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My Dad's Fiance Is Foreign And Younger Than Me by well13(m): 3:13pm On Nov 24, 2017 |
I’ve known my dad has been dating someone from Colombia but I never expected for things to progress. He went and joined a singles tour to Cartagena by A Foreign Affair and met Liliana. As far as I’m aware of... they have been corresponding and calling each other. Aside from her name I don’t know anything. I’m happy that my dad has found someone he wants to settle down with… I don’t know how to react or what to say when I found out that Liliana is only 26. I’m 4 years older than her while my dad’s 32 years older. I won’t judge nor jump into conclusions… but is it normal that I feel very conflicted about the age gap? I can’t help but be concerned about her…. I really need advice… I don’t want to question their relationship. I don’t want to offend nor hurt my dad’s feelings. But how should I approach this? Can anyone here give me more input on the women from AFA? I want to support my dad’s decision wholeheartedly but I think she may be a mail order bride or scammer. I need help! |
Re: My Dad's Fiance Is Foreign And Younger Than Me by Florblu(f): 3:22pm On Nov 24, 2017 |
Leave them alone. Age is just a number, unless you are thinking you might mistakenly starff your step mother someday. YOLO 1 Like |
Re: My Dad's Fiance Is Foreign And Younger Than Me by israel2563(m): 3:22pm On Nov 24, 2017 |
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Re: My Dad's Fiance Is Foreign And Younger Than Me by MicheyJ1: 3:23pm On Nov 24, 2017 |
Who doesn't like fresh puna. Especially if it's now foreign 1 Like |
Re: My Dad's Fiance Is Foreign And Younger Than Me by heendrix(m): 3:25pm On Nov 24, 2017 |
all this old green card Hunters how would he want her to be in the next 25 years? Nigerians just be doing things like they dont think just like the white fool #Eco99#
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Re: My Dad's Fiance Is Foreign And Younger Than Me by KardinalZik(m): 3:25pm On Nov 24, 2017 |
LET THEM BE. And never nurture a sexual thought about her. |
Re: My Dad's Fiance Is Foreign And Younger Than Me by joseo: 4:34pm On Nov 24, 2017 |
don't sleep with her |
Re: My Dad's Fiance Is Foreign And Younger Than Me by MissWrite(f): 4:56pm On Nov 24, 2017 |
If you're worried for her, don't be. 26 is old enough for a woman to know what she wants; and being with an older man is far from an outlandish decision. Between two consenting adults, age is just a number. If you're worried about your father getting scammed, that's understandable. It's natural for you to be protective of him. But you have to trust that his grown enough to look after himself. However, you can talk to him: tell him how happy you are for him, you can tease him a little about how good his 'game' still is (if you have that sort of rapport), try to get him to open up about why he thinks they're so well suited for each other (without giving off the vibe that think they might not be). Don't be pushy or point anything out; you're only getting him to talk so that he can listen to himself and make his own notes. After everything, wish him all the best and be supportive. |
Re: My Dad's Fiance Is Foreign And Younger Than Me by Oyindidi(f): 4:59pm On Nov 24, 2017 |
Relax, age is just a number |
Re: My Dad's Fiance Is Foreign And Younger Than Me by Topestbilly(m): 5:55pm On Nov 24, 2017 |
Re: My Dad's Fiance Is Foreign And Younger Than Me by cyberguy72(m): 6:03pm On Nov 24, 2017 |
Topestbilly:My guy read wot Op wrote up there well.Faultfinder! |
Re: My Dad's Fiance Is Foreign And Younger Than Me by annie74(f): 6:04pm On Nov 24, 2017 |
Topestbilly: Read the post again... carefully this time |
Re: My Dad's Fiance Is Foreign And Younger Than Me by Topestbilly(m): 6:05pm On Nov 24, 2017 |
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Re: My Dad's Fiance Is Foreign And Younger Than Me by Topestbilly(m): 6:08pm On Nov 24, 2017 |
cyberguy72: You know this wil be wahala if this thread gets to fp? 1 Like |
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