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Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Bonnywest: 2:25am On Dec 20, 2017 |
It could be that his source of wealth is not clean. Think it more spiritual |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by menace1: 2:29am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Reasonabledoubt:you are stupid nd u have no one to tell u,ur mother should av swallow the semen dat produce a wicked soul like u 4 Likes |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Nobody: 2:31am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Maybe the money is not clean.maybe the babalawo dat did it for him told him the day he uses his money to help a loved one he won't live long.and also he has the spirit of boasting in him hence he has to flaunt his wealth at you guys to oil up his ego.na wetin me see for d matter be this. |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by rman: 2:42am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Reasonabledoubt: I agree with you 100% You are too logical, that is why a lot of posters disagreed with you. In these climes, the emotional blackmail especially from family and friends why they think you are rich is sometimes ridiculous. Nigerians sure do have entitlement mentality. We plan our lives way out of what our resources can cater for and expect someone else to carry the burden just because we feel or assumed they have a financial breakthrough. It is important to help those in need but what Nigerians subtly ask for when they claim support friend and relative is basically putting the burden of a life style e.g school fees, weddings, burials, even properties, on another persons resources sometimes 100% 3 Likes |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by chieni(f): 2:50am On Dec 20, 2017 |
amprat:this your brother is funny oh. But has anyone of you brought his attention to this and is he married? probably his present family needs has prevented him from doing the needful, though he is not justified. |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by DedeNkem: 3:10am On Dec 20, 2017 |
There are reasons. - the person wasn't raised and supported by his real family. In this case, he or she was raised by another family that adopted them as their own. - the person is just not happy with his family. The family must have done something really bad to him or her. - the person didn't deem helping family as a responsibility. In Nigerian society, it is a cultural responsibility to help the less privileged in your family. Most Nigerians who were born and bred in the West lack that mentality. In most cases you can't blame them, because in the West, kids are trained to be fully independent and not be a liability to anyone. |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Awanja(m): 4:01am On Dec 20, 2017 |
I have rich uncles , I ask them for help and they refuse to help so I took the bull by the horn now if they are talking I follow suit. Cause nobody will insult me that his feeding me or giving me food..... 1 Like |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Dexema(m): 4:25am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Reasonabledoubt: you seem to want to have a point but it's just not still making sense. I do believe parents should work towards having enough in their old age so as not to overburden their children. But come to think of it, how many parents had retirement plans? Even if they had the opportunity, most of them couldn't go ahead with such plans because they had to take care of their kids. And you think such gesture doesn't deserve some credit even if it was their responsibility to train their kids? Your argument may receive some sympathy in other more civilised climes but not in Nigeria. Plus go online and see hundreds of videos of guys from the so called developed nations buying their single mom's or dad's cars or houses, something tells me they are being appreciative of some kind gesture or effort. https://www.google.com.ng/amp/m.eonline.com/amp/news/477848/macklemore-gives-future-mother-in-law-a-surprise-home-makeover-watch-now 2 Likes |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by mechanics(m): 5:03am On Dec 20, 2017 |
There are many factors that can cause that, it maybe the friends he keeps are advising him wrongly, his wife and in-laws if married, then it maybe the money is not ordinary because no right thinking human being will want his fellow neighbours to suffer, talk more of his immediate family members. 1 Like |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by FBS: 5:44am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Funny, just because @Reasonabledoubt expressed a different opinion, the best most here can do is to rain insults. And you want us to believe you are the type that take care of your extended families? Oh yeah. We don hear. People running into judgment without getting the full story. People sha. PS; Obviously, no one disputes the fact that you must respect your parents. That I believe is not even up for debate. 3 Likes |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Baamivic: 6:08am On Dec 20, 2017 |
amprat:That is d instructions given to them not to help they family members from d source of the money or He/she maybe protecting u by not given u money because u may be d victim. |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Ballmer: 6:25am On Dec 20, 2017 |
amprat:Or beta not bring him to this world at all, anyone that does what you suggested here deserves to be put to death. 1 Like |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by zolapower: 6:26am On Dec 20, 2017 |
amprat:it is well ,so shit like this happens every where. My sister or brother like someone had rightly said again ,he's training you guys to be self dependant. I am an evidence of what u are saying . Do u know who has the blame ? ur parents. It all started with them . Right from the young man's early age jn life They will start by telling u guys to call him brother and see the rest of you like they brought you all from an orphanage home . I'm talking from experience. So I will advice u guys to put more effort in ur hustle and forget about the bagger. It has helped me as well in life ,I don't beg people for my survival ,I work to make my money,I work to see me through school and now none of them can tell me was I not the one who send u to School or clothed and got u d job u are doing . 2 Likes |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Greyman11(m): 6:34am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Reasonabledoubt:u sound like u are the one being talked about here, u re a definition of an ingrate, and I'm very sure u are a Nigeria and u want to form European wey u neva meet before for ur life, how sure are u that Europeans don't help their parents and sibblings, or u don't read about all these footballers buying cars and houses for their parents and siblings, u re the son of ur father for a reason, u have to take responsibility of those under u, as they have no father (like he said) and I am not so sure u read the thread before commenting, if u have never being shown love in ur life, say it and we will help u. Being a saddist just doesn't pay.... Learn to be grateful.... 3 Likes |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by amprat: 6:35am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Emzyme:Am laughing in Swahili, no we won't be dragging the properties, am not praying to be that wretched or heartless,thanks. |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by zolapower: 6:35am On Dec 20, 2017 |
