ChewingStick:


So, what do you watch when you're not being less womanly. grin
Anything interesting
Like a crime or action movie,cartoons are also interesting
Though I ain't a movie freak
Re: Romance Novels…the Effects On Girls Who Read Them By Scotfree by Blackhawk01: 2:40pm On Nov 15, 2017
ScotFree:



grin grin. Especially during the teen ages... most girls are seriously affected by this. Good thing you're past that state now.

Lol. The things we read actually influence us whether we like it or not. Although I'm more realistic now but I'm still a sucker for happy endings. My lil sis on the other hand doesn't even want to hear anything romance let alone Harlequin, lil wonder why she's yet to have a bf when most of her friends are into relationships... I'm kinda happy about that sha, I wouldn't want her getting her hopes high, only for her to jam one Yoruba bobo. angry angry
Re: Romance Novels…the Effects On Girls Who Read Them By Scotfree by ChewingStick(m): 2:44pm On Nov 15, 2017
Rukkydelta:

Anything interesting
Like a crime or action movie,cartoons are also interesting
Though I ain't a movie freak

Heheh, thats nice

... so re you one of the Niger delta avengers Okowa has refused to do something about or you're one of those Delta girls buying houses in Osubi?
Re: Romance Novels…the Effects On Girls Who Read Them By Scotfree by Rukkydelta(f): 2:47pm On Nov 15, 2017
ChewingStick:


Heheh, thats nice

... so re you one of the Niger delta avengers Okowa has refused to do something about or you're one of those Delta girls buying houses in Osubi?
Lol
I belong to none of the categories you mentioned
I'm just me
Re: Romance Novels…the Effects On Girls Who Read Them By Scotfree by Blackhawk01: 2:48pm On Nov 15, 2017
makydebbie:
Chai na today I know say this girl mad pass me. grin grin
Yoruba demon that'll reshape your thinking faculty. tongue
If you know how I hate romantic movies and novels? shocked
Lemme book space sef, during break I'll come to modify.

Ahswear! That sense wey you no wan get, Yoruba demon go bestow am on you. If after dating Yoruba demon, you no wise up, you can never be wise again. grin cheesy lipsrsealed

Lol. I still read them tho, I love happy endings. sad embarassed
Re: Romance Novels…the Effects On Girls Who Read Them By Scotfree by ChewingStick(m): 3:05pm On Nov 15, 2017
Rukkydelta:

Lol
I belong to none of the categories you mentioned
I'm just me

** rolling my eyes

I could sleep and forget about the N.D avengers part, but you not doing wonders in Osubi , i find hard to take in.

... the you who doesn't gbadu telemundo but loves action movies, cartoons and "claims" she isnt a movie freak.

okay, young woman.

a movie outing to Genesis in Delta Mall, will confirm that.

Pick your date, am always free on wednesdays, plus movies re cheaper on those days. grin
Re: Romance Novels…the Effects On Girls Who Read Them By Scotfree by Blackhawk01: 3:11pm On Nov 15, 2017
ChewingStick:


** rolling my eyes

I could sleep and forget about the N.D avengers part, but you not doing wonders in Osubi , i find hard to take in.

... the you who doesn't gbadu telemundo but loves action movies, cartoons and "claims" she isnt a movie freak.

okay, young woman.

a movie outing to Genesis in Delta Mall, will confirm that.

Pick your date, am always free on wednesdays, plus movies re cheaper on those days. grin

Ehn! Catch dem young. Ekun! cool cool



Scotfree, can you see what I'm seeing? shocked

Re: Romance Novels…the Effects On Girls Who Read Them By Scotfree by Nobody: 3:13pm On Nov 15, 2017
I have never believed in romance, romantic movie or any other romantic nonsense for that matter.

Every time I try that shit, I end up getting hurt


Bleep love angry and romance grin
Re: Romance Novels…the Effects On Girls Who Read Them By Scotfree by xendra: 3:33pm On Nov 15, 2017
ChewingStick:


Lol... my d*ck rise just now, as i remember say nah your kini you just dey reason with. grin

Sisi, go up and read that thing jareh.
hmmm...I fot don knw say u no well since, I com still mention u...
Re: Romance Novels…the Effects On Girls Who Read Them By Scotfree by ChewingStick(m): 3:37pm On Nov 15, 2017
xendra:
hmmm...I fot don knw say u no well since, I com still mention u...

hehe... thats sweet of you. Have a breatsed day wink
Re: Romance Novels…the Effects On Girls Who Read Them By Scotfree by Heloct(f): 3:55pm On Nov 15, 2017
I neither read nor see romance. I hate fairy tales. You will get hurt if you try bringing the memories into a real-life relationship.
Re: Romance Novels…the Effects On Girls Who Read Them By Scotfree by makydebbie(f): 5:10pm On Nov 15, 2017
Blackhawk01:


