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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by miqos02(m): 10:44am On Nov 22, 2017 |
ok |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by kay29000(m): 10:46am On Nov 22, 2017 |
It is a very complicated topic. Let me share my experience. I went to see a girl... It was already set in our minds that we were going to have sex. So, when I got there, we started off immediately. After a few seconds, she asked me to stop and begged me to leave. I was vexed, and I left. She called me on the phone and apologized, saying she was doing something like that for the first time, and felt somehow. But she then said I should have tried to maybe play with her/smooch her a little, maybe she would have gotten in the mood. So, a few days later, she called again. And I specifically told her I ain't down for bullshiit. Hope you are sure this is what you want this time? She said yes. So, I went to her apartment again. She always turns the light off before I enter. She was already naked when I entered, and I started off with the position she said was her favorite (doggy), and then, after two minutes she asks me to stop again. So I remembered what she told me on the phone, and I slowed down and tried to smooch her boobs, that's how the girl said, "I'll shout rape o! I told you to stop." I jejeli stopped, wore my clothes, left her house and told her via a message I didn't want to have anything to do with her again. Women are really complicated. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by zainmaxwell(m): 10:49am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Oyindidi:but not for long it shows but most people are too blind to see |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by ubunja(m): 10:50am On Nov 22, 2017 |
why dont we all stop having sex with each other and m@sturbate? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() IF YOU ARE A MAN AND U LOVE YOUR FREEDOM STAY AS FAR AWAY FROM VAGINA AS POSSIBLE ![]() ![]() p0rn Money Weed ![]() ![]() 8 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Mynd44: 10:51am On Nov 22, 2017 |
ubunja:What is rational to you? 1 Like |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by uk10(m): 10:54am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Bravo another topic to show that men are rapists as usual,no one talks about the women that molest small children or the female bosses that will demand sex from male workers,but all we talk about is how men rape women 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by webngnews: 10:55am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Oh |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by sharpwriter(m): 10:55am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Jupxter: Good |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 10:56am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Its funny how every topic about rape or sexual harassment is usually tilted to one side....... Men are getting sexually assaulted everyday, when I talk about it, they say "woman dey give you free groove, you dey dull".. Its different standards for both genders... 8 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Mynd44: 10:56am On Nov 22, 2017 |
uk10:What stops you from starting one about women? 4 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by ubunja(m): 10:58am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Mynd44:well your defination of rape was crippled from the start: U MENTIONED RAPE AS UNWANTED PENETRATION. and from the first step the gender that actually has an organ that can penetrate is automatically placed on the negative side. yet a very good number of guys will tell u they lost their virginitty around 9,10,11,12 to the "aunties" who worked as maids at home. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 10:59am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Men's corner.... ![]() I am confused what do you want us to discuss? That we are prospective rapists? ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by uk10(m): 11:01am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Mynd44:we have but the government never takes it seriously,including u feminist that supposed to fight for equality 1 Like |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 11:02am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Mynd44: We should be talking about sexual harrasment and rape in general, not, about a particular gender... One Popular Feminist I know told me it was impossible for a man to get raped because he got an erection.... To her, an erection, equals consent.... Imagine.... 10 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Mynd44: 11:03am On Nov 22, 2017 |
ubunja:Wrong. It says rape is unwanted sexual intercourse OR penetration. Notice the key word "OR" |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by ouigy99(m): 11:04am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Mynd44:@OP, based on what you have stated.... Girls are the ones most guilty of the act. You woo a girl, after some weeks of dating and it's time to have sex, that's when she remembers she hasn't paid her school fees, he needs to make her hair, her mother is sick, the following week is her birthday, her phone got spoilt the previous night; as guy man her Don stand and all him brain Don focus on "drilling the well" in front of him, he has no other option than to promise to take care of those things for her, else she will say "I am not in the mood again", leaving the guy blue balled 1 Like |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by uk10(m): 11:05am On Nov 22, 2017 |
