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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Oyindidi(f): 6:36pm On Nov 22, 2017
Daeylar:



So much stupidity in one post. It took me out.


Just Too damn much.
Just imagine her last line, a human being made this comment . And you think you can say what a sane or a guided human being will do when you're not sane.


How? Did I ever say go nakêd in the presence of males? Can you point out where I said that? And even if so damn what?



That statement is saying that what a woman wears is never an excuse to be raped. If it were this point bolded wouldn't be true.

"Kids are raped, Muslim women covered head to toe are raped, well dressed women are raped, as we have seen countless times the problem is not the clothes,
So that dress well bullshīt is DOA."



And Even if she is naked in the man's presence she does not deserve to be raped.




You are just doing the exact same thing he is doing.

Refusal or inability to read and comprehend or just the decision to be obtuse.



Only that your last line makes it worse.
What kind of madness is that at your last line?

A human being will be raped and cannot do anything about it? You are sick. Yet you think you can say what a sane human being can and cannot do.

Imagine a human being who pretends to be "sane" and "guided" justifying rape and ends with there is nothing a victim can do.

You are disgusting.

Thanks for this post. 2 years old kids are raped in this wicked world we live. Did they seduce the imbeciles that raped them? I wonder why people post trash for likes

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 6:36pm On Nov 22, 2017
Sagamite:


Not for the last 3 years and I have been off for 2 years.
Oh. Welcome back then. How was the long vacation?
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Martin0(m): 6:37pm On Nov 22, 2017
shaybebaby:

I did not dispute men being visual but in addition, I am saying women are the same as well (I love me a nice male butt and it is a turn on).

We are civilised now and a big part of that is controlling our primal urges. Ever had road rage? Where you want to Fvcking smash someone's head in? I bet you have, so do many people. But control is the word here. Will there be provocation? In whatever form, visual, verbal etc? Yup.

But because we are no longer cave dwellers, hunter gatherers driven primarily by instinct to survive (that includes procreation), we have evolved (both male and female) to tame those instincts.

We live in the age of reason now, and reason dictates there is simply no valid excuse not even, "you know men get aroused visually". Yes we know you do, but anyone who can't control themselves, it's on them. Their failure.


I totally agree 1gozzilion time
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 6:38pm On Nov 22, 2017
Oyindidi:
Thanks for this post. 2 years old kids are raped in this wicked world we live. Did they seduce the imbeciles that raped them? I wonder why people post trash for likes
Ma'am. You didn't even see what the argument was about before jumping to comment "people post trash for likes".

You are the one who obviously jumped to comment right now. Like a ****. smiley

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 6:39pm On Nov 22, 2017
Lefulefu, we need popcorn here.

The comments are getting juicer.
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 6:39pm On Nov 22, 2017
Sagamite:


I am always fair and objective, so I have self control.

I don't want to go to jail or harm anybody while I have fun. And it is not fun when the other person is not a willing participant or even a participant.

I will catch my fun somewhere else on another day.
I guess that's the smartest thing to do. grin
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by shaybebaby(f): 6:41pm On Nov 22, 2017
Mariinee:
Actually, it is true. Men are more vulnerable sexually than women. An average man would react to the sight of a big boobs in ecstasy while an average woman will react to the sight of a big dick in horror or irritation(albeit feigned).

Why is it easier for a woman to tempt a man with her body than for a man to tempt a woman with his body? For women, sex is secondary and for men, it is primary.
I didn't say men lose all their wits when they sight a naked woman but it's no secret that they lose parts of their wits, maybe temporarily.

About the nudist beach and colonies, I suppose they have rules and regulations guiding them so why would anyone want to go against those rules?
Same thing in the society, the same rules apply. No special rules, just the same ol ones we know.

You can't say for women, sex is secondary. It isn't for a majority. Maybe in Nigeria, it is more difficult to be open about it but not here.