Ahswear! That sense wey you no wan get, Yoruba demon go bestow am on you. If after dating Yoruba demon, you no wise up, you can never be wise again. grin cheesy lipsrsealed

Lol. I still read them tho, I love happy endings. sad embarassed
Hahahaha, then you'll know your village people dey use your picture fan themselves. cheesy

I hate happy endings, it's false lol.
Re: Romance Novels…the Effects On Girls Who Read Them By Scotfree by Nobody: 6:59pm On Nov 15, 2017
Blackhawk01:


Ehn! Catch dem young. Ekun! cool cool



Scotfree, can you see what I'm seeing? shocked

I see am o. These guys are seriously serious. They should kwantinue
Re: Romance Novels…the Effects On Girls Who Read Them By Scotfree by Sugar97(f): 8:16pm On Nov 15, 2017
Guilty as charged cheesy grin
But not anymore, I know better now

But some fantasies just won't go away no matter how hard I try smiley wink cool
Re: Romance Novels…the Effects On Girls Who Read Them By Scotfree by Augustap(f): 8:39pm On Nov 15, 2017
Romantic novels are great fallacies. When i read them, i just close my mind to unrealistic imaginations. Believing those sweet but unrealistic perfections will make someone start telling her boyfriend "you're not even romantic" grin
To make things worst, Korean dramas have succeeded in turning some girls to something else.
Anyway, I've guided my heart from the "Romantic Dreamland" grin
Re: Romance Novels…the Effects On Girls Who Read Them By Scotfree by Rukkydelta(f): 9:59pm On Nov 15, 2017
ChewingStick:


** rolling my eyes

I could sleep and forget about the N.D avengers part, but you not doing wonders in Osubi , i find hard to take in.

... the you who doesn't gbadu telemundo but loves action movies, cartoons and "claims" she isnt a movie freak.

okay, young woman.

a movie outing to Genesis in Delta Mall, will confirm that.

Pick your date, am always free on wednesdays, plus movies re cheaper on those days. grin
Lol
That will only be if my Daddy EmperorLee approves
Re: Romance Novels…the Effects On Girls Who Read Them By Scotfree by EmperorLee(m): 10:01pm On Nov 15, 2017
Rukkydelta:

Lol
That will only be if my Daddy Em perorLee approves


Disapproved
Re: Romance Novels…the Effects On Girls Who Read Them By Scotfree by Rukkydelta(f): 10:04pm On Nov 15, 2017
EmperorLee:



Disapproved
Thanks Daddy
You are the best daddy in the world smiley
Re: Romance Novels…the Effects On Girls Who Read Them By Scotfree by EmperorLee(m): 10:05pm On Nov 15, 2017
Rukkydelta:

Thanks Daddy
You are the best daddy in the world smiley


kiss
Re: Romance Novels…the Effects On Girls Who Read Them By Scotfree by ChewingStick(m): 9:00am On Nov 16, 2017
EmperorLee:


Disapproved

Lol cheesy

Mr. Daddy Sir, i know you as a man of timber and kaliba, dont you av a business contract to be signing right now? undecided

Come to think of it, among your plenty girls here, this pretty one needs a good time outing with a caring young man like me.

grin At least before i spoil her at the party on january 2nd. (that's if she"s gonna come)
Re: Romance Novels…the Effects On Girls Who Read Them By Scotfree by EmperorLee(m): 9:07am On Nov 16, 2017
ChewingStick:


Lol cheesy

Mr. Daddy Sir, i know you as a man of timber and kaliba, dont you av a business contract to be signing right now? undecided

Come to think of it, among your plenty girls here, this pretty one needs a good time outing with a caring young man like me.

grin At least before i spoil her at the party on january 2nd. (that's if she"s gonna come)


If you are coming for the party, then you are allowed to take her away.
Re: Romance Novels…the Effects On Girls Who Read Them By Scotfree by Tozara(m): 4:02pm On Nov 17, 2017
kennygee:
I don't believe so sha.

A lot of our mothers and aunts grew up reading Mills and boons.

These days, asides romance novels, we have Telemundo and romance movies.

It doesn't distort our view of reality. It only put us in this "wishful thinking" state. But does it mean we don't know that what we read and watch is just fiction?

We do, and it doesn't mean we have this exaggerated expectations from love or men after reading or watching them.
That it doesn't apply to you doesn't mean it doesn't apply to others. ScotFree already stated that he's not claiming the write-up to be 100% accurate. It might not be true of all girls (it isn't, infact). But it is true of some, and they aren't few. I have many as friends. The guy is right to a certain extent.

