remedick:
stop being emotional when discussing this kind of topics but be matured enough to know that a girl has choice too and cant/will not date every guy that comes her way. If she does, you will use this same hand/mouth to call her a hoe.

Women have rights and choice of freewill. Be respectful about their choice.

I am not forcing anything here. Just trying to make sure I don't make same mistake of giving up too early like I did in the past but not realizing the subject at that time was interested but just fronting.

It is not every girl that will accept to date you so accept that reality. You can easily move on if all you wanted was just sex. But when you want something more than sex, you got to be cool about it and patient.

I am not naive either. Not to brag, but when I am in bed with a girl I give the best sensation they rarely get from any guy before me. I leave prints. So don't see me as some naive person.

If she doesn't want me, fine. There is nothing bad about that.

k








To tell you the truth, i didn't read more than 2 lines of that long epistle you wrote up there

Gofwane:
k








To tell you the truth, i didn't read more than 2 lines of that long epistle you wrote up there

k.

Yes

Ladies are very difficult to read or predict just like nairabet......if she won friendzone u na u no go gree ooo....cos if u are not careful she go friendzone u for life... simple arithmetic....do something na before it's too late

habsydiamond:
Ladies are very difficult to read or predict just like nairabet......if she won friendzone u na u no go gree ooo....cos if u are not careful she go friendzone u for life... simple arithmetic....do something na before it's too late

what should I do boss?

remedick:
what should I do boss?

be plain..tell her Ur mind if she wants u she will come around....if she does not want u, let her go.....so that she won't remind u of that in the future...

habsydiamond:
be plain..tell her Ur mind if she wants u she will come around....if she does not want u, let her go.....so that she won't remind u of that in the future...

I have done that before bro. She said we should take slowly. Once a while I do bring it up and that has been her responses or one step at time.

Imagine. C as girl dey play wit dis my guy head. So she's now d decider wen tinx will work btwn u both.. ok OK. u beta put up ur best behaviour so she can consider u

pounds627:
Imagine. C as girl dey play wit dis my guy head. So she's now d decider wen tinx will work btwn u both.. ok OK. u beta put up ur best behaviour so she can consider u

Lol. Bros, it is alright. I am cool. I have nothing to lose. Fear or worry not. As a matter fact I can easily move on cos I had position myself so.

She has told the answer.. LEts see where...
Keep trying..


She might be in love but be afraid to show it. Keep trying. You have not yet be zoned friendically

remedick:
I have done that before bro. She said we should take slowly. Once a while I do bring it up and that has been her responses or one step at time.

that's y I hate hard to get....let her be for a while without contacting her..

Have sex with her and the emotions will come.

habsydiamond:
that's y I hate hard to get....let her be for a while without contacting her..

done

Op, me and u dey d same shit mehn, At a point i thought u were refereeing to the same girl.
But i hav made up my mind to forget her cos its disturbing my peace of mind and heart

BuddhaPalm:
Have sex with her and the emotions will come.

this kind of ladies r not d type u do dat wit mehn, these type dnt hav to tell u to respect urself b4 u do. babe pass babe bros
how can u even bring up sex wen a girl is yet to giv her consent to be in a relationship wit u?
im sure she's nt a gutter girl, im sure.

pedrilo:
this kind of ladies r not d type u do dat wit mehn, these type dnt hav to tell u to respect urself b4 u do. babe pass babe bros
how can u even bring up sex wen a girl is yet to giv her consent to be in a relationship wit u?
im sure she's nt a gutter girl, im sure.

You are wise and you seem to have an idea of whom I am dealing with.

She not a gutter girl but one that is strong willed with principles. Most of these guys commenting have not really moved past their environment. Some even think I am broke and that is why she is treating the issue like this lol.

Such actions is only possible with girls that are from homes where food is nonexistent, love is on indefinite strike, not one where you have well brought of child.

When you meet a girl with standards and principles, nobody will tell you to be careful around her if you really want her. I am not even the kind of guy that is moved by sex. I don't lose my senses over it like some guys do, if though I know how to handle it very well. Beauty might attract me and sex my have hang on a bit but if your mental reasoning and character are no in sync with a level I expect, I can't deal!

Some girls don't move no matter what you do. I learned this the hard when I was still in the bracket of some of the guys that have commented on this thread.

