coolfredo:
u are technically telling us that diffrent men enter ur something every two years

Toks2008:


Two years is too much...at most 6 months...except you are dating a boy. ..real men know the very first time they see a lady if she is the type they can marry...long courtship is for players except the guy is still in his 20s when he met you but if a guy is in his 30s and he does not bring up the matter biko ask him.

Blackfyre:


Wow....no need to be sorry, you making sense.....so if possible like this if the right man comes, by 24, you will be a married woman...

I think it's nice...no time bouncing around thinking you chopping life.... I pray you meet the right dude who shares your view of things too....

MhizzAJ:

Lucky you
Abeg dash me 1

SlayQueenSlayer:


Na e hard reach?

MhizzAJ:
That is why I like sensible men...It's only sensible men that reason this way

Men are totally different from boys...If you say that to a boy consider the relationship Shaky because he will think the lady is a desperado

As for me i can't date more than 2 years max

jaxxy:


B4 u ask such question u need to ask him a better question. if ure d main chick or a side chick 1st.

2ndly how long and serious has it been?

3rd wat value uve added within such period besides u know wat

4th. Is he ready for such commitments

MhizzAJ:
That is why I like sensible men...It's only sensible men that reason this way

Men are totally different from boys...If you say that to a boy consider the relationship Shaky because he will think the lady is a desperado

As for me i can't date more than 2 years max

MhizzAJ:


Far from that but whatever i'm into should be defined from the get go...Once a lady sees someone who's interested in her(husband material) she knows already likewise a man too ...So before you even date for up to 2 years d guy would ve popped up the question

omooba969:


BabbanBura over to you sir.

ibkkk no slacking, on the sidelines though.

purples25:
Na so. Another time a bunch of men will come out to warn women from pressurising them, that it's even a turn off and will even stop them from proposing once the woman asks. There is nothing you can do to please a man or make the relationship work because nothing can please a man. He only chooses to be pleased.

If your relationship works and leads to marriage, it's just God, or your own fleeting luck. Not by anything you do for man whose list of demands never stops or never stops changing.

Angelanest:
A Nigerian man who has been married for about three years now - has shared a word of advice for some unmarried ladies. According to Adewale Aladejana, he wouldn't have been married if his wife didn't ask the crucial question "baby when are we getting married?".

The man who is apparently enjoying his union is urging ladies to stop assuming that the guys they are dating will marry them and ask the right question because they they deserve to know.

Below is what he shared on Facebook;

I have been married for over 3 years now but we wouldn't be married when we did if my wife didn't ask the crucial question "baby when are we getting married?"

Ladies if you have been dating a man for a year or close to a year, you have EVERY right to ask him "when are we getting married?" Two things will happen; it's either he gets pissed or both of you will work on a date immediately. In my own case we picked a date and by the end of 2013 we had our court wedding and by February 2014 we were married.

Ladies STOP ASSUMING, ask questions, you DESERVE to know. Stop assuming you are dating because he calls you all the time and takes you out, let him ask you to be his babe the right way, don't make excuses for him, men know how to ask when they really want something, if he needs you that much he will ask!

May common sense fall on you in Jesus name.

You too can be a social media evangelist kindly share so that others can be blessed as you have been blessed. Thank you for reading.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2017/12/wife-asked-crucial-question-got-married-nigerian-man-reveals.html

omooba969:


BabbanBura over to you sir.

ibkkk no slacking , on the sidelines though.

MhizzAJ:

SlayQueenSlayer:


Your husband may just be on my friends list.

AleAirHub:
Wicked man

jaxxy:


Some guys actually serious about it bt are hard to read and love to take their time. So wat do u do then?

pweetiedee:


I just like you sha

Tintinnoty:


Which one is despirado again?


You mean desperate?

ibkkk:


Babbanbura is out of my life now that i know the meaning of his name.Can't cope.

Toyindiva:
Sometimes it works, sometimes it does not work cz I was in that kinda boat before that I asked my ex about us getting married he was feeling reluctant I just had to pack my load and go

omooba969:


BabbanBura biko take heart but never say never.

AleAirHub 'wicked? Mba nu! Am a gentle man... simples.

@ibkkk - biko what's the meaning of that name?

TheTrueApostle:
Because I'm not ready for it and I hate that topic like weeeeeettttttiiinnn!!! Girls are just too deceptive for my liking....

ibkkk:

Mama,na street thingz o!

MhizzAJ:

MhizzAJ:
That is why I like sensible men...It's only sensible men that reason this way

Men are totally different from boys...If you say that to a boy consider the relationship Shaky because he will think the lady is a desperado

As for me i can't date more than 2 years max