closerange:can u imagine so because there is erection it means u have given consent, the hypocrisy of these feminist 2 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Mynd44: 11:05am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Blackfyre:Can we say it is wrong to call all men potential rapists when we men question what women wear based on assault? We say a woman wears a skimpy top hence she asks for it or tempts the man. We say why are women outside after a certain hour cos we know it is not safe.......isn't that implying that no woman is safe? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Cladez(m): 11:07am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Mynd44:What do you gain from starting one against men? 7 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by obowunmi(m): 11:07am On Nov 22, 2017 |
If you lie to a woman to have sex with her, you are a RAPIST. 1 Like |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Mynd44: 11:08am On Nov 22, 2017 |
ouigy99:But why should you because you gave a gift think you are entitled to sex? Why no say you can't give? 3 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Mynd44: 11:09am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Cladez:Better and safer lives for women 2 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by ubunja(m): 11:10am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Mynd44:ditch "PENETRATION" it will make it asexual and outside gender.as long as penetration is there u making only men rapists. just say :rape is unwanted sexual intercourse. short, sweet and no gender prejudiced 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nymeria247(m): 11:10am On Nov 22, 2017 |
This is a very sensitive topic. There is actually a very thin line between consent, harassment and heavy petting; especially if the parties are not MARRIED. As men, I advise that we should be very careful in our indoor dealings with the opposite sex as not every no means yes....Imagine how helpless and disgusted you'll feel if you are held down through sheer brute force and your privates poked and fondled by someone you trusted or by strangers? No means no and it carries a very huge sentence and a lifetime stigma.... ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Afritop(m): 11:14am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Women are the greatest rapist. A catwalking woman that dresses in a sexually destructive manner in a see through dress and denge pose in front a sexually frustrated mad man and thinks nothing will happen is a rapist 4 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 11:15am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Mynd44: Stop trying to please women on the forum as you have become famous for. The reality stands, it is wrong to force a wife into sex, it is also bad for a woman to withold sex from her husband ( in some context ), if they both appear before a hearing and the man lies and claims she was punishing him, or refuses to talk and says it's a family issue, will the court kill them? Cases are not prosecuted without clear evidences and since it's a case of one person's word against the other, it's not an easy case to settle. Moreso, no wife will like to take her husband to court for such flimsy reasons, people don't go to such extent to fight their interests and come back as friends. As a minister of God, one of the two things God has trained me through my growing years to avoid is judging " marital cases ". I don't believe in rape in marriage, and i don't believe in interfering in marriages. WHY? Two people met themselves and agreed to be together, discussed the terms of engagement, only both of them can fix issues between them. Before a woman will withhold sex from a man, they is strain in the relationship that wasn't addressed, they didn't just get there in a day. If people want healthy marriages, they should cultivate it.Rape is an after effect of an unhealthy marriage. So rather than dealing with after effects, why not fix the main issue? 15 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 11:16am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Blackfyre: Bro you don burst my head ![]() ![]() |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 11:20am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Mynd44: You're sounding like a woman pleaser. The desire to keep many female friends on the forum has alleviated your objectivity in how you debate issues. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Khayge: 11:20am On Nov 22, 2017 |
The thread is a good one. If you want to verify consent, ask your girlfriend when she's in her right senses of she'd like to have sex with you. She'd probably say NO. When she's Hot, ask her the same question. We as guys of this generation should try as much as possible to put our urges under leash. For those that have partners, try to understand your partners... Someone said sex is a 2 way thing.. True, most importantly, the lady's satisfaction should be your utmost desire. You can satisfy her even without sex. The bottom line is, when she's warmed up, Hot and all in the mood, don't trust her judgement. That's where she needs you as the guy to make the right decision to protect her in spite of how high your adrenaline or testosterone is leading. 2 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by ibkayee(f): 11:22am On Nov 22, 2017 |
I love me some Mynd44 1 Like |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Mynd44: 11:23am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Afritop:This is wrong on all levels. Is she responsible for his sexual frustration? 2 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Mynd44: 11:26am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Jupxter:Desire to keep female friends? How about the desire to protect women? Thought of that? 2 Likes |
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