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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 2:35pm On Nov 22, 2017
inVinceable:


You call rape a trivial issue? Bro wake up!! You could bag a life sentence if convicted.


I didn't call rape a trivial issue. Don't misquote me rape isn't trivial. I mentioned lack of sexual satisfaction in the marriage someone quoted earlier. I want to ask you, do you think in every marriage there isn't a time where one party doesn't want sex and the other took it? You think every marriage doesn't go through such a phase? Don't kid yourself, be realistic please

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by raumdeuter: 2:36pm On Nov 22, 2017
Jupxter:



If you see how they were celebrating like they won an olympic medal.

Sex is now a commodity, i tell young ones, keep sex for marriage, control yourselves, but if you can't marry, if you can't marry and want sex, then go buy it.It's sold cheaply thesedays cheesy

There are some places you can't buy sex, that it's illegal to trade sex
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 2:36pm On Nov 22, 2017
raumdeuter:


Raping a child is the worst offence possible and the dick cutting is appropriate or outright killing the offender after he is tried and found guilty


Be careful less you fall off your moral high horse. Trial and persecution is the right way to go, which one is cut off dick
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 2:37pm On Nov 22, 2017
Sagamite:


Unhappiness is a deal breaker for me.

When that is there, I find it quite easy to live.

ONE LIFE! And life is already a challenge, don't waste your one.

I am an Happiness Addict!


I like your mantra. I'mma buy into it. The moment my energy begins to drain, i think i'll bail up and move from now cheesy

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 2:38pm On Nov 22, 2017
Daeylar:

Perfect answer.
I don't know why they do that,
You'll see a topic on how a woman was raped or a woman speaking about rape and instead of everyone to focused on the topic they start whining about how rape is only discussed when it's about a woman but you'll never see them start a topic or discussion of how men are raped.

Nice thread

I can guarantee you their hidden grievances are:

1) It is used to demonise all men.

2) If the tables are turned, majority of women would not see it as a big deal or would refuse to support the man out of self-advantage preservation.

Many women and society at large are too comfortable with misandry but yet think men should be the champions of misogyny.

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 2:38pm On Nov 22, 2017
raumdeuter:


There are some places you can't buy sex, that it's illegal to trade sex

That's in the open. Even in Arab countries, i have fiends that have been there and returned with first hand experiences, even in those countries, one can buy sex. Life ! My mentee spent two years in a few arab countries, so i know this as a fact !
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by inVinceable: 2:38pm On Nov 22, 2017
Khayge:
The thread is a good one.
If you want to verify consent, ask your girlfriend when she's in her right senses of she'd like to have sex with you. She'd probably say NO. When she's Hot, ask her the same question.
We as guys of this generation should try as much as possible to put our urges under leash.
For those that have partners, try to understand your partners... Someone said sex is a 2 way thing.. True, most importantly, the lady's satisfaction should be your utmost desire. You can satisfy her even without sex.

The bottom line is, when she's warmed up, Hot and all in the mood, don't trust her judgement. That's where she needs you as the guy to make the right decision to protect her in spite of how high your adrenaline or testosterone is leading.

Is sexual urge a masculine emotion??

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by raumdeuter: 2:39pm On Nov 22, 2017
Jupxter:



Be careful less you fall off your moral high horse. Trial and persecution is the right way to go, which one is cut off dick

And what is the persecution or prosecution you suggest for a child rapist.

Even in jail, there is a special horrible treatment for child rapists

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 2:41pm On Nov 22, 2017
closerange:


Because the world is full of "topic talking about women", while those about men are ignored.

And a lot of men are tired of such nonsense bias!

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Ikillfools: 2:41pm On Nov 22, 2017
TSOM:

What the...?!

Hands up. You win. I'm daring but not that daring.

come on now. they don't bite. a simple compliment lightens their mood. lol.
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by raumdeuter: 2:41pm On Nov 22, 2017
Jupxter:


That's in the open. Even in Arab countries, i have fiends that have been there and returned with first hand experiences, even in those countries, one can buy sex. Life ! My mentee spent two years in a few arab countries, so i know this as a fact !

It's possible to be done underground and through illegal means. That means you need to flout the laws to satisfy sexual needs

Not only in Arab countries, there are many countries in the West where exchange of sex for money i.e prostitution is illegal
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 2:42pm On Nov 22, 2017
raumdeuter:


And what is the persecution or prosecution you suggest for a child rapist.

