ubunja:

i will marry for children.

But you can have children without getting married,if that is all you desire.

Church agbasa. She should forget about the relationship.

Op many things could have led to losing the ring. But one thing i know is that every woman loves and protects her engagement ring. So na she know how she take lose am.

VERDA:


But you can have children without getting married,if that is all you desire.

same as with sex and even love..
u can have both without getting married.
whats your point?
and women have been getting married for money and support since forever.u lose your job they walk.
whats your point?

ubunja:

same as with sex and even love..
u can have both without getting married.
whats your point?
and women have been getting married for money and support since forever.u lose your job they walk.
whats your point?

You seem upset,don't be,I merely stated a fact based on ur assertion that all you wanted was children, don't take it personal.Yes you can love without getting married but marriage seems to me the ultimate public declaration of your desire and commitment to spend the rest of your live nurturing the growth of your beloved.That is not an easy commitment to make and because most of us do not understand or know what love really is,we do not understand the enormity of what we are doing when we decide to marry.If most people did they would not rush into marriage.

VERDA:


You seem upset,don't be,I merely stated a fact based on ur assertion that all you wanted was children, don't take it personal.Yes you can love without getting married but marriage seems to me the ultimate public declaration of your desire and commitment to spend the rest of your live nurturing the growth of your beloved.That is not an easy commitment to make and because most of us do not understand or know what love really is,we do not understand the enormity of what we are doing when we decide to marry.If most people did they would not rush into marriage.

dont be in the habit of telling people they are upset.

Augustap:
Op many things could have led to losing the ring. But one thing i know is that every woman loves and protects her engagement ring. So na she know how she take lose am.

she threw it away on my face before and I picked it up. She begged I should give it to her back, which I did. But this time I am quitting the relationship.

Kassidy4luv:


she threw it away on my face before and I picked it up. She begged I should give it to her back, which I did. But this time I am quitting the relationship.

Bro I'm not trying to spoil anything, but i don't think the relationship is working out. Marriage is forever, i don't think you want to make a mistake. Decide wisely. I wish you happiness.

Kassidy4luv:


she threw it away on my face before and I picked it up. She begged I should give it to her back, which I did. But this time I am quitting the relationship.

And you're still considering marrying her? oh man! what's wrong with you? how I wish everyone would act like I do, the world would be sweeter.

Thanks all

Bibi294:

You might be wrong.... She might misplaced it for real... I've seen a situation a married woman lost her customized wedding ring first day in camp... She drop it beside her in bed, and the following morning, it was gone...

I'll rather advice the op to make the right decision... You went as far as proposing when u knew. Ur families are not in support... Think twice... Don't make a lifete mistake and don't break her heart...
In situations like this... You.go to God

Misplaced a wedding ring in camp? Don't be naive.
Dropped a ring beside a bed? Wtf is in people's brain nowadays?