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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 1:12pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
Ikillfools: Tushe. You've spoken well. On point |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by chic2pimp(m): 1:13pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
Sagamite:FCu...k Me ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 1:14pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
Daeylar:It is a sad situation. |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Daeylar(f): 1:19pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 1:20pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
We find it easy to criminalize rape but toilets keeps getting filled daily with fetuses. The problem is not the act but the lack of mutual agreement to the act. How about, keep sex for marriage? |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by TSOM(m): 1:22pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
Ikillfools:True. Except she sexually objectifies herself like a lot of females do now on and off Nairaland - dressing deliberately provokingly and uploading pictures to focus on their butts and boobs - I guess she hasn't given passive consent or invitations to be treated as a plaything. If you dress like a whöre, you forfeited the right to be treated like a duchess. She can't claim sexual harassment but rape is a not an option. 1 Like |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 1:24pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
DaddyKross: Thanks, man. This brain is over-blessed by all the Gods of the Human race in abundance. 2 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 1:24pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
MhisTahrah:After family don bill me left and right, you dey find the right to close ya legs ehn? Issorite 2 Likes
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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by raumdeuter: 1:27pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
MhisTahrah: If wife withholds sex, husband threatens divorce on the basis of no sex and she grudgingly accept. Is that consent or rape |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 1:27pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
chic2pimp: Yes o, my bruv. It is really me with Sango, Ogun, Yemoja and Obatala watching over me and 1000 babes behind me waiting for my pure fuku faka fuku faka German-machine looooooooooooove making. ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by chic2pimp(m): 1:36pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
Sagamite: Hahaha ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 1:37pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
Mynd44: It is, as long as you are NOT threatened with physical harm/restraint or threatened that someone you care about would be armed HENCE you still have the free will to say no. That said, coercion that involves threat of non-physical negative consequences (that are not rape) should still be punishable under the law. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Ikillfools: 1:38pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
Jupxter:Okey dokey. |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Tozara(m): 1:39pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
Afritop:You're the biggest fool on the planet. 3 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by raumdeuter: 1:41pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
Sagamite: You this man. Where have you been Ok on this, if a girl needs money and the guy told her he would only give after sex, is that coercion and is it punishable? If a man threatens to breakup with his babe if he doesn't get sex, is that coercion and should it be punishable |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 1:42pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
chic2pimp: I have purposely been away, man. This forum has not missed my intellectual slaughterings at all. The owner has intentionally decided it is a business strategy to fill the place with fucktards, cretins, retards, morons and products of a failed education system, so intellect is really not needed or wanted. You can see the result yourself. That is the mentality of a Nigerian/black businessman for you. While the likes of Facebook and Amazon that started in roughly the same period have evolved to greater things, NL has intentional evolved to retardation by the owner and moderators. Utter JUNK! It does not deserve my presence. I am far above it! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 1:44pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
raumdeuter: No, it is not coercion except she is entitled to what she is asking for under the laws and constitution. What you described in there are barter. She is free to give and take OR waka pass. 1 Like |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Ikillfools: 1:45pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
TSOM:some females still say it's their God given right to dress they way they see fit, be them going almost nude_ or nude_ without guys harassing them. For me, I've come to the conclusion that most female are sexually attractive, and i'll approach them like that. it's left for them to accept or decline. be them dressing like a whore_ or a saint. it doesn't matter. I once made a sexual overture to a reverend sister and she blushed. now this is someone who wasn't dressed scantily, though her boobs, curves and hips hug and cloth very well, it made my imagination come alive with lewd thoughts... 3 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 1:45pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
raumdeuter: I almost forgot. This motherfucker is DayoKanu. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() How na? 2 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Tozara(m): 1:47pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
Daeylar:It's a nice thread. But the OP won't achieve his goal----the thread won't serve its purpose. You just watch. |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Daeylar(f): 1:47pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
I will never accept victim blaming in any way or form NEVER!!!! A woman's dressing will never ever be an excuse for rape. Instead of trying to create a society where people know, men know, that no matter how a woman dresses the thought of sexually harrasing her is not acceptable not to talk about carrying it out, we would rather tell women to cover up, to protect herself from predators?? Tacitly passing a message that if you dress in a certain way, you are inviting rape, tacitly telling rapists that they have an excuse, never ever acceptable, Kids are raped, Muslim women covered head to toe are raped, well dressed women are raped, as we have seen countless times the problem is not the clothes, So that dress well bullshīt is DOA. The problem is the animals that are raping people, our solution should bother on how to get rid of the animals, and maybe teach the younger generation better values so that they know, no matter what was worn, rape is never acceptable, not to start attacking victims Victim blaming culture is wrong. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by raumdeuter: 1:48pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
Sagamite: Ok good. If this was a job in my company or a role in my movie or a favor I can grant And I decide to ask for sex in return for granting those Is this coercion and is it punishable |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by raumdeuter: 1:50pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
Sagamite: I dey o. how's jennykadry All the babes left me here. Even that amala guzzling ori eja called ifyalways go waka pass and do as if she no sabi me |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Tozara(m): 1:52pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
ouigy99:Yeah, motherfucking rapist with a crocodile brain. If you can't control your reptilian impulses, you also don't know the way to the brothel? These clowns will say any rubbish to justify rape. 1 Like |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 1:52pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
raumdeuter: Yes. It is in the category of my "Inappropriate Behaviour" in a professional setting. It is similar to discrimination and should be fine-able. |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Ikillfools: 1:53pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
Daeylar:victim blaming indeed. when will you ever learn you can't force people to think/reason like you. or have you forgotten "Prevention is better than cure"? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 1:54pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
raumdeuter: Ah, she is fine o. Currently on her 8th pregnancy for me. Ifyalways is bitter about this because she has only had 7 for me, that is why she does not want to talk to anyone. ![]() |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by raumdeuter: 1:57pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
Sagamite: Wait so how's the girl wants my money scenario different from girl wants my job, wants my movie role. Wants accommodation and I told her I can accommodate if she gives me sex. Naturally she wouldn't have done any of these but because of her limited options she grudgingly makes the choice |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 1:59pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
kay29000: You did the right thing and she is mad! 4 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by TSOM(m): 2:01pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
Ikillfools:What the...?! Hands up. You win. I'm daring but not that daring. |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 2:04pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
raumdeuter: Your job is in the public sphere, under public economic laws and regulation. Once you become a business, you are answerable to government and its business policies Your money or your relationship is not in the public sphere or subject to government regulations. In your first examples (money and relationships), she wanted something personal that you don't want to give her without benefits and you wanted something personal she does not want to give you without benefits. Both are not things you owe each other or are legally entitled to. So you both barter or waka! 2 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by raumdeuter: 2:05pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
I have been looking for a topic that discusses this because it's a huge topic now all over, everyday one celebrity is getting accused of rape To me, I agree with you. I won't categorize them together. I'll rank them 1. Sex with minor, 2. Sex using physical force or weapon to subdue 3. Making uninvited sexual actions towards another like grabbing ass breast or any erotic part of her body 4. Exposing yourself sexually when it wasn't requested 5. Use of position to request sexual favors 6. Overtures and sexual negotiation 1 and 2 are the animals and deserve the worst punishment possible especially 1. It should be life jail or death 3 and 4 should be punishable. 3. Should be misdemeanor 4. Psychiatric evaluation and therapy on how to behave in society or get women to like you 5. Take away the position from the abuser of the position 6. No offence Nihilist diggz ibime afrodoc2 a40 what do you think 1 Like 1 Share |
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