And I'd like to disabuse you of one notion. For some women, it is but it is also the same for some men. You need to understand that sex, is one primal urge common to us all across both genders, same as food, same as the need for shelter. It is our biology.
We eat to survive, we have the urge to procreate largely in part for our survival as a species. However down the line we have evolved to perform the act just for gratification. However this isn't unique to humans alone. Dolphins do the same.

So in conclusion, I can no more excuse a man as being sexually vulnerable because I too go around and see fine men I want to jump as well. But, reason kicks in hence why they do not get assaulted by me.

If I can do it, it is possible and excuses should not be made for failure to do so.

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 6:41pm On Nov 22, 2017
Oyindidi:
Thanks for this post. 2 years old kids are raped in this wicked world we live. Did they seduce the imbeciles that raped them? I wonder why people post trash for likes


It's high time women gather and write a letter to women in corridors of power. It's sickening to hear kids been raped. Harsh sentences need to be placed along with swift execution of these punishment. Whoever rapes a kid gets a death sentence, considering the consequences of the action can last a life time, they should share in that pain
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Oyindidi(f): 6:41pm On Nov 22, 2017
Mariinee:
Ma'am. You didn't even see what the argument was about before jumping to comment "people post trash for likes".

You are the one who obviously jumped to comment right now. Like a ****. smiley
I saw your previous post. Nothing can justify rape, even if the girl is walking unclad on the street.

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Martin0(m): 6:41pm On Nov 22, 2017
shaybebaby:

I did not dispute men being visual but in addition, I am saying women are the same as well (I love me a nice male butt and it is a turn on).

We are civilised now and a big part of that is controlling our primal urges. Ever had road rage? Where you want to Fvcking smash someone's head in? I bet you have, so do many people. But control is the word here. Will there be provocation? In whatever form, visual, verbal etc? Yup.

But because we are no longer cave dwellers, hunter gatherers driven primarily by instinct to survive (that includes procreation), we have evolved (both male and female) to tame those instincts.

We live in the age of reason now, and reason dictates there is simply no valid excuse not even, "you know men get aroused visually". Yes we know you do, but anyone who can't control themselves, it's on them. Their failure.


Abeg ooo I wan ask yoù something ooogringringrin abeg carry me go that twerking video I wan show my friend gypseygringrin
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Daeylar(f): 6:42pm On Nov 22, 2017
Mariinee:
I hate it when people get offensive in an argument.

You clearly said that a woman shouldn't be raped even if she goes unclad in the presence of a full-blooded male and that was what my argument was meant to counter.

You seem like the disgusting one here. smiley


Don't play victim, you tried to be slick with your sane female and misguided comments, if you can dish it out, you can take it.
And keep the emotional blackmail to yourself. Its pathetic.



"my dear, you will be raped and nothing shall happen"

Wasn't the above your statement? Where you supported rape and said there is nothing the woman can do? You remain disgusting.

I say it again,
I will say it a 1001 times, even If a woman is nàked it does not give any fuçking body the right to rape her.

Doesn't mean the woman should go nude in front of a man



Learn from sagamite. And stop encouraging rape with these excuses.


Sagamite:

If a woman is naked in front of him, he is perfectly free to try his luck (otherwise he is a slowpoke and needs to come to my Masterclasses) but once she firmly says "No" repeatedly, he needs to stop and leave her alone.

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by shaybebaby(f): 6:42pm On Nov 22, 2017
Martin0:



I totally agree 1gozzilion time
Daalu. kiss
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 6:42pm On Nov 22, 2017
I need to laff at this comment this...

So in conclusion, I can no more excuse a man as being sexually vulnerable because I too go around and see fine men I want to jump as well. But, reason kicks in hence why they do not get assaulted by me.


grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by shaybebaby(f): 6:43pm On Nov 22, 2017
Martin0:



Abeg ooo I wan ask yoù something ooogringringrin abeg carry me go that twerking video I wan show my friend gypseygringrin
That yansh is not mine ooo... grin grin
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 6:43pm On Nov 22, 2017
shaybebaby:

I did not dispute men being visual but in addition, I am saying women are the same as well (I love me a nice male butt and it is a turn on).

