lifezone247:
guy you be Man at all? Man as in MAN? So cos she’s cultists that na why you no fit beat the cultist out of her for beating your beloved mom? De there De form good boy while she keep pounding the old woman you hear me

dahmie2013:
Y don't u & ur mum embark on a fasting & prayer session 4 her. Dere is nothing God cannot do, prayer changes things & people. Pls I will recommend u get dis book by Bishop David Oyedepo, "Walking in the newness of life" & "Conquering Controlling Powers". She has started beating ur mum, dis is no more a battle u can fight physically, take it 2 God, she herself will come begging.
It is well.

Hashimyussufamao:
I will deal with her for you. Tell her to send her account details together with her BVN.

splenzard:
Hello Fellow Nlanders,

Compliments of the season.

As this may be the season of happiness, not everyone partakes in the joy of the festivity, I am one of those. Let me cut the chase and go straight to the point.

I'm a 400 level student of civil engineering, I've got a younger sister, I'm older than her with a couple of years although she's yet to gain admission despite the fact that she has tried severally. she decided to start working pending whenever she gains admission.

Along the line, she became a cultist and she suddenly became a heavy smoker, drinker and a drug addict (tramadol, rephnol, codine,etc).

At this point my mum (she's a single mother, my dad died a couple of years back) did she least she could do by scolding, reporting her to the leaders in the church, kinsmen and everyone whom she thought she(my sister) would listen to but all these efforts proved abortive as she deteriorated further as she graduated to bringing men to the house at odd hours of the night.

As at last week, my mum called me and was sobbing over the phone, she told me that my younger sister beat her up because she confronted her about her behavior.


right now I'm confused, in order not to act rashly, i decided to seek for advice from this noble forum.


Please guys i need your matured advice here

splenzard:


thanks bro, but she's a cultist like I said earlier, I've tried beating her but it's as good as flogging a dead horse, she's hardened

lifezone247:
guy you be Man at all? Man as in MAN? So cos she’s cultists that na why you no fit beat the cultist out of her for beating your beloved mom? De there De form good boy while she keep pounding the old woman you hear me

mamachildren:
she is lost don't fight her don't beat her show her love more than ever tell your mum to show her love it's is hard but turn a blind eye on her issues and then talk to God he will take it from there. She will find her way back on her own because it no more your battle it's of the Lord. You will be surprised. It has worked in many families I know

Archangel15:


Too harsh.

linearity:


I think it’s prudent for the OP to tread cautiously, confronting cultist, even if they are one’s own blood is dangerous.

Most times, the sister might not want to retaliate, but the bond between cultists is stronger than that between brothers/sisters as a result fellow cult member might feel irate and retaliate against the guy....it only take one fool-headed cult member to do the damage.

Sometimes in life, we have to accept some situations that has nothing to do with us making amends are beyond our control and give it to God.

Am even afraid for the mom, the OP should tell the mom not to confront her again. They can report to the authority, my guess is the daughter is an adult and the mom can let go....ask her to leave the house.