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Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Alariiwo: 10:22pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Is that the reason for your submission.. she oversleeps? I don't think that's anything compared to a cheating partner. The issue can be corrected using alarms or set-out routine. If she is loyal and committed.. abeg hold her tight. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Safiaa(f): 10:22pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Can you imagine the nonsense? I even wake up by 8 sometimes esp on weekends. This man is a joke, you don't need to get married. You're the type to complaim about everything and cause problems/stress. The 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Nobody: 10:24pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
all these Immature boys... sleep na hin be you problem. focus on yourself bro as long as she is adding value. |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Nobody: 10:25pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
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Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by ThisIsFlashh: 10:25pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
She wakes up 7:00 am; then, you automatically concluded she is not a wife material? It's your type who make marriage looks like a factory work for women. No rest when you are in. I believe she can still wake up before that time, when she sleeps earlier or when you jokingly tell her about waking up at that time. Well, I see no atom of sense in all what you typed. SMH 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Alariiwo: 10:25pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Safiaa: Some women are lazy and nonchalant.. He has every right to be worried. |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by columbus007(m): 10:26pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Well,i'm here to read comments |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by wristbangle: 10:26pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
I thought the problem is much profound until I read the story which got me disappointed in you OP. Is this reason enough to conclude that she won't make a good wife? I understand you are scared as she may not do the required domestic duties during marriage but judging her by this, is shallow and degrading Nobody would tell her to caution her hours of sleep when the cry of her baby, laundry exercise, cooking and other domestic itinerary will make her sit up. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by biggy26: 10:26pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Maybe your house is her only opportunity for a good sleep. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by MLK22555: 10:26pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Why call her ur Fiancee when u know she is not a wife Material... Bros just Hold on further and try to work things out and see if u can change her thats if u really love her, instead just Pepper The Tomato , then look for a wife Material if she no change 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by toyeezy(m): 10:26pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Realitycheck007:People of nowadays sha.. Ordinary four months relationship, you're thinking of marriage next.. Bros, open your eyes and take your time to know each other better... Marriage is not something you can just rush into without adequate preparation and God's guidance.. If you rush in, you will rush out, Good luck. �� 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Smarte724(m): 10:26pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
am still waiting to see the reason y she is not a wife material, cos I don't see anything wrong here, 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by NnamdiN: 10:27pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
this one is not serious...me wey dey wake 10am sometimes, I wonder which material I be 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by bughead: 10:27pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Realitycheck007:when we were shouting and telling ya not to marry naija women, you won't listen now you are seeking advise! you marry a baboon, deal with the baboon you married. we were not there when you are fvcking that baboon without thinking the implication of it. |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by ultimate77(m): 10:27pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Mynd44:Go back and read well jorr... The lady in question is working class. And she wakes up by 7...who in heavens sake does this? Even when I work by 10 I am awake by 5 atleast play some games before leaving |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Blackhawk01: 10:28pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
I wake up 6:30am, leave for work 7am... What exactly is your problem, Sir? 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by bekpo(m): 10:28pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Xcelinteriors: My sympathy goes to that ur house help, sorry ur hubby,na him marry u or na u marry am? Him for kudu d kook d food naaaa! 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by RarestBreed: 10:29pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Bro I think you are not serious. Is this just what disqualifies her as a wife material? I'll advice you go to the market and buy good material (hollandice) for her. I think it will improve her wife-materiability. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by MissWrite(f): 10:30pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Dimples129: Hahaha! Nice reply. He's somewhere sulking right now. 2 Likes
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Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by talk2percy(m): 10:30pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Why are u faster than ur shadow? First u said ur relationship is barely 4months old and then u are already planning taking her to the alter? And u are afraid she might oversleep and not prepare the kids for school, bros but u never get kids already now...don't worry, the kids will take care of that. Besides, has she ever been queried for coming late at the office that u are aware of? 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Blackhawk01: 10:31pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
NnamdiN: Napkin material 3 Likes
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Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by sureheaven(m): 10:31pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Use this for her
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Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by princetom1(m): 10:31pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Mynd44:Counting the stars |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by JONNYSPUTE(m): 10:31pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Oga this ur excuse does not hold water. Nobody is perfect. So if u really love her as u claimed,then make do with her imperfections. Guess she herself might ve something about u she doesn't like. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by ultimate77(m): 10:32pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
bughead:amebo... E never marry yet. E day plan marry. U day find gossip athink? |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Nobody: 10:32pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Blackhawk01: You don't wash, make up etc? How can you be out of bed and on road in less than 30 mins? You be man? |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by TemmyTee82(f): 10:32pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
SmellingAnus: Because your own anus is smelly abi? |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Ishilove: 10:33pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Realitycheck007:You are a very difficult person and if I knew your girlfriend, I'd advice her not to go into marriage with you. If she has nothing in her schedule what do you want her waking early for? To kiss your balls and massage your feet? To pound yam and prepare banga soup? When she has children she will adjust so I don't know why you're bitching. Mscheeeew 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by classicfrank4u(m): 10:33pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Dimples129:may dat kind of lady fall on ur brothers. nonense 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by condomuser: 10:34pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Op here is an advice from experience. My woman goes to bed at 8pm and wake up at 7am, even while she use to work and after she had my baby. Do i have a problem with that ? Not at all. The advantage is this, i sleep late while the baby sleeps same time as her, so by the time they both wake up i'm enjoying my sleep, cos when the baby wake up while she is asleep i take responsibility to get the baby back to sleep. When a baby arrives, your woman will not need to be told much about looking after him/her especially at night, there are more pressing needs after child birth you should be bothered about Realitycheck007: 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by bejeria101(m): 10:35pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Go balogun market and get anothe material nah? 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Nobody: 10:35pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Realitycheck007:so she should be waking up early now to bath who? 3 Likes |
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