A Nigerian man who has been married for about three years now - has shared a word of advice for some unmarried ladies. According to Adewale Aladejana, he wouldn't have been married if his wife didn't ask the crucial question "baby when are we getting married?".

The man who is apparently enjoying his union is urging ladies to stop assuming that the guys they are dating will marry them and ask the right question because they they deserve to know.

Below is what he shared on Facebook;

I have been married for over 3 years now but we wouldn't be married when we did if my wife didn't ask the crucial question "baby when are we getting married?"

Ladies if you have been dating a man for a year or close to a year, you have EVERY right to ask him "when are we getting married?" Two things will happen; it's either he gets pissed or both of you will work on a date immediately. In my own case we picked a date and by the end of 2013 we had our court wedding and by February 2014 we were married.

Ladies STOP ASSUMING, ask questions, you DESERVE to know. Stop assuming you are dating because he calls you all the time and takes you out, let him ask you to be his babe the right way, don't make excuses for him, men know how to ask when they really want something, if he needs you that much he will ask!

May common sense fall on you in Jesus name.

You too can be a social media evangelist kindly share so that others can be blessed as you have been blessed. Thank you for reading.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2017/12/wife-asked-crucial-question-got-married-nigerian-man-reveals.html

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Honestly ladies need to start asking necessary questions when it comes to relationships. How will you be dating someone for years without bringing up the topic of marriage. You will stay there and be assuming that he will suddenly propose to you by kneeling down. Keep waiting you hear.

I understand some ladies really don't bother about sharing their toto but please thread with caution. That's why after dating a guy for years and probably cheating intermittently, you dump each other and he move§ on, then you carry your slacked kini to the next person.

"When are we getting married' is a question that will make a guy think and decide if he actually wants to spend the rest of his life with you. Don't encourage relationship time wasters, ask the question Now!!!!!!!!!!

BabbanBura

When are we getting married?


omooba969
When are we getting married?

Lemme stop here

so far they are getting the material things, they can end up becoming a babymama

That is why I like sensible men...It's only sensible men that reason this way

Men are totally different from boys...If you say that to a boy consider the relationship Shaky because he will think the lady is a desperado

As for me i can't date more than 2 years max

ibkkk:
BabbanBura

When are we getting married?


omooba969
When are we getting married?

Lemme stop here

Take it easy babe
How many of them at a time

MhizzAJ:
Take it easy babe How many of them at a time

Leave her jor She wanto marry 2husby

khome:
Leave her jor
She wanto marry 2husby

That's selfishness

MhizzAJ:

Take it easy babe
How many of them at a time

Many of them

khome:
Leave her jor
She wanto marry 2husby

Who told you they are two
I have 1001

ibkkk:


Many of them

Lucky you
Abeg dash me 1

MhizzAJ:

Lucky you

Lols.

MhizzAJ:

Lucky you
Abeg dash me 1

Lemme think about it

How many you wanna get married to?

ibkkk:
BabbanBura

When are we getting married?


omooba969
When are we getting married?

Lemme stop here

Some people doing 3 years fear no go let the girl ask am

Kai

Rutley:
How many you wanna get married to?

My choice

ibkkk:

Who told you they are two I have 1001

Tuale MAMA No wonder body dey bite MhizzAJ

khome:
Tuale MAMA
No wonder body dey bite MhizzAJ

Babes, no more "tuale" o
Na "buate"

khome:
Tuale MAMA
No wonder body dey bite MhizzAJ

I even told her to dash me one
She say she gonn think abourrit
Very stingy gal

Na you go tire na

ibkkk:


My choice

Rutley:
Na you go tire na

Leave me.
Is it your tire

Some are desperado. You cant judge with the lady's case.

MhizzAJ:
That is why I like sensible men...It's only sensible men that reason this way

Men are totally different from boys...If you say that to a boy consider the relationship Shaky because he will think the lady is a desperado

As for me i can't date more than 2 years max

Hehehehehehe i wonder oooo

ibkkk:



Leave me.
Is it your tire

MhizzAJ:

Take it easy babe
How many of them at a time

she's trying to kill two guys with one stone..,..sorry oo Na bird I mean

Evaberry when are we getting married??

Wow!

But my man u suppose know when u go marry na.

This is very true. Some men just enjoy companionship without commitment. We need to always ask d right questions.