divinehand2003:
Those bees have poisoned the little baby and killed it. Na who send her?

divinehand2003:
Those bees have poisoned the little baby and killed it. Na who send her?

Sakie:
Chai sooo sad...
Its not easy to carry a child nine months and have a still birth..it's very painful
I remember when I gave birth to my boy in 2016,was in the labour room with another woman who was shy to open her legs.
The midwives were just slapping her thighs anyhow
They knew the baby was nomore but were trying to make her believe the baby was alive hence the slapping.
I didn't know when I started crying forgetting my own pains.was really scared but my mum told me to be strong and keep on praying..thank God for everything
I still feel bad for that lady anytime I remember cos her family said that wasn't the first

TheArchangel:
She is shy to open her legs which may have prolonged the second stage of labour leading to the death of the baby.
I won't slap you during labour....I will never....it is your life and your baby. After proper couselling and education if you continue with the attitude. ..I will get your relatives to sign the CS consent form... no time abeg. Some women can frustrate the life out of you but as a professional some of us still keep cool while some lose it.

TheArchangel:
She is shy to open her legs which may have prolonged the second stage of labour leading to the death of the baby.
I won't slap you during labour....I will never....it is your life and your baby. After proper couselling and education if you continue with the attitude. ..I will get your relatives to sign the CS consent form... no time abeg. Some women can frustrate the life out of you but as a professional some of us still keep cool while some lose it.

Ginaz:


Why do they act shy? Because they feel ashamed of displaying their privates?

Sakie:

I think the baby died from her womb cos it was looking green.
Those nurses were just wicked

TheArchangel:
Easy to say when you are on the other side of the fence.
I won't beat you...if push comes to shove as I said earlier it is either CS or I will get you relatives must especially a mum or aister to do the beating for me...I.e... after explaining the situation to them....
I have had a patient's husband and Mum simultaneously opening her legs just for her baby to pass through also with my assistant performing fundal pressure. This happens often and on in many government and poor private hospitals where there is poor antenatal education on preparedness for labour and what to expect.
It is so easy to point fingers.... Do not go to a lousy hospital expecting executive treatment.

Sakie:

It was a private hospital and the doctors were nice but those attending to the woman were majorly student nurses
I gave birth through CS though and the doctors that attended to me were nice and comforting alongside the nurses in the theathre with me

TheArchangel:
If women knows how gross that place looks like during delivery they won't be feeling shy at all. argh...With all that gross slimy bloodstained drainage mixed with a baby of about 2-4 kg mass descending from a small opening that you doubt will accommodate it .

Who will even conjure a sexual image in a place filled with all types of machines and monitor beeping and with different types of hospital liquid filling your nose...from dettol, izal, methyl spirit to savlon.
Or is it the pungent and gall wrenching odour of savlon mixed with blood, amniotic fluid and vagi.nal secretions.?

Mothers should just ease off a bit abeg.

eyinjuege:


All the more reason they will feel shy @your first statement. Women have bikini waxes and all sorts just to make sure any part of their body visible is on point.
If they knew their jajina looked Behind when pregnant, they would flaunt it. But they know they smell awkward down there in pregnancy, they know they have some kin persistent urine smell from the stress incontinence in pregnancy, some have recurrent UTIs, even some have increased vaginal discharge in pregnancy (which is normal btw) so they know theyre not looking their best in ptegnancy, and would naturally be slightly embarrassed.
The secret and solution lies with the health care providers. Do you make them feel at ease? Make them feel its all normal and subsequently make them feel comfortable in their own bodies?
Some of us dont send and would open yansh yakata for vaginal examinations, but some women are more reserved.

eyinjuege:


All the more reason they will feel shy @your first statement. Women have bikini waxes and all sorts just to make sure any part of their body visible is on point.
If they knew their jajina looked Behind when pregnant, they would flaunt it. But they know they smell awkward down there in pregnancy, they know they have some kin persistent urine smell from the stress incontinence in pregnancy, some have recurrent UTIs, even some have increased vaginal discharge in pregnancy (which is normal btw) so they know theyre not looking their best in ptegnancy, and would naturally be slightly embarrassed.
The secret and solution lies with the health care providers. Do you make them feel at ease? Make them feel its all normal and subsequently make them feel comfortable in their own bodies?
Some of us dont send and would open yansh yakata for vaginal examinations, but some women are more reserved.

TheArchangel:
If women knows how gross that place looks like during delivery they won't be feeling shy at all. argh...With all that gross slimy bloodstained drainage mixed with a baby of about 2-4 kg mass descending from a small opening that you doubt will accommodate it .

Who will even conjure a sexual image in a place filled with all types of machines and monitor beeping and with different types of hospital liquid filling your nose...from dettol, izal, methyl spirit to savlon.
Or is it the pungent and gall wrenching odour of savlon mixed with blood, amniotic fluid and vagi.nal secretions.?

Mothers should just ease off a bit abeg.

eyinjuege:


All the more reason they will feel shy @your first statement. Women have bikini waxes and all sorts just to make sure any part of their body visible is on point.
If they knew their jajina looked nice when pregnant, they would flaunt it. But they know they smell awkward down there in pregnancy, they know they have some kin persistent urine smell from the stress incontinence in pregnancy, some have recurrent UTIs, even some have increased vaginal discharge in pregnancy (which is normal btw) so they know theyre not looking their best in ptegnancy, and would naturally be slightly embarrassed.
The secret and solution lies with the health care providers. Do you make them feel at ease? Make them feel its all normal and subsequently make them feel comfortable in their own bodies?
Some of us dont send and would open yansh yakata for vaginal examinations, but some women are more reserved.

TheArchangel:
What sort of private hospital trains nurses? The hospital in question does it have a School of Nursing or Midwifery attached to it? How many bedded hospital is that? I am trying to discern the calibre of " student nurses " and the type of hospital that can give unqualified personnel unchaperoned access to the labour room. Most of this private hospitals are frout with uneducated, untrained and unqualified personnel that damages the image of legitimate professionals by their unprofessional misconducts.