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My Sexual Experience by benabbey(m): 3:11pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
My religious background forbid any sexual activities before marriage and I kept to it by the grace of God. My wife also hold the sanctity of marriage bed so we do not have any sexual relationship before marriage. In marriage I have been faithful to my wife without fail. I need to set this background so you will know my present predicament. Now my wife does not believe that sex should go beyond only one round. She does not liked to be kissed. And she also believe sex cannot be instant I mean if you av one yesterday you cannot have one today. We all know that men are move by sight and when you have seen so much and you have pent up sex drive to be released at home madam will say you had one yesterday so no entrance She does not believe in any fore play both for me and herself. Also she has all the complaint in the book headache, backache, dizzyness. But you wonder here is somebody that will cook, and do all house chore she need to do without fail but on bed there is another rule. I don't allow her do tideous job like fetching water, I even help with laundry. I have tried all I know to do. It is not as if she does not get to orgasm she do. But she did not just attach any importance to sex even in marriage. I have taken to see Doctor who enumirate the benefit of sex for health and living, We have gone for marriage seminar together where I ask the question how often should a man have sex with his wife and they said severally until both are satisfy. I have reported her to her parent, Brother and Uncle without any change. What can I do. I need your candid advise. Especially from Christan sisters and brothers in the house. I don't want to go into adultery my religion forbid it. I don't want to go into polygamy because when anything happen the wives will start witchhunt even if the cause is natural What can I do 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Sexual Experience by Munae(f): 3:16pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
What if she's a lesbian ![]() 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Sexual Experience by pussygotlips: 3:21pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
Quick and short method, Put energizer in her drink, she go fu ckk u till your pen!s peel 10 Likes |
Re: My Sexual Experience by benabbey(m): 3:21pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
Munae:I don't think so |
Re: My Sexual Experience by benabbey(m): 3:26pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
pussygotlips: I don't really understand this she is a wife and a mother 3 Likes |
Re: My Sexual Experience by alexmaye(m): 3:27pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
You can try telling her how you feel. Make her understand its her duty to you. 1 Like |
Re: My Sexual Experience by benabbey(m): 3:30pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
alexmaye: I have discussed with her severally I av even reported her to her family. |
Re: My Sexual Experience by smulti(m): 3:41pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
both of you aren't sexually compatible bro, that is the disadvantage of no sex before marriage you have to bear it and Carry the cross alone . 28 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Sexual Experience by daewoorazer(m): 3:42pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
Start walking around the house stark nakëd especially with your diçk fully turgid.... Thank me larer Occasionally tap her nipples when u walk past her too 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sexual Experience by Ifeanyi4491(m): 3:54pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
Let mod push this to FP |
Re: My Sexual Experience by benabbey(m): 3:56pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
smulti: That is the truth. But the cross is an heavy object, if one has to keep oneself for so long and looking forward to limitless access only to be told access restricted 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sexual Experience by illicit(m): 4:26pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
Maybe you are not doing it right 9 Likes |
Re: My Sexual Experience by azelab: 4:37pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
there are some women of that nature, let there be mutual conversation between both of you that you are going for second wife and be specifically tell her the reason behind it. ....many Christian do marry two or more wifes, if throughly it is her nature she will allow you to go ahead but if it is not her true nature, she will not agree. 5 Likes |
Re: My Sexual Experience by benabbey(m): 5:02pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
illicit: To the best of my knowledge I believe in satisfying my woman. I am not a two minute person. I see to it that she orgasm showing all the signs and giving all the sounds and it normally take like 15 to 20 minutes |
Re: My Sexual Experience by benabbey(m): 5:06pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
azelab: Don't really like a polygamous life but it is like I may not have option. One woman one problem. Who knows the problem the next one will have. Also religious position will also be a great constraint. A church worker with two wives 1 Like |
Re: My Sexual Experience by illicit(m): 5:09pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
