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Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Humanistme: 12:37pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
nairanaira12: The op did not say she goes to work late. the time she wakes up does not affect her work. The op is worried about her waking up early to take care of imaginary children she hasn't given birth to yet. when her responsibility increases she will adjust. you do not know her to call her irresponsible. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Aleora(f): 12:38pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
Mynd44:lmao singing praises |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by nairanaira12: 12:39pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
Humanistme: The way you act during relationship will show what you will do in marriage. I'm sure you are wise enough to know that 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Realitycheck007(m): 12:39pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
Aleora:he mynd44 didnt read the post, i said she has a day job |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Mynd44: 12:42pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
Realitycheck007:she resumes by 8. She wakes up 7am and still makes it in time, what exactly is the problem? |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Humanistme: 12:43pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
nairanaira12: The op has not complained she is lacking in character I don't know what you are pressed about. And no the way you act in relationship is not the way you act in marriage. with marriage comes more responsibility and commitment. note I'm not talking about personal attributes like anger issues or lying. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by emesv26(m): 12:54pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
Bros go and work on her....pls |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by cisca4us: 12:58pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
Really you can't be serious. so because she likes sleep that's why u said she is not a wife material. lemme tell you, if she has something very important she needs to do by 4am, you will b surprised how she will wake up. Guy that's not an excuse. #Bestofluck# [color=#000099][/color] 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by SmellingAnus(m): 1:16pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
TemmyTee82:Lol... I will gladly do that... are you currently serving ? ( Jesus Corper) ? |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by sweetilicious(f): 1:16pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
lol...It works for me.Now i can't even sleep past 5:30 am even on saturdays.I think it works. ofonike: |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by SSAwhistleblowe: 1:36pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
In my opinion I feel the op is reacting based on the kind of upbringing he had.. maybe he grew up in a home where you have to wake up early to do house chores and so he thinks that is the standard for everyone so we shouldn’t crucify him.. but oga you have to understand that we have different backgrounds and upbringing..your fiancé may have been brought up in a house with maids and she didn’t have to wake up so early... you have to understand that you can’t find a perfect person and marriage is about learning to accommodate one another...so oga find a way around it instead of dumping her no one is perfect sure she has some negative things to say about you too...but if you know you can’t put up with the so called flaw you can dump her for your queen that has all the qualities you want... but remember that the grass is never greener on the other side. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Nobody: 2:01pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
Xcelinteriors: Stop spreading rubbish everywhere. Because ur man accepts ur nonsense doesn’t make it a compulsory thing for every man. Don’t get me wrong, it’s okay for couples to help each other, but don’t make a woman’s job a man’s. To the bolded, yeah they both brought the baby into d world, and they will take care of him together by playing their roles not by playing the same roles. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by pedrilo: 2:31pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
u r not wise at all @op ur girl doesnt hav any problem, ur d one wit a problem here, and ur problem is that u see problems where there are no problems. |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by TemmyTee82(f): 2:32pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
SmellingAnus: And you're not afraid to smell Jesus corper's anus? What is this world turning into? I'm done with service. |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Aleora(f): 2:40pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
Realitycheck007:thats ... |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Ginibaby877: 2:45pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
so why she cooks, baths and feeds the kids, you we fold ur hands and be looking at her, , imagine?u r the one that needs help here, I will advice her to leave u cause u dey find house girl when u wan marry |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by LaudateII: 2:46pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
nairanaira12: nairanaira12: How is waking up by 7a.m to get to work by 8a.m, an indication of poor upbringing, biko nu? If her office is a mere 5 or 10 minutes walk from her home, how is waking up at 7a.m, now a problem? Haven't you seen rude, repulsive, disrespectful, argumentative kleptomaniacs that wake up early before 6 a.m? Does waking up early now make them responsible creatures? 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by fpeter(f): 2:51pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
Marry a Vigilante 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by LaudateII: 2:53pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
fpeter:Best advice, ever! Realitycheck007, take note and comply! 2 Likes
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Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by LaudateII: 3:01pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
Realitycheck007:Don't mind all these 'yeye people that have been giving you different types of advice here. Listen to me. Just dump this lady. She is not good enough for you, since she is waking up at 7 a.m, not so?? I pray the next lady you find, will wake up before 5 a.m. Not just that, the new lady would also be sly, deceitful, temperamental, selfish and full of mischief. May the new girl use every subtle trick in the book to work against your peace, progress, stability, and comfort as well as the unity of your family and siblings, because such things are not as important as her waking up from 5 a.m - 5:30 a.m. I wish you all the best as you dump your current lady who sleeps excessively, in order to find a new one who wakes up early. Good luck. |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Uhomanbulus110(f): 3:03pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
Why |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by LaudateII: 3:10pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
SSAwhistleblowe:Leave him, nah! His only problem is that she wakes up late. He is not bothered by other major qualities, such as her character, attitude, values, generosity, decency and spirituality. I once lived in an area, where my next door neighbour had a wife who woke up very early before 5 a.m. But the lady was cantankerous to a fault. As early as 6 a.m, you could hear her shouting at the top of her voice, at someone or the other in the neighbourhood. She was an expert at picking fights with others. I used to pray really hard not to cross her path on my way to work, in the morning. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by vchykp(m): 3:11pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
Realitycheck007:when i was jobless, i wake by 10am, but now i wake by 6am and off i go for buiz.. When the time comes,she will adjust, she cant just stay awake wen she no b winch 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by ritamary01(f): 3:20pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
[quote author=Mynd44 post=62981591]She wakes up 7am……yen yen yen Is there something that needs doing that she doesn't do? [/ Abi oooo |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Imjustagirl(f): 4:39pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
I'm yet to see a single girl who wakes up early just for the fun of it. Why wake up before 7am if you don't need to? When the kids come, she will wake up early, cos she needs to. No sensible person will still be sleeping when there's stuff to do. Meanwhile you don't sound mature. No offense but please try to grow up and get sense so you can be a good husband to this woman. This is a non issue and shouldn't even be discussed with your friends, not to talk of the whole nairaland. By wisdom a house is built and by knowledge it is filled with many treasures. Read books, learn, look for a relationship mentor. You desperately need one. Look for Leke Adler on twitter. Best of luck |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by lazygal: 4:49pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
Mynd44: I don't even know how people can be clicking like for your comments ...maybe becasue you managed to be a moderator ..the day God will reveal you to me face to face ko hmmmm.... Till that day 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Mynd44: 5:05pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
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Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by Humanistme: 5:54pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
[quote author=Mynd44 post=63007922][/quote] what have you done to that poor girl that she's this bitter? |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by LaudateII: 6:47pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
lazygal:Oh, are you referring to the "Chairman of unfair banning and vindictiveness..?"
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Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by lazygal: 6:51pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
LaudateII: Lwkmd ...rotf... Guy abeg ,don't turn me to a mad woman. See how I just dey laugh here 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by SmellingAnus(m): 8:00pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
TemmyTee82:Lol... And you are not afraid to tell smellinganus to smell your anus... What year did you finish? Did you hold any position with NCCF... |
Re: My Fiancée Isn't A Wife Material, Please Help. by EmeachiEmmanuel(m): 8:07pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
lol!!! first of all who told u she is ment to do the work all alone? both of u are ment to complement each other.... that's what marriage Is all about (TEAM). secondly, to me 4 months is to short to start deciding to get married, stay a lil bit longer n see if u cn fine tune her to what you want. thirdly, no one is 100% the most important question u should ask your self is, are u ready to take shit or runs away cause of one lil challenge? think about it. |
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