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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by tunjilana: 11:26am On Nov 22, 2017 |
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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by tunjilana: 11:27am On Nov 22, 2017 |
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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 11:27am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Mynd44: Women wear skimpy dresses to appear sexy but cringe when they are addressed as such, as for me, any woman can wear whatever she pleases, the only reason why I frown against skimpy dresses, is because it makes it easier for sexual harrasment or rape to occur, its easier to uncloth a skimpily dressed person... Secondly, no one is safe after "certain hours", its a pity, that is the way the world is, as a guy, you may be lynched, robbed, maimed or raped, for the girls, you may be robbed or raped... Saying one shouldn't be out at certain hours is simple preventive measure... Same reason we advice people to lock their homes... Its not a perfect world. 4 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by tunjilana: 11:28am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Mynd44:If a man takes off his trousers in public or wears a boxers with solid erection and walk around in public, is it harassment? 4 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Daeylar(f): 11:28am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Mynd44:Perfect answer. I don't know why they do that, You'll see a topic on how a woman was raped or a woman speaking about rape and instead of everyone to focused on the topic they start whining about how rape is only discussed when it's about a woman but you'll never see them start a topic or discussion of how men are raped. Nice thread 3 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 11:29am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Mynd44:you Said 90% of Rape Cases Have Men As The aggressors. Thats What You Think... Females Harrass men Alot as Well As Rape... Maybe You Have Not Seen Where A Group Of Girls get Hold Of A Guy And Grab His Private And rough Handle His Balls and They Find It Entertainin. The Most Most Common Is when These Female Rapists inject A Guy's dick And Gets It So Hard, that They Would Side Him Turn By Turn For Hours and Make Him Ejaculate over And Over with The Penis still Solid Hard... May Be You Didnt Know That ejaculatin continiously in A Roll Suddenly Becomes Painful and Starts Drainin Blood... You Cant 90% are Male rapists... Women Rapist are Rampant these Days... There Were Cases Of Rape i Had Of Where The Girls Raped the Guys To Death... Out Of 100% rape Cases i Will Give Women 40% 2 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Daeylar(f): 11:30am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Mynd44: Applause, again. Now you see why |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Mynd44: 11:30am On Nov 22, 2017 |
tunjilana:Who cares what you wear Oga? 1 Like |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Daeylar(f): 11:31am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Tozara, how do you see the topic? |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Mynd44: 11:32am On Nov 22, 2017 |
DeadRat:Why is it that it is when you see a topic talking about women you choose to talk about this? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by BenzEne1(m): 11:32am On Nov 22, 2017 |
ouigy99: Ummm, how do you determine that it's time for sex? Not that I'm in support of buying stuff for girls because of sex. But same way she says no to sex, you also can say no to buying her stuff if you feel its becoming a trade. And if the urge is that much you can always tell her and get it somewhere else. 1 Like |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 11:33am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Khayge: Are you for real? Are we talking about a full grown woman here or a baby? 4 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Daeylar(f): 11:34am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Mynd44: Imagine a lady comes to visit you and at 1am, you ask her for sex. She turns you down and you threaten to throw her out knowing well that she has nowhere to go at that time and she is also in danger if she does and because of that, she agrees, is that consent? No Imagine the Manager asking one of the receptionists for sex with the receptionist knowing well that she is at risk of losing her job so she agrees. Is that consent? Your girl visits you, you make those romantic moves but she was not all for it and says no so you "lockup" two hours later, you take her out, buy her drinks and when you are both home, you have sex with her, she probably even took your shirt off for you but is that consent? He got the girl drunk, not consent. You are a civil servant and someone wants a file submitted but you tell her to come see you in the photocopy room first, she agrees but is that consent? We as men need to do better. We need to drop the bullshit and rise about it. A girl is walking down the road and you and your friends turn it into a chance to make unsavory noises cos you think they are compliments…but isnt that harassment? Harassment 1001% You have convinced yourself that women say no but mean yes. Bruh, dont play that game……no does not and will not mean yes. Even silence does not mean yes. Because she is wet is not even mean consent. What's the worst that can happen if you dont have sex when turned on? Cc tozara 1 Like |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 11:34am On Nov 22, 2017 |
As long as the individual agrees, it is consent! The individual traded values for an option. You don't compromise your values because of a threat. Tho, the guys shouting is pure harassment. 1 Like |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 11:36am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Mynd44: Because the world is full of "topic talking about women", while those about men are ignored. 3 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 11:36am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Mynd44: Quit whining I see through you. There's no iota of objectivity in your facts' presentation. 3 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Mynd44: 11:37am On Nov 22, 2017 |
majekdom2:So you are saying consent by coercion is consent? 3 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by TSOM(m): 11:37am On Nov 22, 2017 |