Even in jail, there is a special horrible treatment for child rapists


Every nation has a set rule of how rapists are to be handled not by words in opinion courts here. You can dish out whatever's convenient for you to look good, but i'm sure you're not that good. Quit sounding too sanctimonious my dear, we all have a weak spot
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 2:43pm On Nov 22, 2017
raumdeuter:


It's possible to be done underground and through illegal means. That means you need to flout the laws to satisfy sexual needs

Not only in Arab countries, there are many countries in the West where exchange of sex for money i.e prostitution is illegal


Every country on earth has some form of sexual exploitation trust me. Sex now ranks high in human daily needs competing hardly with energy and food
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by raumdeuter: 2:46pm On Nov 22, 2017
Jupxter:



Every nation has a set rule of how rapists are to be handled not by words in opinion courts here. You can dish out whatever's convenient for you to look good, but i'm sure you're not that good. Quit sounding too sanctimonious my dear, we all have a weak spot

Sanctimonious Is that what you cal someone who has no tolerance for people who rape children? To me they are the worst human

You asked for opinion of what the youths did was right. And I told you mine. Maybe you might have more tolerance for child rapists but I don't see why a man who rapes a 3yr old should be alive
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by raumdeuter: 2:47pm On Nov 22, 2017
Jupxter:



Every country on earth has some form of sexual exploitation trust me. Sex now ranks high in human daily needs competing hardly with energy and food

There are places that it's illegal, so if you are to buy sex you'll have to do it illegally
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 2:47pm On Nov 22, 2017
raumdeuter:


Sanctimonious Is that what you cal someone who has no tolerance for people who rape children? To me they are the worst human

You asked for opinion of what the youths did was right. And I told you mine. Maybe you might have more tolerance for child rapists but I don't see why a man who rapes a 3yr old should be alive


Oga i have more intolerance towards all rapists than you. Raping a child deserves a death sentence if enshrined in the law. We're not far apart in our opinion. I simply mean the law should carry out its course so the innocent isn't punished as it does in some cases. Remember Mike Tyson?
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 2:48pm On Nov 22, 2017
raumdeuter:


There are places that it's illegal, so if you are to buy sex you'll have to do it illegally

yES NA ILLEGALLY. I'm well informed even in areas where Sharia is strict, sex is still sold. Life.
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 2:49pm On Nov 22, 2017
Daeylar:


You what ??
Did you see my moniker there?? ?? ?? ?? ?? Did you see itttt?? ?? ?? ??

Which one is u women?? ?? ?

Behave..


Furthermore, haven't you seen threads where a woman would be raped and some men say the woman enjoyed it?? ??


With that said.

Rape is bad, we should speak out against rape no matter the gender, that should be the goal.

Not trying to silence anyone who is speaking out against women being raped because men get raped and it seems like it is taken less seriously.

That's wrong, it's not everytime a topic has to become women verses men,

The right thing to do is to speak against rape on both genders and correct any misconceptions about rape the way mynd44 is doing. That's what you should be doing,


Not this women vs men rape case you want to start.

Those are NL heroes and the type of people wanted on NL.

If the place was well-ran, such people would be banned asap because it would be judged they have nothing sensible to contribute.

But NL likes them reeetarded!

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by inVinceable: 2:50pm On Nov 22, 2017
Jupxter:



I didn't call rape a trivial issue. Don't misquote me rape isn't trivial. I mentioned lack of sexual satisfaction in the marriage someone quoted earlier. I want to ask you, do you think in every marriage there isn't a time where one party doesn't want sex and the other took it? You think every marriage doesn't go through such a phase? Don't kid yourself, be realistic please

Rather than charge for rape in marriage, file for Divorce!!
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 2:51pm On Nov 22, 2017
inVinceable:


Rather than charge for rape in marriage, file for Divorce!!


And for a woman that depends wholly for the husband, what should happen?

You're still single. When you marry and your spouse does what you hate, you'll know what's up then, that breaking up isn't as easy as beans. What about kids?
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 2:51pm On Nov 22, 2017
Sagamite:


And a lot of men are tired of such nonsense bias!

Really tired, they trying to rub it in our faces..

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by jaxxy(m): 2:51pm On Nov 22, 2017
AlfaSeltzer:


So I spent the night with my gf and we made sweet love. Then in the middle of the night I woke up and saw her sexy body by my side and the urge came and I penetrated her while she was still sleeping naked by my side. She woke up while I was inside her. Did I rape her?

