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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by bukatyne(f): 11:12pm On Nov 22, 2017
MhisTahrah:
Wife not sex object.Sex is not a right that comes with marriage.It is not a wife's duty.

...She can't open her legs simply because her husband wants it. She doesn't give up her right to say yes or no the day she gets married.

...Wives do not belong to their husbands.Sex should be based on consent.


...However wives should under no circumstances withold sex from their husbands except there is a genuine reason for this.And even when she does,you have no right to rape her.


Any woman who thinks like the bold shouldn't bother with marriage so she doesn't make an innocent man miserable.

Sex is one of the major reasons of marriage.

It is a martial duty that's why marriages where no sex occurred can be annulled.

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 11:13pm On Nov 22, 2017
Mariinee:
Hahahaha...Fatua got me. grin
Not everyone needs a clique to hold their ground. #If you aren't cool with it, take a walk. grin

Haha. Obviously because she has the freedom to. That thinking is beyond me. sad



Let them keep advancing whack crusades and blame the effects of their actions on men, it's their problem

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 11:13pm On Nov 22, 2017
bukatyne:


Any woman who thinks like the bold shouldn't bother with marriage so she doesn't make an innocent man miserable.

Sex is one of the major reasons of marriage.

It is a martial duty that's why marriages where no sex occurred can be annulled.


Yet another excellent point @ that's why marriages where no sex occurred can be annulled
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by PDPGuy: 11:14pm On Nov 22, 2017
Jupxter:




Was it her father's house? Or did she go there to test his restraint? Or didnt she envisaged the chances of getting raped sleeping alone on a bed in an undefined relationship?

It generally depends on the specific jurisdiction.
In some jurisdictions, if a woman is stark naked on another man’s bed, the man still doesn’t have the right to penetrate her, or perform some other sexual act on her without her implied or explicit consent.

Moreover, a married man cannot forcefully have sex with his wife without her consent. If he does so, he may be liable for marital rape.
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by tjmc: 11:14pm On Nov 22, 2017
Ndo eweliwe oh nnem

Oyindidi:
Cos I apologized?
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 11:16pm On Nov 22, 2017
bukatyne:


Biblically, the spouses body belong to one another and you are well within your rights to coerce your partner.

Any married person will tell you that if at the first no a husband backs out, it is recipe for disaster.
Sure.After all he owns me body,soul and mind.I only exist in the marriage to do his bidding.And the holy book has also placed him over me as my head.To take all decisions on my behalf.Sex shouldn't be a big deal,I have to please my husband all the time.Even when I'm not in the mood...

Daeylar you just have to agree with this.

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 11:16pm On Nov 22, 2017
PDPGuy:


It generally depends on the specific jurisdiction.
In some jurisdictions, if a woman is stark naked on another man’s bed, the man still doesn’t have the right to penetrate her, or perform some other sexual act on her without her implied or explicit consent.

Moreover, a married man cannot forcefully have sex with his wife without her consent. If he does so, he may be liable for marital rape.


You be real PDP guy, nice work creating a scenery for your presentation, but i'm sure you know what i meant when i made that comment. If a lady is in a defined relationship with a guy, fine she can go all lose and remain safe, but outside the boundaries of a relationship, a well defined one, she's on her own
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 11:17pm On Nov 22, 2017
MhisTahrah:
Sure.After all he owns me body,soul and mind.I only exist in the marriage to do his bidding.And the holy book has also placed him over me as my head.To take all decisions on my behalf.Sex shouldn't be a big deal,I have to please my husband all the time.Even when I'm not in the mood...

Daeylar you just have to agree with this.


I beg to disagree, that is definitely not what she implied in her comments,stop misconstruing her comments. Sex is an obligation for couples in a wedlock, and both individuals should define how they want it within a marriage. Simple.