If you make sensually suggestive comments at or about a female who isn't into you or isn't edging you on actively or passively, you are sexually harassing her. A lot of male Nairalanders are guilty of this. A female comments and the next is, " You look beautiful. You would be sweet in bed o. I'll fûck you till you cûm..." Such perversion. The sad thing is, female Nairalanders ( Romancelanders, especially) revel in this and later complain about being regard as nothing more than sexual objects. 2 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Mynd44: 11:37am On Nov 22, 2017 |
closerange:How many have you created? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 11:40am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Mynd44: You would be surprised if I told you... |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 11:41am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Mynd44: So you call a man potential rapist because of his opinion? See lets face reality and not deceive ourselves. Women in nigeria have to come to terms with the culture is never going to change because how a woman should dress is forever etched into the fabric of our society. Now they shouldn't use the culture as an excuse for the reason why women get raped. That is complete trash... This rape issue is a delicate issue, and if we are to be honest with ourselves it cuts both ways. That a woman thinks if she dresses provocatively ALL men will not see anything wrong in it is great deceit. Not all men are normal, some peeps have really fuckd up background so to think that everyone will respond to certain things in a uniform acceptable manner is plainly stupid. This is where discretion should come from females and they should conduct themselves in the manner that won't make them prey under certain circumstances and climes. It is the truth of the matter, whether you accept it or not. Now I do not support rapist irrespective of whatever led to it, they should face the full wrath of the law. The law is in this case our government, you and I know the sort of government we have. The punishment has to be more severe that it will put dread into anyone who contemplates it. Hopefully, we get there. At the end of the day, it is better safe than sorry. 2 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by uk10(m): 11:42am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Daeylar:there was a topic brought to nairaland about a man being raped by 3 women,and u women were busy finding it funny and claiming that he enjoyed it 2 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 11:42am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Mynd44:Oga you Sef don De Monitor Me... I Don Blow Be That o... Bro. Seriously! Its A Discussion You Raised na... Naturally I Like To Stand For Women When They Are right and Still Abuse Them When They Are Wrong... Its Called "Being Fair Enough" ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by AlfaSeltzer(m): 11:43am On Nov 22, 2017 |
closerange: Please where do that happen? I want to visit. |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 11:46am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Mynd44: There is no such thing as consent by coersion not if a gun isn't held to your head...... If your boss wants to sleep with you a with your job at stake, you should sue him for sexual harassment, if you choose to sleep with him however, in order to keep your job, you have lost the right to complain... You gave your consent, you simply preferred your job to your dignity... That part isn't a fault on your boss, its a fault in your character.... 8 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by jaxxy(m): 11:46am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Mynd44: I think we all know wat rape is bt lets define sexual harassment. Its taking a new dimension in the western world and probably for good bt even the so called best men or people out there and celebrities have fallen short in this area and are even seen as predatory. Following past events on this most suspects are already guilty until proven innocent. Its that bad. Some suspects have almost immediately lost public respect due to this outcry from their victims. Do u think the victims are not being fair as sm few people have spoken out in defense of the suspect....What exactly is Sexual harassment. 2 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by shaybebaby(f): 11:46am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Mynd44:Imma just drop this here. ![]() https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JjPMsjphCUU 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by jaxxy(m): 11:46am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Mynd44: I think we all know wat rape is bt let define sexual harassment. Its taking a new dimension in the western world and probably for good bt even the so called best men or people out there and celebrities have fallen short in this area and are even seen as predatory. Following past events on this most suspect are already guilty until proven innocent. Its that bad. Some suspects have almost immediately lost public respect due to this outcry from their victims. Do u think the victims are not being fair as sm few people have spoken out in defense of the suspect.... if i say i like ur butt to a lady is dat sexual harassment?? ...What exactly is Sexual harassment. |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by AlfaSeltzer(m): 11:50am On Nov 22, 2017 |
jaxxy: Really? |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Mynd44: 11:51am On Nov 22, 2017 |
jaxxy:Isn't that why we are here? To talk about and define what harrassment is so we can u learn and learn. I have given some instances in the original post |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by bekpo(m): 11:54am On Nov 22, 2017 |
Oyindidi: She's saying rubbish, is she not his wife? Is it not her duty to consummate her marriage? What's d essence of marriage if couples r not ready to consummate their marriage? 1 Like |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by jaxxy(m): 11:55am On Nov 22, 2017 |
AlfaSeltzer: Rape is pretty clear cut. If the person says No its No irrespective of wether its ur wife or gf or uve done the deed b4 and u force ur way it Rape. If u also drug a person to get laid its rape, if u get the person drunk to get laid its pure rape lol. Did i leave anything out? 3 Likes |
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