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Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Ann4impact(f): 10:00am On Dec 05, 2017 |
In life, people make choices that would either make or break them. Suffice it to say; the choice you make, defines you. My advice goes thus; have a talk with her Let her know your likes & dislikes Have a listening ear & never make hasty conclusion(s) Always be supportive & make her know when mistakes are done. Try to set a reminder if need be Make sure the both of you are compatible & as well compliments each other. I wish you both a blissful marriage in perspective. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by MRSANITY(m): 10:06am On Dec 05, 2017 |
Ishilove:this is why you are still single. Attitude. |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Daeylar(f): 10:06am On Dec 05, 2017 |
greenhulk: LMAO |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Daeylar(f): 10:11am On Dec 05, 2017 |
But op it's a free world last last, if you really don't like your girl's sleeping habits, Leave her and find someone whose habits you prefer, Your choice. |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by kenoxzy(m): 10:14am On Dec 05, 2017 |
heart to heart talk with her and give her time to adjust..... |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by remexy(f): 10:22am On Dec 05, 2017 |
This isn't even a problem. You want her to wake up earlier to take care of your imaginary children? You have u started paying imaginary hospital or school fees. The values and beliefs of a person are more important than domestic work. If u meet witch wey Sabi cook, clean etc like her life depends on it, u go know say you no get problem. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by princejones(m): 10:23am On Dec 05, 2017 |
My dear,see what you want to hold against someone's daughter,you have no issue at hand unless your love for the lady is no more in shape as before and stop looking for fault when you are not a perfect being. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by omoelerin1: 10:27am On Dec 05, 2017 |
You have to reduce the way you dey knack her at night. |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Rubbiish(m): 10:31am On Dec 05, 2017 |
Realitycheck007:Oga stop arguing with ladies... Were u expecting any lady to support you when they are all guilty of it or wish for their husband to entirely take up cleaning roles of the house?? When it comes to issues like this, always seek advise from elderly people & follow your heart. You are the one that will be in that marriage, if it is not something u can tolerate, u better think well before going into that marriage. When people start complaining about their partner before marriage, it is a red flag... BUT JUST KNOW THAT SHE WILL NOT CHANGE ANY OF ATTITUDE AFTER MARRIAGE. IF SHE WAKES UP BY 7AM NOW, SHE WILL ALSO BE WAKING UP SAME TIME IN MARRIAGE Do not increase the rate of divorce if u can't tolerate any of her attitude now, because she won't change after marriage....Anything u are experiencing now is same u will experience in marriage... If u can condone it, go ahead...If u can not tolerate it, u better think twice now...It will be better for both of u in the long run...DON'T JUST THINK U CAN CONVINCE HER TO WAKE EARLY AFTER MARRIAGE...NO JUST THINK AM.... |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by QueenMarvella(f): 10:35am On Dec 05, 2017 |
Let her sleep ooo Wetin sef,that's how she has been sleeping before u came along. Y will u be disturbing my sleep on top Wetin, |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Rubbiish(m): 10:38am On Dec 05, 2017 |
Daeylar:Thank u! Cc: Realitycheck007 This is the summary of it... Don't let anyone talk u into marrying her, if your mind doesn't go for it... U will be the one to be in d marriage, not them... What u may see as a big deal, mr A may see it as nothing... 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by AgatuBoy(m): 10:45am On Dec 05, 2017 |
som1 can not sleep till 7am again i even tot she cant cook or somtin else u sef wot time do u wake up. so cos u wonna marry her she go turn housemaid oga wake up dis is 21st century. beta start learning how to share the house chores 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by clemmonce(m): 10:58am On Dec 05, 2017 |
Realitycheck007: |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Mrnairalandd: 11:13am On Dec 05, 2017 |
Dimples129: Bleep off So what is the point of marrying a woman who can’t take care of her child? So the young man should marry her for what? Decoration i guess Lazy ass Her main job in that house is waking up in the morning to take care of her child and make breakfast. Period! The only exception to that is if she is the one making money available for all these things. A woman who knows her responsibility will be up by 6am(7hours sleep enough for lazy ass wife, only poor people sleep that long) and begin to make breakfast and bath her child. |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by mechanics(m): 11:30am On Dec 05, 2017 |
HarunaWest:na so. |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by zaramgrand(f): 11:37am On Dec 05, 2017 |
She needs to wake up, cook, bath d kids, clean d house and also prepare for work. That's her duty Abi? Op wats ur own duty Pls. I hope it's not just to eat and go to work. Rubbish! |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by nairanaira12: 11:39am On Dec 05, 2017 |
Preetiex: It is not just an individual thing. It is a norm in a safe society. A sensible woman won't be sleeping till 7am when she has to get to work by 8am Is she sick or went on a vigil the previous night? 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by nairanaira12: 11:40am On Dec 05, 2017 |
Preetiex: A woman waking up early and taking care of these home is a norm. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by joe120120(m): 11:42am On Dec 05, 2017 |
Realitycheck007: u are the master& boss of ur house, u have everything to do to her to make her soot u, so that the marriage will be fantastic. kudo |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by msylva2147(m): 11:51am On Dec 05, 2017 |
Realitycheck007:like seriously? I thought you needed some help and I choose to offer one. On a serious note you don't even have an excuse over the said lady, what's your business with her waking up early so long as she's meeting up with other things and she respects you and your family you should be cool with that and I believe that's what most of the men are looking for in a woman. she is sleeping that way because she doesn't have much to do and I see nothing wrong with that, but I believe by the time she started having kids nobody will tell her when to wake up. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by nairanaira12: 11:54am On Dec 05, 2017 |
Jimi23: See the way you are releasing oral diarrhea everywhere. Did you get this incurable disease from your immbecile father and lazy ass mother? 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by TemmyTee82(f): 11:59am On Dec 05, 2017 |
SmellingAnus: It does. I use scented water to clean up. You can come and smell it if you doubt. |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by TemmyTee82(f): 12:00pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
Gofwane: No mind am jere. |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by TemmyTee82(f): 12:03pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
nairanaira12: She sleeps over at her boyfriend's house. Obviously she isn't going to work on that day. |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by TemmyTee82(f): 12:05pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
Mrnairalandd: Fixed. |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by kelechiMarie(f): 12:05pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
The only reason you see waking up at 7 as a problem is because of the stress filled ,abnormal society Nigeria is. If I have little kids who resume school by 9am, a job that runs from 9-5 ,please tell me why I should be awake before 7? She sleeps for 8hours right, that's pretty normal hun as long as it doesn't affect her other duties. People in the village(back then) sleep by 9pm and wake up by 5am and still work hard so what's the difference. Stop equating waking up early to being hardworking, some people are not just morning persons, your fiancée is probably more productive at night(hence the late sleeping). But you know what, you should break up with her if you don't change your mentality. Wife material indeed,! 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Humanistme: 12:25pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
nairanaira12: If waking up early to clean the home everyday is left for one person alone when it is the two of you that work, then complain when she is too tired to do it on certain days then to me it is suffering. This generation is actually better, we technologically advanced, slavery has reduced, black people can vote, we have women emancipation etc I will encourage my my daughters to wake whenever they want as long as they manage the time they have left well. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by nairanaira12: 12:29pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
Set Humanistme: Can you show me where I said waking up early should be left to only one person? You will live better if you read with more understanding before commenting. In my own home, my parents taught us, both male and female, to wake up early. A mature woman sleeping till 7am when she will resume at work by 8am is an irresponsible woman with poor upbringing. 1 Like |
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