This might be true, but if it is at the same level as males,then you are an exception. That is not the case for every woman, men are more visual.

Let me put it to you this way:

If I go to Miss World and all the girls there like me and want to fck me, I would gladly book a timetable and rota to fck each and every one of them in the next one month. Omo, na turn by turn I go give it to them.

I don't even fcking need to know their names, their aspirations or whether they are nice human beings. Ama just fck!

If they tell their friends I was good, and the friends want some, ama gi dem some too. cool

If you go to Mr World and all the men there like you and want to fck you, would you fck all of them?

I doubt. You are different.

shaybebaby:

We are civilised now and a big part of that is controlling our primal urges. Ever had road rage? Where you want to Fvcking smash someone's head in? I bet you have, so do many people. But control is the word here. Will there be provocation? In whatever form, visual, verbal etc? Yup.

But because we are no longer cave dwellers, hunter gatherers driven primarily by instinct to survive (that includes procreation), we have evolved (both male and female) to tame those instincts.

We live in the age of reason now, and reason dictates there is simply no valid excuse not even, "you know men get aroused visually". Yes we know you do, but anyone who can't control themselves, it's on them. Their failure.

True.

But if I no get papers, I go control myself than someone that is a citizen.

That is the same for men and women. Men do not have the limitations of biological clock and menopause. Women do, so they act differently.

That is driving factor of the reasoning that makes them have different behaviours and desires.

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by tjmc: 6:44pm On Nov 22, 2017
Oyindidi:
Oga at the top don showgrin
Some men don't care if the lady say no, all they want is to satisfy their sexual urge.

The worst case of rape I've heard of is from a housewife. The husband will command her to go lie down and with tears in her eyes he'll do his thing. She told me last week that she felt like killing him that moment.

Women ehhh. U have not been raped but u keep bringing up ficticious cases of rape cases.
Yes or no. Have u been raped

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 6:45pm On Nov 22, 2017
tjmc:


Women ehhh. U have not been raped but u keep bringing up ficticious cases of rape cases.
Yes or no. Have u been raped


I wonder why they carry the matter with such heat. But these same ladies give it freely day in, day out
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Martin0(m): 6:45pm On Nov 22, 2017
shaybebaby:

Same thing in the society, the same rules apply. No special rules, just the same ol ones we know.

You can't say for women, sex is secondary. It isn't for a majority. Maybe in Nigeria, it is more difficult to be open about it but not here.

And I'd like to disabuse you of one notion. For some women, it is but it is also the same for some men. You need to understand that sex, is one primal urge common to us all across both genders, same as food, same as the need for shelter. It is our biology.
We eat to survive, we have the urge to procreate largely in part for our survival as a species. However down the line we have evolved to perform the act just for gratification. However this isn't unique to humans alone. Dolphins do the same.

So in conclusion, I can no more excuse a man as being sexually vulnerable because I too go around and see fine men I want to jump as well. But, reason kicks in hence why they do not get assaulted by me.

If I can do it, it is possible and excuses should not be made for failure to do so.


Aaaaaaaaaa zam zam zam I dey enjoy this topic,ride oooonnn.gringringrin
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 6:46pm On Nov 22, 2017
Mariinee:
Oh. Welcome back then. How was the long vacation?

Joyful.

The forum has turned into United Retardom! Now full of morons!

No fun or joy in being on it anymore.

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 6:49pm On Nov 22, 2017
Mariinee:
I am very open-minded and realistic. Is there something you disagree with? grin
That post is disturbing.