benabbey:hmmmm you are focused on the period it takes..... what if she is faking the orgasm just to please you. You have never had sex with another woman like you said anyway and I am not recommending it..... There will be reasons why she doesnt want pre-intimacy or another round. Its obvious. I guess if its this serious and you are this concerned you might have to try seperation or you cheat.... 7 Likes |
Re: My Sexual Experience by benabbey(m): 5:30pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
illicit: Who knows |
Re: My Sexual Experience by Lorbar(f): 5:30pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
Was she forced into the marriage? 5 Likes |
Re: My Sexual Experience by smulti(m): 5:31pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
benabbey: I'll rather remain single than to found myself in such situation, what is the essence of marriage if you're still sexually starved it can be likened to you being in the middle of a river while still tasty sexual compatibility was amongst the reason I married my wife and since then it has been so easy complementing each other in so many ways hence friends do ask if we are twins.. hehehe . 5 Likes |
Re: My Sexual Experience by benabbey(m): 5:39pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
Lorbar:Not at all there was official holy matrimony |
Re: My Sexual Experience by ElsonMorali: 5:52pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
Give her cunnilingus for 2hours non stop. Don't stop until she squirts in your face. I Promise she'll ask for it daily. |
Re: My Sexual Experience by benabbey(m): 6:06pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
ElsonMorali: Somebody who don't take mouth to mouth kiss will allow that one 9 Likes |
Re: My Sexual Experience by sisisioge: 6:15pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
Hian! It's all about getting the right shoe fit. Some people don't like sex, some do and distaste pre-intimacy, some don't like kisses, some are just alright with all the plays minus the do...whew! I just can't deal getting that aspect wrong...hian! No vex Oga, please beg her to listen to the voice of reasoning. How could she not want to be kissed? Chai! I swearit, most no sex before marriage doers always get that aspect wrong. If you won't have the sex, at least play the play. That would have given you some insight on your sexual compatibility. Biko, let there be plenty sex bikonu ...let there be abeg. It's one of the things we singles are so jealous of your married for ![]() ![]() ![]() 9 Likes |
Re: My Sexual Experience by benabbey(m): 6:24pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
sisisioge: I av being looking forward too only to carry the wrong package access either restricted or denied like prepaid meter your credit don finish until further notice 1 Like |
Re: My Sexual Experience by ElsonMorali: 6:29pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
benabbey: Look man, your woman is a prude, pure and simple. She's had it rammed in her head that all forms of sex is evil. Change towards her. Start keeping late nights. Stop eating her food. Pay less and less attention to her at home especially when she talks to you. Let her see you with one or two ladies, laughing happily. She'll get the gist. If she doesn't she'll ask you. Be evasive. (Let's hope she doesn't keep a knife under the pillow). ![]() Hopefully her eyes will open. When she eventually submits for sex, for Pete's sake make sure She's screaming for more otherwise that'd be some form of rape I suppose. 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sexual Experience by sisisioge: 6:30pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
benabbey: Lol...you've got to get her on board o. You could bribe her with some sensual gifts, insist on bathing with her, offer massages etc . OYO shall be your case if you slack. I know a babe that hated kisses, until she met a guy that only wanted kisses...yeah, she ended up liking it too cos she was crazy about him ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: My Sexual Experience by ElsonMorali: 6:30pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
sisisioge: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Choi! |
Re: My Sexual Experience by sisisioge: 6:31pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
ElsonMorali: Oga, are we still brethren? ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Sexual Experience by mukhcech(m): 6:32pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
Ayam coming |
Re: My Sexual Experience by Melsan: 6:36pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
sisisioge: |
Re: My Sexual Experience by Lorbar(f): 6:38pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
benabbey:Maybe you are not doing it right or she's not deriving any satisfaction from it. I don't see why married people needs to set timetable for sex. Sex is a basic, natural instinct. Being social creatures, we need closeness and intimacy to survive and thrive. If you and your wife want your marriage to survive, you will need to talk about what is going on with her. Avoiding the subject or refusing to talk about it is not an option. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Sexual Experience by sisisioge: 6:40pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
[quote author=Melsan post=62830313][/quote] Melsan! Where have you been? Your own zoom in zoom out pass professor Pele own o.Howdy? ![]() 1 Like |
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