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 11:18pm On Nov 22, 2017
Jupxter:




Let them keep advancing whack crusades and blame the effects of their actions on men, it's their problem
Exactly. smiley
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Daeylar(f): 11:23pm On Nov 22, 2017
MhisTahrah:
Sure.After all he owns me body,soul and mind.I only exist in the marriage to do his bidding.And the holy book has also placed him over me as my head.To take all decisions on my behalf.Sex shouldn't be a big deal,I have to please my husband all the time.Even when I'm not in the mood...

Daelar you just have to agree with this.



Is this not a husband?(I'm assuming, sorry if I'm wrong embarassed) See what he is saying
PDPGuy:


It generally depends on the specific jurisdiction.
In some jurisdictions, if a woman is stark naked on another man’s bed, the man still doesn’t have the right to penetrate her, or perform some other sexual act on her without her implied or explicit consent.

Moreover, a married man cannot forcefully have sex with his wife without her consent. If he does so, he may be liable for marital rape.

Dear come let's make you laugh, jor.. smiley

Nothing misconstrued there, abi we don't know the meaning of coerce again?

Besides, I don't believe in God so bible talk is just out.
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Daeylar(f): 11:24pm On Nov 22, 2017
shaybebaby:

AgentOfAllah IS the most intelligent on here. And he a fiiiiine black brother too. Daer babes, na me talk am.

smiley
Martin0:


Ooooooo which kin wahala be diz again,gringringrin

Ok make I go see her,stay here,don't follow megringringrin

Lol, she wants ice cream and you went to sing, no let shaybebaby vex before she start the sale again

Martin0:


Are my not innocent?

You are now grin
Martin0:


Yes ooo,as u dey get urself something make una dey arrange my own ooo u and shay shay,atleast una nor go sell me againgringrin

Maybe na una personal cash una wan use this timegringrin

That my ehm Ehmgringrin thank u ooo atleast u don show me say ur heart nor be rock of agescheesycheesy

Na wa ooo who dey ask if that last question?gringrin
so na two people I con offend now? Eh eh market wey I buy nor be small market ooogringrin

Lol grin grin grin

Next time, you won't be shady again grin
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 11:28pm On Nov 22, 2017
Jupxter:



I beg to disagree, that is definitely not what she implied in her comments,stop misconstruing her comments. Sex is an obligation for couples in a wedlock, and both individuals should define how they want it within a marriage. Simple.
I'd leave them to do just that.Err,are you supersystems?
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by bukatyne(f): 11:31pm On Nov 22, 2017
Sagamite:


grin grin grin grin grin grin

Where are EfemenaXY, cococandy, bukatyne, NotyourB1tch, Ifyalways, armyofone etc. for me to turn them on. grin cool

They would need to move to Iceland by the time I finish with them. angry

You brought me to this thread.

Happy new year in arrears and adance Lol!
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 11:44pm On Nov 22, 2017
Daeylar:




Is this not a husband?(I'm assuming, sorry if I'm wrong embarassed) See what he is saying


Dear come let's make you laugh, jor.. smiley

Nothing misconstrued there, abi we don't know the meaning of coerce again?

Besides, I don't believe in God so bible talk is just out.
This one is a sensible husband.Lmao,some comments sha.grin
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Martin0(m): 11:50pm On Nov 22, 2017
Daeylar:


smiley


Lol, she wants ice cream and you went to sing, no let shaybebaby vex before she start the sale again



You are now grin


Lol grin grin grin

Next time, you won't be shady again grin

Daeylar:


smiley


Lol, she wants ice cream and you went to sing, no let shaybebaby vex before she start the sale again



You are now grin


Lol grin grin grin

Next time, you won't be shady again grin

Daeylar:


smiley


Lol, she wants ice cream and you went to sing, no let shaybebaby vex before she start the sale again

is it ur ice-cream,?gringrin na wa for u ooo
Singing is more beta than ice-cream gringrin


You are now grin
Oh thank yougringrin

Lol grin grin grin

Next time, you won't be shady again grin
Yes ooogringringrin
U do well,abeg I wan go sleep ooo
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by PDPGuy: 12:02am On Nov 23, 2017
Jupxter:



You be real PDP guy, nice work creating a scenery for your presentation, but i'm sure you know what i meant when i made that comment. If a lady is in a defined relationship with a guy, fine she can go all lose and remain safe, but outside the boundaries of a relationship, a well defined one, she's on her own

If the woman in question is the girlfriend or wife of the man, and she laid totally naked on the bed while she is asleep, then it will be difficult for a prosecutor to show that rape occurred if the man penetrated the woman.
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 12:26am On Nov 23, 2017
MhisTahrah:
I'd leave them to do just that.Err,are you supersystems?


