DrinkLimca:
Leave her, maybe she wants to spend the rest of her life in jail.
I don't see why a lady will date a guy for more than Two years and not get married and yet still stays with the guy.
Any serious and sensible guy will not date his girl for more than one year before he propose marriage..

Majority of ladies are foolish with the brain of a dead fish..

how can you be blindly dating a guy that you know has no plans to marry you?

I love brilliant ladies, the type that screen a guy's life and ambition, the type of lady that can tell the future of a guy they are dating...

Some ladies knows a serious boyfriend, the one that is ready to live life with them..
unlike some ladies that laughs like slowpoke to every guy that comes their way, end up dating the guy for six years all in the name of agape love...

My female cousin dated her current husband for just Four month before marriage and today the union is blessed with three kids.
That's how you know a lady that knows her Union.

Any guy without a steady career won't have plans to date you.

stop dating students, 99% of them won't get married to you.

focus on your career and after graduation, a fellow serious guy will locate you..

Benita27:
The world isn't black and blue like you're putting it.

Fall in love and see if it's easy to just walk out on someone you've created a bound with.

DrinkLimca:
Leave her, maybe she wants to spend the rest of her life in jail.
I don't see why a lady will date a guy for more than Two years and not get married and yet still stays with the guy.
Any serious and sensible guy will not date his girl for more than one year before he propose marriage..

Majority of ladies are foolish with the brain of a dead fish..

how can you be blindly dating a guy that you know has no plans to marry you?

I love brilliant ladies, the type that screen a guy's life and ambition, the type of lady that can tell the future of a guy they are dating...

Some ladies knows a serious boyfriend, the one that is ready to live life with them..
unlike some ladies that laughs like slowpoke to every guy that comes their way, end up dating the guy for six years all in the name of agape love...

My female cousin dated her current husband for just Four month before marriage and today the union is blessed with three kids.
That's how you know a lady that knows her Union.

Any guy without a steady career won't have plans to date you.

stop dating students, 99% of them won't get married to you.

focus on your career and after graduation, a fellow serious guy will locate you..

Ali929:
A female friend of mine dated a guy for 4 years. She spent all her savings on this guy, did d&c twice for him, both of them also went for intending couples class when planning marriage early this year now the man said he is no longer interested in her that she is not God ordained wife for him, that he has found his destined wife. She is frustrated and devastated and decided to pay back the guy in his own coin. I have convinced her severally to let karma have its way but she said he must be dealt with cos she is now 30years with no possible suitor coming and the guy wasted her time even when she told him from the beginning of the relationship that she is not ready for boyfriend and girlfriend play that if that is what he wants he should back out before anything becomes serious... N.B: She was a virgin when the guy met her at 26 and she drove all possible suitors for him cos he is a very jealous guy & she loved him..

She is planning to hire thugs to give him a permanent scar for life (either pour acid on his face & private part or beat him & give him marks).. I have talked and talked but she has refused to listen. She said she can't allow him go scott free at all..

What do i do now Dont want her to do what will make her regret for the rest of her life..

alexialin:


Word!

DrinkLimca:
[b]Leave her, maybe she wants to spend the rest of her life in jail.

Benita27:
The world isn't white and black like you're putting it.

Fall in love and see if it's easy to just walk out on someone you've created a bound with.

QueenSekxy:
guys hardly get married to the lady that aborted for them!!they easily dump the ones that aborted twice for the ones that did upto 5-8 abortions for random guys!!



what goes around comes around..

DrinkLimca:
I have been in love before.. And i slapped myself Back to reality because fallen in love is not for me "a student that was battling with mathematics in school"

I can't fall In love, doing my love, my sweet heart, while my grade in school drops..

Its a waste of life and time for a relationship that won't get pass school..

we must tell ourselves the truth and face reality, we cannot pursue two things at the same time..

Jupxter:



Na wa. How expensive is contraceptives for goodness sakes.Idon't know how comfortable people are killing their own very blood. Jesus Christ !

QueenSekxy:

some peoples ignorance is top notch..

Jupxter:



You can, it's about smart management, but best deal is start a relationship around 300 level

DrinkLimca:
smart management is risky..

True love and true relationship is an emotional driller..

It drills your time and emotions..

A final year student needs his emotion and mental health on 100% because that is what i call "close to your destiny year"

Its better to focus on a relationship when in your mind, you are ready to settle down.

Jupxter:



Whenever i hear abortion it breaks my heart, and we all call it foetus, because we want to placate our injured souls and console ourselves. God help us gain understanding, tomorrow they have spiritual problems. I was at a conference recently, when couples that had children were asked to come forward for prayers, guess what, over 700 couples had problems with having children, because of sins of youth. May God forgive us, beginning with me

QueenSekxy:
guys hardly get married to the lady that aborted for them!!they easily dump the ones that aborted twice for the ones that did upto 5-8 abortions for random guys!!



what goes around comes around..

Jupxter:



When you're ready to settle down, it also has demerits,like difficulty in finding a right match, there's so many prospects but mismatches upandan, trust me, i applied the logic you did in my life, looking back, i would have cultivate dat relationship. There's a process called cultivation where you both planned things.

Martin0:


Na wa ooo

DrinkLimca:
You can both plan things when the both of you are working and are mentally and financially prepared as two mature humans that knows what they want in life and are certain of their future..
And not two students still depending on daddy and mommy..
two students that don't know what the future hold for them..

QueenSekxy:

naso