RETIREDMUMU:
it just tiring about relationships these days, especially those kiddies dating.
all what you hear is after so so months they..............

back to ur issues, stop giving or investing in the relationship and see if she will change

Demmtek:
Are you sure u are in relationship or just friendship acting that way means she doesnt give a tfuck about the relationship, sit her down tell her how u feel, or you just have to act u dont care for a week and see her reactions too, for me talking from experience she is not interested or she is not just ready for commitment she is just there for the benefit use your head bro before she turn you to ATM.

Dimples129:
You can't meet her needs. Up your hustle or leave her

aurxtino:
Lols trust me am that type of guy that every lady wants to date, i practically provide everything she needs even when i am not too buoyant , but i still give her from the little i have.

Dimples129:


So why you complaining? We should help you fund your relationship

If you don't like her. End it.

Dimples129:


So why you complaining? We should help you fund your relationship

If you don't like her. End it.

aurxtino:
Do you do or like a one sided relationship? Where you bf won't show you care, attention, when you write him he only replies you with hello, hi, k, you know. and he hardly calls you. how would you feel dear ?

aurxtino:
We've talked about all this several times bro, but she doesn't want to change so i guess ending it now would just be the best you know.

aurxtino:
Okay let me write this as brief as i can, been dating this girl for over 10 months now, but what baffles me about her is her lack of care, concern for me like i do to her, and then she's excessively selfish, she can never sacrifice even a 100 naira recharge card for me. but always wants to take from me every time. i have talked with her several times about this but she doesn't want to change a bit. and i am already thinking of ending things with her like seriously.

aurxtino:
Lols trust me am that type of guy that every lady wants to date, i practically provide everything she needs even when i am not too buoyant , but i still give her from the little i have.

ayokellany:


You are being delusional girls nowadays do not want to date the bank manager, they are after the owners of the bank. What you think your are providing is not what she desires in life when she come across that you will be left dry n high. I advice guys like you to get done with such girls so you do not turn out the loser. There are some girls some guys can not have for whatever reason but that should not stop you from having a piece of the pie, just be contended with the piece or pieces depending on how many times you had a dig into the cookie jar.

aurxtino:
Okay let me write this as brief as i can, been dating this girl for over 10 months now, but what baffles me about her is her lack of care, concern for me like i do to her, and then she's excessively selfish, she can never sacrifice even a 100 naira recharge card for me. but always wants to take from me every time. i have talked with her several times about this but she doesn't want to change a bit. and i am already thinking of ending things with her like seriously.

aurxtino:
Do you do or like a one sided relationship? Where you bf won't show you care, attention, when you write him he only replies you with hello, hi, k, you know. and he hardly calls you. how would you feel dear ?

Olami90:
Op, I was in your shoe some years back.
My immediate ex was extremely selfish, proud and knows too much.

I gave her time to change but I discovered it has been her way of life. Her mum told me sometimes then that when she and her other siblings were much younger, she is the only child that will refuse to break her save-box to assist her with their little savings.

I loved her so much then that she felt on top like I can't do without her.

She is very stingy but fashion conscious (clothes, shoes, jewelries etc).
I chose not to ignore that attitude (a big red flag) and I have never regretted it one bit till today.


Save yourself future headache because a lady like her will only make you poor and be the one to rub it on your face.

Olami90:
Op, I was in your shoe some years back.
My immediate ex was extremely selfish, proud and knows too much.

I gave her time to change but I discovered it has been her way of life. Her mum told me sometimes then that when she and her other siblings were much younger, she is the only child that will refuse to break her save-box to assist her with their little savings.

I loved her so much then that she felt on top like I can't do without her.

She is very stingy but fashion conscious (clothes, shoes, jewelries etc).
I chose not to ignore that attitude (a big red flag) and I have never regretted it one bit till today.


Bro you just said it all, now let me tell you something that happened today, she promised to send me a card, after about 3 days i didn't bother to ask her, so today she sent it after our arguments last night, and i told her i do not need it, do you know that before i could say Jack, this girl has loaded the recharge card. menh am tying up my pocket for her i swear. and then pretend i still love her, but believe me things have to change.

Save yourself future headache because a lady like her will only make you poor and be the one to rub it on your face.

pocohantas:
You're seeing the signs now.
A selfish woman is a very bad one for any hustling young man.
Even Dangote wouldn't want a selfish women.

End it.
She won't change.
Some habits are in the blood, this seems like one.

ashjay001:



How did u decode all that, without marrying her? Lucky u