These kind of girls are not easily moved, they have standards and they KNOW what they want. I have met a girl that would rather end a relationship than give in to sexual demands. Yes, they still exist. Some of these guys think it is all girls that you can push around.

Personally, I don't really like girls who are easily moved by words or can't make decisions on their own. You stand a great risk with such girls. But when you see one that has principles that she abides by and is unshakable, you have to give them that respect.

I have also met girls who stuck with their boyfriend no matter the pressure from intruders. There are still girls who will even stay with you even though they are not benefiting anything from you or the relationship but how some most of the guys on here think you can fork any girl or buy her with money (i laugh at the lines that says go make money). If girl no want you, if you like come as dangote, you will be shock when gate man is respected over you. It happens and you haven't really moved out if you think otherwise.

pedrilo:
Op, me and u dey d same shit mehn, At a point i thought u were refereeing to the same girl.
But i hav made up my mind to forget her cos its disturbing my peace of mind and heart

Well before you move on, does she call you, does she check on you, do you sense any jealousy from her if it appear you have another girl around? Does she initiate chats with you and how many times has she done that since the whole thing... if your answer to all these is NO, bros, just move on.

remedick:
You are wise and you seem to have an idea of whom I am dealing with.

She not a gutter girl but one that is strong willed with principles. Most of these guys commenting have not really moved past their environment. Some even think I am broke and that is why she is treating the issue like this lol.

Such actions is only possible with girls that are from homes where food is nonexistent, love is on indefinite strike, not one where you have well brought of child.

When you meet a girl with standards and principles, nobody will tell you to be careful around her if you really want her. I am not even the kind of guy that is moved by sex. I don't lose my senses over it like some guys do, if though I know how to handle it very well. Beauty might attract me and sex my have hang on a bit but if your mental reasoning and character are no in sync with a level I expect, I can't deal!

Some girls don't move no matter what you do. I learned this the hard when I was still in the bracket of some of the guys that have commented on this thread.

These kind of girls are not easily moved, they have standards and they KNOW what they want. I have met a girl that would rather end a relationship than give in to sexual demands. Yes, they still exist. Some of these guys think it is all girls that you can push around.

Personally, I don't really like girls who are easily moved by words or can't make decisions on their own. You stand a great risk with such girls. But when you see one that has principles that she abides by and is unshakable, you have to give them that respect.

I have also met girls who stuck with their boyfriend no matter the pressure from intruders. There are still girls who will even stay with you even though they are not benefiting anything from you or the relationship but how some most of the guys on here think you can fork any girl or buy her with money (i laugh at the lines that says go make money). If girl no want you, if you like come as dangote, you will be shock when gate man is respected over you. It happens and you haven't really moved out if you think otherwise.

You are absolutely correct my guy. When I started chatting with this girl, she told me all she wants from a guy is faithfulness, she is not, i repeat, she is not the type you can sway with money because she has it. What is the name of your girl bro? Mine is Jeovita.

remedick:
Well before you move on, does she call you, does she check on you, do you sense any jealousy from her if it appear you have another girl around? Does she initiate chats with you and how many times has she done that since the whole thing... if your answer to all these is NO, bros, just move on.

she initiates chats to check on me, nothing to make her jealous as we'r always at work and i dnt use ladies pic as my dp except hers, we use to call each other pet names, until a certain day i demanded to knw my place in her life, and she said i was just a friend, bro that word weak me. told her im not comfortable with that, and she said she hasnt fully recovered from her past relationship and dis was after 4months.

pedrilo:
You are absolutely correct my guy. When I started chatting with this girl, she told me all she wants from a guy is faithfulness, she is not, i repeat, she is not the type you can sway with money because she has it. What is the name of your girl bro? Mine is Jeovita.

mine isn't same name is all I can tell you. So fear not.

pedrilo:
she initiates chats to check on me, nothing to make her jealous as we'r always at work and i dnt use ladies pic as my dp except hers, we use to call each other pet names, until a certain day i demanded to knw my place in her life, and she said i was just a friend, bro that word weak me. told her im not comfortable with that, and she said she hasnt fully recovered from her past relationship and dis was after 4months.

oh okay. Mine also have same as she had just ended hers when I came in. So I think the past relationship hasn't wear off and that is why. Make sure you have done your part to shoW you are genuine and that you really care about her.

Then disappear from her sight. Get busy. Even if it's for 2 months Or more , stop the communication and stop initiating it as well. If she calls, respond well but briefly.. End the calls before her and promise to call her back but don't.

