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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by MufasaRebirth: 6:20pm On Nov 20, 2017
Op that's woman the English people call woman wrapper cool
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by Beedude(m): 6:23pm On Nov 20, 2017
Cos they are bastards. Q.E.D
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by jashar(f): 6:24pm On Nov 20, 2017
The story though....

You can't really blame the lady na. She's not use to such environment... undecided

But @ the topic. One of my elder Bros dey do such... Go dey pay babe school fees while he no dey send 50k to awa parents.

God is watching him...

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by nelsonebby(m): 6:24pm On Nov 20, 2017
pocohantas:


They do it not just to their family, but friends too.
A guy will tell his friend he is broke, same guy will send 10k to a girl for transport to come visit him. All for sex...

Their manhoods and brains are not wired to work at the same time, that's why.
my own brother did the same thing to me.
he got a new iPhone 7 for his girlfriend.
I asked him small cash to repair my infinix
he said he has no money.
this happened last year.




since then I don't ask him for anything again. ever..

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by asawanathegreat(m): 6:24pm On Nov 20, 2017
Lai mohammed will answer this question later?
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by Bolaji002200: 6:26pm On Nov 20, 2017
I take care of my parent....
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by ibkayee(f): 6:26pm On Nov 20, 2017
jashar:
The story though....

You can't really blame the lady na. She's not use to such environment... undecided

But @ the topic. One of my elder Bros dey do such... Go dey pay babe school fees while he no dey send 50k to awa parents.

God is watching him...
grin
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by millionboi2: 6:28pm On Nov 20, 2017
The stupid ones
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by 5ircreepy(m): 6:28pm On Nov 20, 2017
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked

Most times it is beyond them.

If you've ever dated a girl that was bathed in the Ikpobha river or eaten Idikaikong laced with 'kopnomi' before; trust me you won't know when you'd stop picking your parent's call.

I'm talking from experience.

My friend Mmadukaanaya even steals his mother's 'Hollandis' to give Obehi's mom.

Bros I swear, your matter long grin grin grin

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by jashar(f): 6:29pm On Nov 20, 2017
ibkayee:

grin

My sista, weytin I wan talk?

No be my money na....

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by bezimo(m): 6:29pm On Nov 20, 2017
I think it's a mark of high level irresponsibility for a guy to have and not want to take care of his parents..

What people don't realize is that you attract devine blessings(Ex 20:12; Eph 6:2) when you take care of your parents by giving to them in the little way you can unlike when you give to a girlfriend who might dump you anytime she gets a better option.

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by Brunel(m): 6:29pm On Nov 20, 2017
Womanpleaser:
Male folks, you are all invited to participate in this conversation.

In all ramifications, this negative trend is quite disheartening, alarming.

After God, your family ought to be a priority.

Let me quickly share a true life story:

Jackson took his fiancee to the village for the purpose of introducing the woman he intends to marry to his parent.

She politely rejected the drinking water his parent served her bcoz it was dirty (instead went to the car to get a bottled water).

Later during the day, due to the unhygienic condition of the toilet, she politely refused to use the toilet, instead held urine in her bladder.

His parents said the lady was rude & not a marriage material.

Diz is a lady who is neat, ambitious, humble, intelligent, & responsible.

She was disappointed in her fiance bcoz he is very rich but failed to transform the lives of his poor parents.

She cut off the affair on the basis of his irresponsibility & wickedness.

Many men fall under this category.

You buy Iphone 8 for girlfriend but can't give your parents N50,000.

MEN, WHY

According to Robert Mugabe, it is caused by witchcraft.
He says when you think of the kind of girls you spent money on instead of your family, you know witchcraft is real
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by zynzyn(m): 6:30pm On Nov 20, 2017
Benita27:
Most guys are guilty of this. Their mum would ask for N500 and they'll say they don't have. Meanwhile, they've kept N1,000 aside to give to girlfriend.

S T U P I D I T Y!!
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by Nobody: 6:30pm On Nov 20, 2017
Because my father makes at least 14 times of my salary each year, he should be the one helping me, I need more help

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by kitchen(m): 6:31pm On Nov 20, 2017
Wen u see such guy, u shld ask him. End of story
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by AZeD1(m): 6:31pm On Nov 20, 2017
eleojo23:


What happened to family? We are talking about parents here o. The people who took care of you before the so called 'sweety' came along.

No matter how you look at it, it is not right to neglect one's parents all in the name of setting priorities.




A man's family is his wife and kids.....
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by joenor(m): 6:31pm On Nov 20, 2017
You are rightm but if we nor still give una... una go complain say the guy too stingy and only look after his parents.
Benita27:
Most guys are guilty of this. Their mum would ask for N500 and they'll say they don't have. Meanwhile, they've kept N1,000 aside to give to girlfriend.