mechanics:guy u just gave u like for this statement ,my brother too was sorrounded by friends who foolishly advised him against his siblings as well. 1 Like |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by amprat: 6:38am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Ballmer:I am not suggesting or supporting any of the aforementioned, am only pointing to realities That happen around us everyday |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Greyman11(m): 6:40am On Dec 20, 2017 |
amprat:my brother he is not normal, or maybe that is the price he paid for seeking for quick money, see that is antics as an advantage and a way God is trying to help keep ur lives safe, but be wary of the day he brings out sometin to give to u people, if it is possible, don't touch it, just hand them over to the people in need.. (homeless, beggars) 1 Like |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Nobody: 6:45am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Greyman11: Ode! I’m not from a family of leeches. 3 Likes |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by amprat: 6:46am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Tosinex:lol, very good idea jare, just that I don't have the energy or liver , I will end up confessing before they catch me self. |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Chuksgeo: 6:54am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Usually happens from the married ones |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by 1metre: 6:55am On Dec 20, 2017 |
thorpido:He might be a member of a deadly secret cult where members are instructed never to help their immediate family members. |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Rubbiish(m): 6:58am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Reasonabledoubt:Post like this make me to see marriage & child bearing as a total waste of time What is the need of bringing people into this world, suffer for them, only for them to start reasoning like fowl when they grow up... If u don't know u owe your parents alot....Then i sorry for u... I just hope your kids grow up & treat u like a piece of rag when u are old... Ingrate... 1 Like |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Nosikebit(m): 6:58am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Evacroft:you are 100% wrong .. you eventually become who you marry. Even the bible said it dat man and woman will come together and become one. If you get married to a stingy woman eventually you will start becoming stingy no matter how free giving you are. If you get married to a dirty person, you will start embracing dirtiness. That's why people change after marriage. The mystery that i am still trying to uncover is why couple start looking alike after marriage. Believe it or not marriage is a very powerful bond twining souls together 1 Like |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by lastempero: 7:00am On Dec 20, 2017 |
That brother of yours might be dinning with the devil and most a times it entails you snub ur family members. |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Rubbiish(m): 7:00am On Dec 20, 2017 |
lefulefu:The bold is very possible... |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by princetom1(m): 7:01am On Dec 20, 2017 |
amprat: The money ritual he did entails him not helping his family... |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Rubbiish(m): 7:05am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Nosikebit:Very True... Considerable number of women don't feel comfortable when a man cares for his siblings The moment a man get married he is no longer the same I strongly believe if the op brother was single, he wouldn't be this bad, except it really has to do with rituals... |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by erimmy(m): 7:06am On Dec 20, 2017 |
amprat:Please,let us be clear on this. That your brother is not rich. He's only pretending to be rich. 2 Likes |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Nobody: 7:09am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Rubbiish: Bleep you! I will train kids with the intent that they will be self sufficient adults, and at same time plan my retirement. They are not my retirement plan. Unlike like most of the retards in this country, procreation shouldn’t be a sport. If you had a lick of sense, you will plan for it. God forbid that I become a liability to my children, they will give me coz they love me, not coz I will die of hunger if they don’t. With your poverty mentality, you shouldn’t get married, all your kind do, is aid poverty. If only procreation was regulated in Nigeria, then you will understand the privilege of having children. Bleep you and all the other idiots that go on a birthing spree, without proper planning. 7 Likes |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Mrkumareze(m): 7:11am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Op you should first check yourself and your mom very well to ascertain the spirit of hatred living within. The young man in question may wish to help but things turns around whenever he wants to carry out that promise. I was once a victim, whenever I have at heart to help certain person's my financial system crumbles until I decided to let them go. 1 Like |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Rubbiish(m): 7:15am On Dec 20, 2017 |
rman:Oga shut up!!! Stop trying so hard to justify evil People quoted that guy because he included parents Your parents took care of u when were young, it is your duty to take care of them when they get old...Neglecting one's parent at old age is sheer wickedness, it has nothing to do with entitlement mentality, It only shows what your heart is made of. No man with a good heart will neglect his parents at old age... There are certain things we should do for our parents, they are not even debateable... You can as well choose not to bury your parents...Ingrate!!! 1 Like |
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