No u didn't! if it was indeed ur gf cos she didn't resist or say no. So its like a continuum. Also it depends on the dept of ur relationship u hv with her bt most times dat shudnt be an issue however i wud say sm gals may not like it bt she wudnt see it as rape either.
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by raumdeuter: 2:52pm On Nov 22, 2017
Jupxter:



Oga i have more intolerance towards all rapists than you. Raping a child deserves a death sentence if enshrined in the law. We're not far apart in our opinion. I simply mean the law should carry out its course so the innocent isn't punished as it does in some cases. Remember Mike Tyson?

If you want what's eshrined In the law then we shouldn't have a discussion Just go with the letter of the law.

So if the law of the land says a child rapist should be rewarded with a title it will be okay with you since its the law?

There are places where punishment for child rape is to mandate the offender to marry the victim, is that also okay by you since its eshrined In that law

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 2:53pm On Nov 22, 2017
raumdeuter:


If you want what's eshrined In the law then we shouldn't have a discussion Just go with the letter of the law.

So if the law of the land says a child rapist should be rewarded with a title it will be okay with you since its the law?

There are places where punishment for child rape is to mandate the offender to marry the victim, is that also okay by you since its eshrined In that law


Please don't make my associates think i support leniency for child rape. In fact, i endorse reviewing the law across the world and make sure all perpetrators of such act are killed instantly, please stop misconstruing my comments. To me, the worst crime in life isn't miurder, but child rape. I can't even imagine it. I'll go vomit now. Let's end the debate abeg !
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 2:54pm On Nov 22, 2017
Afritop:
Women are the greatest rapist.
A catwalking woman that dresses in a sexually destructive manner in a see through dress and denge pose in front a sexually frustrated mad man and thinks nothing will happen is a rapist

You are a cretinous person and product of a failed education system.

Are you from Kaduna State?
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 2:55pm On Nov 22, 2017
Sagamite:


You are a cretinous person and product of a failed education system.

Are you from Kaduna State?

Hehehe You an this cliche " product of a failed educational system "


I have three neighbors they are teachers, when i see their acts after school and during weekends, i laugh my head off. This country needs help
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 2:56pm On Nov 22, 2017
MhisTahrah:
Wife not sex object.Sex is not a right that comes with marriage.It is not a wife's duty.

...She can't open her legs simply because her husband wants it. She doesn't give up her right to say yes or no the day she gets married.

...Wives do not belong to their husbands.Sex should be based on consent.

...However wives should under no circumstances withold sex from their husbands except there is a genuine reason for this.And even when she does,you have no right to rape her.


Fcking well said!

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 2:58pm On Nov 22, 2017
MhisTahrah:
Wife not sex object.Sex is not a right that comes with marriage.It is not a wife's duty.

...She can't open her legs simply because her husband wants it. She doesn't give up her right to say yes or no the day she gets married.

...Wives do not belong to their husbands.Sex should be based on consent.

...However wives should under no circumstances withold sex from their husbands except there is a genuine reason for this.And even when she does,you have no right to rape her.



Stop contracting yourself. Get married first, keep one for five years, and subject this thesis to test. Stop dishing out counsel without appropriatey


Sex isn't hard labor. Disabuse your mind

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 2:58pm On Nov 22, 2017
happney65:
Me if and when I want to have a secretary..I will tell her in simple and plain language before employing her..You go dey fuckkk me for office dey suck my balls..if she agrees she is employed if not make she go find work elsewhere..

I won't tell her that after I have employed her..

I would love to be a judge and have a reeetard like you in my court for such a case.

She would not need to work for the next 5 years with the compensation she would get.

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by inVinceable: 2:59pm On Nov 22, 2017
Jupxter:



And for a woman that depends wholly for the husband, what should happen?

You're still single. When you marry and your spouse does what you hate, you'll know what's up then, that breaking up isn't as easy as beans. What about kids?

Then seek better ways to manage sex in 'your' marriage.
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 3:02pm On Nov 22, 2017
peterphd:


Oga, the patriarchy has brought civilization thus far. If it ain't broke don't fix it. Show us matriarchal societies as advanced. I dare say any Society that swaps it's gender roles is doomed. God forbid a household where the her crows and the cock cowers.

I dare say with your level of intellect, it would do you a world of good to partner with a woman that would take your gender role.

We need sensible people to lead families, and that does not always have to be a man.

Advanced societies and institutions are based on giving people responsibilies based merit, not gender.

Ode oshi!

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 3:04pm On Nov 22, 2017
Sagamite been a long time...purposely went in search of your monicker one time....welcome back....grin


Thankfully....someone agrees with me all these conservative,liberalism,centrism ideologies is complete bullshit....feels good to be understood....grin

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