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Martin0(m): 6:49pm On Nov 22, 2017
shaybebaby:

That yansh is not mine ooo... grin grin


Hahahahahgringringrin abeg nor kill me with laugh ooo,I still dey feel the pains for my ribs from yesterday chat

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Oyindidi(f): 6:50pm On Nov 22, 2017
Jupxter:



It's high time women gather and write a letter to women in corridors of power. It's sickening to hear kids been raped. Harsh sentences need to be placed along with swift execution of these punishment. Whoever rapes a kid gets a death sentence, considering the consequences of the action can last a life time, they should share in that pain
Whoever rapes even an adult should be sentence to death.. I know a lot of rape victims. I'm typing with a heavy heart, one to narrated her story to me, it was her stepdad that was assaulting her sexually. When the mother is not around, he will wake her up in the middle the night and ask her to UnCloth. According to her, she will beg and cry for him not to touch her. She said she'll call him, daddy please don't do this... Though he didn't make love to her but she became very scared whenever he is at home.
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by happney65: 6:50pm On Nov 22, 2017
Sagamite:


You are a cretinous person!

Is the hospital not your hospital? Are the drugs not yours? Is the skill and the service not yours?

If it is your business, why can't you refuse service until the patient gives you a Mouth Action? Is she free not to leave and go somewhere else if she does not want to, according to your moronic logic?

Foool, how stupid your logic is is finally sinking in?

I have asked you one simple question you are running back and forth like the idiot you are..Why are Doctors and medical personnel not charged to court for requesting for payment before treatment commences even in cases of emergency..Abi ain't they committing a crime too when they refuse to attend to a patient because there is no funds?

Simple question you can't answer you are running away like the idiotic element you are..
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 6:50pm On Nov 22, 2017
shaybebaby:

Same thing in the society, the same rules apply. No special rules, just the same ol ones we know.

You can't say for women, sex is secondary. It isn't for a majority. Maybe in Nigeria, it is more difficult to be open about it but not here.

And I'd like to disabuse you of one notion. For some women, it is but it is also the same for some men. You need to understand that sex, is one primal urge common to us all across both genders, same as food, same as the need for shelter. It is our biology.
We eat to survive, we have the urge to procreate largely in part for our survival as a species. However down the line we have evolved to perform the act just for gratification. However this isn't unique to humans alone. Dolphins do the same.

So in conclusion, I can no more excuse a man as being sexually vulnerable because I too go around and see fine men I want to jump as well. But, reason kicks in hence why they do not get assaulted by me.

If I can do it, it is possible and excuses should not be made for failure to do so.
You still aren't getting my point. smiley

My point is women have more control over sexual instincts than men do. If you see a fine-butt man that you like,it is normal that you feel like jumping him but do you actually make the move to jump on him? No. You just admire the butt and move on. However, it is not the same for the opposite sex.
If a man sees a big-butted woman he likes, he is not just going to admire it, he is going to want to do things to it. That's how the psyche of a man works.

Please tell me, do you think about having sex with every fine-butted male that you see? grin

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Martin0(m): 6:50pm On Nov 22, 2017
shaybebaby:
Daalu. kiss
Ovoko..who dey teach u oogringringrin
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Oyindidi(f): 6:51pm On Nov 22, 2017
tjmc:


Women ehhh. U have not been raped but u keep bringing up ficticious cases of rape cases.
Yes or no. Have u been raped
Potential rapist, get off my mention!
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 6:52pm On Nov 22, 2017
Oyindidi:
Whoever rapes even an adult should be sentence to death.. I know a lot of rape victims. I'm typing with a heavy heart, one to narrated her story to me, it was her stepdad that was assaulting her sexually. When the mother is not around, he will wake her up in the middle the night and ask her to UnCloth. According to her, she will beg and cry for him not to touch her. She said she'll call him, daddy please don't do this... Though he didn't make love to her but she became very scared whenever he is at home.


