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Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by MrBottle: 8:07am On Dec 05, 2017 |
Realitycheck007:You opened the wrong thread. Goodluck Dem gonna roast you |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Nobody: 8:10am On Dec 05, 2017 |
Reeberry: Bro I was just reading this last night and the post just vex me. |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by okonja(m): 8:11am On Dec 05, 2017 |
ifex370: This picture really got me laughing so much 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by DocAdray(f): 8:16am On Dec 05, 2017 |
OP, is that the only issue you have with her that made you conclude that she isn't a wife material? You get wahala oh. I hope you know no one is perfect? You guys have only known each other for a short while, why not keep observing and encouraging her for the time being? Moreover, if she doesn't go to work late, this shouldn't be an issue yet. She may want to stay longer in bed to rest when she passes the night in your place. As for the kids part, when kids come, you both will adjust your schedule definitely. |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Nobody: 8:19am On Dec 05, 2017 |
Realitycheck007:yes and No |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Blackhawk01: 8:22am On Dec 05, 2017 |
msylva2147: I laughed so hard reading this You no well |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Nobody: 8:22am On Dec 05, 2017 |
set alarm clock for her wired to bluetooth speaker and place it beside her pillow..if she no wake up buy better pakere to flog her yansh..this will reset her cerebrum..next time she will wake up in time |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by mabea: 8:28am On Dec 05, 2017 |
Realitycheck007:Kai i didnt check this thread on time. Op your girl has no problem at all. Let's analyse it this way: she's single, no kids yet, works from 8am-4pm, she wakes up by 7am, uses 30mins to prepare,she probably gets to the office within 20mins. Meen! What do you want from her. Let her be please because she will naturally adjust when children start arriving. It seems like you are the controlling type, mr perfectionist. |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Peterosky(m): 8:31am On Dec 05, 2017 |
Op you must be mad. You are instead the one that is not a husband material. Just because your fiance sleeps till 7am, you automatically joined Nairaland to disturb Nairalanders with your mumu story. inshort, stop wasting that lady's precious time. Idiot, stupid and rubbish thread. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Slim101(m): 8:34am On Dec 05, 2017 |
Xcelinteriors: For the past 7 years of marriage, I had taken up the bathing and clothing of my two kids since they were 6 months old (while madam cooks and prepare for our office trip). Even when I travel sometimes, it feels so strange to the kids to have their mom bathe them. Your wife is your life partner and not your maid. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by coolviv: 8:41am On Dec 05, 2017 |
One question Op. Are you a husband material? |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by nairanaira12: 8:45am On Dec 05, 2017 |
Preetiex: The way you behave while dating is the way you will behave in marriage. That is why dating is important : to help you detect the behaviours of the other person. If you know the lady, you should advice her to be more reasonable, rather than encourage her to maintain irresponsible behavior. |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Surrey2Bimshire: 8:45am On Dec 05, 2017 |
Realitycheck007: � ahahah wow @ buy breakfast . You should be able to fix your own breakfast poster you've got hands you know ?? With the rate at which certain genders are expecting too much from women and judging them with the time they ought to sleep I think I'll stick to being single forever lol ..feels like freedom! My work starts from 10 A.m and ends 7 pm . I sleep around 11 and wake up 7:10(i'd snooze my alarm for another 30 min lol) whatever I do,I'd make sure I get to the train station by 8:45(the train is less than 6 min walk from mine) and after work, I don't get home until 8:30 then I drop my stuff and go for a long Arse Run or do some quick chores around my apartment and also chat with my folks .though there are times during the week that I wake up for 5:30 (three times in a week) for weight lifting and boxing and still go running later at night ! There's barely much time to do anything. As for your partner, she's got a enough time after work to do the family runs etc just cut the poor girl some slack 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by nairanaira12: 8:47am On Dec 05, 2017 |
greenhulk: The way you behave during dating /relationship is a window into the way you will behave in marriage |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Blackhawk01: 8:49am On Dec 05, 2017 |
Dimples129: Lol. I'm glad I did. 3 hours? I want to be like you when I grow up ooooo. |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by SmellingAnus(m): 8:49am On Dec 05, 2017 |
TemmyTee82:nah... Because your anus has a pleasant aroma especially after defecation... |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Jimi23(m): 8:49am On Dec 05, 2017 |
nairanaira12: And how responsible is the man in question looking for a maid. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by nairanaira12: 8:53am On Dec 05, 2017 |
Jimi23: Does your mom also wake up 7am even when she has to go to work by 8am? Does your mom take care of the home every morning before going to work? Does that make her a maid to your dad? Or do you even have a mother at all? |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Nobody: 9:04am On Dec 05, 2017 |
nairanaira12:u mean sleeping for 8hrs is irresponsible or is there anoda issue apart her sleeping habit?Bros 4get am u are also a human being & i think d lady does dat only on weekend 4rm wat op wrote |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by godofuck231: 9:05am On Dec 05, 2017 |
Realitycheck007: U need de sleep? Abi she tie you, pls try going into farming it's more hectic so u would not have the strength to seek attention |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Nobody: 9:07am On Dec 05, 2017 |
nairanaira12:y bring his parent into dis because of a comment? Do to other wat u want others to do to u o,besides we all have different ways of living our lives 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Pearl05(f): 9:14am On Dec 05, 2017 |
Realitycheck007: Free the lady joor, she is still single and you expect her to start living like a married nursing mother that wakes by 2 am and 5am to care for the child and running the home. She wakes by 7am and still be at work by 8am, she is a good time manager sef. An hour is not even enough for some to do make up and dress up. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by tivta(m): 9:22am On Dec 05, 2017 |
I hate how selfish most Nigerian women of today are. Saying he should help her with the cooking etc but when it is time to pay school fees, house rent, bills none of these nairaland girls will tell their fellow women to support him oh. |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Humanistme: 9:23am On Dec 05, 2017 |
nairanaira12: nobody wants his wife/sisters to suffer like their mum. If he does not like the lady let him look for another one nonsense 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by nairanaira12: 9:26am On Dec 05, 2017 |
Preetiex: So, you also agree that such a sleeping habit is wrong during work days? Yet, your prescription is for the lady to persist in such abnormality? And how did you get to know that it is weekend? A well brought up African daughter will never be sleeping till 7am when she has to go to work by 8am. |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by nairanaira12: 9:28am On Dec 05, 2017 |
Humanistme: So, waking up early to clean the home is your own idea of suffering? This your generation has gone to the dogs. Will you encourage your daughters to sleep till 7am when they have to arrive at work by 8am? |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by nairanaira12: 9:35am On Dec 05, 2017 |
Preetiex: I don't mean to insult your parents,; never. I'm just making references. One of the things a parent teaches her kids is how to wake up early, especially when they have to go to work. It is on indication of a good home training. |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Nobody: 9:47am On Dec 05, 2017 |
nairanaira12:dat is ur opinion anyway |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Adefemiaderoju1: 9:51am On Dec 05, 2017 |
Realitycheck007:O boy...its a normal thing o why won't she sleep after giving her lots of konji till daybreak, after all she has no responsibility at the moment I believe if she get to the bridge she will cross it |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by habsydiamond(m): 9:54am On Dec 05, 2017 |
if u babe no get wife material den buy one for her nao simple |
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