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by MrRitchie: 6:32pm On Nov 20, 2017
It's a village ppl something

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by joenor(m): 6:32pm On Nov 20, 2017
Nice write up there, We hope to change and make good use of our money.
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by Elemi1(m): 6:32pm On Nov 20, 2017
My family comes first...
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by samzzycash(m): 6:33pm On Nov 20, 2017
Whose destiny are they using?

The girl's or the mum's
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by eleojo23: 6:33pm On Nov 20, 2017
AZeD1:
A man's family is his wife and kids.....
...and the parents can go to hell...awesome!

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by Nobody: 6:33pm On Nov 20, 2017
The last thing I'd do is spend more on a lady than the least I'd spend on any member of my family

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by MaryBenn(f): 6:35pm On Nov 20, 2017
Iamdmentor1:
I've never seen a man, a woman cannot fall. Solomon, Anini etc were fallen by women.

So fear women, and in all thy fearing, fear punna

grin grin In all thy fearing grin
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by MaryBenn(f): 6:36pm On Nov 20, 2017
Elemi1:
My family comes first...

When you're married your wife and kids comes first

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by lndigene(m): 6:38pm On Nov 20, 2017
Taking care of parents or any human at all, is honourable. But going forward my response may be a little bit of the trend. Firstly l think taking care of family, refers to immediate family, that is wife and children. On the other hand it may be extended to others based on the degree of resources available and the kind of relationship you may have had of them growing up.
Secondly, some parents are evil, this is hard to believe but it is a fact of life. The greater your distance from them, the better for your future.

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by vicben27(m): 6:38pm On Nov 20, 2017
life is a circle, once a man finds a woman his attention is automatically turned to her, he feels like her protector, her provider n soo on! he MST times tend to forget his root n MST times if he ain't earning much he focuses on his immediate family first before even thinking of his parents. so its a natural instinct . men let's always try to maintain a balance between the two our parents are our pride once they leave this earth all we'll is there pictures n memories


On the other hand.

this answer is very simply, "because TOTO is the sweetest thing on this planet" once you test a good one your MUMU button is automatically activated. its not easy sha must times I try to maintain a balance if if am giving some tin to peter , Paul MST get his on too! talk about the power of Pusssy! women you guyz are wndafully n powerfully made.

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by Nobody: 6:38pm On Nov 20, 2017
Womanpleaser:
Male folks, you are all invited to participate in this conversation.

In all ramifications, this negative trend is quite disheartening, alarming.

After God, your family ought to be a priority.

Let me quickly share a true life story:

Jackson took his fiancee to the village for the purpose of introducing the woman he intends to marry to his parent.

She politely rejected the drinking water his parent served her bcoz it was dirty (instead went to the car to get a bottled water).

Later during the day, due to the unhygienic condition of the toilet, she politely refused to use the toilet, instead held urine in her bladder.

His parents said the lady was rude & not a marriage material.

Diz is a lady who is neat, ambitious, humble, intelligent, & responsible.

She was disappointed in her fiance bcoz he is very rich but failed to transform the lives of his poor parents.

She cut off the affair on the basis of his irresponsibility & wickedness.

Many men fall under this category.

You buy Iphone 8 for girlfriend but can't give your parents N50,000.

MEN, WHY

How many parents really take care of their children?
Many of them give birth like rats to a million children even when they are unfit to financially support a single child. The poor children then have to go through hell to make something decent of their own lives. Then you see those same parents sitting back and hoping the children they never took care of will take care of them.

Let's not get the order right: it is the duty of parents to take care of their children. That is first and primary. Children taking care of parents in return is secondary, though very important too. Personally, I prefer to be the kind of parent that sets my children up for life and make them independently wealthy, and not the kind that cries everywhere that his children are taking care of their women and not of me.

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by MaryBenn(f): 6:38pm On Nov 20, 2017
eleojo23:


...and the parents can go to hell...awesome!

Mr Man, No one goes to hell, your priority becomes your wife and kids first...

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by fatymore(f): 6:40pm On Nov 20, 2017
Maybe men you know.. In my family.. Family first.. Family over everything.. Only women wrappers and sex freaks

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by Rubbiish(m): 6:40pm On Nov 20, 2017
Guys will avoid this thread like plague.....
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by AZeD1(m): 6:40pm On Nov 20, 2017
eleojo23:


...and the parents can go to hell...awesome!
It depends, families are different

I know people who wished their parents were divorced (meanwhile online Nairaland, the popular opinion is think of the kids before divorce)
I have a friend back in uni, he's goal was to make more money than his father because he hated his father and wished him dead.

Point is do not judge from the outside. It's easy to ask why someone is spending for the girlfriend and not the parents but have you asked who was more influential in the guy getting the more?

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