Keep your distance as much as you can, pop up once a while but briefly and then vanish. This will reset any friend zone that had been in motion and it will help if there is any chance for you.

Stop using her pics as DP. Using a girls pic who hasn't accepted to date you will dent than propel your chance

remedick:
oh okay. Mine also have same as she had just ended hers when I came in. So I think the past relationship hasn't wear off and that is why. Make sure you have done your part to shoW you are genuine and that you really care about her.

Then disappear from her sight. Get busy. Even if it's for 2 months Or more , stop the communication and stop initiating it as well. If she calls, respond well but briefly.. End the calls before her and promise to call her back but don't.

Keep your distance as much as you can, pop up once a while but briefly and then vanish. This will reset any friend zone that had been in motion and it will help if there is any chance for you.

Stop using her pics as DP. Using a girls pic who hasn't accepted to date you will dent than propel your chance

av stopped contacting her. even deleted her number from my fones cos i was finding it difficult to hold myself from calling her but now i have no choice since i dnt hav her digits no more

pedrilo:
this kind of ladies r not d type u do dat wit mehn, these type dnt hav to tell u to respect urself b4 u do. babe pass babe bros
how can u even bring up sex wen a girl is yet to giv her consent to be in a relationship wit u?
im sure she's nt a gutter girl, im sure.

A girl is a girl is a girl...

BuddhaPalm:


A girl is a girl is a girl...

meaning conjunction from a skull filled with cobwebs

Guy uve made ur feelings clear 2 her.kp your distance nd let her decide.All this talk abt d gal being classy,principled..is BS.all those principles wil vanish wen shes in luv. If u hv 2 wk so hard 2 convince a lady den its nt worth it at all.

pedrilo:
meaning conjunction from a skull filled with cobwebs

dats vry rude sir. a gal is playing games with ur mind and ure trying so hard to defend her,while insulting those telling u d truth.goodluck o

Birds of same feathers flock togeda..u guys should kip consoling each oda upon been friendzone..kip hoping while praying fervently. Lover guys.. U nid help n I'm recommending Harddon.

Sphinx02:

dats vry rude sir. a gal is playing games with ur mind and ure trying so hard to defend her,while insulting those telling u d truth.goodluck o

this is a matured forum though faceless, if u have sometin tangible to say, then go ahead and say it.
"a girl is a girl is a girl" is meaningless and no truth. thanks

pounds627:
Birds of same feathers flock togeda..u guys should kip consoling each oda upon been friendzone..kip hoping while praying fervently. Lover guys.. U nid help n I'm recommending Harddon.

Bless u sir. I gv up on these guys.they deserve 2 be in d friendzone.

pedrilo:
av stopped contacting her. even deleted her number from my fones cos i was finding it difficult to hold myself from calling her but now i have no choice since i dnt hav her digits no more

lol. I know that feeling. That is what I do in extreme cases but because I had conditioned my mind on this one, there is no need to delete her contact as I am still in control of my emotions.

pounds627:
Birds of same feathers flock togeda..u guys should kip consoling each oda upon been friendzone..kip hoping while praying fervently. Lover guys.. U nid help n I'm recommending Harddon.

I have restrain myself from being the normal me with response such as this one. Dude, I got over 3 girls on the side line and that is to tell you I am not lacking in supply nor dying on top of this one. so stop this nonsense you are talking by trying to impose your thoughts on others. I

It is the way and manner most of you reply that pisses one off. You just get angry over a problem that isn't even yours in the first place, isn't that silly?

remedick:
that thing doesn't work. I have tried it before. Truth is if a girl will accept you, she would hardly stress you. I have been on this for 4 months.

Did it for good 3 years. Sacrifice my all for this bae. We even took things further to not only hug, holding hands & shoulder but we often laid together on bed half clad, squeeze boobs, massage her, eat & spoon fed ourselves, calling her all sweet names, as my gf; she often jokingly addressed me as her bf sef, and so on. Yet, all thru this period, she never agreed officially to date me but neither of us in other serious rlshps. Shortly after our graduation DT we were separating in distance, I reminded her my dating proposal, she simply told me I was her taste, DT myself showing love, even killing myself for her wasnt enough, that her taste is d chief determinant factor



Say no to time wasters!!!!!RUN FOR YOUR LIFE, or keep her as a very unlikely option while u search elsewhere.