I don't know how it feels like on first hand basis. The heaviness in your post touched my heart. I don't know what to say. But for kids, the tears they suffer, the pain, the trauma, the shock, especially when it's done by someone whom they trusted. The pain,Mehn, i'll bounce, i have many female kids under my care, i have never ever lustfully looked at them once, this your comment has spoilt my mood. i'm off for the day abeg.
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by WrathOfHadez(m): 6:52pm On Nov 22, 2017
Sagamite:


Mate, pusssy is always open. I don't know of any that has padlock mechanism. Maybe you watch to much Star Trek.

The fact pusssy is open is not an excuse to take. The only excuse to take is when she gives consent verbally or physically. Anything else is rape (theft in your terminology).

If she says "No" seriously/firmly AND/OR recoils in fear/disgust/rejection, then it is not consent.

If you subdue or conquer a girl because you think that is what she wants and while she is doing the above, and later she says she was raped, mate, you should be thrown in jail.

You take the risk, you suffer the consequences.
Are you deliberately misunderstanding me or you’re just playing to the gallery.

No need for the long grandstanding baloney.

When a girl says no to sex, figuratively she’s closed up the pussy door. If you force her, you’re breaking in; rape.

When she gives concent , them she has opened up so you aren’t trespassing.

Do you have a natural impediment to figurative application?

Or your love for needless banter is surging beyond the bank of reason ?
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 6:53pm On Nov 22, 2017
Daeylar:



Don't play victim, you tried to be slick with your sane female and misguided comments, if you can dish it out, you can take it.
And keep the emotional blackmail to yourself. Its pathetic.



"my dear, you will be raped and nothing shall happen"

Wasn't the above your statement? Where you supported rape and said there is nothing the woman can do? You remain disgusting.

I say it again,
I will say it a 1001 times, even If a woman is nàked it does not give any fuçking body the right to rape her.

Doesn't mean the woman should go nude in front of a man.

Learn from sagamite. And stop encouraging rape with these excuses.




Alright. I have no interest in debating with someone who throws logic out when engaged in an argument. Ciao.

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Daeylar(f): 6:54pm On Nov 22, 2017
Mariinee:
Alright. I have no interest in debating with someone who throws logic out when engaged in an argument. Ciao.

You are ignored abeg. smiley

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by shaybebaby(f): 6:54pm On Nov 22, 2017
Sagamite:


This might be true, but if it is at the same level as males,then you are an exception. That is not the case for every woman, men are more visual.

Let me put it to you this way:

If I go to Miss World and all the girls there like me and want to fck me, I would gladly book a timetable and rota to fck each and every one of them in the next one month. Omo, na turn by turn I go give it to them.

If they tell their friends I was good, and the friends want some, ama gi dem some. cool

If you go to Mr World and all the men there like you and want to fck you, would you fck all of them?

I doubt. You are different.



True.

But if I no get papers, I go control myself than someone that is a citizen.

That is the same for men and women. Men do not have the limitations of biological clock and menupause. Women do, so they act differently.

That is driving factor of the reasoning that makes them have different behaviours and desires.
But at the end of the day, we all have desires even if what drives them varies from individual to individual.

Take my good friend lefulefu, he loves anything to do with big batty. Some prefer, big mammeries. Either way, give the opposite to their individual preference and you might not get the same response.

Same with women, obviously a man with moobs will be a turn off. grin but a tall dude with large hands wink might well.. Get some girls going gaga.

So I acknowledging that desire will be aroused depending on the stimuli but it is no excuse even if the object of desire was being deliberately provocative. Wrong, yes I know. Going butt naked in front of a guy in this instance is unfair, I acknowledge that. But still not a valid excuse if faced with the issue of consent.

You been bond street, seen some fine digs, gone to harrods innit? Why didn't you carry one of the merchandise on display? grin

I know the exact feeling in there, when I want most of what I see, but know I can't have it and when it becomes unbearable, I carry my legs waka.

Same thing is expected when faced with mariner's scenario. Afterall, if you carry their property, you can't use the excuse" but the way, they arranged the rolex was captivating, I couldn't help myself"

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