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Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by MhizzAJ(f): 8:28pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Realitycheck007: So what's the big deal if she sleeps from 11 to 7am She's a human being and not some machine Since you love her so much...you can just overlook that part 8 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Realitycheck007(m): 8:29pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Dimples129:M/s not so, I will never hurt someone or displease anybody intentionally. I love her very well, I wil assist it definitely but shuld i be the one doing it regularly |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Nobody: 8:29pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
and she's not a wife material because of that? pls leave her for someone better, like you're perfect sef. nonsense. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Nobody: 8:30pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Realitycheck007: If she is working then yes! You do it regularly. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Realitycheck007(m): 8:31pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Mille:she has a job at hand.. Talking about sleep, 10pm-5:30am isn't a enough |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Realitycheck007(m): 8:38pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Dimples129:excuse me, I am working also remember? |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Realitycheck007(m): 8:39pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
jamariwolf:Thank you but i won't leave her for you..... 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by AK6464(m): 8:40pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Ayo4251: Ayo, you're wicked |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Realitycheck007(m): 8:40pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
MhizzAJ:How do u expect me to talk to her? Or what should I do to make her wake early |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by MhizzAJ(f): 8:47pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Realitycheck007:Set alarm for her Someone suggested that |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Realitycheck007(m): 8:51pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
MhizzAJ:Lol.. I will think about it lolz |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Nobody: 8:51pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Realitycheck007: Excuse you, she is working too! Remember? 17 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by MissWrite(f): 8:52pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Realitycheck007: Doesn't she make it to work on time? I'm guessing she does, otherwise she would have been sacked by now. Maybe you live in a place where the traffic is light in the mornings and she doesn't have to factor in travel time. Besides, she sleeps for eight hours every night which is actually the average recommended hours for adults (7-9). That's not sleeping too much. What do you want her to do for you by 5.30? Lay it out. 15 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Realitycheck007(m): 8:55pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Dimples129:That's why i came for you guy's opinion. On how to make it work out... What do you advice i do to make her adjust, Or should i talk to her |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Realitycheck007(m): 8:59pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
MissWrite:not for me, but for d home. Do u advice i buy break fast every morning when she's around? |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by MissWrite(f): 9:15pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Realitycheck007: "Buy" breakfast? That's the alternative you're resorting to? If you had said "Do you advise me to make breakfast every morning when she's around?" I would have said "No. I'm sure she wouldn't even be comfortable sleeping while you're disturbing pots and pan in the kitchen by six in the morning. She'll definitely get out of bed and help." But you said "buy", which makes me think you consider the kitchen beneath you, and you just want to cast her in those traditionally feminine roles. And I don't subscribe to that, especially since you are both working people. The thing is, when you buy your breakfast, that's a convenient way of modern living that shouldn't necessarily grate her conscience. She can go ahead and get her sleep. But when you step into the kitchen, you're setting a tone that she wouldn't just ignore. 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Realitycheck007(m): 9:21pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
MissWrite:Wow. I never thought to this angle, I would say thank you deeply. I think i would watch her when the going gets fuller 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Antina(f): 9:31pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Realitycheck007: What you are saying in essence is that she is supposed to wake by 4.30am and start jumping because she wants to be a wife material What do you expect her to be doing at early hour since there is no kid/kids to take care of for now?? Okó iyawo 13 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by SmellingAnus(m): 9:32pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Realitycheck007:welcome bro... |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by mikolo80: 9:32pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Dimples129:forever looking for gold 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Nobody: 9:38pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Realitycheck007: Leave her alone, she is an adult and she will do what she needs to do. Right now she has no reason to wake up before 7am because she has work at 8am. If she had something to do before 7am she'd do it, wouldn't she? Why would she wake up early to look at you 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Realitycheck007(m): 9:54pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Antina:I think this is were i missed it... It is to early to judge whether she wakes up early or not cuz she hasn't had any tedious responsibility to warrant that.. Thanks Antina. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Realitycheck007(m): 9:56pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Dimples129:lolz to massage me na .. I think this is were i missed it. i was quick to decide whether she wakes up early or not because she hasn't really gotten any reason to... Thanks |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Rukkydelta(f): 9:58pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Biko there is nothing wrong in having a 8hours sleep I normally sleep from 10pm to 6am unless on occasions I have something doing My normal sleeping time isn't below 6hours cos if it is I am likely to be feeling dizzy during the day. Op please set that lady free cos it seems you are looking for a maid and not a wife 9 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Nobody: 10:02pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Realitycheck007: Men like you, smh! Live and let live. As long as you trust, enjoy her company and you love her then there's no problems, unless you want to create problems. Go and sin no more, you have been forgiven 10 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Nobody: 10:06pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
mikolo80: You smell like copper so you're safe 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Realitycheck007(m): 10:07pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Rukkydelta:I would never treat a lady like that... I love her, I was just too over concerned cuz of the love i have for her and didn't want to loose her due little issues in which i misjudged |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Realitycheck007(m): 10:12pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Ayo4251:Lolz. were dem dei sell dt kind phone |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by MissWrite(f): 10:13pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
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Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Boyooosa(m): 10:18pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Convert her |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Nobody: 10:21pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
This one never jam red oil like me,you go fear oo.Abeg free that madam jare. I can sleep for three days without waking up and no be say i die na sleep. 14 Likes 1 Share |
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