No. Who's that ?
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by AlfaSeltzer(m): 12:46am On Nov 23, 2017
PDPGuy:

I would say you raped her, even though she was naked. The fact that she was asleep can not imply that she consented to being penetrated

But she was happy when she woke up with me inside her and started moaning with pleasure and gyrating her hips and kissing me. Is is still rape?
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by PDPGuy: 1:46am On Nov 23, 2017
AlfaSeltzer:


But she was happy when she woke up with me inside her and started moaning with pleasure and gyrating her hips and kissing me. Is is still rape?
I wouldn’t think that is rape. Even if she, say, 4 or 5 weeks or even 8 years after the fact, later claims that you raped her, it’s goung to be hard to prove the case without credible witness testimony i.e. the lady telling her friends about her ‘ordeal’.

That’s the basic reason why there is a statute of limitations on cases of sexual assault and/or rape.
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by A40(m): 2:51am On Nov 23, 2017
raumdeuter:
I have been looking for a topic that discusses this because it's a huge topic now all over, everyday one celebrity is getting accused of rape

To me, I agree with you. I won't categorize them together. I'll rank them

1. Sex with minor,

2. Sex using physical force or weapon to subdue

3. Making uninvited sexual actions towards another like grabbing ass breast or any erotic part of her body

4. Exposing yourself sexually when it wasn't requested

5. Use of position to request sexual favors

6. Overtures and sexual negotiation

1 and 2 are the animals and deserve the worst punishment possible especially 1. It should be life jail or death

3 and 4 should be punishable. 3. Should be misdemeanor 4. Psychiatric evaluation and therapy on how to behave in society or get women to like you

5. Take away the position from the abuser of the position

6. No offence

Nihilist diggz ibime afrodoc2 a40 what do you think
Succinctly and neatly put.
I also want to add though that where does alcohol play in this?

There's the age old "Blame it on the alcohol" rationale and we have had instances where both parties were under the influence and another party claims harassment or assault the next day.

Do you also feel there should be a reasonable time span for reportage of these cases? It's a very sensitive issue and I know women deal with far too much but there are also women who make false accusations and there are no means for the man to prove his innocence

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by armyofone(m): 3:37am On Nov 23, 2017
Oh my goodness!!
Sagamite!! Wow! Where have you been? Being a while I read your fighting post grin
Hope no lady took the house, cars, alimony and child support and threw you out yet cheesy
Seasons of American ladies - grabbers and touchers beware.
@post
Very soon what is happening here will reach Nigeria - the Kingdom of the oshodi grabbers and unsolicited touching chiefs and kings.

Sagamite:


grin grin grin grin grin grin

Where are EfemenaXY, cococandy, bukatyne, NotyourB1tch, Ifyalways, armyofone etc. for me to turn them on. grin cool

They would need to move to Iceland by the time I finish with them. angry

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by armyofone(m): 4:18am On Nov 23, 2017
See what's going on now in this country!

Mynd44:
Is there a need to call this "men's corner" or other forms of couch group counselling sessions? Lets just gist and talk.

We as men need to do better.

Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by armyofone(m): 4:23am On Nov 23, 2017
@ marital duty wink

maybe wifey could pick a duty - cooking daily or sex daily. Bukatyne, you are right but let's not call it martial duty grin

bukatyne:


Any woman who thinks like the bold shouldn't bother with marriage so she doesn't make an innocent man miserable.

Sex is one of the major reasons of marriage.

