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Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by Nobody: 7:03pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Just make money bros... |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by Softhands(m): 7:03pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Oga wake up jareh... Motor don pass your bus-stop o Ayo4251: |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by Uyi168: 7:03pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
for me,anyone is free to leave any relationship or marriage with an abusive patner or a cheat.. |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by SalamRushdie: 7:04pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Is ur dad a redeemed pastor |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by ayourbamie: 7:04pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
W |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by oruma19: 7:04pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Your father cannot be a pastor. No pastor will behave like this knowing that he will preach to people almost daily. What will he preach? Pls stop telling lies @OP. Much as I am against fake pastors seeking tithe, I will not support tgis kind of manipulation to malign pastors. Some of the pastors we have in Nigeria are real men sent by God. Don't generalise and rubbish all of them. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by Elis49(f): 7:05pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
I don't even know what to comment.. Family issues are always complicated.. I pray you find a solution to it. #safe 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by blackbeau1(f): 7:05pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Not really. It's not your place to ask her to divorce him . The thing with relationships of any kind is that the person in it, has to make the decision to leave or stay on his/her own. If you play any part in her divorcing him , she may always view it as your decision, instead of hers. Isn't it possible for you to or your younger ones to educate her yourself ? If you are a christian , pray about it and seek guidance . Also if it's possible to notify the church about what is going on on your family with a video or something , it would be a plus. Finally , I know staying in a troubled home plays havoc with the children's psyche but children who are from broken homes, are damaged in a whole different kind of way. Adding that damage now to what you people have already been through could cause a total break down . 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by smartolala(m): 7:05pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
The physical and emotional abuse should stop otherwise she should think of seperation no matter what life has no spare |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by chinawapz(m): 7:05pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
What is she doing there when your dad want her dead The choice is hers |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by ghanaman5050: 7:05pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Sorry broda , I feel your pain and I understand you good. Do you any uncle from your dad family ? If yes , report your dad and ask the uncle to talk to him . |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by Tobium1(m): 7:06pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Get a well paid job, build/rent a cool apartment and take your mum away from him, divorce still is not de best option 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by Hector09(m): 7:06pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
If ur dad is physically abusing ur mum, u guys should fight for ur mum, i remember when we caught someone with my dad in my mums matrimony bed, thou my mum was nt around them, that night eh we beat my dad nd d woman, he begs never to do it again, he swear that night lol, it was a night to remember 8 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by passyhansome(m): 7:06pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
ALL YOU NEED IS TO HEAR FROM GOD NOT MAN. ROMANS 3:4 LET GOD BE TRUE AND EVERY MAN A LIAR. TAKE IT TO GOD IN PRAYER WITH FAITH |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by Funkybabee(f): 7:07pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Divorced can never solve anything, just sit him down,confront him as a man not as a boy anymore though ur mother caused her suffering pardon me for that...If he didn't yield try to talk to his senior pastor you can trust |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by Bodmas02: 7:09pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Take it easy,work hard,pray,and save ur mum,s life.You will regret it for ever if anything happen to that woman.be wise,make her happy,unite ur siblings and act smart with God direction |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by lonelydora: 7:09pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
What God has joined together, let no man put asunder. |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by NENigeria(m): 7:09pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
What do you say?
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Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by Memories12411: 7:09pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
No husband with little or average income is happy around a woman who has no means of income. If your mother is not up and doing, I can assure you it is one of the reasons. Your mum should try and meet the standard that your father needs in a woman.You should as well do good by talking to your father to know the exact problem. I pray for God's peace in your home. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by Nobody: 7:10pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Moyinoluwa35:Real talk...real talk man |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by Hedonistically: 7:12pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Do you have any sister called Leah? |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by AlfaSeltzer(m): 7:15pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
When I am faced with problems like this, I ask myself: "what would Satan do?" |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by Clyod: 7:16pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
oruma19: Is it your father? Is it your pastor? why you come carry the matter for head like this? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by Lexusgs430: 7:16pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
isaacfreeman99: Is it your marriage? |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by Uyi168: 7:17pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
oruma19:..Nawa o,do u knw the father more tham him...pastors are humans too and are capable of anything.. |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by jk1e(m): 7:17pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
It's a pity,this is the one people are looking up to,calling Daddy up and down,meeting for counseling.man that can't take care of his family,sorry your dad doesn't know God,let alone pastor because God is love. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by Clyod: 7:18pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Hector09: Are you sure you are not operating under a curse? You have the nerves to say you beat your dad? �� |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by Gracious10: 7:18pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
OMG!! At first, i thought it was one of my siblings writing this. The only difference is the number of children and i cant even deal. Some of us have accepted our fate, but my faith wont be shaken. These issues are at the place of prayer most importantly that God should protect and spare my mums life. I have no other advice, its same thing here. 5 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by Chachangi: 7:19pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
sometimes I do question God that "God they said that everything you do is perfect but why did you allowed this to happened?? giving 10 good children to someone who don't care or know the value or worth of a child, wife and family??" God is perfect, the way he reasons differs from ours seriously. How can he give Jesus Christ to a "careless" parent that will forget him at the camp for 24hours when there is Elizabeth and Zechariah who had been looking for a child for donkey years and who would probably have appreciated Jesus better or maybe some other people. Now to your parents: when it comes to physical abuse , it is advisable a "separation" (not divorce ) takes place for some time until issues are resolved. God hates divorce. There's nothing bad in you seeking help from people your daddy respect or fear to help resolve issues without their consent. So long as you have enough strong evidences to present. As for you and your siblings, don't allow the bad experience you've had in life to determine who you should be, rather learn from it and make a message out of the mess. You can marry, you should marry , you will enjoy it. It's one of the best things in life. Most importantly, pray ernestly. No matter what anybody says, we have a God, the Father of Jesus Christ, that answers prayers. God bless. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Ask My Mum To Divorce My Dad?? by cybriz82(m): 7:19pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
isaacfreeman99: Tau sheybI u too go born ur pikin? And they will also gang up against everytime u make a mistake, |
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