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Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by olafestid(m): 10:35pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
You can't call this an excuse to dump ur lovely fiancé, u should be happy she doesn't have a bad attitude worsen than this, I don't even see this as bad attitude. Did she late to her working place? I Believe the answer must be No, so when she know that she has responsibilities to care for, she will adjust by herself not even till you tell her. Anyway, try to correct her on time if u think she may not change |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by udemzyudex(m): 10:36pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Which kind rubbish thread be this naa? She sleep around 11pm,after banging the hell out of her, I believe she must have been exhausted and you expect her to wake up by 5:00am? Smh, next time allow her to sleep by 7/8pm and see if she won't wake up by 4:00am. Can you imagine this rubbish thread, some Nigerians funny sha. 7 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by esthy86(f): 10:36pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
after spending numerous night in ur house,u now look for pointless reason not to marry her,dat she sleeps too much is not enough reason to have double mind about her,i guess de love is not their 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Nobody: 10:36pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Realitycheck007: Wat is all this one na? You didnt put up a real cause for concern, instead you're going on and on about how your fiancé wakes up at 7am, you should even be thanking your stars that she wakes up at that time and not at 12pm, like seriously? Are u a f**king r*tard or something? I am trying really hard here to keep my harsh and derogatory words to myself, but for f**k sake is she meant to be your maid, if you wanted someone who would wake up at 5am and cook food and clean the house for you then why dont you go look for yourself a maid and not a wife. Were you not pampered as much as you would have wanted as a child? Are you looking to compensate for that? 10 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Nobody: 10:37pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Even to wake up late come be marriage material palava 5 Likes 1 Share
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Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by babadee1(m): 10:37pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Realitycheck007: You are the one that is not husband material if you think a woman sleeping for 8 hours a day is now a problem. That's the recommended amount of sleep that experts tell us to get on a daily basis. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by bughead: 10:37pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
ultimate77:didn't read the story fully! but a word is enough for the wise! marry a naija woman at your own risk. |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Blackhawk01: 10:39pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Dimples129: Man better me I have my wears selected already, no make-up, no breakfast... 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by NnamdiN: 10:40pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Blackhawk01:werey ordinary 7am dey give this one wahala |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by TemmyTee82(f): 10:41pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Realitycheck007: Dear OP. Forget the sleep hours. Does she attend to things she's supposed to attend to? Or is she lazy as well as dirty? As long as she gets things done, I don't see a problem. Some of us are not early morning people. The fact you're an early morning person does not mean every other person is. Me, for instance, if I have nothing urgent to do in the morning, my default wake up time is 7am. Though I often sleep very late. I'm sure when babies and responsibilities come, she will not be able to afford waking by 8am. If she can wake up on time for work (and not be late), I'm sure she will adjust to motherhood when the time comes. What do you want her to wake up to do anyways? It is her time to rest, biko. Let her sleep now. Motherhood is tasking fa. Except you have a very serious beef against people who don't wake 5am. |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by toyeezy(m): 10:41pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
[color=#770077][/color]Every time this girl calls me to report her boyfriend to me whenever he beats her.. I've told her to leave the relationship but she only sees me as the perfect best friend to have.. Fam!! What kind of zone is this? Epp me |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by tosyne2much(m): 10:43pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
This is a minor issue that can easily be corrected nah. I actually opened this thread with the hope of seeing a lady who wakes up easily in the morning and the next thing she does is spread her legs on the bed facebooking whatsapping and tweeting, |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by crookes(m): 10:44pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Blackhawk01:Woke up 6:30am and go to work 7am? Abeg, no vex with this question, WHEN LAST YOU BAFF GO WORK?
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Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Mzjacy(f): 10:44pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Biko o, wat is wrong in waking up by 7? Wat time do you want her to be waking up |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by TemmyTee82(f): 10:45pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Gofwane: As in...me sef weak. |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by TemmyTee82(f): 10:46pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
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Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Blackhawk01: 10:47pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
crookes: Today, Sir. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Nobody: 10:47pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
classicfrank4u: My brother is a real man! He works 12hrs a day, 5 days a week. His wife works 12 hrsa day, 5 days a week, they have 2 children. Within 4 years into his marriage he'd learnt to cook (wifey taught him). He works night shifts; so he gets home by 7.30am. He gets the children ready for school, makes breakfast, does the girl's hair, collects everything they need (by himself), from homework to whatever else the school requires that day. He takes them to school, comes home by 9 am and sleeps until 3pm... I hope you're still following BOY! He then wakes up at 3pm and brings them back from school, cooks and goes to work by 6pm when his wife gets home because she left 7am. That's how partnership works! Everybody is in for the family! Loyal to their family. But you would never understand that. You guys want slaves like your If you were bought up right, you might be half the man he is. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by tosyne2much(m): 10:47pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
wristbangle:A ridiculous thing like this is not worth bringing to Nairaland nah. Mtcheeew Although, no man wishes to marry a woman that would see it as a burden to tidy up the house and take care of the home but then, this one is just out of it 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Daeylar(f): 10:48pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
People want to kill op LMAO It's good for him, 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Nobody: 10:50pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
You will not follow her and be saving some sleep now before a baby would come and teach you how to be a father material okwa ya 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by bigpicture001: 10:50pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
you ursef u hv a problem..how can you visit your gal..after sh is bak from work late,sh cooks, you guyz eat..tired from work,yet you won't let her sleep..after satisfying you nd managing to sleep by 11pm..you still expect her to wake by five nd go magical cooking for imaginary children...nonsense..go nd get a life nd stop lying for mid super woman 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Ritajovy(f): 10:50pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Your definition of a wife material sucks. That's her timing. If it works for her, then it ain't your problem. The only time to complain is when it's not working. Don't try to fix your fiancé into this mould you have in mind. Bring out the best in her nothing else! 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by stchinedu: 10:52pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
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Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Jimi23(m): 10:52pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Wetin do your hand OP? Na wife you dey find abi maid? Nonsense! |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by tosyne2much(m): 10:52pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
olafestid:This isn't a bad attitude jawe, the OP head no just correct I was thinking it was something that would cause me to be open-mouthed 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by masks(m): 10:52pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Realitycheck007:if thisnis all you need advice for then I must say that I am disappointed in you and your story....this is something a simple dialogue can resolve...why bring it here? besides,if she wakes up late all the time. can't you help her by waking her up same time you get up from the bed? Na wa o! You ain't married to her yet and you are complaining about something you ought to find a solution to yourself.....abeg!!! |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Clyod: 10:55pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
This man is looking for a maid not a wife 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by SlayQueenSlayer(m): 10:55pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Realitycheck007: What is really your problem with the time she wakes up? Does she report for work late? Do you just want her to wake up early as a rehearsal? |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by chronique(m): 10:55pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
bekpo:w lol. i was shocked at the confidence with which she typed that but then,different strokes for different folks. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by classicfrank4u(m): 10:57pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
Dimples129: just because ur brother has chosen to be a house boy dat he is, doesn't mean other men should do same. I jst hpe nd pray u gt married to a "real man" so u can try dat with him, and get divorced aftr 7days . lazy thing.. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by emmie14: 10:59pm On Dec 04, 2017 |
I didn't border reading your epistle. Just drop her or divorce her. Both is allowed. 1 Like |
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