It is a martial duty that's why marriages where no sex occurred can be annulled.
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by WrathOfHadez(m): 5:25am On Nov 23, 2017
Sagamite:


No, mate.

You talked about being open, and it is not theft to take when it is open. You then said some want sex to be forced on them/to be subdued and conquered.

Nigga, with that mentality you are fcking playing with fire. As I said, you take the risk, you face the consequences.

I don't work for British Colonial Office, I aint Cecil Rhodes or Lord Luggard. I aint fcking subduing or conquering ANY GADDAM GIRL!

Olorun maje! Mo ni shewon! (God forbid! I will never go to jail) (Gott verboten! Ich nicht jail gehen)

I am not interested in any girl who would say no but is looking for me to force her. I would WALK AWAY! I don't even enjoy that "No, no, no jor" rubbish of Nigerian girls.

I like my girls gagging for it, with their legs spread out like the meeting point between River Niger and River Benue, and when I slide in, they are wet, grab my arse and shove it deeper inside while they moan in my ears.

Nigga, your risk, your wahala!
Feel free to run with your own interpretation.
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Ikillfools: 5:43am On Nov 23, 2017
Jupxter:


Time to put on my bad boy mojo back. They can ease off for all i care...Old sheriff is back in town wink
LOL.
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by joseph1013: 6:43am On Nov 23, 2017
Sagamite:


grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

I dey, nigga. how you? grin

Dr Thomas Sowell?

Two words: ...................... FCKING GENIUS!

Every fcking nigga needs to listen to the talks and interviews of that man.

I fcking listen to him sometimes on my way to work on the train. That Nigga, says every gaddam thing I have been saying on NL for years.

I was so proud of myself when I discovered him.

Like minds!

Glad and justified I have been calling black people monkeys on NL for years. Daft as fck!

Absolutely right! Not seen a black man make as much sense as he does. When I found him, I imagined you were his long-lost son. grin grin grin

I know you 'hate' this platform, but coming in once a while, instead of the hibernation is not too much to ask.
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by shaybebaby(f): 7:45am On Nov 23, 2017
MhisTahrah:
Sure.After all he owns me body,soul and mind.I only exist in the marriage to do his bidding.And the holy book has also placed him over me as my head.To take all decisions on my behalf.Sex shouldn't be a big deal,I have to please my husband all the time.Even when I'm not in the mood...

Daeylar you just have to agree with this.
Honey, the mind boggles.

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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Martin0(m): 7:56am On Nov 23, 2017
Hian

I wonder why diz topic never end

Well sha am enjoying the topic sha,jus that it make me feel we have some "gullibles" here...

It a very simple thing every human should understand..

Issoright make una continue,am off to shower,(work tinz)

gringringrin
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by shaybebaby(f): 8:11am On Nov 23, 2017
Martin0:


Hian

I wonder why diz topic never end

Well sha am enjoying the topic sha,jus that it make me feel we have some "gullibles" here...

It a very simple thing every human should understand..

Issoright make una continue,am off to shower,(work tinz)

gringringrin
Okay o. Make sure you wash the crown jewels very well. tongue
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Martin0(m): 8:40am On Nov 23, 2017
shaybebaby:
Okay o. Make sure you wash the crown jewels very well. tongue
gringringrin abeg nor break my ribs ooo...gringringrin
Chai I never see the end of ya mouthgringrin
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Martin0(m): 8:42am On Nov 23, 2017
shaybebaby:
Okay o. Make sure you wash the crown jewels very well. tongue
Anyway we guy's nor get plenty part's to wash unlike unagringringrin
And am donegringringrin Stepping out of my boring/home-alone housegringringrin
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by 989900: 9:22am On Nov 23, 2017
MhisTahrah:
[s]Sure.After all he owns me body,soul and mind.I only exist in the marriage to do his bidding.And the holy book has also placed him over me as my head.To take all decisions on my behalf.Sex shouldn't be a big deal,I have to please my husband all the time.Even when I'm not in the mood...

Daeylar you just have to agree with this[/s].

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