There's a phenomenon known as Suspension of Disbelief. When you are watching a great movie or reading a great book, you are able to "suspend your disbelief", in that, even though you "know" the events of the film or book are not actually happening, you can genuinely believe that they are. You enter fully into the fabricated world and live and breathe it. It may have a profound effect on you. For some, it lasts only for the duration. For others, it might influence the course of the rest of their lives. Yet it's all made up. It happens.

If you've read the book, Simulacra and Simulation by French philosopher Jean Baudrillard, you would have heard of the concept of HYPERREALITY. Baudrillard described hyperreality as "more real than real" - a greater reality than the one we currently inhabit, and also one where we've lost touch with reality, and it no longer exists.

Take fashion models as an example. They are impossibly beautiful and their images are everywhere - yes "impossibly" beautiful, because the images of the models are invariably airbrushed and digitally enhanced. Moreover, the make-up is perfect, the lighting is perfect, the setting is perfect, the designer clothes are perfect. They're "more real than real". Reality could never rival this simulated perfection, yet you have certain women using it as a gold standard for gauging their beauty. Yet this gold standard is pure fiction. They are trying to measure reality according to unreal standards.

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Re: Romance Novels…the Effects On Girls Who Read Them By Scotfree by Nobody: 4:09pm On Nov 17, 2017
Tozara:
That it doesn't apply to you doesn't mean it doesn't apply to others. ScotFree already stated that he's not claiming the write-up to be 100% accurate. It might not be true of all girls (it isn't, infact). But it is true of some, and they aren't few. I have many as friends. The guy is right to a certain extent.

There's a phenomenon known as Suspension of Disbelief. When you are watching a great movie or reading a great book, you are able to "suspend your disbelief", in that, even though you "know" the events of the film or book are not actually happening, you can genuinely believe that they are. You enter fully into the fabricated world and live and breathe it. It may have a profound effect on you. For some, it lasts only for the duration. For others, it might influence the course of the rest of their lives. Yet it's all made up. It happens.

If you've read the book, Simulacra and Simulation by French philosopher Jean Baudrillard, you would have heard of the concept of HYPERREALITY. Baudrillard described hyperreality as "more real than real" - a greater reality than the one we currently inhabit, and also one where we've lost touch with reality, and it no longer exists.

Take fashion models as an example. They are impossibly beautiful and their images are everywhere - yes "impossibly" beautiful, because the images of the models are invariably airbrushed and digitally enhanced. Moreover, the make-up is perfect, the lighting is perfect, the setting is perfect, the designer clothes are perfect. They're "more reall than real". Reality could never rival this simulated perfection, yet you have certain women using it as a gold standard for gauging their beauty. Yet this gold standard is pure fiction. They are trying to measure reality according to unreal standards.


You are a wise man bro (sorry if assumed gender is wrong). That's why i inserted that disclaimer...but she still didn't get it.. it isn't accurate for all girls.
Re: Romance Novels…the Effects On Girls Who Read Them By Scotfree by Tozara(m): 4:18pm On Nov 17, 2017
ScotFree:


You are a wise man bro (sorry if assumed gender is wrong). That's why i inserted that disclaimer...but she still didn't get it.. it isn't accurate for all girls.
Lol. You're right, it's a bro (ZandhaZaraZ. Remember now?).

Yeah, there's NEVER a one-size-fits-all concept. There'll always be exceptions to a rule or an idea, but that doesn't invalidate it.
Re: Romance Novels…the Effects On Girls Who Read Them By Scotfree by makydebbie(f): 4:52pm On Nov 17, 2017
Tozara:
That it doesn't apply to you doesn't mean it doesn't apply to others. ScotFree already stated that he's not claiming the write-up to be 100% accurate. It might not be true of all girls (it isn't, infact). But it is true of some, and they aren't few. I have many as friends. The guy is right to a certain extent.

There's a phenomenon known as Suspension of Disbelief. When you are watching a great movie or reading a great book, you are able to "suspend your disbelief", in that, even though you "know" the events of the film or book are not actually happening, you can genuinely believe that they are. You enter fully into the fabricated world and live and breathe it. It may have a profound effect on you. For some, it lasts only for the duration. For others, it might influence the course of the rest of their lives. Yet it's all made up. It happens.

You know, I agree with this. At a point when I was reading Harry Potter, I started living in a fantasy world thinking my family members were "muggles" and I was a witch or something and my letter from "Hogwarts" would arrive. Silly me.

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Re: Romance Novels…the Effects On Girls Who Read Them By Scotfree by Tozara(m): 6:07pm On Nov 17, 2017
makydebbie:
You know, I agree with this. At a point when I was reading Harry Potter, I started living in a fantasy world thinking my family members were "muggles" and I was a witch or something and my letter from "Hogwarts" would arrive. Silly me.
LMAO. Some fictional works can hold one spell-bound. I can relate. My NARUTO fantasies also used to spill into my reality. grin

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